The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

Episodes

September 24, 2025 144 mins
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This week we welcome content creator HoneyDipped Cream Puff to the show as we talk one of our Semen (Seamen) in the Nut Navy making us a new intro, Honey actually being so turned on by audio that she masturbates to it, our love for hentai and how far back the crossover between hentai and anima goes, our superhero fantasies, if a person asked us to sleep with their partner would we actuall...
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This week the crew talk about what they actually thought play parties were before they actually experienced one vs what they actually are, finding out your partner is an exhibitionist, what their secks name would be, Tahoes plans for the Halloween play party, Yesssterday takes Tahoe to Homie Court, Tahoe not being able to pleasure himself while on vacation with Loon, the guys experience...
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September 10, 2025 60 mins
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week Tahoe and Loon travel down to the Sex Down South convention in Atlanta and sit with the founders Tia and Marla to discuss how they met and blossomed some pretty amazing kickbacks into the only all black sex positive convention that Sex Down South is today. We discuss some of the NSFW happenings at the convention, the seminars that gave Tahoe some deep introsection about himsel...
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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week the guys get together for a dudecast as they talk ppl who do the most to "market" their relationship on social media, tahoe and Loon revisit their argument in last weeks episode, men adjusting the way they speak to women and around women, the reason why men dont spend as much on women that have money vs how they spend on women that dont have money, Yesssterday getting put on a perfor...
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This week we talk when your friend finds out that your a freak, when to tell somebody about your freaky side, how much have you spent on your toy collection, a guy finds out about his girlfriends freaky past, remembering your favorite secks partner, can you teach someone to be your best partner ever, cuffing season is here and MORE..ENJOY!!

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Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Courtn...
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August 20, 2025 124 mins
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

This week the crew men having no rizz (not knowing how to talk to women), Tahoe says he is jealous of guys who have a lot of game, straight men attending a "bate session", Loon turns up at the play party, Courtney makes an admission, a guy has an interesting experience with a trans man, a story about a male threesum, Courtneys new audio book is loading, being in a sexless relationship, telli...
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This week the crew welcome Loons friend Aj to talk Courtneys chances at actually "getting some" before the summer is over, having secks with your friends in the house, Tahoes story about stalking his ex, some really cringy stories about bad past experiences, how long after women put they booty on you do you take to start the action up, somebody wants to be Trapped in Tahoes basement, and a ...
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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week the crew welcome Loons friend Aj to talk Courtneys chances at actually "getting some" before the summer is over, having secks with your friends in the house, Tahoes story about stalking his ex, some really cringy stories about bad past experiences, how long after women put they booty on you do you take to start the action up, somebody wants to be Trapped in Tahoes basement, and a ...
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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week Tahoe sits with Eli Daniels better known as The Naked Trumpeter to talk his experience at the latest play party, using his trumpet on his subjects, his use of electroplay, being fetishized as a black man from ppl of different cultures, why he describes himself as a ho and what being a ho means to him and his upcomibg involvement in the Sex Down South expo in Atlanta this coming fall, th...
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July 23, 2025 142 mins
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This week the crew celebrate hitting 100,000 Followers on Instagram as we talk getting/giving the best neck of your life, Courtneys summer going better than planned, waiting too long to actually set up a date after you meet someone, how to teach a man the stroke that you like, is there such a thing as too many bodies, how much of your person you really want to know, a person coming into Loons...
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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

This week the team wecomes the incomparable @Stassy.Banks to talk being with someone that reflected our parents habits, an anal jingle and how they feel about back door action, Stassy being kinda Bi but kinda not, being in a primary lesbian relationship that includes men and the positive and negative dynamics that come with it, dealing with crazy ppl and why the sex is so good, The mechan...
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This week Tahoe, Loon and Yesssterday sit with Barry, Essence, Maya and Erica to talk mens love for the boobs, things men do to stop themselves from climaxing too quickly, when a woman was too freaky for them, Boob Play - the things women do with the boobs to turn men on, men who are way too freaky for the girls, how Barry created the Barry Loves Boobs movement, and so much more!! ENJOY!!!

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This week our trio welcome The Kinky Oracle Madame Sè back to the show to talk everything from her awful experience with the military to what men do that can mess up the vibes during a threesum. Sorry for the late post and short description but I'm late for work gotta go BYE!!! oh and ENJOY!!

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Madysha Aka Madame Se aka The Kinky Oracle
@MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on Instagram
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Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!

This week in continuance of our celebration of Pride Month we welcome creative artist Fuzz Rico to the show as we talk living her life as a self proclaimed Stud, why studs compare strap sizes, when she realized that she identified as a masc presenting person, competition between straight men and studs, men 30+ who dont have kids being a red flag vs being a green flag, the difference between fe...
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Omg...omg...OMGGG!!! Continuing our celebration of Pride Month, Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with Tahoes friends Bre'on and Billy The Bad Guy and lets just say this episode was EPICCCC!!!!! There's so much that happened I cant even begin to break it all down but lets just say that by the ending somehow Tahoe's underwear were wrapped around somebodies face. From Tahoe and Yesssterdays gay names, t...
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Welcome Back to part two of our amazing episode featuring Tori Easton! We continue the conversation speaking about the difference between the way the world views trans women now vs ten years ago, the relationship between straight men and trans women, the relationship between straight women and trans women and why do ppl in the LGBTQIA+ community out DL men? ENJOY!

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Tori 
@TheToriEaston on all socials
www.ToriEaston.com

Loon
@King...
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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week the crew welcomes Tori Easton to talk making ppl and not making ppl climax off of head, Tahoe wakes his girl up with a surprise, Tori's perfect form of foreplay, getting freaky with a cpap on, fkn thru your special circumstances, Loon being traumatized by Tahoe being too freaky at a play party, Tori's wildest moments at play parties and her experience as a cam girl, and (omg) the th...
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This week the crew welcome Mistress Steph to talk morning wood, Steph making men pass out from pegging them, anal training men, her growth as a domme over the last four years, Yesssterdays special talents, her experience with her service sub and teaching begiiner women how to become dommes, and being a Scat Queen who also ships sh-t to customers. Then we get into her videos doing anal training ...
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May 28, 2025 89 mins
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This week Loon, Courtney and Yesssterday welcome internet sensation Cmrdaa to the Nut Navy as they talk how she got her nickname, why Bronx girls love Brooklyn men, Rizzing men out their clothes, how she met her man, why she feels her biggest haters are other women and her alleged "pick me" content, and all of her favorite k!nks. This was one of our favorite guests!! Follow her on all her pla...
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May 25, 2025 122 mins
Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!

This week the episode starts off HOT as Tahoe takes Loon to Homie Court, Tahoe and Loon being attacked in the comments for saying NO, a man that leaves his fiancee because she wouldnt sign an prenup, what clause would you put in your prenup, why men dont like going to doctors, and a woman is ingenious with the way she cheats. Our next play party is JULY 26th!! Stay Tuned for the ticket link a...
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