The Healing Club Podcast Ep. 18 | Mental Health in Modern Day

Wassup & thanks for tuning in this week! We hoped everyone had a chill weekend & took care of themselves. This week, we decided to go back to basics. What that mean??? It means we're done trying to speak like educators because that's not who we are. We are just like everyone watching so we back to being relatable on a personal level again. With that being said, let us know what's on your mind in the comments. We are open to allll forms of criticism lmfaooo. Anywho, PEACE. Check for us next week.

Episode Transcript

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All right, all right, we are back

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Back again. We are the healing club podcast and we are back again
18 deep 18 deep. Hey, we got 18 rounds. They are right now
18 episodes, sir
so that's what we all right now we on episode 18 you dig and
Episode 18 is gonna be a lot more that we can relate to man. I feel like we should get a little bit more personal

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Yeah, yeah, we're gonna
Definitely get a little bit more personal in this podcast for sure for sure. I wanna
Since no one don't give a fuck about mental health
I'm gonna just talk about it like I wanted I'm gonna talk about mental health and modern-day like in our society
Like within our people I'm gonna just talk about it
I'm gonna just talk about what I experienced to cuz shit. I'm young too. Yeah, so that's what I mean

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When I say we getting a little bit personal we're gonna
Like I'll get a little bit more personal by myself my preferences and this and that yeah. Yeah saying to me. Yeah, but
Yeah, that's that's that's just about it. How's your week though, bro?
Good. It's Monday. I mean, you know Monday and my favorite day, but it's another day. I'm here, right?

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Yeah, we usually record on a Saturday, man. I'd be almost like damn. It's Monday now. Yeah
How is it? How's last week? How's that? How's your last last week? Yeah, I had a good week last week. They asked you
I had a good week
How's your last week it was good my last week was spectacular Oh wonderful

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No, my last week was straight it was I was I man I went to a little job fair, you know
Excuse me
But yeah, I went to a little job fair spent time with my girl family, you know
Just
Just living life I went to K sessions last Saturday. I mean K sessions. Okay, that's dope. That's dope. Yes, sir

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Oh shit. Well key the weather was kind of good over the low key, but it was good yesterday, too
Yeah, like it was to the point where I
Think I just wore a long sleeve yesterday yesterday. Yeah yesterday. We went some where we go
I'm not forgot. Oh, we went to someplace in La Jolla to like take like pictures or whatever like the car or whatever

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You know, I make little videos. I just see that. Yeah. Yeah, so you talk about some turn your phone upside down
Yeah, cuz I don't know. Yeah, what kind of building was that? That was interesting. I don't even know bro
It's just a nice place where you go and you take pictures in front of your car and then on top of that
Yeah, it was so warm yesterday I just wore long

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Hmm. That was it. I think I just wore a hoodie. I think or a jacket
I mean I always wear a jacket but sender could be cold, bro. I ain't go live
I'm starting to think like last year like niggas don't think San Diego be cold, but I shit you not last year
I was wearing a jacket until April

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Bro like I think is well you from Georgia though. So
For you, I understand. You know I'm saying why I can be cold with me
I was never gonna get used to this. Yeah exactly. Yeah, I'm from Detroit. You know, so I'm used to you know
You know the four degrees negative one maybe but coming out here, bro. I think maybe I just got accustomed to it. I've been

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Who went by San Diego?
Now when it hits when it hits 50 40 50 degrees where I'd be freezing
Then they could say he got smeckel Dorff
Now I'd be freezing bro like bone chilling
Sometime like I usually I usually my preference. I usually like to sleep

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But no clothes on sorry. I want I want no clothes on me. That's just me. I don't sleep in the bed with you
But when I wake up like I get out of bed, bro, it's like bone chill
I'm like damn I should've wore clothes. I should have put on something. Now you waking up sick and
I'm on my nose stuff in my day ruined

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But yeah, all right, we might as well should get a little started on yeah, let's get up into this man
Get up into this then the old nitty-gritty
All right, so
I'm gonna still be a little educated with y'all
I'm gonna be a little educated with y'all
I'm gonna be a little educated with y'all
I'm gonna be a little educated with y'all
I'm still be a little educated with y'all, but let's see in modern times, you know mental health

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In modern day is significantly influenced by various factors including relationships trust social media and
Concerns about the future. So that's the four things we're gonna talk about today. I know y'all like to talk about relationships
Mm-hmm. I like to talk about relationships, too. So
We're gonna talk about that shit

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I
Like to
Man, I mean we all we all like this, you know dating shit and what we what we like in a woman
Or what women like in a man and you type shit
Or if you if you go the other way, you know, what you like in that what you like

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It's not my business like Luke said
moving on
We
We are very supportive of everyone
We don't care which I'll do be happy be happy with yourself. Is your life. We don't care
I mean be happy like literally. Yeah, we're trying to get canceled in this

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No, like we're not when I say we don't care like I mean like not like be whatever you do
If you like it and it's personal to you, there's none of anybody else's bit. Yeah
I got like I got my caring person
but and and I and I care that that you are you are happy the way you are and
I don't care about your sexuality. It is what it is. I don't care. I do not. Yeah nothing do me

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I'm glad we got that out there. Yeah, that's so tough
We had to really like clear that up just to let people know like yo, we ain't trying to offend y'all like, you know
It's tough man, I just be trying to get my thoughts across. Mm-hmm. So I'm glad I I hope I did
I'm a cool guy. I don't mean it. I don't I am NOT a national. We are having fun. Okay

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Oh
Things first we're gonna get it to of relationships
So the quality of relationships both from romantic and platonic
Plays a crucial role in the mental well-being of you know us young people, you know, we young
That's who that's who I'm trying to reach out to I'm trying to reach out to people like me for show you
Mm-hmm. Should we the future so health connections foster a sense of belonging and

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support whereas toxic relationships can lead to stress and
emotional turmoil
Mm-hmm toxic relationship, I've had a you know a little taste of
Toxic relationship. Wait, will we we time our relationship in general?
Not any relationship, bro
I had a talk the relationship you've ever put two light skins together

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That's tough. It starts a fire
Well, somebody's somebody TV gets broken
Yes, somebody TV gets broken
I'll give you a hand it don't be the woman's
What's our TV was it 55

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This is on 4k TV started coming out this one 4k TV started coming out
I mean it was 2016. Yeah 4k TV started coming out. Yeah, I came back from deployment to I said I got me a nice
55 inch 4k TV and then and then like a month after coming back, you know
I was seeing a light skin shorty whatever it is what it is. Mm-hmm, and then we broke apart

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Shit don't ever break smoothly though with with the light brights
Yeah, a little yeah be wary of the light breaks. I'll be different. They too light man
They they got too much. They got too much fire and they too triggered. They too triggered. They way too triggered
You gotta you gotta tread lightly with the man and and me I was not I fucked up. Yeah, even with

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With relationship I got a I got a story but it's not I don't have a relationship with this person
I had just met this person. Yeah, I think I actually talked to this person
I think I actually told this story before actually but if I did I'm gonna tell it again
So I went out with some friends right this was years ago, right?
I went out with some friends and this is this is prior to you came around. This was before you came to San Diego

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Yep, so you can't so I go out we go downtown
Hang out, you know drinking dancing or whatever. You know, I'm saying he was actually dancing like the G. What was that?
Like again, I wasn't doing this shit, but you know, I was
to step in or whatever
but uh

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And I'm dancing with this girl or whatever right which is whatever it's a casual dance
You know I'm saying cool and dance with her boom song went off. I walked away right cuz that's
It don't need to go no further than this, right?
Boom, she followed over to me and she trying to talk to me and shit like this. I hate talking like

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I don't see why people go to clubs to even get girls in the first place because you can't hear what nobody is saying
All right, she's supposed to be fun. I just be dancing with Amanda
You know what it is. If you follow me out then that's a different story. Yeah
But I did you know, I just started with the dance and then drink my drink
Listen to my music. Mm-hmm. Look look at look at all all this ass

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Yeah, just and let me since we on this topic
Let me get some advice to them guys and gals out there who like going to these places for you know
Relations or whatever
Right. Don't go to the nightclub, right? Go to a day party or something, right?
Do that to pick up you know, I'm saying

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Oh god
Whatever you that you know, I'm saying you gonna say yeah go to do the day party brothers
That way you can actually see what these people look like you can hear what they sound like all that because in the club, bro
Is dark right? You can't see everybody looks fucking fine in the club. You know, it's it's loud
More importantly, you know, they ain't got kids if they had a day party facts. That's a fact

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You hear that you all hear that?
You feel me right you feel me right?
No mom being at a day party. I'm sorry. No, no, you got kids to to push out
That's a good one. I like that, you know find no no no no babysitter
At 1 p.m. Or or 10 a.m. On a Saturday fast
I'm off of the drinking big facts, but go to a day party bro and do that and pick up

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You know
Rather you picking up guys or you trying to pick up girls like do it there bro, cuz you can see them
You can hear them in the club
Everybody look fine. You can't hear nothing
The girl was talking to me and I had to like put my ear to her mouth and she was like screaming and shit
I still could barely hear
But after the club after the club, you know time ago, I mean my group we walking back to the parking garage and

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The girl and
Her little brother and I guess a couple of her friends. They parked in a parking garage, too
All right, so we all walked together we get up there whatever we are on our cars
Whatever and I go to my homies. All right, I been real I get over to I later
I'm out this bitch, but go to my car get in boom started up

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You know trying to get my music together so I can drive and then my door opened up my passenger door
Right home girl gets in my car mind you bro. I don't know this girl name. I don't know nothing about it
I just know her. You know, it was a girl that
We have fun at the club and that was it for me. All right
She's like so you gonna take me home. I said

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No, I'm not taking you know, you know
She did I think I told you
Slap me in my face bro, because I didn't want to take home a drunk girl and take advantage of her
It's hard out here for the good guy. Yeah, you disrespectful
For that right so disrespectful bro, right smack me in my face. I got mad

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I got out her little brother was mad or whatever was about to fight this this and that nobody fought
You know, eventually we all just went our separate ways. I don't know if I was gonna happen
Yeah, her brother cuz when I got out the car her brother was there. That's weird
I mean, no, it's not weird, bro, but I
Thought the same thing, bro. I'm like, I'm like you can't do that

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I thought the same thing bro. I'm like, I'm like you mad at me, bro
You just gonna let your sister just go home with a random dude. That's that's the weird thing the fire
Exactly. It's not weird that they're out if that's the weird thing that my ass out. I was happy
Oh, like okay, so I could just drove your sister out the garage you'd have been fine with that bro

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You know, that's how that's how I would have been
So I would have been like so you happy so you would have been cool for me fucking your fucking sister, huh?
Yeah, we didn't cool that that would have that would have been that would have been alright
But no that yeah, that's so retarded. I'm excuse me that language
Mm-hmm. This is a PC environment
I know that was a little bit off topic and it really don't have nothing to do because I don't have no relationship with that

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Girl, but that's just an example for everybody. You know I'm saying, you know
Pay attention to these people, you know
I'm saying you think is cool and in this and that bro before you try to
You know I'm saying form some type of relationship rather friendship partnership, whatever it is
You know I'm saying cuz air you can form a relationship, but you can't form a relationship with everybody

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That makes sense
No, I get you never I still feel that smack I'll be having PTSD
It caught me so off guard broke those on my phone like I'm not taking you home I looked away
That is a little disrespectful bro

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You should've you should've told her why you wasn't taking home. You should have been like excuse me young lady
I'm not taking you home. I respect you you so goddamn drunk. We should try this another time, right?
Take my car now. You're probably different if it went like oh, you know, here's my number or something
you can we can talk because I would have been different that way but

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The way we that shit went down was not it me. I see her I might fucking
on the sidewalk
After that last can't give me a black eye, bro. I always keep my eye on a woman until I until she leaves my sight
I'm sorry
They quick I'm hurt those girls be quick. They too quick with it. They get they all they need is a sliver

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You hear Augusto win is over because that's all I heard I heard
I
Drove home and silence broke cuz I was so mad bro. No music. No music. Nothing. I was furious, bro

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Oh, I should have just drawn that
Chris breezy that is like
Okay, lucky for her I hate that type of thing so yeah
All right. So let's get a little bit back on tap on topic. So like what for relationship? So I want to talk more about

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Romantic Oh romantic. Okay. Yeah, so, you know with mental health and relationships and and romantic
I guess we try to look for so what I what I look for is whoever I can find peace with you know, she
Cool. She cool. She cute, you know, yeah, I like that. No for sure. It's me. I care more about

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character than I do
I guess what you want to say like beauty and like
Body and like, you know all that shit that all that eye candy
I guess like physical looks yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I'm worried about what's inside
That's I care exactly what kind of person you are. Yeah, you know I'm saying that

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All kinds of females too. I get you I don't met all kind and and like I got told you bro
I didn't I didn't met a lot of pretty females like really pretty bro, and they were they not they don't be the brightest
Bro, not saying that all pretty women like that
But the ones from my experience that I've met just haven't been like smart
I just not the sharp, you know, I'm saying, you know how we always talking about, you know, the road is always you know

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It's different for everybody. It's paid for this paved. Yeah, you know the road ain't the same for everyone
Yes, and then but you know a lot of times for these pretty girls
They don't really learn any street smarts because it's somebody in front in front of them planting the concrete, you know
Go go go this way. I'll do it for you. You know, I'm saying yeah, so

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No, I get you on that bro. I get you I you know
We all we like like you said like we all all our roads are different, but we all go through the same things too because
But I don't miss out on some
Some some crazy cuckoo ones bro
Does you have a choose in a relationship with yeah or have relations with or you know in just in a talking phase or just

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Just mess around type shit. You know a relationship is a relationship
You know a relationship is a relationship. I think we had a we had a whole episode about it
You know where we talked about it. I a relationship is you know, whatever connection you have with that person
So I guess if it was a flame you could call it that it is what it is. Yeah, it was it was

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It was a brief moment in time, you know where you was with somebody and that you still remember
Yeah, but if we talk about like
Like romantics. Yeah, we're talking about romantics. I mean, okay, I
think
so
Okay, that is a good question. So

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In your past relationship with females that you just see to have sex with that's it
You just want to fuck what you want to call that romantic. I won't call that romantic. But sex is romantic and it
No, necessarily. No, it's just it was just a hobby
Intimate
They
Know because it's not really relations because if it's a one-night stand like that's all you really focused on

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It's not I think a relationship is more if you learn it about this person. Yes, you know, I'm saying
No, that makes no, that's what I'm trying to say. I'm not talking about I'm not talking about one night stands that ain't that ain't shit
Okay. Okay, so strict like romantic. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Okay. I got you
But even I think like, you know, even even just on a talking phase or even just meeting meeting the fuck

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you know, I think I think I think that's romantic cuz
I mean, it's some feelings there. You chose that person to fuck so it is what it is
You were attracted to that person. No, that is true
I don't know. That's just me being I
Don't know optimistic

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She'd a bigger picture of that. I don't know but
bro, so me and my girl had had this conversation and
I'm pretty sure you heard this question before too
It's literally
The most popular question out there
What's the question Sean?
I'm nervous

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What's the question? You want to hey, would you would you prefer to have a gay son?
Or a whole daughter?
Or a whole daughter
And why I want to know why
All right, tell me why me personally I would rather have

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a gay son
because
right
because I
feel like if I had
The daughter right cuz the daughter is gonna be a reflection of the father
Okay, you know say
Usually if your daughter is like out in the streets, you know, I'm saying it's probably because you're not in her life a gay son

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I
Don't think that really has much to do with the father cuz that's just how well he kind of grew up just to be
He was interested in
guys or whatever, right and
then on top of that
And I really on top of that never mind I really have a gay son, okay, yeah

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You go ahead and I'm guessing yours is the opposite, right? Yeah
I can tell by the way you're looking at me man. Yeah, yeah
I'm gonna tell you why though. I'm gonna tell you why I prefer to have a whole daughter
The dynamics behind it are the best
Explain, I'll tell you I'll tell you the first dynamic

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So I plan on having two kids. That's just me. I already talked to my my girl
I want two kids and hopefully they're a boy and a girl. I
Hope
So you can get either or with the son
You can get like a nerdy son because he gonna have good grades and be either a doctor a computer scientist or someone

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He's gonna be somewhere else
I'm he gonna be somewhere up there in the business world to you know, it's just up there
Okay, he gonna be up there on that side of the world or I could get a jock
You know someone don't want someone that's athletic because you know black jeans. They they they are powerful. I'm pretty sure I'm

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I'm gonna put them to camp too. Mm-hmm
I'm gonna see if he's into athletics if he fuck with it then that's the way that's where you go
That's where you fucking go
You more in the nerdy side or musical side. Hey, I'm all about nurturing their best talent, bro
I don't care where I'm so supportive my kid
I just want them to have you know to live they best life but

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Okay, I get I get that plate but
Why the whole daughter? Oh
So I'm a girl dad. I'm I'll be on my daughter life
I hope that the whole phase is when she's out the house like in the college. That's what I hope
I
Just don't want those shit coming back to me, bro
I think that's right my worst fear any fair of any matters

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I don't want this shit coming back to me and then I found out, you know that my daughter
It's now here in these streets getting passed around and I don't want to see that's the thing
I don't want to know either just just just whatever just go to college do what you're supposed to do
I hope you graduate. Well, that's it, but you do know
Just like that's like that's like I think that's like me saying well, I don't know my son is gay though

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So I'm good with it
But you're gonna you're gonna know your son gay, bro
Yeah, but the question is you you want a gay son or a whole daughter? So, you know your daughter
Yeah, cuz I'm a tell cuz I can tell I can tell how she carry about in the house and shit
It is gonna it is gonna be what it is
They both are questions, you know, I think but uh

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I'm definitely good. I think I'm gonna stick with the gay side. Oh now
Let's just meet up
Everybody got their preferences
All in all
However, they come out I will be so supportive of them is gonna be so fucking crazy
Bro, um, like I'm gonna be a good ass that I'll be so fucking good at this shit

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I'm ready. I'm at that age where I'm like, I'm ready to give my best. Yeah, I'm gonna be a good at that too. So
Our kids gonna be best friends and shit
Two football stars basketball stars. I'm going to Texas but yeah
San Diego five, baby, I'm here. I'm here to stay
I found my home. Yeah, I just I just need to go ahead and pay my taxes and then get this house

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All right, so we're gonna move on man, but they said that's relationships bro, you know
Quality wait, should we give advice for relationships?
For people struggling over
I'm pretty sure people know how to how to proceed in relationships
If it feels good, you might as well stay with it. Yeah, that's a fact. Uh, just what I what I what I don't like is people that are struggling and try to go back to shit

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You know
I like for example those that get cheated on and they still go back to that shit like come on, man
You know better. Yeah, the fuck
You know, but
Nah, I feel you and then to carry on
So smarter, I guess you know just and so I think to you know people out there if you see this and you know

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You having a hard time your relationship just like Sean said, you know, if this is
You know, this is that person for you then you know, put the effort in
And fix whatever issues it is. You know i'm saying rather you need to
Apologize or whatever it is definitely fix that you know, and as a man
Right, you need to hold that shit together. Yeah, simple is that

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As a man
There's only one thing you should you should you should concern yourself, you know with a woman that should confirm all your reassurances, you know
Uh, you know that should confirm all your assurances. Excuse me. That's what I should say. Yeah, you know, and what are our assurances?
We want someone that's loyal, you know, we want someone that's loyal
You know, we want someone that ain't you know, we ain't got to worry about type shit. You want to feel secure secure

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You know, we feel secure, you know, what are what is our love language? A lot of us like words of affirmation
We need to be confirmed. You know some some of the times or you know, most of us needed to be confirmed a lot of the times
Yeah type shit
Which but you gotta know you gotta know what you want, you know, you gotta
She gotta she gotta answer all those mental questions. Mm-hmm

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You know and just hold it together man. You know saying don't give up on nobody. You know, i'm saying just
You know find a solution and and work it out if it ain't meant to be then it's not meant to be
It is what it is, yeah, i'm pretty sure people have heard it so many times but it really is what it is, man

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You just gotta push it because money goes on huh? I think mainly guys hear that
What it is what it is like that's usually like a guy mentality
It is what it is, you know, because life goes on
You know, that's that's how I am lit is what it is, bro
We just got to keep on pushing on because we ain't here forever. Yeah, none of this shit is here to stay facts

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But we're gonna be going will be gone. Yeah, but we try to find things that last forever
You know that that could last forever
As long as we wanted to but shit that is it on relationships, man
We're gonna go into trust. Yep moving on to the next topic
This nigga Luke this nigga Luke like talking about trust
Because he got he got a little bit of issues with it

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So i'm gonna get a little educated with y'all a little bit on this or building and maintaining trust
Both for oneself and others is fundamental for mental stability
So us being able to build trust is fundamental for mental stability
Stability, so as young folks, you know, we got to often grab grapple with issues of trust
Whether it's trusting their own abilities, you know trusting others or feeling betrayed by those they confide in you know

(28:44):
trusting and people bro, like you
Yes, I just you know betrayed
Huh? I've been betrayed bro, bro recently right it hurts bro. It sucks. You know, i'm saying especially when
You know somebody where it's like, you know, this is just the homie right here. That's my dog right here
You know what i'm saying when they do it, bro, it hit different bro

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Like it really does hit different bro. I got betrayed by my homie. I know since like 07 like back in 21
I got betrayed by him. I was like damn
You do me like that. I know you since 07 bro. Yeah, but it is what it is
Like I said life goes on i'm just gonna keep it pushing but I still think about it to this day
I'm like fuck nah facts bro, because that shit lucky had me kind of

(29:27):
down for a little minute bro, just kind of I was confused like
Why are you doing this like what you know, like what the fuck I thought we was, you know, yeah
I locked me in like what is what is this shit? You know, I'm saying so definitely
Trust is a big one bro. Like if you're gonna decide you want to trust somebody bro. You need to make sure that

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You know and understand this person bro, you know i'm saying like don't just start trusting everybody you meet
After a few conversations, it don't work like that now, you know trust is earned not given remember that
I'm not gonna share the story only because
You you know, you know for personal reason personal reasons i'm not

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Maybe in the future when it dies over and shit and it's like we can laugh about it
Or something like that. I'll share but now i'm pretty i'm pretty sure people know what trust is, you know, yeah if
Try to trust some shit where if something happens
You know you
Oh, excuse me, man, i've been drinking a lot that happens, you know crown royale

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I ain't going i ain't gonna try to promote them but
It is what it is
They do they think
Same thing
Same thing what what what asian promise it?
i'm getting cooked
That's what ab said that's what he and he was drunk

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I'm getting i'm getting cooked. I forgot when you said I think it was like a pre-fight interview
You need to come back to boxing bro. He just watched and everything just
Happened he watching the fucking alcohol kick. Yeah, i'm getting cooked
I'm getting cooked
But going back to trust, um
Everyone everyone knows what it feels like to be betrayed bro, because like it happens in so many forms

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So many forms, bro
It could be the smallest thing to like it could happen in school
Like you would think your friend is your friend and then they walking with another person like damn I feel betrayed fuck
You know, oh, yeah, because that's how it starts off type shit like that
It can get petty bro
It depends on the person honestly, man. I feel like I feel like

(31:46):
Trust is very subjective and personal like it depends on a person like
for instance
For us these days, you know, i'm i'm i'm gonna talk, you know
Modern day, you know us
Amongst men i'm i'm 29 years old now, so i'm gonna talk about
uh to the age group

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I tell my homie. Hey, let's go game and then he don't show up. Oh, I feel betrayed
I trusted you to get on and this is what you needed you in 2k
at the court
Yeah, I feel it but me at 29 years old man
What I see in trust these days

(32:30):
so
I monitor man. I monitor a lot like people don't see it, but I
Yeah, no, I pay attention for sure. I'm just paying attention. I think when you get your trust broken bro, like
When somebody break trust with you for the first time bro, I think I feel like it opens up
I feel like it opens up

(32:51):
Like your eyes bro, like a third eye. It really does i'm like damn bro. You did that to me my my
My big homie dog. He did that shit to me. It is what it is because before your trust get broken
You know you pretty much giving everybody the benefit of that. Yeah, i'm saying this person he ain't that type of he ain't gonna do that
He ain't gonna do that to me right?
Until it happens bro, and then you just kind of learn that you you need to

(33:14):
read people right away, you know i'm saying so that you can kind of
Because if they start pouring out like red flags to you like right away you start like panting to it
Then you will know in the long run like it's probably not but right now like for people who ain't never had that experience

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Right now everything just seems
Lovey-dovey and good, you know i'm saying until it happens, right? You're gonna be just like us. You're gonna be a deserber of people
Oh my god, bro, don't don't don't ignore the red flags don't do it beware of the light skins. They are scary

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Not the lights they so scary
Some of them are scary
They so scary some of them i ain't gonna say all of them. Yeah, I think trust is more I think everybody
We all understand that everyone understands trust man. Everyone everyone knows what it's like to be betrayed or i'm telling you

(34:17):
We've all we've all experienced betrayal at some point in our life
like I said, it's so subjective and personal it could be as small as
as
shit
It could be a smaller something happening in elementary school like you know
You could you could like your teacher could forget to take you out on recess
You could be like, oh the fucking the fucking trail. I was looking forward to this. Yep. I trusted you

(34:41):
Boom trust betrayed. Yep. It is what it is
But moving on trust that hey, that's that's trusto. Yeah, it's pretty simple. Have you
Somebody yeah, if you somebody that somebody else trusts
Take that shit seriously. Yeah, because you can really mess somebody up you break that
Trust issue. We all heard that term trust issues, right? You break that trust now this person got trust issues

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So let's not do that. Somebody trust you bro, you know honor
Honor that trust bro. It takes a lot to build trust too. So what I what you know what I say
My advice is just monitor man, you know, just keep that third eye open or or you know, just keep keep your open
You know, yeah

(35:24):
Look, you know side eye ear hustle type shit
Monitor take mental notes. I do that a lot bro. I'm always up, you know, i'm always looking around
I don't trust anything
I'm so paranoid these days. No, i'm joking. You got trust issues tough job
I like this

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But all right moving on
This one gonna be luke favorite topic he like this we're gonna we're gonna talk about social media
You know, I like this luke talk luke like talking about the twitter and the instagrams and the facelift
I love it. So why are we gonna talk about social media? You know with mental health?
That shit is stressful. Why?

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so
social media the pervasive influence of social media presents both benny and benny
Uh presents both benefits and challenges to mental health
Pervasive bro that shit. I say intrusive while it offers
connectivity and opportunities, you know for self-expression

(36:36):
It also exposes, you know as young folks to to comparison
What you would what you was just talking about earlier, you know when I was just researching the topic
You know comparisons with you know, people like to compare themselves with famous people type shit
Cyber bullying and unrealistic standards. Yeah, that's my shit

(36:56):
Unrealistic standards. Yeah
Leading to feelings of inadequacy and anxiety bro, like this shit will literally ruin people
Social media is out of control bro. I think the unrealistic standards literally ruin people bro facts, bro
Like we say i'll be every time we on social media all you see is oh men this
Is women that this this this and that it's like dude like why are we trying to go against each other?

(37:21):
That's an air with both sides got their issues. We both need both men and women need to work on their shit
You know i'm saying that we're meeting in the middle. You know, i'm saying complete type shit
But I don't see the reason to go
Fucking blast every fucking body for everything and shit
You know i'm saying because i've met plenty of dudes who's fucking been through shit that I know a lot of women won't be able

(37:43):
To handle right the same thing vice versa, you know i'm saying that women that have been through some shit
A lot of guys can't have you know i'm saying I think it's
Personally, I think it's two different roads
right, usually the main guy the main road is used for the most part is a little tougher, right and I say that because
We we got a

(38:04):
like a
A larger capacity to handle shit, you know i'm saying
But not saying that the woman side isn't tough at all
So let's talk about your experience with social media because I remember your first your first instagram bro
When you first started your car shit you said followers on you
That shit was crazy. My man was really into carship. Are you on it? Okay, that's a good story

(38:26):
I had a nice cat pack too. That's that's how they're gonna have to charter. Yeah, that was a nice clean
I brought that black
That was clean that shit got you to followers in it. They did bro. I had bro. So I had like
They're married 20k or some shit like that. Yeah, so I would say your shit is an example cyberbullying
Why you had to let that go? Yeah, yeah, because you know, I like that no more my man got to start from the ground up again

(38:49):
Yeah, because I had got this uh, I had like it was a
2021
Charger scat pack widebody was black whatever and like i'm from detroit in detroit
That's we do that shit that scat pack. Hey, okay
You know i'm saying that shit we do that and I wanted one bro. I wanted one
So bad bro, and I joined the navy bro. I worked my ass up bro and got deployed

(39:11):
You was talking about it all the time on a boat, too
Yeah, I wanted that dream. Yeah, that was low-key a dream. So i'm glad you got that shit
So I got it when we came back from deployment boy. I was untouchable
God I was untouchable in the scat bro
I mean was always in the scat
That shit was always loud too, even though it was pulling up

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So I uh, I started a little car page or whatever and I had bro
Over maybe like two maybe two three years or something like that
However long I had it and i'm getting a whole bunch of followers on instagram and shit people used to message me
Oh, you go drop a new video on my home drop this time. No, blah blah blah, right?
I bet this my man was official. I met this girl. Yeah, I met this girl, right?

(39:55):
And we was talking blah blah blah blah. We started feeling each other this this and that
and
We didn't work out, right?
So it was like kind of like a horror split or whatever, right?
And you know, it is what it is, you know, go our separate ways cool, right?
not for her

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But she literally was making these fake pages, uh-huh, bro, right and I had so many followers
I couldn't go through and like
You know, yeah
It's too much, right? Yes, bro, like messaging people. I know, you know
I'm trying to put curses on people and like all this bullshit, bro

(40:36):
She used to get different numbers and shit and like text me bro
Like I used to have to show my girl this shit like look this bitch texting me. Look at what she's saying
She's going she's gonna curse you bro and fucking wishing she was in death upon you bro
Like it was some wild shit bro at a certain point bro. I would have had a social media manager
And and at some point like with my girl and if I get to a certain point

(40:56):
I'm gonna make her my social media manager but going back to your story. No, that's a that's actually a good point
I would have never thought about that. But more of the story I decided to you know
What I deleted the entire page bro, because I couldn't do it no more bro. Like that shit was fucking
It was stupid bro, you know i'm saying, you know, I'm saying to get people calling you saying like yo
Who was this person bro? They telling me they praying for my death

(41:18):
Like i'm like bro, you know, my bad, you know i'm saying i'm gonna try to trying to fix this shit
But it's out of control like I can't so more of a story more of a story. I deleted the page because of that shit
That's crazy
Out of control bro. I was like where a loot go why doesn't it disappear?
But it is what it is. I know I felt like you would just you you needed your break from social media

(41:40):
I was like damn doesn't get gone for good and and to be honest with you bro
When I was like, you know, I was like, I'm not gonna do this
bro, when when I deleted that instagram page I deleted the app too I deleted tik tok I
Bro I had no social media. I just had youtube in case I needed to do it diy
Some shit. Yeah youtube good for that youtube is good for that. Yeah, but yeah, my man was gone bro. I was like, oh

(42:04):
Lucas alfred account. Oh, it's so good though bro like
To not have the clans
Yeah, it was like it felt like a cleansing bro. So when I came back, you know
I was able to enjoy everything all over again, you know what I'm saying?
So that's that's actually a good idea bro. Have you been on social media every fucking day? How about you take?
A day off right you can do that next time. How about you take two three days off, right?

(42:29):
Take a week up right and see how you feel. Oh god, bro. When I first started going my girl
I I found myself like just being off of twitter for like days. I'm like, huh? I made a tweet and days
Mm-hmm. Yeah, or I ain't posted on in a minute or I ain't looked at my facebook in a hot minute type shit
Shit like that, bro, like you know, I fuck with the cleanse man

(42:50):
No, it feels good bro, because because most of the time you we looking on there is always some
Like it's always the bad shit that get everybody attention. You know I'm saying
So it definitely feels good. You know, I felt like I was able to focus on myself get my mental together
Get my mental together and shit and shit. I'm glad I did it

(43:13):
Cyber bullying bro cut that shit out man. There are better ways to use social media
You wanna what I use social media for them funny ass videos and memes
I've been seeing what you'd be liking on IG to them reels. Some of the reels are funny, bro
Like let's see that's like positive scroll

(43:34):
That's what I look forward to
I see some good stuff
That I don't mind wasting time for I guess because that shit is funny
Yeah, but the moment you like something negative boy that algorithm gonna hit you with negative stuff
All day, right? You're gonna be locked in fuck up your mind, bro
Fuck your shit up, dog
So, you know, i'm black and Korean right? Yeah, my homie like to send me shit, you know, boppy, um, the the podcast of the asian dude

(44:02):
I forgot what the name of the podcast is i'm gonna have to send it to you later
But is this he always sending me some asian shit on tiktok. I'm like bro
Why are we sending me some asian shit because i'm black and Korean. Yeah
He think you like it
No, I like the same shit you like what I'm trying to see this
Fucking racist

(44:25):
This is funny for you ain't it yeah, that's just funny for him i'm gonna call him out but that's just funny
I ain't go I like why you over you sending me some asian shit
But that's positive scrolling that's the that's the type of shit I like to get on social media for
Now for sure, and I like to and I like to stay updated too. Like i'm a big sports fan

(44:45):
You know, i'm happy on the football and basketball type shit, you know, I want to see what's going on
Yeah, that's that's that's positive social media the negative social media being on people
They'll be trying to put on the front bro, like they
You know, they live these perfect lives and all of that shit
Like I hate seeing that bro and not like on no hater shit
Because I know for a fact bro that you not that happy bro. I know you not that happy bro

(45:10):
You know i'm saying and that not trying to sound like I hate it. I'm not trying to sound like a hater bro
But you get what i'm saying. I do I really do. I'm saying you hate you hate the fake shit
Yeah, you know everybody would be living these
You know these facade ass lives and shit and then we having
Youth look up to them. I want to be just like them and shit and it's just

(45:33):
Stupid bro, it's women posting their ass all over the place like bro
I got little cousins and nieces and shit bro that be scrolling bro. They don't need to see that bro
No, I'm saying post something positive
Post what you cooking today like my boy shawn always poked. I need to get back to that brother
You know what? I'm thinking of getting to selling plates bro
I'm thinking of making a ghost kitchen because I really be cooking man. I need to get back to that shit

(45:55):
I miss it so much, but I should just be annoying
Posting they fucking oh my personal issues keep that shit to yourself. It's a personal issue
You know what? That is what facebook is man when I when I when I get on it bro, like
I'm like this is what y'all talk about on here
But it is number grown old old folks on facebook. Yeah facebook
It's more of like you want to look at family to check in with family. Oh shit. Okay. Okay

(46:21):
Hello, cuz you just graduated high school
I'm not gonna lie man niggas is different bro. Have you ever looked up?
But have you ever opened up a comment section on ig these days?
If it's something funny, I usually do open it because the comments be funny
Bro, it could be anything it literally could be anything and niggas would be so fucking negative. They don't matter anymore

(46:43):
For people are negative. It's so negative these days like like the guidelines is out out out
Is out the window like they do not care anymore
It's just crazy bro, like how negative how negative like how people can i'm talking about cyber bullying like we're still on that
I'm just i'm just so flabbergasted how how y'all can just get on and and that's the first thing y'all say to somebody

(47:05):
Right, bro. You don't even notice man. Why do y'all be out of control on social media?
Yeah, rolling is crazy
But I think I think i'm just an old man now because these are just 16 17. Okay, yeah
This did used to be our our thing back then I need a ass
They need they asked p

(47:26):
What?
They needed to get beat what happened to bully beat down?
That's my shit on mtv, bro
Nobody was acting up around that time
Yeah, no, but you're gonna get exposed oh god, oh god, bro
I don't think people worry about getting cancelled anymore these days
You know that f word coming back. I see it so many times now. Yeah, you know, which one i'm talking about

(47:50):
I'm not talking about fuck
I know it's only type f a you know, yeah that that word coming back bro
I'm sorry
People are saying it was flying. I was watching usc the other night
I think it was last year but it was like close to new years
Uh, so yeah, and and this guy this guy was calling out another fighter and called him out and called him an f word

(48:14):
I'm like, bro. You we really we're really saying that out loud
It got used twice in one night. Oh, yeah that that word
Yeah, so I think people are starting to get numb again to shit
Because I don't know I don't I don't know if you you seen how it was like in 2012
No, I remember 2012 you say there like you know, that was a crazy time people were so numb back then bro

(48:38):
Even rap was no was so numb shit. Rick Ross was saying f word
Everybody was saying that for everyone's calling somebody to f word. Somebody was getting called the f word in 2012
Yeah, it was so dumb back then bro
But I you know, that was that was just the times, you know

(48:59):
I don't I don't think that's what people people realize, you know, like times were different that time
I mean we look back at it and yeah, it was shitty
How could how could a regular man walking down the street get called the f word out of nowhere?
It was just well, that was like post 2012 was like post fucking

(49:23):
What you call that shit
Post
Fuck depression type shit. I was about to say great depression great depression
Not great depression, but remember at oh eight when everything was like
What the shit everything went this was more like oh seven man george bushlet everything went this shit obama had to come in

(49:45):
Obamacare. Yes. Yes, sir. Yes, sir
Yes, sir. Everyone got jobs again and shit. Yeah, that's what i'm saying
Like so everybody was already on the aggressive end from that point
You know what i'm saying, but everyone everyone's starting to be happy again though because everyone's getting their jobs everyone
Everyone, you know government government is like
I don't know because I was in high school. I just thought we got a black man as a president. So I was happy. Yeah

(50:08):
I know the vibes was lit for me
But yeah, I was in high school at the time I didn't I didn't know any better but you know me being high school
I'm so conscious of things. Mm-hmm
Niggas did not care what they said back then
It's a
Setback then it's that back being like it's in the fucking 80s

(50:36):
That shit was like it. Oh, no 13 years ago
Uh-huh. How long was 2012 like?
12 years 2012. So it's 2024 right now 12 years ago. Damn. I was in high school 12 years ago
I missed my uh, my 10 year reunion, but oh well, I thought it was a 20 year reunion. No, that's 10 year
That's the team. Yes, it's in your ring. I'm not you coming up on yours. My show was in 2013

(50:58):
So uh, 2023 I missed my shit last year. I should like I hope it was all right. I hope y'all good
I should like
20
26
2025
Coming up
Yeah, damn. Oh, we gotta get into this last topic. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'm fucking up. I'm fucking up, bro

(51:19):
Uh, yeah, I mean that's what happens when you get get a little personal, you know you talk. Yeah
Should you know it is what it is, you know, we we we having fun with with no
I hope y'all listening to you know, yeah
Yes, sir
But that social media use it for for the right things man for real and teach the you something bro teach

(51:40):
pass down information bro view older and you use
uh fucking
Social media bro pass down shit that we need to know bro, you know i'm saying because we don't know shit
That's why our generation fucked up
Teach us something teach us something teach us something
Literally these three things that we talked about like comparing yourself to people cyber bullying and the unrealistic standards

(52:02):
I hate the unrealistic standards. I hate it too, bro. It don't make sense
Like it's fun to dream but have a plan. Yeah, I dream I dream a lot and and i'm glad I got this dream going
This podcast this this was realistic to me. I got it going shit. It is what it is. Definitely
This is this but the unrealistic standards and I think it goes with comparisons like stop comparing yourself to these

(52:25):
2d celebrities you're not nicki minaj. You're not cardi b
You are jodie whoever
Yes, you are you you are you you are already one of one why you want to be one of two?
Yeah
So it and if your name ain't shit you make it something honestly, bro
You don't got you get out there you work, you know, put your work out there and shit. Yeah, good

(52:47):
They're cool. Yeah, like what the hell was the cardi b when her teeth was bad
Or what the hell was that nicki minaj when her ass was flat?
But I know
Type shit. Well, what the hell was drake when he was wheelchair, uh, jimmy
In the grassy grassy
These niggas made their names, bro
So jodie, whoever needs to start making a name for themselves like us

(53:09):
I'm trying to make a name for myself. This one using my real name. You know, my name is sean
I'm trying to make a name for that shit god
So that name can carry my my my future generations. That's what i'm trying to work for bro. That's me
That's me. I feel you bro 100. No, i'm saying
Know what i'm saying. I ain't playing i'm gonna start rapping too

(53:29):
Yeah, you know what them old heads be said
They'd be like you feel me knocking you feel me knocking. That's crazy
I feel you rafi knocking pause
But I oh well damn now that you said pause the last part sounded a little sus too
Yeah, you see yeah ain't gonna even say the last part. I'm guessing y'all can guess that part. I'm not saying that because

(53:49):
Now it feels weird pause
But I know what you mean. Yeah
I ain't gonna lie man. Some of them old heads things are kind of sus, but they are trying to stay away from them
I like I like a dog will holler. I like that
Or it ain't no fun when the rabbit got the gun. Yeah
That's cool. That's cool. It ain't fun when the rabbit got the gun
Some of them oh here's you see me knocking. That's crazy

(54:13):
You hear me knocking you hear me knocking. Well, let me knocking what bro. I don't know. Yeah, like how to
easy on
You too cool it yeah
Relax bro
But all right, we're gonna we're gonna wrap up with the next one
All right. We're gonna we're gonna wrap up with the next topic. This topic is so important, bro

(54:35):
I feel like it's the it's the craziest thing. I feel like it's it's the biggest thing like we all stress with
The future bro, like us thinking about the future what we're going to do with ourselves in the future. So
Concerns about the future and crew including career prospects economic stability
and
environmental sustainability can weigh heavily on the minds of you know of us of young people, you know

(54:59):
Of us young folks, you know uncertain uncertainty about what lies ahead can
Exaggerate stress and contribute to feelings of hopelessness and
exist
Existential
Exist. Yeah existential existential man. It's hard for me to say these words because I got this list

(55:24):
I need I needed to go to speech class, but I didn't cry out for help. It is what it is. I'm here now
I'm 29 years old. I'm setting my ways resiliency resilient. I am resilient. Yes you are
So yeah, we care we we are so concerned about the future career prospects
Like what are we gonna do with ourselves in our lives?
Like I know for certain like I did not want to do my like my whole life in the Navy

(55:46):
No, I can do it. Sorry, can do it can do it. I do it
I didn't even expect to go to the Navy as a child should I want to go to the Navy?
I legit had that
Standard kid dream, but I wanted to be an astronaut
Right when I was in elementary then I went to middle school in high school
And I wanted to be a marine biologist and I found out you got to get in the water with sharks

(56:07):
Like I'm afraid of sharks, you know, that's not my thing, right? Then also play football and I was like, oh, you know what?
I'm all right at this football. Let me see how far this can go, right?
And it turns out I wasn't as good as I thought I was because you ran into the better players right happens
You get humble right?
Then I joined the Navy right and I never thought I was gonna do that, bro

(56:30):
Don't I tell you bro and not because I'm just constantly you know trying, you know, these different things bro
I found out, you know exactly what it is that I want and you know
Even though I didn't want exactly to go to the Navy though on my plan, bro
I had a I feel like I was some of the best experiences of my life
I went on around the world a few times, you know, I met hella different people

(56:51):
so now I was able to stack up some dough and shit and then
Shit now shit. I'm on a doing a podcast with my one of my best friends and shit one of my dogs, you know
So just I think the future is already uncertain, right? I don't believe that the future is written
I believe you know that you can manipulate your future depending on you know

(57:13):
Your actions and whichever way you decide to go but just keep going forward
It's all you can do. Oh
God, yeah
No, excuse me. Sorry. Sorry
Like what career prospects like I said, I didn't I
Didn't see myself doing nine like like the whole 20 like making a career out of the Navy

(57:36):
I'll be honest with you. I didn't see it until later on like everything happens with realization in life
You know, you just you just keep living life and then you just realize like oh, I'm really not trying to do this man. Yeah
Like the experiences that I went through I was like man
I'm good on this this this ain't what I do. I'm sorry

(57:57):
And then I realized what I wanted to I you know what I want to do
I wouldn't be I want to be famous. I'm gonna be known type shit
I want I'm trying to be I'm trying to be out there like I'm trying to take this podcast to a different level
Like I said, I'm trying to take this on TV type shit and and it's a good message
Yeah, but all in all like I

(58:17):
Started experiencing new things and me being 29 years old now, like I know what I want to do at the end of the day
I'm gonna get back into professional wrestling school and I'm sorry, man. I'm gonna get back
I'm gonna get into the WWE. I'm sorry RKL. Yeah, I'm sorry
but like
You know as you go as you go through life because I also wanted to be a ballplayer like when I like I was in high school

(58:40):
But I got home. I got humbled in freshman year, but they cut me from the JV team
I was like, alright, I know I know basketball ain't for me anymore. I
Know that is not for me anymore. I'm sorry. I tried but thank you for the opportunity. Yeah
So yeah, nothing is really set for especially like for me and him like being going to all these places

(59:00):
I mean all these different people we we saw different
Things that interest us, you know, I'm saying there's never it's never just one thing that it interests you stuff punch this shit out here
I'm saying so just a matter of you
Navigating your way through life and now you're not what it is that you really want and then you go for it as Sean is a clear example
Podcast right is going right we didn't we 18 weeks in we 18 weeks, man

(59:25):
Now he's no he what he really want to do is wrestling. He just said it should I'm about to get back into that focus on that
That's what's up. I mean shit the podcast still gonna go. Oh, yeah. Yeah, for sure. Oh, yeah
Oh, yeah, absolutely. Yeah, we still gonna do this
I got so many so many plans in my head, bro. Like I gotta tell you man. I'm a dreamer
I think I'm gonna be a dreamer. I think I'm gonna be a dreamer

(59:47):
I got to you man. I'm a I'm a dreamer. I think I think it's because of my sign
I'm a Pisces. So like I just like to think big Sam
I would just think and I just making a TV network like you like like HBO Max type shit
But you ever heard of Zeus? Yeah, where niggas watch baddies and

(01:00:09):
And watch a blue face and Christian yeah
And what else?
Jocelyn and and Jocelyn's cabaret, but you get it. Yeah, I get the point. Yeah, I'm trying to do some shit like that and
You know shit like that takes time. You got to live life
you got to go through things, but you know, you got to have a plan with things and

(01:00:32):
That's as long as you're starting with what you want to do in life
You know, it shouldn't be it shouldn't that be be that big of a stress
All you got to do is come up with a game plan, you know, keep living life learn learn pick up things
Mm-hmm
Man it is just tough because we're not we're not even at that at that stage yet. We're you know

(01:00:53):
But you know, we're working there. I feel like we're doing we're doing a great thing with this shit
No, I know where it go bro
When loser fails it. I'm I like this shit. I'm gonna keep going. I'm gonna keep doing it. I like it
For real and shit with economic stability, you know, we try to find we try to find that job, you know
That'll pay for our lifestyle. Mm-hmm

(01:01:15):
That's what I'm looking for. I need a job that pays for my life. So I am an expensive person
And I have these they're off-white here I need I have knees now
No, I I
Just know what I need a life man
So that's what you know, that's that's what I shoot for and you know in terms of economic stability

(01:01:37):
You know, that's what I shoot for in jobs and shouldn't you know in careers, you know
while we're talking about careers in here, yeah and
environmental sustainability I
Feel like that pertains to like how do you how do you sustain yourself where you live right now?
Like we live in San Diego. I think this I think they say doesn't know the number one expense city in the States

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I'm pretty sure it is
There's a most expensive city in the state and I don't know that for a fact, but live in here. I'm pretty sure that's true
Oh, yeah, it costs $200 to go outside. Oh man. That's too this to get them expensive you go outside
You don't come in with less what to you $200 less
I like you don't even want to do like you don't even want to go outside anymore and the way the economy is right now

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Like everything like nothing is free. Yeah, like you used to have fun when shit was free or she used to be a dollar
She used to be $10 like I got that much to spend like, you know, what you don't do it a fucking
What are you gonna do with a $20 bill? Let's just say that you're gonna get some gas with it gas
Not even cheap anymore, bro. Like I gotta get no gas. I gotta get premium
So it's like five five dollars a gallon for me. Yep

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Same to me too, right you you want to go you gonna get you some chips and a drink at the store
It's gonna cost you about $15. Mm-hmm
Right. Usually it should you go in the store with a $5 bill as a kid
Yeah, we balling out of control balling out of control in there with father. I was kicking your ass out that bitch
50 cents, bro

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What a dollar 29
Rather fucking a big bag of chips or whatever. I like the ruffles cheddar. Oh
Well, first off this shit is to this a tutor
It's two dollars now that you should just be 99 cent
But now they two dollars and a quarter of the bag is fucking tips and the rest of it is air
It's like

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It's a scam it's literally a scam but they don't care man, it's gonna happen
We just got to keep on living with life, you know, that's the future though. And that's what you know
environment sustainability and I think it ties in you know with with the you know with the career and
You know sustaining yourself economically you just got to find

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Just got a funny job. You just gotta find a good job, you know, that's that's the grown-up thing to say
You just got to find that job. Yeah, definitely
You know for y'all going after them careers or if you in a career definitely
You want to show your income need to be you should be able to if you work in 40 hours a week
You should be able to take care of what you need. You know, I'm saying so

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Definitely every single year bro
Try to get your income to increase right with the market cuz the market doing this your income need to do this too
Because the market do this and your income stay right here you fuck it's tough
If you if you say like that it's tough. Yeah, so don't short yourself either know your worth know yourself
But shit that is all we have to say we are so over time bro, but it is what it is

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It is good talk. Yeah. Yeah, it was a good talk. Yeah, it was a good talk
You know, we got a little personal with this shit. We're going back to basics, man
we're gonna start doing shit like this and definitely bro, like
If you anybody out there going through, you know mental troubles and whatever you feel like you on your last leg
Definitely call 988. You know I'm saying oh definitely. Yeah, we gotta we gotta go back to

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Put out that number man. We call that number cuz we care about y'all like genuinely bro
988 the suicide hot hot line suicide. Yep
You can call a text that number these days like it used to be a 1-800 number
But now so that's too many to me number to remember 988
988 call a text that number

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There's a professional on the other side waiting to help you if you really at that point where you really need help and nobody out there
Hey, somebody is always out there. I'm telling you somebody else. Nobody's alone, bro
but
That is it. We are wrapping up. Thank you for joining us for episode 18 and

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And peace will catch on next week for episode 19. All right, so I know be easy
Stay breezy never too easy

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