Are You Living Your Life or Someone Else's Definition of Success?

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Speaker 1 (00:42):
Hello, happy Wednesday.
You are on the Heart of Successshow and I'm your host, larisa
Vakulina.
Go live every Wednesday at 2 pm, south Australian time zone.
And here on this show, I'mredefining success.
I'm helping and supportingsuccessful women to truly
understand what success reallymeans.

(01:05):
We are over well over the timewhere success meant only roles,
titles, positions, accumulationof the wealth.
We are now at the transitioningperiod to understand a bit more
and deeper what does it mean totruly be successful?

(01:27):
And I'm here to help you inthis journey to really start to
understand how you can create itall.
Really start to understand howyou can create it all.
So today I want to share withyou a little feeling that I was
trying to work through andresolve by myself for a long,

(01:48):
long time.
I have checked all the boxes.
I was mega successful.
I was having a family that Ithought is really caring and
connected and loving.
Yes, it was all that.
But deep inside, there wasalways this something really
missing, and I always was havingthis state or belief that if I

(02:16):
am going to spend a bit moretime with my family or
concentrate on the other thingsrather than business, I'm going
to lose money or I'm going tonot perform as well as I would
like to, and there has alwaysbeen one or the other.
It was always that separationthat most of us are still living

(02:41):
which we need to really look atthis situation deeper and ask
ourselves do I want to besuccessful at the cost of my
health or at the cost of myrelationship with loved one, at
the cost of my joy in my life,at the cost of my happiness and

(03:03):
fulfillment in my life?
And we really need to look atit from the point of view that
there is no separation.
We are both the lie thatprofessional life and personal
life are not connected and wefollow that lie and still live

(03:25):
in that life, not connecting theprofessional and personal life,
and thinking that, regardlessof what I'm feeling here with my
family myself, when I'm alonein the aloneness of my house or
my bedroom, as long as I'mperforming, as long as I'm

(03:50):
ticking all the boxesprofessionally, it really
doesn't have any effect on myprofessional life.
It is a big, big and huge lieand that lie needs to be busted
and really we need to start tolook at ourselves as a
professional and as a person inthe united angle, from the

(04:16):
united angle, because it'salways like that, if I am really
spending a lot of time andquality time with my family, and
if I spend time for myself-care and have some sort of

(04:39):
peaceful time with myself, thebusiness and professional life
is taking backseat.
Well, this is really how ourmind is separating these areas
of our life.
But I invite you to reallychange that.

(04:59):
I want you to look at the lifeand all of you as a united
divine creator of your life.
And how can we separateprofessional area of your life
from your personal?
If there's something not rightin your personal life, in your

(05:22):
relationships, in your health,how can you be a master in your
professional area?
You can't, because this is allinterrelated.
So the relational reality rightnow invited us to look at it as
a whole, and that's what I'mtrying to explain on this

(05:47):
podcast how we can start tointegrate the wholeness of who
we are.
And I'm creating a community ofsuccessful women who are
actually so successful and sostrong and so powerful and
amazing creators, but there isalways one or two areas of their

(06:10):
lives are missing or notfulfilled or somehow less happy
or less successful as theprofessional area.
So we can have it all.
I have it all.
I used to be like that.
I used to look at myprofessional life only from the

(06:33):
point of view that I have toperform, I have to be the best,
I have to be perfect and I haveto be all for so many people to
take all the responsibilitiesfor everyone.
Because I'm a strong woman intothat striving, that pushing and

(07:06):
pulling being that is actuallycreating a lot of harm to the
self-thirst and then, of course,to the loved ones and
everything around in the biggercircles of our connections,
because that's how universeworks and we need to start to

(07:26):
have that, um, that balancedview, the balanced, uh
perception of who we are and howwe can live our own lives and
help others to live theirs.
So the question is are youtruly living your own life or

(07:51):
are you living conditioned andsomeone else's definition of
success?
Well, this is the question youneed to ask yourself Seriously.
And if you honestly, veryhonestly, please just be honest
with yourself.
If you're trying to trickyourself, well then what?

(08:12):
What's the point?
Then you just can go and keepliving your life and at one
stage, you're going to collapse,your body will collapse, you're
going.
I'm so rigid that it's going tobe painful.

(08:35):
I went there.
I was there.
I was there and I'm talking notonly from my intensive studies
about psychology, physiology,biology, healing, energy,
quantum physics I lived throughthat.
I was there.
I was there at the bottom.

(08:57):
I was mega successful.
I was there at the bottom.
My body collapsed.
I couldn't do anything.
I lived myself, step by step,slowly, little by little,
understanding and doing what Iwas understanding.
It's not only the theoreticalconcept, it's also a very

(09:19):
practical way of taking you outof that crisis and I lift myself
so that now I have aligned megasuccess.
I have best health that I haveever had, even when I was 25.
And I have all therelationships that are very,

(09:41):
very fulfilled.
It's such a joy and pleasure tolive the life like that.
You just wake up, you take yourfirst breath and you're happy,
you're joyful, you're fulfilled.
You get up and you start tocreate your life your own life,
no one else's life, your ownlife.

(10:04):
So my question is are you livingyour life?
If you honestly answer thatquestion, then that will open a
little door to exploration, andthat exploration can lead you
into the best and amazingversion of you, the truly

(10:25):
authentically powerful you thatthen you can start to create the
life on your terms and you'regoing to be restoring everything
in your life.
Guarantee you will restore yourhealth, your relationships,
your business will be thriving10 times more than you can

(10:46):
imagine.
So please ask that question andanswer honestly.
And if you feel a littleconfused and if you need some
guidance and help, please joinmy waiting list for upcoming
12-week journey Aligned andAbundant, that's for successful

(11:10):
women and you can then start toreally tap into that power.
Possibly you are missing thatpower and you're just pushing
and pulling and you're justforcing yourself to do a lot of
things, but it only can last forsome time.

(11:31):
Then you are paving the roadand opening the door to a crisis
and you don't want that.
So thank you so much.
I'll talk to you next week onWednesday.

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