Are you tired of chasing success but feeling unfulfilled?
This discussion is crucial for those who feel caught in the relentless pursuit of professional achievements without experiencing true satisfaction or happiness.
We'll explore why the traditional markers of success often leave us feeling empty and how realigning our goals with our core values can bring a greater sense of fulfillment. We'll discuss strategies for identifying what genuinely matters to us beyond societal accolades and expectations.
This episode is packed with insights on achieving balance, prioritizing personal well-being, and the importance of mindfulness in our daily lives. We’ll provide practical tips for those looking to step off the treadmill of constant striving and start living a more intentional and satisfying life.
Tune in as we uncover how to stop chasing shadows and start nurturing a success that feels meaningful to you.
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Feeling unfulfilled despite your achievements? Larisa knows your journey. Each week, she shares powerful insights to help you blend professional success with personal fulfillment. Through her unique blend of business strategies and spiritual principles, you'll discover your true self and build a heart-aligned life.
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Episode Transcript
Hello everyone.
You are on the Heart of Successshow and I'm your host, larisa
Vakulina.
I go live every Wednesday at 2pm, south Australian time zone
and here on this show I'mconstantly trying to share with
you little tips, tools,motivation, inspiration of how
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you can start to understand thatyour life is totally in your
hands.
Today I want to share with youmy own personal journey of being
a mega successful businesswoman.
It was some time, more than 10years ago.
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It was sometime more than 10years ago and I just want to
share with you this painfulplace where you constantly run
and believe that the promise ofhaving a lot of money, the
promise of having freedom,having a lot of money, the
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promise of having freedom, thepromise of having happiness and
all the fulfillment andeverything in your life going to
fall into that beautiful,enjoyable, fulfilled place when
you have money and when you haveabundance of finances.
Well, I believe that, and Iknow many women are struggling
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with this because they believethat too.
Have you ever thought that thisbelief could be just a lie?
It could be just a manipulativeoperation that would trap us
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informational field from all theinstitutions, from all the
structures and external systemsthat we go through when we grow,
starting from kindergarten andfinishing in all of these
business schools.
It is a diverted and distortedway of looking at reality and
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that's how I lived because Ibelieved this lie.
I believed that when my nextachievement, or when my next
financial victory, my nextproject that can bring the you
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know, the windfall of financesgoing to bring me this happiness
, that internal feeling ofloving myself, the feeling of
being in the right place,feeling of belonging to this
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life, to this experience.
But I never reached that state.
Regardless of how many awards Ihad, how many contracts I
completed, how many courses Igraduated from, None of this
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brought me that internal feelingof being enough and even that
completion of saying I'm happy.
Nothing was like that, I know.
Of course it brought mematerial stuff, it brought me
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all this sort of kind of freedom, but it was always outside of
me, it was never internalexperience.
So the mega success that Iachieved, following and
believing that promise, wasbringing me that external facade
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of being successful inabundance, happy, admirable, all
of these things.
But actually it was was verylonely place.
It was place of confusion.
It was place of am I enough?
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It's, I'm not enough, I need todo more.
I need to achieve more becauseyou almost like you're chasing
your own tail, you're goingthrough the vicious cycle of
wanting to achieve more andwanting to do more, wanting to
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have more, but you never, ever,could achieve that internal
peace, internal acceptance ofyourself, peace, internal
acceptance of yourself, internalfeeling of loving yourself and
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feeling of stability, likegroundness and the enjoyment of
creating these achievements.
Because it was separated, sothe external race for success
and that internal experience ofbeing of feeling empty.
It was like two different,separated experiences that never
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aligned together.
And I know there's so manywomen, very powerful, strong,
successful women, that feel thesame.
You believe this lie that whenyou achieve, when you earn a lot
, make a lot of money, when youachieve a lot, when you have
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awards, when you takeresponsibility for everything
and everyone, you provide foryour family, you look after
everyone, you caretaking, evenyour teams and your businesses
and everyone around.
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You believed that when you doall of this, you you're going to
be happy.
But it never happens.
Why is this?
Why is it that you come homeand, in the space of your
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personal aloneness, you alwaysask yourself what is it that I'm
not doing right or what is itthat I'm not doing enough?
Make me feel that way thatthere's something that's missing
?
Why I'm not feeling thatbeautiful feeling of total
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internal and externalsatisfaction?
Because you don't even havetime to stop and reflect, even
five, ten minutes.
Well, I lived through this andI learned a very, very hard
lesson through not payingattention to little physical
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symptoms and signs and tirednessand being overwhelmed and being
in depression and anxiety, andI believed.
I believed that I'm so strongand that I'm so focused and I'm
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so capable of doing everythingby myself that I was just
ignoring this science.
Well, now I know you can dothis only to a certain degree
and for some time.
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If you're not going to payattention to this, you're going
to face a very deep crisis, likeI did, and it's much, much
harder to get yourself out ofthere.
It could completely change yourlife then, when you're in
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crisis, you wouldn't be able tomake money.
You wouldn't be able to runyour businesses.
Crisis you wouldn't be able tomake money.
You wouldn't be able to runyour businesses.
You wouldn't be able to takeresponsibility for everyone and
everything around you.
What, then, are you going to do?
I'm just asking you thisquestion.
You are here, the goddess, thepowerful woman that you are
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there.
Please, I just beg you toreflect.
Stop for five minutes and askyourself a question.
Do I feel the same as Larissais telling me that she felt?
Do I feel not enough?
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I feel not enough.
Do I feel like constantlyrunning after the next project,
the next financial winning placeand for the next bigger
achievement?
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And do I feel lonely when I'min a space of my private home?
Do I feel that I always need toprove myself on both sides, to
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myself and to others?
Well, this is very, very hardplace to be because it requires
a lot of resources.
This place of keep runningafter success and trying to be
happy but still don't know how,and you keep pretending, you
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keep having the mask, that youare happy.
It's a very hard place to bebecause it requires a lot of
energy, your valuable creativeenergy you're wasting to keep
this state.
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So I invite you to look at itand come to my program, the
Ascara Principles.
I'm going to start to run itface-to-face here on my property
in the next few months.
I'm going to start to run itface-to-face here on my property
In the next few months, a fewweeks.
I'm going to announce it and Iinvite you to join me at least
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to start to understand thebasics of how creative energy
works.
How can you manage yourvaluable energy to do much
better, to have moreproductivity, and actually start
to feel yourself, start to feelthat divine, creative being
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that you are and start to feelthat you are the one that is
creating your own life and youare the one you're creating how
you feel.
In my program, there is a verysimple, practical tools that you
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can use in a moment to sleepthe negative, tired, exhausted
energy into the positive andcreative energy energy.
So I invite you to really payattention to that, because not
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only you're going to feel morelonely, not only your physical
body will start to show you moreand more signs.
You're going to feel very, verytired, exhausted.
You're going to feel very, verytired, exhausted.
You're going to lose focus.
You're not going to be able tohave that very sharp thinking
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process that can help you to dohigher effectiveness and
productivity in running yourbusiness.
All of these signs or all ofthese states that you're going
to face, are they not enough foryou to stop and think about it?
Are they not enough for you tostart to ask yourself these
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questions and say yes, yes, Iwould like to start to change
that.
I don't know how, but possiblyI can learn from someone who
already went on this road.
And I'm telling you, once youunderstand, once you start to do
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little practices and techniques, once you start to change that
program, that lion belief, thebelief that you formed through
your years of being ininstitutions and around our
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society's standards, you wouldbe amazed how much more energy
you would have, how much morefulfillment you would have
within and how much your life isgoing to be so vibrant.
It would be so alive.
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You will be feeling it and youwill be enjoying it.
You will be breathing fully.
You will be feeling theexcitement, the adventurous road
, adventurous journey the lifeis.
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It's not going to be so rigid.
You're going to be starting toreally feel yourself and when
you feel yourself, you will bemaking much better decisions for
yourself and others and yourbusiness.
I would like to finish with that.
So stay tuned in and look atAscara Principal Signature
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Program.
It's going to be run online andalso face-to-face, so stay
tuned in and I invite you tojoin me if you are the one that
I described.
Join me if you are the one thatI described, the one that is
goddess, beautiful, powerfulwoman, but you just confused a
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little bit and lost your track alittle bit.
Well, I can help you to getinto your lifeline and start to
live from the place of joy,abundance, happiness and total
balance.
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