Journey to Self-Discovery and Emotional Balance

Send us a text

Unlock the secrets of your true self and transform your life by breaking free from the character constructs that hold you back. Join me, Larissa Vakulina, on the Heart of Success show as we explore how these subconscious defense mechanisms, rooted in both childhood and past life experiences, shape our reality and obscure our genuine selves. We'll uncover the habitual reactions that create patterns of withdrawal, aggression, or appeasement and learn to dismantle these barriers to reveal the compassionate and creative beings we truly are. Embarking on this journey of self-discovery, you will be empowered to embrace your authentic potential and live from a place of divine creative power.

This episode promises a transformative experience as we guide you through the process of identifying and breaking the five types of character constructs that influence your life. As we delve into the cyclical emotional reactions that keep us stuck, you'll gain insights into achieving a state of balanced homeostasis. Stay tuned as I introduce my upcoming six-week program, "From Realized to Reset Path," designed to support your journey in dismantling these barriers and stepping into your true self. Transform your life, not from a place of defense, but from the heart of genuine, creative potential. Don't miss this opportunity to begin your path to self-knowledge and liberation.

Welcome to "The Heart of Success," where we redefine success with Larisa Vakulina – a multi-awarded entrepreneur, healer, and mentor.

Feeling unfulfilled despite your achievements? Larisa knows your journey. Each week, she shares powerful insights to help you blend professional success with personal fulfillment. Through her unique blend of business strategies and spiritual principles, you'll discover your true self and build a heart-aligned life.

Ready to transform your life?

Thank you for tuning in to "The Heart of Success"! If you enjoyed today’s episode, don’t forget to subscribe and share it with your friends. Let's spread the word and help more people find true fulfillment.

For more tips and resources, join my newsletter at LarisaVakulina.com. Stay connected, stay inspired, and remember, your success starts from the heart. Until next time, keep thriving and shining!

Support the show

Connect with me:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/askara_retreatcenter/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@larisa_vakulina?lang=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3635750353214310
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@larisavakulina2499/playlists
Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larisa-vakulina-7aaa15148/
Website: https://www.larisavakulina.com

Take The Happiness and Abundance Persona Style Quiz to find out what is your Happiness and Abundance Potential!
https://www.larisavakulina.com/haps-quiz

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hello everyone and happy Wednesday.
You are on the Heart of Successshow and I'm your host, larissa
Vakulina.
I go live every Wednesday at 2pm, south Australian time zone
and here on this show I'm tryingto uncover all the deepest
parts of ourselves, how we canlearn about ourselves a bit more

(00:25):
, understand ourselves and havethat self-knowledge that can
help us to create more successin our life and in all areas of
our life.
So today I decided to give youa little bit more deeper
overview on how we create in ourcharacters and how our

(00:51):
characters are actually a roadmap of who we are not, because
really a lot of peoplejustifying themselves saying,
well, this is my character, thisis who I am and that's
unchangeable.
And these people are vicious,cycling through their

(01:16):
experiences of life andbasically they just justify
themselves through using thatcharacter identity.
That is basically blockingourselves from becoming and
finding who you really are.

(01:37):
So, as you know, everything isenergy, energy is consciousness,
so we are energy consciousnessand everything around us is
energy consciousness, so ourenergy consciousness system or
our field goes into the defensewhen it cannot accommodate more

(02:00):
than the maximum level of power,so when we are actually out of
balance or when we are feeling,in the emotional reaction or
when we are in some sort ofunstable situation, the energy
that runs through our field isincreasing and eventually it

(02:23):
breaks a defense, like a circuitbreakage, right.
So each time you fall into theemotional reaction and each time
you are somehow defendingagainst some, some illusionary
threat or some kind ofconfronting situation, you're

(02:50):
running a risk to actually breakyour energy consciousness
system and you run the risk thatyour circuit breakage will fall
into that defensive mechanism,the defensive reaction, right.
It becomes so automatic and sohabitual that we don't even

(03:12):
notice that.
So the habits of defendingyourself in the challenging or
conflicting situations createcharacter construct, right?
That character construct thenshow up in our life in every
area of what we do, how webehave, how we think, and

(03:35):
basically that characterconstruct is something that is
protecting and defending againstsome kind of illusionary threat
or even the direct threat.
But normally our characterwe're living with that every day

(03:55):
.
We're meeting people, we'retalking, we're discussing, we're
doing things, and of course wehave some sort of disagreements
and we have some sort ofchallenging situations where
then our character start to playthe role defending our soft

(04:21):
center, our truthfulness of whowe are, that wound, that trauma
that we went through when we'vebeen children, and the origin of
the wound is actually not go toour childhood experiences and

(04:41):
the childhood pains, but it goesdeeper than that.
It goes into the phenomenacalled past lifehoods, right so?
And we create the characterconstruct exactly to protect
that soft pain of that wound andwe keep vicious cycling through

(05:06):
the experiences of everydaylife by facing, you know,
confronting situations, and wehave that character structure
that is defending and creatingthe survival mechanism so that
our soft center of that wound isnot exposed.

(05:29):
But in reality, the wound isactually your greatest gift.
This is the gift you came hereto express into the world and
the world needs your gift.
How can you express your giftif, by creating your character

(05:51):
construct, you're completelyprotecting and defending that
place in yourself of your energyfield that is not able to
accommodate the increased anddistorted energy that you're

(06:15):
running each time when youactually fall into the emotional
reaction?
So character construct thenbecome something who you are not
.
It rather becomes something whoyou are not.
It rather becomes you know it'snot truly who you are.

(06:37):
It becomes a very good andclean handle of how you can, a
clean handle and a roadmap ofhow you are not being who you
are.
It is a habitual pattern of howyou distort your energy flow
within your energy field andthen express it deeply,

(06:59):
believing that this is all thereis for you and this is who you
are.
And you're not even consideringthat having your having
exploration or examination ofyour character construct or your
character, will actually giveyou so much insight and so much

(07:21):
of information about who you'vebeen pretending to be all your
life.
So I'm really inviting you tolook at this tool.
It's the greatest tool that youcan have for opening up the.
I call it the treasure chest.
Open up that treasure chest ofwho you really are.

(07:44):
But the roadmap is yourcharacter, your character
construct, and there is fivetypes and categories of the
character constructs that all ofus adopt.
So some people are defendingthemselves in the challenging

(08:04):
situations by withdrawingthemselves from that.
Other people are defending andprotecting by attacking.
Other people are defending andprotecting themselves by
appeasing to other people'sopinions or ideas, and all of
this is really a construct ofyour structure, of the pattern

(08:30):
of your defense that is coveringyour true self.
So your character is actuallynot who you are, it's rather who
you are not.
And by learning and exploringthis area of your self, can give

(08:55):
you a very precise and very,very clear picture of how you
are covering your true selfthrough this character defensive
mechanisms and patterns.
Right, so your greatest gift isbehind your character.

(09:23):
So when you start to exploreand when you start to dig deeper
into that treasure chest ofyour character construct, you
will be amazed what you willfind behind that character
defensive mechanism.
You will find that brilliantyou, the powerful, strong,

(09:49):
curious, creative, compassionate, loving, amazing, awesome and
super intelligent and intuitiveyou that is actually having
within yourself all the time inyour wound of the childhood
consciousness, but because thethickness of your character

(10:14):
construct is defending andprotecting that place so
urgently, so strongly, thatyou're not having a chance to
meet your true self.
So, in order for you to startto open up that treasure chest

(10:35):
of your brilliance, you need tostart to look at your character
construct type and start tounwind all of these defensive
patterns and mechanisms thatyou're using to gloss over the
pain, the soft pain, of thechildhood consciousness.

(10:58):
And once you start to digthrough this character defensive
patterns and mechanisms, youwill be amazed who you will find
there.
So I invite you to consider toattend my program that I am

(11:19):
creating.
It's a six-week program calledFrom Realized to Reset Path, and
one of the lessons of this pathis the treasure chest quest,
which is exactly dealing withthe character structure of your

(11:40):
defensive mechanism.
And by going through thequizzes and answer all the
questions honestly, you willfind your category of your
character construct and then youwill unwind and deconstruct
that character.
That's going to open up thebrilliance of who you are.

(12:06):
And this process requirescommitment, it requires desire
to know yourself much betterthan you are knowing yourself
now and start to redefineyourself from that
identification with yourcharacter and become, identify

(12:29):
yourself with the reality of whoyou are.
And the reality of who you areis the most powerful divine
creator of your life, the mostpowerful being on this planet.
And so when you start todeconstruct your character and

(12:56):
start to see the map and theroad of how you actually read,
how you stole your own realityfrom yourself, how you glossed
over and cover up of who youreally are with that character

(13:19):
construct, you will be reallyhappy with discovery, will be
really happy with discovery andyou will break that vicious
cycle of going into theemotional reaction, have the
breakage of your circuit andthen you will touch that soft

(13:42):
pain and you will contract andyou will run away again from
yourself from processing theblocks, from healing this
destructive character patternand defenses.
You will finally return backagain into that imbalanced
hemostasis and until next timeyou run again into the emotional

(14:17):
reaction and run that risk toactivate the circuit of the
breakage of your energy fielddeeper into your character and
find which character constructyou actually adopted out of five
of them.
This is one of my lessons in myupcoming six-week program that

(14:40):
will be helping and assistingyou and guiding you through the
process of discovering who youreally are and how you then can
reset and recreate your lifefrom that powerful place of your

(15:03):
divine creative power ratherthan from that vicious cycles of
defensive character construct.
So thank you so much for beingwith me here today and I will
come back again next week togive you some more tips on my

(15:28):
program.
And I just will give you alittle bit of a snapshot on the
program and what it is involvedand how it is developing, so
that you can have at least someidea of what this program can
give you and how and who you canbecome and how your life can be

(15:50):
improved if you take thiscourse.
Thank you so much.