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March 9, 2024 84 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow Sex Coach Nicole onto the podcast to discuss Black fetishization. Some of the topics discussed include not seeing enough Black people in sexual spaces, following the white script, narratives surrounding Black sexuality, and identity politics of Black sexuality. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

What comes to mind when you hear the word “pleasure”? Looking to expand your toy knowledge beyond that bullet vibrator collecting dust in your drawer? There's always something new you can learn about sexual health and sexuality. Nicole is a Sex Coach and Educator and a Bedroom Kandi Consultant. She helps many find what they want, what their partners want, and how to figure that out. Her purpose is to provide you with the skill and resources to help guide and maybe even transform your sex life. Her classes and events will encourage you to explore different areas of your sex life and help to heighten your pleasure. You can connect with Nicole via her website (https://www.melanatedvixxen.com/) or Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/melanated_vixxen/).

 

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Crisis and Psychological Resources

Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network

  1. https://www.rainn.org

  2. 800-656-HOPE (4673)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

  1. https://www.988lifeline.org

  2. 800-273-TALK (8255)

  3. Text or call 988

National Domestic Violence Hotline

  1. https://www.thehotline.org

  2. 800-799-7233

  3. Text START to 88788

Find A Therapist

  1. American Psychological Association (https://www.apa.org/topics/crisis-hotlines)

  2. Psychology Today (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/family-marital)

  3. Therapist Locator (https://www.therapistlocator.net/)

Access additional resources on Open Counseling (https://blog.opencounseling.com/hotlines-us/)

  1. Open Counseling also has a list of International Hotlines (https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines/)

 

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