We covered everything this week on Higher Valleys — from flag football to fallout shelters.
In this episode, Spencer & Jelani unpack what it means to raise confident, self-led kids while navigating the pressures of youth sports, legacy, and a world that feels more chaotic by the day.
From first football practices and childhood goggles to NIL deals, $8 million transfer offers, and the realities of a world on the brink of global conflict — it’s all on the table.
In This Episode:
- The hilarious reality of seeing your kid’s first football practice
- Spencer’s legendary sports goggles & Jelani’s neck roll confession
- Should we coach our own kids? The push-pull of being Dad vs. Coach
- The case for not playing tackle football until high school
- How karate & backyard wrestling shaped our athletic foundation
- Breaking down the $8 million NIL story out of South Carolina
- The hard truth about modern college sports & capitalism
- Preparing our kids for confidence—not just success
- When the world feels like it’s on fire: war, politics, and being present
- Why community & curiosity matter more than ever
Quotables:
“We don’t own our kids. Our job is to guide them.”
– Jelani
“It’s not mental errors… it’s mental elasticity.”
– Spencer
“You can teach key skills without ramming your child’s head into another child’s head.”
– Jelani
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