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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So it feels like we're in a transactional era. Now
we are for my time, You need to give me
some money. I think a lot of women that didn't
have fathers think like that.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
If you don't like the.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Man, no matter how much he makes, no matter what
social status he has, let's not deal with that person.
Let's not waste his time on yours. But staying in
a situation because you think that you have something financially
the game, you are making yourself into a class a prostitute.
So you think connection is secondary to currency. I think
(00:33):
what a lot of women it is right now. And
it seems like men too, with that whole Shannon Short thing,
because if you're leading with your money, you are saying
your currency is above the connection with the person. Well,
if a man knows this is what makes this woman go,
why wouldn't he A man that has money can make
(00:53):
more money. A man of value gives his time to
things that he cares about, not his money. If you
want to know if a man of value really cares
about you, does he give you his time? That is
the highest form of currency that a man has. It's
the one thing that we got that we can't get
back once we defend it, right, and you'll never have
(01:14):
more of it. You only have a pre and testing
a predestined amount of it in our lifetime, and.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
We gave some to you. We can't ever recoup that money.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You think that this thing that I can flip at
any point in time is me showing you that I like.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
You, No, bitch, this is a piece.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Of paper right with my time, I'm giving you a
part of my life, and a lot of women just
it just go over the heads.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
It's a lifestyle style to me.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Man, it's a bitch sucking dick right now cheating on
her man that love her man, right, But respect is
not going to allow that woman to do that.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
It's a woman cheating on her man right now.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
She love her man and she cheating on him with
the next nigga, right, But if she respected her man,
she wouldn't even look that man way. So how the
hell can I feel love if you don't respect me?
Because at any point of time, that respect the fact
that you value this man and you respect this man so.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Much that I would never do that tomorrow. I would
never move around like that with my man. So love
is for her, hat respect for me.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Man, Next, Bro, you know what's crazy about it?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Bro? The only people that really love me and unconditionally
is our malmas. Indeed, you think about I believe that, Bro.
The only person that love us unconditionally is our mama.
Whether we locked up, broke, rich, don't matter, fucked up,
ugly our mama and your kids from age one to
shore six seven.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
You know, men don't.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Get unconditional love right, right, And you gotta understand that
even with the kids, that mother can turn them away
from you.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
S it. You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Yeah, a man's love, I love is more. I love
is unconditional, right, Because if I love this woman, I
don't care how much money she makes.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
No, I don't care. I don't care what she brings.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
You know, Yeah, I love her because of the way
she makes me feel. I don't really have a lot
of Uh, there's not a lot of value. My life's
not going to change day one when I get this girl.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I love of right.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
On the other hand, with women, their love is conditional,
conditional on the fact that you can provide, protect me,
make me feel special, take me on vacations, give me
a house to feed, Get put some money in my pocket,
get my nails done.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
And guess what if you are if you.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Go an extended period of time and when a woman
feels uncomfortable, see how quick she how quick they love?
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Don't make sense so much?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, so I feel like we're in a transactional era.
Real now we are? You know what I'm saying, for
my time, you need to give me some money. That's
pretty much a lot of women, I think a lot
of when that, uh, they didn't have fathers think like
that where they equate their bodies and their their affections
(04:12):
with a transaction.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yeah, it's a prostitution.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I mean, yeah, it's time for money, right, so so
and given, let me keep it all the way with funky.
Every man pays for it in some shape form of fashion.
Every woman sells it in some shape form of fashion.
And then when it gets to the point where this
man likes this woman enough where he don't want her
to give it to nobody else, he pays for her to.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Put it up and don't give it to nobody else.
But what I'm saying is it's up front.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Now, right, You see what I'm saying with with with
love and the relationships.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I like you, you like me. Let's make this shit
work together.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I'm gonna be the best man for you, you be
the best woman for me, and we're gonna live happily
ever happen. And today's climate, it's, uh, you want my time,
you want me to go out with you, pay me,
you want some policy payment, you want it?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Pay me, pay me, pay me.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
And then they get upset when a man does not
respect them like a wife, when you are acting like
a harlot, right Google Harlot. Yeah, you see what I'm saying,
and so you know it's it's a lot of transactional
daity on both ends. Though I can't. I can't just
put it on the women, you know what I'm saying
as much as I can't just with me. Because we
just seen Shannon Shaw. I ain't to say it like that,
but he was transactionally dating. Yeah, just keep it bot
(05:27):
he's with his money, hey man, attend, what do you say?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Ten twenty five of cheek. He was playing with the money,
led with the money. So if you leave with.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
The money with the women, I will say this, the
women gonna you know, if you come to a woman
leading with money and not leading with your personality. You
can't blame her for God damn cake and the check nigga.
You can You ain't come a person that I ain't
coming to you as a nice nigga. I came to
you as an ATM debit card or a credit card.
You can't present yourself to hers. Nothing else after that.
So if she she wanted the bag, she wants the bag.
(05:56):
But in the same sense, if the man if I'm
but a lot of women have that have had, they
look for that now they don't even want the guy
that comes to you with character, with dignity, with respect,
with love, you know what I'm saying, with intents to
do something. Oh he oh well he oh, he broke.
He just don't want to spend no money. No, I'm
trying to show you who I am as a person.
(06:17):
And because because I have way more value with myself
than just with my pocket.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
My pocket is the least of my value.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Maybe I can, maybe I can have a twenty minute
conversation with you and teach you how to be a
millionaire because I taught myself.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
No, that's some value you're talking about. Baby.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
You're jumping over a dollar trying to pick up a
penny because it's shiny. Most men of value, most men
that have money, give money away to things that they
want to go away. Women thinking, if that man comes
to you and he's giving you money off top, it's
not because he likes you, it's because he ready for
your ass to lead.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
You to lead.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
We pay women to lead, We don't pay him to
come right. You see what I'm saying. And so a
lot of women think that, oh way, he give me money,
so he must really fuck with me. No, it's your
it's just not your turn right now. He ready for
you to go right. And so I wish that women would.
I wish we could get back to a more just
a more genuine space in the dating market or whatever,
(07:15):
where it's.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Like, do you like this man?
Speaker 1 (07:17):
If you don't like the man, no matter how much
he makes, no matter what social status he has, let's
not deal with that person. Let's not waste his time
on yours. But staying in a situation because you think
that you have something financially the game, you are making
yourself into a class a prostitute. So you'd think connection
(07:38):
is secondary to currency. I think what a lot of
women it is right now? And it seemed like men
too with that whole Shannon short thing, because if you're
leading with your money, you are saying your currency is
above the connection with the person. Well, if a man
knows this is what makes this woman go, why withn't
he A man that has money can make more money.
(08:03):
It's the cheapest thing in the world. So if I
don't have to put a man of value gives his
time to things that he cares about, not his money
a person, A man of value makes money. He has
a money machine of business. He has money coming in,
so he has a pretty much unlimited supply of this.
He got plenty of money, so he can throw money
(08:24):
at things to make it go away. But if you
want to know if a man of value really cares
about you, does he give you his time? Because that's
the fat. That is the highest form of currency that
a man has. It's the one thing that we got
that we can't get back. Once we spend it, you
can't ever get it back, and you'll never have more
(08:46):
of it. You only have a pre and testing a
predestined amount of it in our lifetime.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
And we gave some to you. We can't ever recoup
that money.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
I can literally take a dollar and make it to
make and get it pregnant and make it make too
And you think that this thing that I can flip
at any point in time is me showing you that
I like you. No, bitch, this is a piece of
paper right with my time, I'm giving you a part
of my life. And a lot of women just it
just go over their head, right because they are so
(09:17):
consumed with that piece of paper.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Right crazy percent.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
And I think that's how we got to the point
where it seemed like men with ninety fives are looked
down upon them days, you know what I'm saying. And
I feel like that man like you're gonna put a
scamera over a man that got a nine to five
working you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
It's like.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
The conversations I have with women about men that have
stable jobs is h's saddening.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
It's almost like they despise the ninety five men, wow.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
And majority at the time. And once again, I think
it all goes with upbringing. I think it all goes
with having that father in the household, because you know,
I had a pop and I remember, you know, when
I was when I was going to school, my daddy
was leaving for work. When I got back from school,
he was still gone. And you know, later on at
(10:19):
night he would come back from work at night. Literally
it was dark when he left out for work and
dark when he came in. My father was one of
the hardest working men I've ever seen, and so to
see that, you know, it gives me another different respect.
But if a woman's never seen that because in Mama
ran them mouse or or or you know, the daddy
(10:39):
won't around. Because it's always two sides of that spirit, right.
The mother never tells the daughter, Hey, I did I
fucked up by your daddy, and you know that's one
of the reasons why we didn't make it, because I
did some wrong too.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
They just tell the part where the daddy messed up.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Right, And so if a woman has a chance, an
opportunity to see an example of a real man up
close and personal for an extended period of time, I
think that she is less likely to take that type
of contempt to a man with a nine to five
if she's seen her father, seeing a positive male role
model in her life, and a lot of a woman
haven't sorry story podcasts.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
More than the part.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
It's a lifestyle like style style
So it feels like we're in a transactional era. Now
we are for my time, You need to give me
some money. I think a lot of women that didn't
have fathers think like that.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
If you don't like the.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Man, no matter how much he makes, no matter what
social status he has, let's not deal with that person.
Let's not waste his time on yours. But staying in
a situation because you think that you have something financially
the game, you are making yourself into a class a prostitute.
So you think connection is secondary to currency. I think
(00:33):
what a lot of women it is right now. And
it seems like men too, with that whole Shannon Short thing,
because if you're leading with your money, you are saying
your currency is above the connection with the person. Well,
if a man knows this is what makes this woman go,
why wouldn't he A man that has money can make
(00:53):
more money. A man of value gives his time to
things that he cares about, not his money. If you
want to know if a man of value really cares
about you, does he give you his time? That is
the highest form of currency that a man has. It's
the one thing that we got that we can't get
back once we defend it, right, and you'll never have
(01:14):
more of it. You only have a pre and testing
a predestined amount of it in our lifetime, and.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
We gave some to you. We can't ever recoup that money.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You think that this thing that I can flip at
any point in time is me showing you that I like.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
You, No, bitch, this is a piece.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Of paper right with my time, I'm giving you a
part of my life, and a lot of women just
it just go over the heads.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
It's a lifestyle style to me.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Man, it's a bitch sucking dick right now cheating on
her man that love her man, right, But respect is
not going to allow that woman to do that.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
It's a woman cheating on her man right now.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
She love her man and she cheating on him with
the next nigga, right, But if she respected her man,
she wouldn't even look that man way. So how the
hell can I feel love if you don't respect me?
Because at any point of time, that respect the fact
that you value this man and you respect this man so.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Much that I would never do that tomorrow. I would
never move around like that with my man. So love
is for her, hat respect for me.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Man, Next, Bro, you know what's crazy about it?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Bro? The only people that really love me and unconditionally
is our malmas. Indeed, you think about I believe that, Bro.
The only person that love us unconditionally is our mama.
Whether we locked up, broke, rich, don't matter, fucked up,
ugly our mama and your kids from age one to
shore six seven.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
You know, men don't.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Get unconditional love right, right, And you gotta understand that
even with the kids, that mother can turn them away
from you.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
S it. You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Yeah, a man's love, I love is more. I love
is unconditional, right, Because if I love this woman, I
don't care how much money she makes.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
No, I don't care. I don't care what she brings.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
You know, Yeah, I love her because of the way
she makes me feel. I don't really have a lot
of Uh, there's not a lot of value. My life's
not going to change day one when I get this girl.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
I love of right.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
On the other hand, with women, their love is conditional,
conditional on the fact that you can provide, protect me,
make me feel special, take me on vacations, give me
a house to feed, Get put some money in my pocket,
get my nails done.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
And guess what if you are if you.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Go an extended period of time and when a woman
feels uncomfortable, see how quick she how quick they love?
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Don't make sense so much?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, so I feel like we're in a transactional era.
Real now we are? You know what I'm saying, for
my time, you need to give me some money. That's
pretty much a lot of women, I think a lot
of when that, uh, they didn't have fathers think like
that where they equate their bodies and their their affections
(04:12):
with a transaction.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yeah, it's a prostitution.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I mean, yeah, it's time for money, right, so so
and given, let me keep it all the way with funky.
Every man pays for it in some shape form of fashion.
Every woman sells it in some shape form of fashion.
And then when it gets to the point where this
man likes this woman enough where he don't want her
to give it to nobody else, he pays for her to.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Put it up and don't give it to nobody else.
But what I'm saying is it's up front.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Now, right, You see what I'm saying with with with
love and the relationships.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I like you, you like me. Let's make this shit
work together.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I'm gonna be the best man for you, you be
the best woman for me, and we're gonna live happily
ever happen. And today's climate, it's, uh, you want my time,
you want me to go out with you, pay me,
you want some policy payment, you want it?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Pay me, pay me, pay me.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
And then they get upset when a man does not
respect them like a wife, when you are acting like
a harlot, right Google Harlot. Yeah, you see what I'm saying,
and so you know it's it's a lot of transactional
daity on both ends. Though I can't. I can't just
put it on the women, you know what I'm saying
as much as I can't just with me. Because we
just seen Shannon Shaw. I ain't to say it like that,
but he was transactionally dating. Yeah, just keep it bot
(05:27):
he's with his money, hey man, attend, what do you say?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Ten twenty five of cheek. He was playing with the money,
led with the money. So if you leave with.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
The money with the women, I will say this, the
women gonna you know, if you come to a woman
leading with money and not leading with your personality. You
can't blame her for God damn cake and the check nigga.
You can You ain't come a person that I ain't
coming to you as a nice nigga. I came to
you as an ATM debit card or a credit card.
You can't present yourself to hers. Nothing else after that.
So if she she wanted the bag, she wants the bag.
(05:56):
But in the same sense, if the man if I'm
but a lot of women have that have had, they
look for that now they don't even want the guy
that comes to you with character, with dignity, with respect,
with love, you know what I'm saying, with intents to
do something. Oh he oh well he oh, he broke.
He just don't want to spend no money. No, I'm
trying to show you who I am as a person.
(06:17):
And because because I have way more value with myself
than just with my pocket.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
My pocket is the least of my value.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Maybe I can, maybe I can have a twenty minute
conversation with you and teach you how to be a
millionaire because I taught myself.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
No, that's some value you're talking about. Baby.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
You're jumping over a dollar trying to pick up a
penny because it's shiny. Most men of value, most men
that have money, give money away to things that they
want to go away. Women thinking, if that man comes
to you and he's giving you money off top, it's
not because he likes you, it's because he ready for
your ass to lead.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
You to lead.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
We pay women to lead, We don't pay him to
come right. You see what I'm saying. And so a
lot of women think that, oh way, he give me money,
so he must really fuck with me. No, it's your
it's just not your turn right now. He ready for
you to go right. And so I wish that women would.
I wish we could get back to a more just
a more genuine space in the dating market or whatever,
(07:15):
where it's.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Like, do you like this man?
Speaker 1 (07:17):
If you don't like the man, no matter how much
he makes, no matter what social status he has, let's
not deal with that person. Let's not waste his time
on yours. But staying in a situation because you think
that you have something financially the game, you are making
yourself into a class a prostitute. So you'd think connection
(07:38):
is secondary to currency. I think what a lot of
women it is right now? And it seemed like men
too with that whole Shannon short thing, because if you're
leading with your money, you are saying your currency is
above the connection with the person. Well, if a man
knows this is what makes this woman go, why withn't
he A man that has money can make more money.
(08:03):
It's the cheapest thing in the world. So if I
don't have to put a man of value gives his
time to things that he cares about, not his money
a person, A man of value makes money. He has
a money machine of business. He has money coming in,
so he has a pretty much unlimited supply of this.
He got plenty of money, so he can throw money
(08:24):
at things to make it go away. But if you
want to know if a man of value really cares
about you, does he give you his time? Because that's
the fat. That is the highest form of currency that
a man has. It's the one thing that we got
that we can't get back. Once we spend it, you
can't ever get it back, and you'll never have more
(08:46):
of it. You only have a pre and testing a
predestined amount of it in our lifetime.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
And we gave some to you. We can't ever recoup
that money.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
I can literally take a dollar and make it to
make and get it pregnant and make it make too
And you think that this thing that I can flip
at any point in time is me showing you that
I like you. No, bitch, this is a piece of
paper right with my time, I'm giving you a part
of my life. And a lot of women just it
just go over their head, right because they are so
(09:17):
consumed with that piece of paper.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Right crazy percent.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
And I think that's how we got to the point
where it seemed like men with ninety fives are looked
down upon them days, you know what I'm saying. And
I feel like that man like you're gonna put a
scamera over a man that got a nine to five
working you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
It's like.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
The conversations I have with women about men that have
stable jobs is h's saddening.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
It's almost like they despise the ninety five men, wow.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
And majority at the time. And once again, I think
it all goes with upbringing. I think it all goes
with having that father in the household, because you know,
I had a pop and I remember, you know, when
I was when I was going to school, my daddy
was leaving for work. When I got back from school,
he was still gone. And you know, later on at
(10:19):
night he would come back from work at night. Literally
it was dark when he left out for work and
dark when he came in. My father was one of
the hardest working men I've ever seen, and so to
see that, you know, it gives me another different respect.
But if a woman's never seen that because in Mama
ran them mouse or or or you know, the daddy
(10:39):
won't around. Because it's always two sides of that spirit, right.
The mother never tells the daughter, Hey, I did I
fucked up by your daddy, and you know that's one
of the reasons why we didn't make it, because I
did some wrong too.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
They just tell the part where the daddy messed up.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Right, And so if a woman has a chance, an
opportunity to see an example of a real man up
close and personal for an extended period of time, I
think that she is less likely to take that type
of contempt to a man with a nine to five
if she's seen her father, seeing a positive male role
model in her life, and a lot of a woman
haven't sorry story podcasts.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
More than the part.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
It's a lifestyle like style style
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