Why Love Can Be A Selfish Emotion, Men are only Loved Unconditionally by their mother, Mindset of Fatherless women and more with Ugly Money

Why Love Can Be A Selfish Emotion, Men are only Love Unconditionally by their mother, Mindset of Fatherless women and more with Ugly Money Niche!
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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Love is a selfish emotion. Love will get you killed
for sure, right love. Love is a lot of love
and jealousy. Love is a selfish emotion because a lot
of times people when people love something, they feel entitled
to it and they feel a sense of ownership to it.

(00:21):
You feel what I'm saying, Like a way a mother
loves her child, that's her child, right, you know what
I'm saying, Oh, I love this car, it's your car,
and so it's a certain it's a very selfish emotion.
If we love our woman because it's our woman, or
it's she loves a man because it's her man, it's
a very selfish emotion. I'm not saying that love is bad,

(00:42):
but just understand that when someone tells you that they
love you, a lot of times they are saying that
you're theirs. When a woman tell you she loves you,
she's saying that you mind, hey, be careful, and guess
what if you don't want to be hers. The other
side of love is hate. It's a thin line between

(01:04):
the two. So she loves me because I want to
be with her, because I want to be her man.
But the moment that I don't want to fall in
between those guidelines. At any point in time, she can flip. Yeah, yeah,
for sure. That's why a lot of times when we
see those relationships that don't work and they got kids,
that a lady can be respiteful. Also, a man can
be spiteful. But maybe because that love turned off and

(01:27):
that thin line is crossed. Now, I hate you for
not loving me. Bro, Listen to me, man, it's a
bitch sucking dick right now cheating on her man that
love her man, right, but respect is not going to
allow that woman to do that. It's a woman cheating
on her man right now. She love her man and
she cheating on him with the next nigga, right, But
if she respected her man, she wouldn't even look that

(01:49):
man way. So how the hell can I feel love
if you don't respect me? Because at any point of time,
that respect, the fact that you value this man, You
respect this man so much that I would never do
that tomorrow. I would never move right like that with
my man. So love is for her, hat respect is
for me. You know what I'm saying. Man? Next lip Bro,

(02:10):
you know what's crazy about it? Bro? The only people
that really love me and unconditionally is our mamas. Indeed,
you think about I believe that, bro the only person
that love us unconditionally is our mama. Whether we locked up, broke, rich,
don't matter, fucked up, ugly, our mama and your kids
from age one to sure six seven. You know, men

(02:33):
don't get unconditional love right, right, And you gotta understand
that even with the kids, the mother can turn them
away from you. About saying it, You see what I'm saying. Yeah,
a man's love, I love is more. I love is unconditional,
right because if I love this woman, I don't care
how much money she makes. No, I don't care. I

(02:53):
don't care what she brings. You know, Yeah, I love
her because of the way she makes me. I don't
really have a lot of Uh, there's not a lot
of value. My life's not going to change day one
when I get this girl. I love all. On the
other hand, with women, their love is conditional condition on
the fact that you can provide, protect me, make me

(03:16):
feel special, take me on vacations, give me a house
to feed, get put some money in my pocket, get
my nails done. And guess what if you if you
go an extended period of time and when a woman
feels uncomfortable. See how quick she how quick they love
don't make sense much. Yeah, so it feels like we're

(03:37):
in a transactional era. Now we are. You know what
I'm saying, for my time, you need to give me
some money. That's pretty much a lot of women, I think,
a lot of women that they didn't have fathers think
like that, where they equate their bodies in their their

(03:57):
affections with a transaction. Yeah, it's a prostitution. I mean, yeah,
it's time for money, right, so so and given, let
me keep it all the way with funky. Every man
pays for it in some shape form of fashion. Every
woman sells it in some shape form of fashion. And
then when it gets to the point where this man
likes this woman enough where he don't want her to

(04:18):
give it to nobody else, he pays for her to
put it up and don't give it to nobody else.
But what I'm saying is it's up front now right.
You see what I'm saying With with with love and
the relationships, I like you, you like me. Let's make this
shit work together. I'm gonna be the best man for you.
You be the best woman for me, And we're gonna
live happily ever happener and today's climate, it's, uh, you

(04:43):
want my time, you want me to go out with you,
pay me, you want some pussy, pay me, you want it?
Pay me, pay me, pay me. And then they get
upset when a man does not respect them like a wife,
when you are acting like a harlot. Google harlot. You
see what I'm saying, and so you know it's it's
a lot of transactional daity on both ends. Though I can't.
I can't just put it on the women. You know

(05:04):
what I'm saying as much as I can't just with
me because we just seen Shannon Shaw. I ain't to
say it like that, but he was transactionally dating. Yeah,
just keep it. I bought he's with his money. Hey man,
attend what do he say, tens twenty five or cheek?
He was playing with the money, led with the money.
So if you leave with the money with the women,
I will say this, and women gonna You know, if

(05:25):
you come to a woman leading with money and not
leading with your personality, you can't blame her for god
damn cake and the check, nigga, you can you ain't
come with a person that I ain't come to you
as a nice nigga. I came to you as an
ATM debit card or a credit card. You can't present
yourself to her as nothing else after that. So if
she she wanted the bag, she wants the bag. But
in the same sense, if the men, if a man,

(05:46):
but a lot of women have that have had had,
they look for that now right. They don't even want
the guy that comes to you with with character, with dignity,
with respect, with love. You know what I'm saying, with
intense to do something. Oh he oh well he oh,
he broke. He just don't want to spend no money. No,
I'm trying to show you who I am as a person.
And because because I have way more value with myself

(06:08):
than just with my pocket. My pocket is the least
of my value. Maybe I can, maybe I can have
a twenty minute conversation with you and teach you how
to be a millionaire because I taught myself. No, that's
some value you're talking about. Baby. You're jumping over a dollar,
trying to pick up a penny because it's shiny. Most
men of value, most men that have money give money

(06:28):
away to things that they want to go away. Women
thinking if that man comes to you and he's giving
you money off top, it's not because he likes you,
it's because he ready for your ass to lead. Lead.
We pay women to lead, We don't pay him to
come right, you see what I'm saying. And so a
lot of women think that, ol, way, he give me money,

(06:49):
so he must really fuck with me. No, it's your
it's just not your turn right now. He ready for
you to go right. And so I wish that women would.
I wish we could get back to a more just
some more genuine space in the dating market or whatever,
where it's like, do you like this man? If you
don't like the man, no matter how much he makes,
no matter what social status he has, let's not deal

(07:09):
with that person. Let's not waste his time and yours.
But staying in a situation because you think that you
have something financially the game, you are making yourself into
a class a prostitute. So you would think connection is
secondary to currency. I think what a lot of women
it is right now, And it seems like men too,

(07:31):
with that whole Shannon Short thing, Because if you're leading
with your money, you are saying your currency is above
the connection with the person. Well, if a man knows
this is what makes this woman go, why wouldn't he.
A man that has money can make more money. It's
the cheapest thing in the world. So if I don't

(07:52):
have to put A man of value gives his time
to things that he cares about, not his money. A person,
a man of value makes money. He has a money
machine of business. He has money coming in, so he
has a pretty much unlimited supply of this. He got
plenty of money. So we can throw money at things
to make it go away. But you, if you want

(08:14):
to know if a man of value really cares about you,
does he give you his time? Because that's the fat.
That is the highest form of currency that a man has.
It's the one thing that we got that we can't
get back. Once we defend it, you can't ever get
it back, and you'll never have more of it. We
only have a pre and testing a predestined amount of

(08:36):
it in our lifetime, and we gave some to you.
We can't ever recoup that money. I can literally take
a dollar and make it to make and get it
pregnant and make it make too. And you think that
this thing that I can flip at any point in time.
Is me showing you that I like you, No bitch,
this is a piece of paper with my time, I'm

(08:57):
giving you a part of my life. A lot of
women just it just go over their head, right because
they are so consumed with that piece of paper right,
crazy on undred percent. And I think that's how we
got to the point where it seemed like men with
nine to fives are looked down upon them days, you
know what I'm saying. And I feel like that man

(09:18):
like you're gonna put a scamera over a man that
got a nine to five working you know what I'm saying.
It's like the conversations I have with women about men
that have stable jobs is uh, it's saddening. It's almost

(09:38):
like they despise the ninety five men, wow and majority
of the time. And once again, I think it all
goes with upbringing. I think it all goes with having
that father in the household, because you know, I had
a pop and I remember, you know, when I was

(09:58):
when I was going to school, my daddy was leaving
for work. When I got back from school, he was
still gone. And you know, later on at night he
would come back from work at night. Literally it was
dark when he left out for work and dark when
he came in. My father was one of the hardest
working men I've ever seen, and so to see that,
you know, it gives me another different respect. But if

(10:19):
a woman's never seen that because in mam ran them
mouse or or you know, the daddy won't around. Because
it's always two sides of that spell it right. The
mother never tells the daughter, hey, I did I fucked
up by your daddy, and you know that's one of
the reasons why we didn't make it, because I did
some wrong too. They just tell the part where the
daddy messed up, right, And so if a woman hasn't
chance an opportunity to see an example of a real

(10:41):
man up close and personal for an extended period of time,
I think that she is less likely to take that
type of contempt to a man with a nine to
five if she's seen her father, seen a positive male
role model in her life, and a lot of a
woman haven't. Yeah, yeah, for sure, So sure I agree
with that.