Stop Loving People Who Need You Small

We love to say someone broke our heart. But what if the truth is we broke our own by staying in places that required us to shrink.

In this episode, we unpack how undefined centers in Human Design, especially the Heart/Ego, Identity, Sacral, and Emotional centers, lead high-achieving women into patterns of overgiving, proving, and staying where they are only loved if they stay small.

You will hear the story of how I opened myself back up to someone who had already shown me they could not hold me, and how my need to be seen made me betray myself. And we will name the deeper truth.

It was not love. It was recognition hunger mixed with unprocessed conditioning.

This episode is a call-out and a call-in for every woman who keeps showing up for family, lovers, and friendships that only value her when she is performing.

If this is landing in your chest, your gut, your bones, you do not have to keep repeating this pattern.

This is the exact work we do inside The House of TAH.

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If you know this is your season to move different, get on the waitlist today.

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In this episode, we discuss: 

• What happens when your undefined centers pull you into staying small
• How overgiving, proving, and performing get mistaken for love
• Why “recognition hunger” keeps high-achieving women in unsafe relationships
• The story of what happens when you reopen a door that should have stayed closed
• How Human Design helps you break the cycle of self-betrayal

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