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August 1, 2025 • 23 mins
Some cats cry incessantly, leaving owners worried and frustrated. As a shelter volunteer, I've witnessed owners surrendering their pets out of desperation. But there's hope! Tapas Fleming, a pioneer in Energy Psychology with over 30 years of experience in Tapas Acupressure Technique (TAT), explains that crying in cats can often be resolved. Many are sensitive to negative energy patterns, which can cause distress. In this episode, Tapas shares transformative stories of animals whose lives improved after removing these energy blocks. Plus, she works with my dog, Sophia, tackling her physical and behavioral issues. Witness Sophia's relief after just one session addressing energetic disruptions. Curious if your pet is affected by similar disturbances? Don't miss this enlightening episode.

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
This is Pet Life Radio.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Let's talk pets.

Speaker 1 (00:07):
Welcome to the Human Animal Connection Show, where we believe
we can communicate with all animals. Join us as we
explore the thirty three principles and healing methods of the
Human Animal Connection. As animal lovers, we know that you
share our commitment to making the world a kinder place
for all creatures. Together, let's embrace the transformative healing power

(00:29):
of the Human Animal Connection.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Hello everyone, Welcome to the Human Animal Connection Podcast. I'm
so glad you're with us today because I'm speaking to
a really fun new friend, Tapis Fleming, and she's a
pioneer in energy psychology. She created a system called TAT
and it's a way to help people and the animals
dissolve stress and trauma and live happier every day. And

(00:56):
we all know there's a lot of trauma going on
in the world for both people in animals, so it's
really timely that we're talking about this. So welcome Tapisan
you thanks so much for having me on. Yeah. So
I know I've heard people talk about their cats and
even their dogs crying, but I think we're going to
really focus on the cats. We'll get to the dogs

(01:17):
we can, but because I know that is I've heard
this that people say, my cat is crying all the time,
and it's not fun. It's not fun to feel like
your cat's in distress and to not know what it is.
And you know, people go to the vets, and the
vets go I don't see anything here that it would
explain this. So tell us about maybe some of the
hidden reasons that a cat might be crying, and then

(01:38):
we'll explore some of your stories, what people you've helped.
Sure thing, Well, because I've been doing this kind of
work for over thirty years, I've developed an ability to
see extra information. And what I'm seeing about cats is
that oftentimes they have something that's projected into their energy field.

(02:03):
So for them, it's like there's this constant movie going
on that can feel threatening. And I don't know if
it's because of Wi Fi or what's happening, but they
are tuned into something that can be scary. They can
feel like they're being attacked somehow. It's just hurting them.

(02:25):
And to my vision, it looks like a portion of
their body is just energetically disturbed, so it can be
like from their waist up it's totally out of connection
with the rest of their bodies, so all of the
natural flows of communication can't happen, and so that's distressing.

(02:50):
And now would you say in that situation that the
cat is in physical pain or more energetic pain or both, Well,
how would you assess that. I'd assess it is both. Okay,
certainly emotional too. Yeah. Yeah. I became aware of it
when one client asked me to work with their two

(03:10):
cats who are both crying. She said, yeah, I know
of ten cats right now that friend zone that are crying,
and everybody's talking about it. So it's I don't know
where it comes from, but it's there and it's in
my experience so far, transformable in one session usually. So

(03:31):
do you think it's the Wi fi or is that
just one possibility? I mean, I know you mentioned that,
so I think that's, you know, quite interesting to discuss. Yeah, well,
it's definitely some kind of electromagnetic field, but cats especially
are picking up on and it affects the different cats

(03:52):
in different ways, and parts of their bodies can be affected. Okay, great.
He worked with a cat named Felix. Tell us about
Felix and what was going on with him. And how
you helped. Sure that was the cat I was just
talking about, And the owner was saying she felt so distressed,

(04:13):
she was actually thinking of rehoming Felix because it's so
causes so much distress to not be able to help.
So what I saw with Felix was he looked like
there was as if a green presence in the color
of how computer screens used to look back in the day.

(04:35):
If anyone who listening is old enough to remember that
kind of sick, I remember en, okay, that sick green color.
It was as though there was a presence on his back.
It kind of looked like a hologram, you know, so
you can see through it, but it's there. And he
just kept looking around, trying to find who or what

(04:58):
was attacking him and being distressed. You can see from
his face he's a hunter kind of a cat. Anyway,
when it just took maybe ten minutes for me to
do what I call a cat skin, that's just I'm
looking at their energetic field, seeing what's going on. And

(05:19):
I saw this, and so I just the owner did
the tat heart pose on Felix's behalf, and I said,
the whole tat steps and then he was fine. He
started looking around the house for where's that attacker? But
he was fine. He stopped crying. Okay, so some of

(05:44):
our folks will be listening to us and can't see this,
but could you describe the heart pose, the tat heart
pose that you used. Oh sure, sure, yep. So it's
just one hand palm down over near your heart midline
and the other hand palm so it's palm over palm Okay, like,

(06:07):
uh yeah, statues and pictures of saints look, yes, now yeah,
the hands over the heart, yes, like over palm over
the heart. But center, yeah, center a chest yeah, yeah, excellent.
And what does it do for the human to be
in this post? What is happening energetically? I'm doing it now,
you're doing it. What's happening as we do? This feels good,

(06:31):
but I just yeah, sure, sure. This creates a connection
between us, our whole body, our whole energetic being, including thoughts, emotions,
you could say, your soul or core of your being,
and the whole universe that is more connected and with

(06:54):
whatever you call God, the creed or there's just more
instant connection that's created, and I know connections big with you, Yeah,
you know what I'm talking about. So it creates more connection.
So when we're doing this on behalf of our cats, say,

(07:17):
it just creates a simple connection between us and our cats.
So our cats more clearly here are thoughts. And it's
also heart to heart you know connection, yes, MATHI, so
it kind of tunes up our channel and it also
opens the communication channel between us and our animals to

(07:38):
be in that pose. Yeah, well, well said madam. Yeah,
and there's a long tradition in this. Many spiritual traditions
have different poses that help open energy lines within the
body and between us and spirits. And yeah, so that's
that's wonderful. Okay, So so first you did this heart pose,
the person did the heart pose, and Felix began to

(08:01):
see this. Can you describe what you saw as this
energy was leaving or well, how did it? Was it fast?
Was it slow? Did it happen? It's very fast, very fast.
Usually when I'm delivering the Steps of tat a lot
of times my eyes are closed because in the heart post,

(08:21):
I feel some a lot of times more connected with
who I'm talking to with my eyes closed. But by
the time I looked and did a scan after I
could see and feel there was this green of like
attacking presence that was as if stuck on his head

(08:43):
head and his back was just gone. And that only
took probably six or seven minutes. Wonderful. How do you
ever have energy that says no, I'm not leaving well
Son with you? Sometimes, but I've never had that with
an animal. Interesting, So all it takes is a little

(09:07):
bit of help, a little bit of intention, a little
bit of energy, and off it goes. Right. So then
what happened with Felix after the session, It's just like
I said, he was wandering around the house trying to
see where is that entity or whatever it was it
was trying to attack me on my back. So he's
prowling around. But he was a happy cat after that.

(09:31):
And the owner also played a recording that's part of
what I make available at the website. But she just
played that recording and she said her two cats would
come over and listen when it was playing. She would
do the heart pose for them. M M yeah, right,
it'll happy happy Now, if Felix didn't have to be rehomed,

(09:53):
he could stay with his person and whose other cat
family exactly? Is such a great story. Because I think
some many people are if they're in that situation of
a chronic crying animal, are you know, they they want
to do the right thing, but they don't know what
to do, they can't help, and often these animals do
get sent to the shelter, you know, they get rehomed,

(10:15):
and you know, this is it's a real problem. So
I'm so glad you're doing this work now. Just curious,
is this like an American phenomena or is it just
our cats that are crying? Or we're seeing this? Are you?
Because I know you work with clients all over the world,
so what are you seeing worldwide? Yeah? Yeah, same thing.
I wondered the same thing myself, and then I had

(10:36):
a client in Taiwan with a beautiful fluffy white cat
named Bobo, and Bobo had the same thing going on.
So I just did the same thing in Bobo quit crying. Wow. Yeah,
that's just beautiful. Yeah, it's just beautiful to have more
more peace on the planet when the cats aren't crying.

(10:59):
Well yeah, no, the cat owners, parents, friends, whatever they
call themselves, they also gain the benefit out the same time,
and of course they're happier because their cat isn't crying anymore.
And have you found that once you do this healing
practice that it's permanent, does it? You know, the problem

(11:20):
doesn't come back so far. Yeah, so that's wonderful. That's wonderful. Yeah,
so good. So this is not just an American problem.
This is happening wherever there are cats, and perhaps you know,
our society, we have so much technology running and so
many things that may be creative vulnerability for the cats,
since they are so sensitive, you know, that allows for

(11:43):
something like this to go amiss where they can't do
their own healing. You know, they can't fix it themselves,
and they need us to help, you know, because we've
created this world that's very noisy energetically, let's put it
that way, as neutral as I can. And we have
them in our home, so we owe it to them
to learn how to make that environment more safe and

(12:08):
easy for animals to share our lives. Yeah, right right,
that's so well put. Thank you. Yeah. So there was
a cat named Kai. What was the story of Kai?
Kai was a dog? Oh, a dog? A dog? Okay,
let's hear your dog story? Sure. So Kai was an

(12:28):
incredibly nervous, stressed couldn't sit still, whipp it. The owners
that had a whip it before. They knew how calm
and serene a whippet could be. But this poor guy
was Even when he'd go to bend alone, he'd be moaning.
They were so stressed. So I actually got to work

(12:52):
with whippet in a webinar. Yes, oh that's the one
I saw, right, I saw you work with them.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
I was so impressed. This dog was just like not
comfortable in his skin. He couldn't deeply relax. He was
clearly loved his people, but he couldn't settle. He couldn't settle,
and they were confused. They were experienced dog owners. They'd
had other dogs of his breed, whippets before, who were
very calm and peaceful, so it wasn't like they were

(13:20):
causing this problem because they knew. They had had other
experiences with other dogs that were completely calm, and here
was this new dog Kai that they just couldn't couldn't
couldn't find calmness. So it was beautiful. I watched it,
but I wanted you to tell the story. What did
you do? How did you approach it? I love hearing
your part too. I just saw where he was being

(13:45):
it's like blasted or this. Somehow there's this energetic projections
that he is under the influence of. So we just
heard about him, looked at him, didn't tat process. And
it was so sweet and adorable. The owners said, he

(14:07):
just ran outside. He was running around and running around,
playing with toys. In my favorite image was she said,
he was bounding up and down on all fours like
a lamb. I thought, oh my god, it's so sweet.
And then after he came back in the house, big
toy in his mouth, he put that down and then

(14:29):
was just standing there calmly between them, and she said, look,
he never stands calmly like this. His ears are back.
You can see he's in love. He's so happy. And
her husband had been holding Kai and he said, as
soon as you started the tat, he relaxed in my

(14:50):
lap like he never has before. Well, that's what I
saw how it looked to you. That's, you know, exactly
what I saw too. It was so amazing too watch
a dog that was clearly struggling, and it wasn't anything like,
oh the garbage people are coming, or or he's been
hit or something like this. There wasn't anything that was
a parent that was causing this level of agitation, and

(15:13):
it must have been exhausting for him, you know, I mean,
you know, the adrenal glands. It's like almost like he
was in a shelter environment. You know, that kind of
level of stress. Those of you, I know I volunteer
and shelters. I know a lot of listeners do, so,
you know, to see that level of just inability to
get the rest that's needed for well being. And we

(15:34):
all watched this process. I don't know, maybe it was
about fifteen minutes or something that somewhere in that ballpark
fifteen twenty minutes, a bunch of students in your class
and your webinar watching you, and we were all doing
the heart post together, so were all supporting that energy.
And then to see literally like a different dog walk back.

Speaker 4 (15:52):
Yes, he went out, he went out to play, he
bounced it all out, he got you know, he was
like getting resettled in his body. It was like, you know,
he had a major adjustment and he came in and
he was a different dog.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
And this all happened. We watched it, you know. I mean,
of course we couldn't see all the energetic events that
were happening, but we saw the behavioral change. We were
able to see, Okay, his nervous system is no longer
you know, being attacked. He can now be himself. And
that's what we want for all of our animals, that
they can truly relax into their own experience and to

(16:30):
just have the calmness to live a peaceful and good
and healthy life. Exactly exactly. And I got in touch
with the owner a couple of weeks later and she said, yes,
he's still doing just great, and we're all so happy.
That is just wonderful. It was really delightful to be
able to witness that. And we're going to take a

(16:53):
short little break when we come back. I want it
just drill down a little deeper with you about what
you see in terms of energy and how energy, how
quickly energy can change, which I think is the good news,
the good news. Yes, these bad things are happening, we
know they are, but something can be done and that's
the exciting news. So we'll be back in just a moment.
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Speaker 2 (18:31):
Well, hello everyone, welcome back. We just did a beautiful
healing off camera, off sound, and now we've brought Sophia
back so that tapus can look at her energy field
and see how she's doing and see and if those
of you were watching saw her not so comfortable when
we first started, and looking a little bit, she's just

(18:53):
like she's on a little table here. She's just getting
oriented but feeling generally much more comfortable than she was before.
So please tell us what you notice since the healing. Well,
the first thing is there's about three feet around her
two and a half or three feet of just gold light,
which this for me is always Oh, everything's healing right now.

(19:13):
Physical healing is going on, and her heart is just
shining out and I'm hearing her going well.

Speaker 7 (19:20):
Yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, like this is me, this
is my life now. Oh yeah, like that that's what
is going on from my eyes with her looking around,
like yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
Uh huh, that's what I'm seeing. She looks happy, it
does to my eyes. Before she looked a little like,
h what's up? The itch wasn't quite sure you know
what I was up to with bringing her on camera.
And now you look very sweet, don't hurry. Yeah, her
heart's shining even right or no, beautiful, beautiful. Yeah. So

(19:53):
those of you who are listening, her mouth is open
and this sweet little happy dog smile, and she's kind
of alternating looking around and just kind of relaxed eyes
and looking at me. It's just really really awesome. It's
awesome to see the change, you know, because I think
she was struggling there. You know she I know she

(20:14):
you know, she's older and she's got issues going on,
and that's part of it. Certainly, it has been a
little bit too much of a load that she's been carrying,
I think, you know. And and yeah, I mean, I'm
just really excited to see how this changes things, how
it changes her behavior and some of the health issues
that she's been dealing with. And I am just so

(20:36):
grateful that we could spend this time in this way
and can do this beautiful session. I will certainly report
back to you how she's doing, and if we can
get that report done before the final edit, we will.
If not, we'll do another episode. Okay, there's one more

(20:56):
thing happening. Her brain is cooling off and it's crying
with relief, saying, oh so high because that like you know,
one foot sort of a dome cap of things aren't
flowing here is gone, and so her brain is cooling
off and talking to the rest of her body and gosh,

(21:21):
that's what I hear. That's wonderful. Well, this has been
an incredibly beautiful healing session. If people want to work
with you, how can they find you? They can just
go to tat life dot com, and I have a
whole set of recordings there for animals. I do do

(21:43):
also half our private sessions for animals, but the set
of recordings includes things that are being projected in that
most everyone can't see. So you'll be able to help
your cat, dog or any animal just by playing the

(22:04):
recording and doing the heart pods. Yeah, that's good, that's great. Yes,
And she's getting a little heart treatment right now and
she's giving you the happy little, happy little look. She's
looking good. Thank you so much. Tapis fleming, and I
think we're just going to have to do another one.
We're gonna have to have you work with all the
animals here, the donkeys and ups, rabbits outside and everything. Yeah,

(22:27):
I have a totally love about Thanks so much for
having me. Yeah one more time your website for folks.

Speaker 3 (22:34):
Sure, tat like Tom Apple Tom tat life dot com.
And it would just warm my heart, throw my heart
to have you help your animal.

Speaker 2 (22:46):
And you also get secondary benefits when you do.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
It helps you.

Speaker 2 (22:51):
Too, that's right. So it's good for the goose, is
good for the gander, it's good for the animals, it
is good for the human. Taps Flemming from THT. Thank
you so much much for doing this beautiful work and
for in particular the beautiful work we just did with Sophia,
and we'll keep you posted on how thanks developed. Thank
you so much, we'll see you next time.

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