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June 6, 2025 95 mins

In this episode, Coach Lain Lee discusses his journey into performance psychology, emphasizing the importance of understanding fear, mental blocks, and the role of discomfort in performance. He shares insights on the impact of pressure on athletes, using Simone Biles' experience as a case study. The conversation also explores cultural attitudes towards rest and recovery, and the distinction between motivation and discipline in achieving success. He discusses the importance of inspiration in training, the toxic aspects of performance-focused cultures in cheer and dance, and the need for emotional intelligence in coaching. He emphasizes the significance of effective communication in building strong teams and explores the relationship between confidence, discomfort, and perfectionism. The discussion also touches on trauma responses and the power of imagination in overcoming fear.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Performance Psychology Coaching

04:47 The Journey from Cheerleading to Coaching

07:39 Understanding Mental Blocks and Their Misconceptions

10:47 The Science Behind Memory and Mental Blocks

13:55 The Role of Discomfort in Performance

16:48 The Impact of Judgment on Performers

19:48 Navigating Auditions and Performance Anxiety

22:36 Childhood Trauma and Its Effects on Performance

25:42 The Importance of Processing Trauma

28:44 The Consequences of Ignoring Mental Health in Sports

31:42 The Case of Simone Biles and Mental Health Awareness

36:51 Understanding Anxiety and Dorsal Vagal Shutdown

40:34 The Impact of Motivation Culture

42:12 The Grind Culture and Its Consequences

50:35 The Toxicity in Cheer and Dance Culture

57:27 Building Effective Teams Through Vulnerability

01:02:30 Confidence: Natural vs. Manufactured

01:07:27 Building Confidence Through Discomfort

01:12:32 The Role of Perfectionism in Performance

01:17:30 Understanding Anxiety and Perfectionism

01:21:56 Responding to Trauma and Discomfort

01:26:08 The Power of Imagination and Reality

01:28:43 Rapid Fire Insights and Reflections


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