In this episode, I explore the complex landscape of motherhood—from ancient myths and cultural expectations to the latest psychological research. I share findings on why some women report greater life satisfaction without children, alongside studies showing the intense highs and lows of parenting. Together, we’ll challenge the “Motherhood Mandate” and question whether choosing to become—or not become—a mom is truly a sacred calling or a trap woven by society. I’ll offer insights that empower you to honor your own path and redefine what fulfillment looks like on your terms.
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