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July 5, 2025 6 mins

Societal Division is deep.

I call it Tribal Dynamics and it is seductive and can be tricky.

Power over structures create a unconscious "us vs. them" dynamic.

And if you dont match their expectations, then you end up being that black sheep person and it's painful, alienating, and confusing.

For me, this pattern showed up early—starting as far back as grade school.

Feeling singled out to carry the Tribe's tension and unconscious trauma that I felt so deeply.

Being excluded because my moral value didnt match theirs and my psychic and intuitive sensory system was such a old soul, I felt like this tribal world was one I never felt I belonged to.

Over time, I realized this isn't about me.

CAN YOU RELATE?

It's about the Tribe's way of managing stress and discomfort.

Often, when leaders or so called authority don't have the tools to regulate their own anxiety or seek support, they unconsciously scapegoat someone to keep control.

And here's the kicker: we all carry these broken Tribal or family field patterns around with us. They shape how we show up in communities, technology, governance, workplaces, and relationships.

Deep within us, ancient archetypes influence our interactions - the wounded ones, the leaders, the outsiders, and the healers. These timeless patterns can either trap us in cycles of pain or liberate us to live more authentically.

So, what's the way out?

I developed a simple but powerful approach to healing these broken energetic and holographic stored memory fields.

It starts by identifying the unconscious contracts we've made—agreements our essential selves made long ago to survive Tribal dynamics that felt unsafe or painful.

Then, through a process of recognition, compassion, and conscious revoking, we can release those contracts. We give ourselves permission to belong, to be seen as whole and worthy — not as the scapegoat or outsider.

It's transformative.

I've guided myself and others through this journey. Slowly, the suspicion of the power over and power under state softens. The expectation of exclusion fades. And a sense of connection and true belonging grows.

If you resonate with this, I invite you to explore this healing further with me.

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We all carry an imprint of our broken fields with us wherever we go.

When we have been battered by social trauma, it gets scary to go into groups, and our nervous system is impacted.

We gaslight or flow into alternate states between being frozen and being in fight, /flight, and alarmed aloneness.

We anticipate more social trauma.

We carry a “broken group field” or a “broken family field” with us, which leaves an easy partnership slot open for the predator and prey dance to begin.

What can we do with this pervasive pattern?

The most effective way that I have found to disarm this dysfunctional ritual and silent contracts.

We are not meant to stay wounded.

We are supposed to move through our tragedies and challenges and to help each other move through the many painful episodes of our lives.

By remaining stuck in the power of our wounds, we block our own transformation.

We overlook the greater gifts inherent in our wounds — the strength to overcome them and the lessons that we are meant to receive through them.

Wounds are the means through which we enter the hearts of other people.

They are meant to teach us to become compassionate and wise.

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