IADGAF

IADGAF

Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck. It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

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June 19, 2026 35 mins

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Hey beautiful soul!

I feel like the title of this video says it ALL.

In today’s video I talk about what I TRULY desire (consistency…from ONE person)

What I will no longer tolerate (being around non curious mofo’s)

& I’ll share a story about what happened when I went on an adventure and took myself out on a date!

Thank you for listening!

Embark in 5 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure ...

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Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨

It's time for another Love Island USA Season 8 recap because Episode 4 brought even more flirting, drama, tension, and messy villa dynamics.

In today's video, I'm sharing my reactions, opinions, predictions, and hot takes on everything that happened in Episode 4.

We're talking:
💕 The couples that seem to be getting stronger
👀 Islanders who surprised me this episode
🔥 New ...

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Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨

It's time for another Love Island USA Season 8 recap because Episode 3 gave us exactly what we signed up for: flirting, tension, questionable decisions, unexpected connections, and enough villa drama to keep me fully invested.

In today's video, I'm sharing my thoughts, reactions, predictions, and hot takes on everything that went down in Episode 3.

We're talki...

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Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨

We're back for another Love Island USA recap/review because somehow after only two episodes, I'm already emotionally invested in strangers making questionable romantic decisions on national television.

In today's video, we're breaking down everything that happened in Love Island USA Episode 2! The connections, the chemistry, the drama, the confusion, the almost threesomes land the m...

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Hey beautiful souls!

Welcome to a bonus episode where I’m basically catching you up on my journey of giving less f*cks. 

In today’s episode we talk all about: 

How we are so much more than our trauma 

The time I took a pause on my sobriety 

My emotional breakdown (I sobbed)

Growing up in a household without room to process my emotions

Sidebar: I don’t really know if my mom thought I wa...

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Welcome, beautiful humans! 🌴✨

Love Island USA is officially back and you already know I had thoughts.

If you know me, you know I've been riding with this show since Season 1 (far less enthusiastically) but the nostalgic vibes of these villa-ians finally inspird me to share my thoughts on what's gonna go down this summer.

So if you're new here, welcome lol and if you're used to my other content,...

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Welcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨

Today we're diving into my thoughts, reactions, hot takes, and probably a few dramatic opinions about Love Island UK Episodes 1, 2, and 3!

If you know me, you know this isn't my usual content but I needed to add a little extra razzle dazzle and pleasure into my world and one of the things I love the most at the moment is LOVE ISLAND LMAO

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Welcome to yet another episode of THE IADGAF PODCAST!

In todays episode we talk all about:

The Lorax & how it’s kinda my favorite movie 

The epiphany I had about my caterpillar soup phase 

Being willingly be cracked open (non sexually)

Building my my armor (or dropping it) by being triggered and embracing the triggers 

Adult me’s wants vs inner child me’s wants

How we’re not suppo...

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Hey beautiful butterfly!

Welcome to yet another episode of IADGAF

In today’s episode we’re talking about dating as well as: 

What even is a womb

Can men’s breast produce milk? 

Freeing the nipple 

Pre Covid dating vs Post Covid dating 

The dating app dopamine boost from people shopping 

Challant ass men (and how I get the ick from them) 

Absolute “NOs” for dating pr...

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Welcome to season 4 of THE IADGAF podcast (formally known as The Love Atiya Experience & The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) I am sooooooo excited for this newly revamped and rebranded version of my podcast. We made it to year 4 baby! This is a big F you to anyone who says I have a problem with commitment LOL 

THIS EPISODE IS DEDICATED TO MY FUR DAUGHTER TAM WHO IS THE CATALYST IN TEACHING ME HOW TO SET BOUNDAR...

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Hey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a fuck i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this LMAO so just turn it down when I start doing the breathing otherwise it may blow your eardrums out jk jk lmao enjoy babes 

I can't wait for ya'll to enjoy my OFFICIAL firs...

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HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY!  https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience

This episode is all about:

Soooooo many damn lessons

My amazing ass flower, fruit, water, moldy soup analogy (somebody write this down for me please!)

I need more “acknowl...

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Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY

“I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself”

Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe we’re not sentient enough?! Idfk 

If this patreon bonus left you wanting more you can check out all of my exclusive content by becoming a patron today! ht...

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Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)

Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today!

https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience

Affirmation: “I accept myself”

This episode is all about: 

How I woke up to a scream from my higher self 

Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together 

The fleeting need for valid...

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TRIGGER WARNING

Hey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.

These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners.

Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed.


i love you.

In this episode we talk all about: 

Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second...

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Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.

This episode is all about:

Me flying in fake first class on JetBlue

My failed attempts trying to connect with men

How New York tried to steal my soul

I just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow)

Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires)

Men are who they are (and they’re ok with that)

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Hey beautiful souls!

Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:

  • Not being a normal human 
  • Faux healers & energy leeches 
  • Having friends I’m excited to listen to
  • Charging money to people I’m not excited to listen to 
  • My thoughts on reciprocity 
  • Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do 
  • Turning 31 and giving less fucks 
  • Calling out...
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Hey beautiful souls!

In today's episode I'm talking all about:

  • Platonic intimacy 
  • What if relationships aren’t all bad?
  • Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search) 
  • Removing the moochers from my life before I could elevate and ascend

& SO MUCH MORE

Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy

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Hey beautiful souls!

Todays episode is all about:

Love island games

Men being unintentionally queer 

How my ancestors have my back 

Lesbianism vs queerness 

My strange ass old friend 

Having energy that can’t be penetrated 

Are there other energies other than masculine and feminine?

Why bi men are looked at as gay and bi women are looked at as straight (hint: it’s misogyny)

The power of le...

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Hey beautiful souls!

I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus content you can enjoy on my Patreon! ❤️

In today’s episode I talk all about:

Platonic touch & intimacy

My amazing ass first Reiki session

How it feels like everytime I go outside I&...

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