The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz

Did your ex text you a happy birthday? Did that guy you hooked up with reach out during the pandemic? Did your high school boyfriend write to you on Facebook? Yep. This is what guys do. They don’t know if they want to sleep with you, keep in touch with you, date you, or marry you, so they send all sorts of mixed messages. They’re like sharks, swimming in the water, waiting for some chum. Sorry to say: you’re the chum.

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We’ve all been there. Everything was going great – until it wasn’t. It’s not like you did anything different, but suddenly, there was a shift in your relationship and now you feel off-balance. You’ve been around long enough to know that something is wrong, but you’re looking for validation that it’s not just you. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share the telltale signs your guy has started to lose interest in you, so you won’t...

With the advent of dating apps that sit on your phone and give you access to thousands of singles in your area, there has never been an easier time to meet people than today. Then why does it all feel so bad? The answer is that all good qualities come with bad qualities. And if 21st century dating is marked by easy access, the downside is that we’ve had to come up with a new vocabulary to describe what can go wrong. In today’s Love...

You’ve seen it before. Girl likes boy. Boy likes girl. Boy starts acting like a boyfriend. Girl falls deeper for boy. Boy doesn’t realize his deep-seated issues, insecurities and fear of commitment will ultimately end up breaking girl’s heart. Girl’s heart gets broken. It’s a sad, if common, scene, which begs the following question: what should you to if you suspect your guy is not emotionally available for a future?

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Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy where something didn’t feel right? Maybe it was a lack of chemistry. Maybe it was a lack of trust. Maybe it was a lack of comfort. Maybe you couldn’t put your finger on it. And yet even though you felt, deep inside, that something was off, you ignored that feeling and stayed. Months, even years of wasted time, all because you were afraid to trust your gut pull the plug, and start all ...

Have you had a boyfriend who cheated on you? Have you been devastated by the betrayal? The lying? The deceiving? The double life? The illusion that your relationship was strong? The second-guessing your own judgment? You’re not alone. Millions of women have suffered from unfaithful men. Some manage to repair their relationships. Some continue to suffer with a cheating partner and a lack of trust. Others break up but can’t help but ...

You go online and note the men who are swiping on you. One guy is shirtless. One guy has a colored mohawk. One guy has a tattoo on his neck. One guy has a handlebar mustache. One guy looks like he was born in the 2000’s. Then you read their profiles – all about being chill and hooking up and playing video games and the magic of chemistry. And you think: these are all children. You don’t need a boy. You need a man. One who is ready ...

You go online and note the men who are swiping on you. Far too many look like a less attractive version of your dad. Old. Heavy. Grey. Bald. Wrinkled. White bearded. Unappealing. You look in the mirror and see a sexy, vibrant woman – one often mistaken for 5 to 10 years younger. And you ask yourself: why would I go out with an older guy when I can get a younger guy? If you’ve ever cringed at the boomers begging you to give them a c...

If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman, you’re familiar with this dilemma. You’re in the 95th percentile of all women in terms of your credentials. And because of that, you believe you can only date the 5% of men who are “above” you. You know intellectually that men don’t date this way: there are few men who insist on dating women taller AND smarter AND richer AND more educated AND funnier. And yet, you persist. Finally, when ...

You ever date a guy who was just so cute, so funny, so charming, and so… immature. It’s not that he’s a bad guy, per se. It’s that he’s never quite grown up. While you have a blast while you’re out, when it comes to building a life, it feels like you have to do all the heavy lifting. So what do you do when you’re with a fun guy who requires so much effort?

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It’s pretty much THE question, isn’t it? You’ve done your time on dating apps. You’ve had enough meaningless sex to satisfy your curiosity. You’ve found guys with potential who couldn’t live up to their promise. And now you want to know the ultimate: how can you get a guy to want to be with you forever? In the next few minutes, I’m going to share a few powerful tips with you, and one earth-shaking idea that will forever change the ...

You’ve been in relationships where you gave and didn’t receive anything in return. You’ve been in relationships with men who were domineering and didn’t listen to you. You’ve been in relationships with men who were passive and weak. Which leads to the obvious question: can you really have a 50/50 relationship? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to share a very personal example about how the answer is both yes…and no.

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You go online. You set your search criteria. No more than 5 years older. Six feet tall. College degree. Six figure income. Same religion and politics. Handsome face, good body. You discover there aren’t that many men who meet all those criteria so you swipe left on 95% of men and are frustrated that 5% who qualify seem to be players with a lot of options. You try different apps and sites. You take breaks. But every time, you come b...

You want to understand men? Great. I’m a man who has been explaining what we think to women for nearly 20 years. And while I don’t expect you to love everything I’m going to say, what you can count on is that I’m telling you the truth – even when it makes guys look bad. With that, here are 8 things men want you to know but will rarely say out loud.

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You were seeing a guy. And by seeing a guy, I mean sleeping with a guy. Things were really great for those first five dates. Until they weren’t. Suddenly, he did the slow fade, texting less frequently, not reaching out for platonic plans, not driving the relationship forward. If you heard from him at all, it was a random text to say hi, or a plea for you to come to his house. Sooner or later, it all fell apart. And from that experi...

It’s really common for men to think women are needy. Because of this perception, it’s really common for women to think they’re needy. Today, I’m here to tell you that you’re not needy. There’s a great quote that says “You’re only as needy as your unmet needs.” So if you’re not seeing him enough for your satisfaction, I encourage you to express yourself without the fear of looking needy. But, as you know, it’s not what you say; it’s...

Are you a busy woman? Do you have a meaningful, demanding and lucrative career? Have you poured more time and energy into your job than your love life because your work life is simply working better? If so, you’re not alone. Most of the women who enroll in Love U will spend 50 hours a week working and wonder why it’s so hard to meet a quality man. Today, I’m going to explain exactly what you need to do in order to meet and ultimate...

You’re dating a guy. You’re falling in love. But you don’t trust your judgment because every other time you’ve been in love, you ignored some serious red flags. How can you make sure that this time turns out different? Well, instead of focusing on what’s wrong with men, as we so often do, today’s Love U Podcast is going to focus on what’s right about them. Without further ado, here are six ways you can tell that your man is a keepe...

If you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who has everything but a man, you may not identify as a fearful person. But as a dating coach who has been helping women like you for 17 years, I can tell you definitively that fear plays a major factor in how you approach dating. Fear of being alone for the rest of your life. Fear of dating and rejection. Fear of getting stuck in a bad relationship. Whether you’re afraid of one of those ...