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June 25, 2025 71 mins

Feel like you’re stuck, avoiding, or just can’t make yourself do the thing? This episode is a full-on behind-the-scenes deep dive into what’s really going on when you’re in survival mode - and how to break the cycle for good. Tune in for live coaching, surprising truths, and the tools to finally get free.

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IN THE EPISODE:

  • (00:00) About today's episode
  • (03:41) How to know if you're in survival mode and what to do about it
  • (11:21) A hidden cause of being in survival mode that most people don't know about
  • (15:41) The real reason you avoid (this will blow your mind)
  • (16:26) Why we don't do the things we say we want to do
  • (22:41) What happens internally when we don't do what we say we're going to do
  • (28:01) Being open to a solution vs obsessing about the problem
  • (36:13) Why we gaslight ourselves when we feel stuck
  • (41:21) Advanced BTS of Stephanie coaching Morgan to release fear, survival, and avoidance
  • (54:01) Why just forcing yourself to do things doesn't work
  • (54:46) Talk therapy vs working with a therapist or coach that is IFS-informed
  • (58:49) Are you really stuck or is that a lie?
  • (59:56) What inner conflict is and why we have it
  • (01:06:23) 3 key ways to liberate yourself today

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MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE:

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Listen to Stephanie's other podcast Awake with Stephanie Zeller 

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WHAT TO LISTEN TO NEXT: 

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