March 14, 2025 • 29 mins
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Clarity doesn't magically appear when you're overthinking – it emerges when you make decisions and take action despite uncertainty. Most people who claim to lack clarity aren't confused at all; they're simply afraid to trust themselves to handle the consequences of making a choice.
• Trust yourself to make powerful decisions instead of waiting for perfect information
• Meditation provides genuine clarity while overthinking creates mental loops
• Stop outsourcing your decisions to people who don't have the life you want
• There is no "perfect choice" – just the one you fully commit to with positive energy
• Taking action creates data that gives you more clarity than endless thinking
• Your hesitation is usually fear disguised as confusion
• Success is possible regardless of external circumstances – it starts internally
• Fear programs become heavier the more you dwell in them
• Making uncomfortable decisions often provides immediate positive payback
• The dreams you have aren't random – they're available to you if you take action
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Clarity isn't something that you find.
It's something that you decide,and it will begin to unfold as
you move forward.
Most people think that theyneed more information before
they can move forward or theyneed certainty.
The truth is, they're avoidingmaking a decision because they
(00:25):
don't trust themselves to handlethe process and or the outcome.
If you struggle with clarity,ask yourself am I actually
confused or am I afraid to makethe wrong choice?
We're going to get deeper intothis topic in this episode.
(00:47):
You're going to want showleaders.
(01:28):
This is the Magnetic LeaderPodcast, where high achievers,
entrepreneurs, leaders stopsecond-guessing, step into their
power and create success thatactually feels as good as it
looks.
I'm your host, lisa Jeffs, yourcoach, your intuitive guide and
(01:49):
the person who's going to helpyou ditch the overthinking,
trust yourself fully and leadwith unshakable confidence.
Let's get into today's episode.
So you're questioning what pathto take.
What's next for me?
I've been getting a lot of callsthis year around clarity.
(02:11):
Every year has its own theme,so to speak, and I get really
excited because I have peoplebooking calls with me applying
for coaching every week and Iget to see where people are at
and there's always common themes, and this year, clarity is huge
(02:34):
.
People are questioning wherethey want to go, what they want
to do.
They are sick and tired ofdoing work that doesn't feel
good, of living a life, wakingup every day going through the
motions or, even worse, sluggingthrough the day, and they want
(02:58):
to have clarity, clarity andhere's the thing with clarity
that I tell my clients all thetime and when we go through the
process I take my clientsthrough.
It makes so much sense whythey've been having so many
(03:19):
challenges, figuring out whatthey want to do, which, which
path to take, and theyunderstand that it has nothing
to do with gathering a bunch ofinformation and, you know, going
through certain things andlooking and trying to find
(03:43):
clarity, like you're trying tofigure it out.
And when we go through myprocess, whether we are working
one-on-one or we're inside theMagnetic Leader Accelerator,
they start to see really quicklythat in most cases, really
(04:04):
quickly, that in most cases theyalways kind of knew already
what they wanted to do.
It's never a huge surprise.
Sometimes things can come out ofthe blue when we go through the
process and they're like youknow what?
I never really thought of thisbefore, but this seems so
(04:24):
exciting to me now.
However, a lot of times they'relike you know what I always?
You know, this is something Ialways wanted to do.
I always thought about it yearsago, when I was a kid, when I
was a teenager, and I, you know,I never thought it was a
possibility or I always talkedmyself out of it.
(04:45):
And in a lot of cases, thebiggest roadblock, so to speak,
that we need to, it's not evennecessarily a roadblock, it's
simply, you know, a part of thegrowth equation is learning to
actually trust yourself, andthat is trusting yourself to
(05:10):
make a powerful decision, to sayyes, I'm going to try this, I'm
going to go in this direction.
And while this year I've beenspeaking to so many people and
so many people want clarity andthey are very unfulfilled with
(05:32):
where they're at, or frustratedor just darn right unhappy, I'm
also noticing a lot ofhesitation.
There's a lot of fear can.
This is part of it is just it'sfear is normal been.
I've been doing this work for11 years, coaching leaders,
(05:53):
business leaders, entrepreneurs,powerful professionals, and
fear is always part of theequation.
It really depends on how youmove through fear, what your
risk tolerance, what you grew upseeing with your parents, with
your caregivers, etc.
This can all have an impact onhow you feel moving forward, but
(06:15):
I've noticed, in particular, alot of hesitation this year, and
it can be due to people feelingvery unsteady with the world
around them, with the politicalclimate, with the economical
climate, whatever it is outside.
(06:36):
It can create some hesitation,and one of the things that I'm
so grateful for working with mymentors and my coaches who are
brilliant, powerful leaders andalso incredibly intuitive is one
(07:00):
of the things that I can thinkof all of my mentors have
instilled in me is it doesn'tmatter what's going on outside.
There is always going to bechaos.
You can always find it in theworld.
Does that mean that therearen't people making powerful
decisions that are in alignmentwith them, in alignment with
their values, saying yes to whattheir soul is calling them
(07:25):
towards and having wild success?
Doing it.
There's people that have successand can move forward and create
lives that others would lookupon and think, wow, how did
this person do this?
At any point, it doesn't matterwhat is going on externally.
(07:48):
What matters is what ishappening internally.
Everything is mirrored back tous.
It all begins internally andthen is mirrored back to us
externally.
So if you're in a place ofhesitation and you want to do
something or you want to make amove forward, but you're talking
(08:08):
yourself out of it, maybeyou're talking yourself out of
it because you don't feel youhave enough knowledge or
confidence or money or X, y, z,and you're telling yourself
you're going to just keepthinking about it and trying to
figure it out in your mind.
(08:29):
Let me tell you something thatis not the way clarity comes.
You're going to continue goingaround in loops over and over
and over again, and the problemwith this is a lot of people
will get into a loop and thinkthat they are doing the right
thing, and a year goes by, twoyears go by, three years go by
(08:53):
and they look back and thinkwhat the heck is even happening?
I am in the exact same place.
You're not going to think yourway out of a lack of clarity?
You will not.
You need to take action forward.
Any action, literally anyaction forward, is going to give
you the data and informationyou need to then pivot, keep
(09:18):
going, make a little bit of aturn.
Whatever the case is, the worstthing you can do is continue
thinking about something,thinking that clarity is just
going to drop from the sky,plant itself in your mind.
Now I should preface by sayingwhen we are in states such as
(09:39):
meditation, when we are clearingour mind of the thought and the
loops and the overthinking, wecan get fantastic clarity in
those moments.
But thinking and thinking andjust looping around thoughts is
not going to give you theclarity you need.
(10:00):
Okay, so if you want to take anaction and you're nervous about
putting yourself out in someway, meditate, and I don't want
to hear any noise about I tried,lisa, and it didn't work.
I hear this all the time frommy clients and we always laugh
(10:22):
about it, because when I dig inand start asking questions,
really what happened was theyclosed their eyes for a few
minutes, realized that theystill have thoughts and
concluded that meditation wasnot for them.
They can't do it, and that'snot what meditation is, you will
have thoughts during meditation.
(10:42):
There are many forms ofpractices I should say that you
can be involved in.
But to keep it super simple,put your hand over your heart,
focus on your breath, close youreyes, set the timer for 25
(11:03):
minutes and I know that maysound extreme, but there is a
sweet spot that comes when youcan just be in that state,
noticing your thoughts comingand going.
You're going to have thoughts,see them floating away like
they're floating away on a cloud, and be in that state of
(11:28):
stillness.
Be in that state of stillnessand why I say 25 minute mark is
because once you can get pastthat initial part where you're
going to be overthinking, you'regoing to be noticing feelings
in your back and all the littlethings.
There's a real special momentwhere clarity can drop.
(11:50):
In a real special moment whereclarity can drop in and
sometimes, like one of myclients who did this practice
and had an insane awareness,come in and he ended up pivoting
the very next day, going fullin on this, and is now a wild
success two years later.
(12:11):
But keep in mind he wasn't awild success overnight, but he
made that decision and he wentfull in and it took him about
eight months and now it's beentwo years and it was the best
decision he could have ever madehe could have ever made.
So that is one option.
(12:31):
Anything else, I need you totake action.
Okay, this is how clarity comes.
I need you to start to trustyourself, trust that you have
the answers, and part of that isstop outsourcing your decisions
.
So one of the things that we dothat I do with my clients in
(12:56):
the Magnetic Leader Acceleratoror one-on-one, is I take them
through a process where they areuncovering what is important to
them, what is connected totheir values, what is connected
to a fear program or someoneelse's value system.
I am not telling anyone whatthey should be doing.
(13:17):
Sometimes, when I'm doingintuitive reading, I will get
information that flows in andit's usually fabulous and it
gives clarity.
But even still, you should notbe outsourcing anything and just
blindly listening to anyone ofwhat you should do.
I don't care if this is from aperson that you know on this
(13:43):
planet.
A psychic reading, an intuitiveread whatever it is, you have
the authority it is.
You have the authority Runeverything through your system.
It's imperative that you startlearning to trust yourself and
(14:03):
notice when is it just a fearprogram coming in?
Just a fear program coming in?
My parents' fear program, myteacher's fear program?
And when is my own intuitiveguidance coming in, trying to
guide me in a direction?
But I'm asking everyone theiropinion when half the time these
(14:33):
people don't even have the lifethat you want anyways, but
you're asking their opinion,what they should do.
It's the worst thing you can dois start outsourcing and asking
a bunch of your friends, askinga bunch of your family members,
(14:54):
asking a bunch of your familymembers, all these people all
over the place who have no oneauthority because they haven't
done what you want to do or theyhave your best interest at
heart, but all they're doing isputting their own limitations,
limiting beliefs on you or theyliterally have no investment in
what you're doing and they'rejust willy-nilly giving you
(15:15):
advice and we're outsourcing insome of the most important parts
of our life.
So what I do is I will have mytrusted advisors that I trust
and I will go there get theiropinions, but I do not blindly
(15:38):
take anyone's advice oroutsource my decisions.
I've done that in the past andall it's taken me through is
just these loops.
Through is just these loops, orI've gone down a path and
realized oh my God, what have Ibeen doing the last couple years
(15:58):
?
This is not what I want to do.
Why did I outsource myauthority?
Do not outsource your authorityto anyone.
Next point I need you to reallyembody is that there is no
perfect choice.
Just the one you commit to,just the one that you're backing
(16:19):
with your energy, with positiveexpectation.
This is what builds the pathforward.
Not waiting for the perfectchoice or thinking that there is
(16:40):
one.
This keeps people also in loopswhere they think that one
choice is going to be perfect,it's going to answer all their
prayers, it's going to be thebest thing in the world, and the
other one is going to be acomplete and utter disaster.
And this is a sabotagingpattern.
Right, we're looking at it likeblack or white.
No, there's no perfect choice.
(17:02):
Our energy, our expectation,our belief system around that
choice is going to help to shapeit.
Again, trusting yourself tomake that choice and trusting
yourself that you willunderstand and pivot if
necessary and that's not a bigdeal.
(17:22):
It's okay to make a change.
If you do something and you knowwhat, you get excited and you
think, you're not sure, but youtake the leap anyways.
It's okay if, three months downthe line, you decide you know
what, I don't want to do thisanymore or this wasn't the right
(17:42):
decision for me, but I have theclarity now.
A lot of times, clarity isgoing to come through taking
action on the things that aren'tgoing to be a fit, because
that's the only way we can getfull clarity and realize oh
shoot, I said yes to this andyou know what I hate it.
(18:03):
It's a disaster, I don't likeit at all, but now it's pointing
me in the direction of what Ido like more.
So you see what I'm saying here.
There is no wrong decision.
The act of taking action, theact of moving forward, is going
(18:26):
to give you so much clarity,whether it is right or wrong.
Again, there's no really rightor wrong.
It's just data, it'sinformation, it's do we like
this?
Do we like this better?
Do we like this path evenbetter?
Maybe we like this one a littlebit less, and all this is
giving us data and informationand clarity to move forward.
(18:49):
The problem is again people,especially high achievers, are
really, really you know, and Iobviously I resonate with the
label of a high achiever, so I'mincluding myself in this.
We make things so much harderfor ourselves and part of it is
this very black and whitethinking this all in or not, and
(19:14):
we think we have to have it allfigured out before we say yes
to something and it's just notthe case.
Next one is we got to startreleasing the fear.
We got to start releasing thefear.
Stop dwelling in fear programs.
(19:34):
We are in a time of our earthlydevelopment.
Consciousness is shifting soquickly.
If you are choosing to stay in afear program and just kind of
ruminate in the fear over andover again, choosing not to take
(20:00):
action because of what, if,what, if, what, if?
Because of survival patternsand again, I know it's not that
easy, but we still have theresponsibility to do the work,
to do the healing, to movethrough fears, to move through
any kind of trauma that'skeeping us stuck.
(20:22):
But we're going gonna find thatit's getting harder and harder
to stay in those patterns.
You're gonna get morefrustrated.
There's gonna be a part of youthat's trying to pull away from
that, that's trying to rise to ahigher way of being, that is
trying to connect with divineguidance, connect with the light
(20:46):
, connect with the flow, connectwith how this world actually
works.
And then there's the part ofyou that's going to feel like an
anchor, dragging you down withthe fear program.
It's going to get even heavier.
It's going to be pulling youdown even deeper.
It's very imperative that youstart doing the work to release
(21:09):
these fears.
A huge part of the work that Ido with my clients is releasing
these fears, shifting thebeliefs, shifting it at that
core level to recalibrate you toa new identity, to a new way of
being, to a new way of showingup in the world.
You cannot continue actingthrough fear.
(21:31):
It's debilitating, it'sinsidious, it will suck years
from your life.
Take the action, make the move,invest the money, do the thing.
The more you can do that andact, even if you are a bit
(21:53):
fearful, even if you are a bituncertain, unsure, this is the
only way to start proving toyourself that there's something
different.
This is the only way to startproving to yourself there's a
different way of being.
And the more you can do thisand move forward, the more you
will be mirrored back.
(22:14):
Oh, it's actually fine.
Oh, you know what?
All that stuff I built up in myhead did not happen.
Oh, this is even better than Ithought it was going to be.
Oh, I made that big investmentand the money came back.
Wow, yes, this stuff happensall the time.
(22:38):
All the time I work with clientsevery single week, brilliant
leaders, business owners,entrepreneurs and they are
powerful leaders, and still theyhave fear.
Right, we are still workingthrough fears and because we are
doing it together, it can befaster and easier and I get to
witness them making bigdecisions, making big moves,
(23:02):
making big career changes,making big investments in
themselves, and we get to seethat immediate, positive payoff
that comes back to them.
And this just reinforces thatthe only way forward is to trust
and to move without fear.
(23:23):
To move without fear.
The only way to move towardswhat you want is to.
You have to start makingdifferent decisions.
You have to start showing updifferently, trusting yourself,
not looking for always like easyways to kind of work around
something because those waysaren't easier, something because
(23:49):
those ways aren't easier.
It's just an illusion A lot oftimes.
The easiest way is just makingthe challenging decision at the
beginning, taking that leap, butthen getting that immediate
payback in whatever way, shapeor fashion.
And sometimes it's notimmediate, sometimes you have to
wait a bit, but it comes backand that's the only way to
(24:10):
continue to elevate and grow andexpand and become more
resilient and powerful in yourtrue power.
We're not shrinking, we're nottelling the story that, oh, I
don't know.
I'm confused, I have lack ofclarity, because that is a
pattern and that lack of claritykeeps people stuck for so long.
(24:34):
It's one of those patterns thatI see where people just get
into the illusion that they canjust think their way out of it
and they just keep thinking andtrying to figure it out and
figure it out and they just keeptaking two steps forward, two
steps back.
Two steps forward, two stepsback.
No, you gotta do somethingdifferent and a lot of times
(24:57):
it's something uncomfortable atthe beginning.
Trust yourself.
Trust yourself, everything isgoing to be okay.
We got to stop thinking of worstcase scenarios.
Turn off the news, delete thesocial media accounts that are
bringing you to fear programs.
(25:19):
Stop engaging in conversationwith family, friends, loved ones
that are filled with fear anddoubt and doom and gloom.
Right, there's so many amazingthings happening.
People literally creating theirdream life because they had the
courage to go for it, becausethey have the courage to say yes
(25:42):
to something different, otherthan status quo, mediocre
bullshit.
And I'm going to startapologies if you have kids in
the room, but there are peoplethat come to this planet that
have no desire to pushthemselves to do anything great
(26:04):
and they're quite hunky dorywith the status quo.
And then there are people whokeep dreaming and hoping and
wishing.
And those hopes and dreams andwishes are not random.
They are there because it isavailable for you to do
something different, to dosomething different, but you
(26:31):
gotta pull deep and get thatcourage and make that decision
before you start to see it.
It all starts internally beforeyou start seeing it externally.
Leaders, thank you for joiningme.
This was a very important one.
If you're still listening,please trust yourself.
You know what's going on, youknow what to do, you have that
within you, and if you need alittle bit of help and want to
(26:54):
speak to me about privatecoaching or the Magnetic Leader
Accelerator, please reach out.
You can apply for a test driveconsult I'll put the link in the
show notes or feel free to sendme an email at info at
lisajeffscom.
I'd love to chat with you andhear from you.
We are going to be raising theprice soon of the Magnetic
(27:16):
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(27:43):
I'm excited to help you make2025 the best year yet.
It's already unfolding soincredibly.
I can't even explain to you howfast results are coming this
year.
Even last year was pretty quicktoo, but this year especially,
shifts and transformations.
I had one client in theMagnetic Leader Accelerator tell
(28:08):
me that the low-grade anxietyand pressure that she had been
feeling for so long just kind ofin the background, always there
in her body has completelydissipated.
She feels light and she'sliterally following her purpose
(28:32):
now, and I can even see it inher aura.
I can't tell you the power ofwhat's coming through this year.
If you want to be a part of it,reach out.
Let's chat.
As always, I love you.
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Clarity isn't something that you find.
It's something that you decide,and it will begin to unfold as
you move forward.
Most people think that theyneed more information before
they can move forward or theyneed certainty.
The truth is, they're avoidingmaking a decision because they
(00:25):
don't trust themselves to handlethe process and or the outcome.
If you struggle with clarity,ask yourself am I actually
confused or am I afraid to makethe wrong choice?
We're going to get deeper intothis topic in this episode.
(00:47):
You're going to want showleaders.
(01:28):
This is the Magnetic LeaderPodcast, where high achievers,
entrepreneurs, leaders stopsecond-guessing, step into their
power and create success thatactually feels as good as it
looks.
I'm your host, lisa Jeffs, yourcoach, your intuitive guide and
(01:49):
the person who's going to helpyou ditch the overthinking,
trust yourself fully and leadwith unshakable confidence.
Let's get into today's episode.
So you're questioning what pathto take.
What's next for me?
I've been getting a lot of callsthis year around clarity.
(02:11):
Every year has its own theme,so to speak, and I get really
excited because I have peoplebooking calls with me applying
for coaching every week and Iget to see where people are at
and there's always common themes, and this year, clarity is huge
(02:34):
.
People are questioning wherethey want to go, what they want
to do.
They are sick and tired ofdoing work that doesn't feel
good, of living a life, wakingup every day going through the
motions or, even worse, sluggingthrough the day, and they want
(02:58):
to have clarity, clarity andhere's the thing with clarity
that I tell my clients all thetime and when we go through the
process I take my clientsthrough.
It makes so much sense whythey've been having so many
(03:19):
challenges, figuring out whatthey want to do, which, which
path to take, and theyunderstand that it has nothing
to do with gathering a bunch ofinformation and, you know, going
through certain things andlooking and trying to find
(03:43):
clarity, like you're trying tofigure it out.
And when we go through myprocess, whether we are working
one-on-one or we're inside theMagnetic Leader Accelerator,
they start to see really quicklythat in most cases, really
(04:04):
quickly, that in most cases theyalways kind of knew already
what they wanted to do.
It's never a huge surprise.
Sometimes things can come out ofthe blue when we go through the
process and they're like youknow what?
I never really thought of thisbefore, but this seems so
(04:24):
exciting to me now.
However, a lot of times they'relike you know what I always?
You know, this is something Ialways wanted to do.
I always thought about it yearsago, when I was a kid, when I
was a teenager, and I, you know,I never thought it was a
possibility or I always talkedmyself out of it.
(04:45):
And in a lot of cases, thebiggest roadblock, so to speak,
that we need to, it's not evennecessarily a roadblock, it's
simply, you know, a part of thegrowth equation is learning to
actually trust yourself, andthat is trusting yourself to
(05:10):
make a powerful decision, to sayyes, I'm going to try this, I'm
going to go in this direction.
And while this year I've beenspeaking to so many people and
so many people want clarity andthey are very unfulfilled with
(05:32):
where they're at, or frustratedor just darn right unhappy, I'm
also noticing a lot ofhesitation.
There's a lot of fear can.
This is part of it is just it'sfear is normal been.
I've been doing this work for11 years, coaching leaders,
(05:53):
business leaders, entrepreneurs,powerful professionals, and
fear is always part of theequation.
It really depends on how youmove through fear, what your
risk tolerance, what you grew upseeing with your parents, with
your caregivers, etc.
This can all have an impact onhow you feel moving forward, but
(06:15):
I've noticed, in particular, alot of hesitation this year, and
it can be due to people feelingvery unsteady with the world
around them, with the politicalclimate, with the economical
climate, whatever it is outside.
(06:36):
It can create some hesitation,and one of the things that I'm
so grateful for working with mymentors and my coaches who are
brilliant, powerful leaders andalso incredibly intuitive is one
(07:00):
of the things that I can thinkof all of my mentors have
instilled in me is it doesn'tmatter what's going on outside.
There is always going to bechaos.
You can always find it in theworld.
Does that mean that therearen't people making powerful
decisions that are in alignmentwith them, in alignment with
their values, saying yes to whattheir soul is calling them
(07:25):
towards and having wild success?
Doing it.
There's people that have successand can move forward and create
lives that others would lookupon and think, wow, how did
this person do this?
At any point, it doesn't matterwhat is going on externally.
(07:48):
What matters is what ishappening internally.
Everything is mirrored back tous.
It all begins internally andthen is mirrored back to us
externally.
So if you're in a place ofhesitation and you want to do
something or you want to make amove forward, but you're talking
(08:08):
yourself out of it, maybeyou're talking yourself out of
it because you don't feel youhave enough knowledge or
confidence or money or X, y, z,and you're telling yourself
you're going to just keepthinking about it and trying to
figure it out in your mind.
(08:29):
Let me tell you something thatis not the way clarity comes.
You're going to continue goingaround in loops over and over
and over again, and the problemwith this is a lot of people
will get into a loop and thinkthat they are doing the right
thing, and a year goes by, twoyears go by, three years go by
(08:53):
and they look back and thinkwhat the heck is even happening?
I am in the exact same place.
You're not going to think yourway out of a lack of clarity?
You will not.
You need to take action forward.
Any action, literally anyaction forward, is going to give
you the data and informationyou need to then pivot, keep
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going, make a little bit of aturn.
Whatever the case is, the worstthing you can do is continue
thinking about something,thinking that clarity is just
going to drop from the sky,plant itself in your mind.
Now I should preface by sayingwhen we are in states such as
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meditation, when we are clearingour mind of the thought and the
loops and the overthinking, wecan get fantastic clarity in
those moments.
But thinking and thinking andjust looping around thoughts is
not going to give you theclarity you need.
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Okay, so if you want to take anaction and you're nervous about
putting yourself out in someway, meditate, and I don't want
to hear any noise about I tried,lisa, and it didn't work.
I hear this all the time frommy clients and we always laugh
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about it, because when I dig inand start asking questions,
really what happened was theyclosed their eyes for a few
minutes, realized that theystill have thoughts and
concluded that meditation wasnot for them.
They can't do it, and that'snot what meditation is, you will
have thoughts during meditation.
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There are many forms ofpractices I should say that you
can be involved in.
But to keep it super simple,put your hand over your heart,
focus on your breath, close youreyes, set the timer for 25
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minutes and I know that maysound extreme, but there is a
sweet spot that comes when youcan just be in that state,
noticing your thoughts comingand going.
You're going to have thoughts,see them floating away like
they're floating away on a cloud, and be in that state of
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stillness.
Be in that state of stillnessand why I say 25 minute mark is
because once you can get pastthat initial part where you're
going to be overthinking, you'regoing to be noticing feelings
in your back and all the littlethings.
There's a real special momentwhere clarity can drop.
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In a real special moment whereclarity can drop in and
sometimes, like one of myclients who did this practice
and had an insane awareness,come in and he ended up pivoting
the very next day, going fullin on this, and is now a wild
success two years later.
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But keep in mind he wasn't awild success overnight, but he
made that decision and he wentfull in and it took him about
eight months and now it's beentwo years and it was the best
decision he could have ever madehe could have ever made.
So that is one option.
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Anything else, I need you totake action.
Okay, this is how clarity comes.
I need you to start to trustyourself, trust that you have
the answers, and part of that isstop outsourcing your decisions
.
So one of the things that we dothat I do with my clients in
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the Magnetic Leader Acceleratoror one-on-one, is I take them
through a process where they areuncovering what is important to
them, what is connected totheir values, what is connected
to a fear program or someoneelse's value system.
I am not telling anyone whatthey should be doing.
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Sometimes, when I'm doingintuitive reading, I will get
information that flows in andit's usually fabulous and it
gives clarity.
But even still, you should notbe outsourcing anything and just
blindly listening to anyone ofwhat you should do.
I don't care if this is from aperson that you know on this
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planet.
A psychic reading, an intuitiveread whatever it is, you have
the authority it is.
You have the authority Runeverything through your system.
It's imperative that you startlearning to trust yourself and
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notice when is it just a fearprogram coming in?
Just a fear program coming in?
My parents' fear program, myteacher's fear program?
And when is my own intuitiveguidance coming in, trying to
guide me in a direction?
But I'm asking everyone theiropinion when half the time these
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people don't even have the lifethat you want anyways, but
you're asking their opinion,what they should do.
It's the worst thing you can dois start outsourcing and asking
a bunch of your friends, askinga bunch of your family members,
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asking a bunch of your familymembers, all these people all
over the place who have no oneauthority because they haven't
done what you want to do or theyhave your best interest at
heart, but all they're doing isputting their own limitations,
limiting beliefs on you or theyliterally have no investment in
what you're doing and they'rejust willy-nilly giving you
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advice and we're outsourcing insome of the most important parts
of our life.
So what I do is I will have mytrusted advisors that I trust
and I will go there get theiropinions, but I do not blindly
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take anyone's advice oroutsource my decisions.
I've done that in the past andall it's taken me through is
just these loops.
Through is just these loops, orI've gone down a path and
realized oh my God, what have Ibeen doing the last couple years
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?
This is not what I want to do.
Why did I outsource myauthority?
Do not outsource your authorityto anyone.
Next point I need you to reallyembody is that there is no
perfect choice.
Just the one you commit to,just the one that you're backing
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with your energy, with positiveexpectation.
This is what builds the pathforward.
Not waiting for the perfectchoice or thinking that there is
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one.
This keeps people also in loopswhere they think that one
choice is going to be perfect,it's going to answer all their
prayers, it's going to be thebest thing in the world, and the
other one is going to be acomplete and utter disaster.
And this is a sabotagingpattern.
Right, we're looking at it likeblack or white.
No, there's no perfect choice.
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Our energy, our expectation,our belief system around that
choice is going to help to shapeit.
Again, trusting yourself tomake that choice and trusting
yourself that you willunderstand and pivot if
necessary and that's not a bigdeal.
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It's okay to make a change.
If you do something and you knowwhat, you get excited and you
think, you're not sure, but youtake the leap anyways.
It's okay if, three months downthe line, you decide you know
what, I don't want to do thisanymore or this wasn't the right
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decision for me, but I have theclarity now.
A lot of times, clarity isgoing to come through taking
action on the things that aren'tgoing to be a fit, because
that's the only way we can getfull clarity and realize oh
shoot, I said yes to this andyou know what I hate it.
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It's a disaster, I don't likeit at all, but now it's pointing
me in the direction of what Ido like more.
So you see what I'm saying here.
There is no wrong decision.
The act of taking action, theact of moving forward, is going
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to give you so much clarity,whether it is right or wrong.
Again, there's no really rightor wrong.
It's just data, it'sinformation, it's do we like
this?
Do we like this better?
Do we like this path evenbetter?
Maybe we like this one a littlebit less, and all this is
giving us data and informationand clarity to move forward.
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The problem is again people,especially high achievers, are
really, really you know, and Iobviously I resonate with the
label of a high achiever, so I'mincluding myself in this.
We make things so much harderfor ourselves and part of it is
this very black and whitethinking this all in or not, and
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we think we have to have it allfigured out before we say yes
to something and it's just notthe case.
Next one is we got to startreleasing the fear.
We got to start releasing thefear.
Stop dwelling in fear programs.
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We are in a time of our earthlydevelopment.
Consciousness is shifting soquickly.
If you are choosing to stay in afear program and just kind of
ruminate in the fear over andover again, choosing not to take
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action because of what, if,what, if, what, if?
Because of survival patternsand again, I know it's not that
easy, but we still have theresponsibility to do the work,
to do the healing, to movethrough fears, to move through
any kind of trauma that'skeeping us stuck.
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But we're going gonna find thatit's getting harder and harder
to stay in those patterns.
You're gonna get morefrustrated.
There's gonna be a part of youthat's trying to pull away from
that, that's trying to rise to ahigher way of being, that is
trying to connect with divineguidance, connect with the light
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, connect with the flow, connectwith how this world actually
works.
And then there's the part ofyou that's going to feel like an
anchor, dragging you down withthe fear program.
It's going to get even heavier.
It's going to be pulling youdown even deeper.
It's very imperative that youstart doing the work to release
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these fears.
A huge part of the work that Ido with my clients is releasing
these fears, shifting thebeliefs, shifting it at that
core level to recalibrate you toa new identity, to a new way of
being, to a new way of showingup in the world.
You cannot continue actingthrough fear.
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It's debilitating, it'sinsidious, it will suck years
from your life.
Take the action, make the move,invest the money, do the thing.
The more you can do that andact, even if you are a bit
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fearful, even if you are a bituncertain, unsure, this is the
only way to start proving toyourself that there's something
different.
This is the only way to startproving to yourself there's a
different way of being.
And the more you can do thisand move forward, the more you
will be mirrored back.
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Oh, it's actually fine.
Oh, you know what?
All that stuff I built up in myhead did not happen.
Oh, this is even better than Ithought it was going to be.
Oh, I made that big investmentand the money came back.
Wow, yes, this stuff happensall the time.
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All the time I work with clientsevery single week, brilliant
leaders, business owners,entrepreneurs and they are
powerful leaders, and still theyhave fear.
Right, we are still workingthrough fears and because we are
doing it together, it can befaster and easier and I get to
witness them making bigdecisions, making big moves,
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making big career changes,making big investments in
themselves, and we get to seethat immediate, positive payoff
that comes back to them.
And this just reinforces thatthe only way forward is to trust
and to move without fear.
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To move without fear.
The only way to move towardswhat you want is to.
You have to start makingdifferent decisions.
You have to start showing updifferently, trusting yourself,
not looking for always like easyways to kind of work around
something because those waysaren't easier, something because
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those ways aren't easier.
It's just an illusion A lot oftimes.
The easiest way is just makingthe challenging decision at the
beginning, taking that leap, butthen getting that immediate
payback in whatever way, shapeor fashion.
And sometimes it's notimmediate, sometimes you have to
wait a bit, but it comes backand that's the only way to
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continue to elevate and grow andexpand and become more
resilient and powerful in yourtrue power.
We're not shrinking, we're nottelling the story that, oh, I
don't know.
I'm confused, I have lack ofclarity, because that is a
pattern and that lack of claritykeeps people stuck for so long.
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It's one of those patterns thatI see where people just get
into the illusion that they canjust think their way out of it
and they just keep thinking andtrying to figure it out and
figure it out and they just keeptaking two steps forward, two
steps back.
Two steps forward, two stepsback.
No, you gotta do somethingdifferent and a lot of times
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it's something uncomfortable atthe beginning.
Trust yourself.
Trust yourself, everything isgoing to be okay.
We got to stop thinking of worstcase scenarios.
Turn off the news, delete thesocial media accounts that are
bringing you to fear programs.
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Stop engaging in conversationwith family, friends, loved ones
that are filled with fear anddoubt and doom and gloom.
Right, there's so many amazingthings happening.
People literally creating theirdream life because they had the
courage to go for it, becausethey have the courage to say yes
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to something different, otherthan status quo, mediocre
bullshit.
And I'm going to startapologies if you have kids in
the room, but there are peoplethat come to this planet that
have no desire to pushthemselves to do anything great
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and they're quite hunky dorywith the status quo.
And then there are people whokeep dreaming and hoping and
wishing.
And those hopes and dreams andwishes are not random.
They are there because it isavailable for you to do
something different, to dosomething different, but you
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gotta pull deep and get thatcourage and make that decision
before you start to see it.
It all starts internally beforeyou start seeing it externally.
Leaders, thank you for joiningme.
This was a very important one.
If you're still listening,please trust yourself.
You know what's going on, youknow what to do, you have that
within you, and if you need alittle bit of help and want to
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speak to me about privatecoaching or the Magnetic Leader
Accelerator, please reach out.
You can apply for a test driveconsult I'll put the link in the
show notes or feel free to sendme an email at info at
lisajeffscom.
I'd love to chat with you andhear from you.
We are going to be raising theprice soon of the Magnetic
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Leader Accelerator Beta.
It's a perfect time to get inand score the bonuses of a few
private coaching sessions thatcome with the beta opportunity.
Once we are out of the beta,there will be no one-on-ones
included, so no hesitation, takeaction, let's chat.
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I'm excited to help you make2025 the best year yet.
It's already unfolding soincredibly.
I can't even explain to you howfast results are coming this
year.
Even last year was pretty quicktoo, but this year especially,
shifts and transformations.
I had one client in theMagnetic Leader Accelerator tell
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me that the low-grade anxietyand pressure that she had been
feeling for so long just kind ofin the background, always there
in her body has completelydissipated.
She feels light and she'sliterally following her purpose
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now, and I can even see it inher aura.
I can't tell you the power ofwhat's coming through this year.
If you want to be a part of it,reach out.
Let's chat.
As always, I love you.
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