The Male Pursuer

The Male Pursuer

🎙 The Male Pursuer Podcast – Unpacking the Heart of Anxious Attachment in Men Join us as we dive deep into the world of men with anxious attachment, exploring the emotions, patterns, and struggles that come with the pursuit of love and connection. Whether you're constantly seeking reassurance, overthinking relationships, or feeling stuck in the chase, this podcast is your guide to understanding attachment dynamics, healing anxious tendencies, and building healthier, more fulfilling connections. From relationship psychology to real-life stories, expert insights, and actionable strategies, we’re here to help you navigate the complexities of emotional pursuit. If you're ready to break free from anxious cycles and create the love life you deserve, hit subscribe and start your journey today. 🔹 Topics We Cover: ✔️ Anxious attachment & the male experience ✔️ Relationship patterns & emotional validation ✔️ Overcoming fear of abandonment & self-worth issues ✔️ Strategies for healthier dating & connection 📌 New episodes every week! Don't miss out—tune in and transform your relationships . #MalePursuer #AnxiousAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #DatingForMen #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalGrowth

Episodes

Ep. 15- AITAH: Spoiled Vacation and Leaving Wife on the Road

September 18, 2024
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Ep. 14 - AITAH: Refusing Vacation with In-Laws and Sexless Marriage

September 17, 2024
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Ep. 13 - AITAH: Busted Budget and Friend Group ‘Mom’

September 10, 2024
In this episode of Joinery Therapy, we explore two Reddit posts highlighting family dynamics and relationship challenges. The first focuses on a couple navigating budget disagreements and the role of expectations in their marriage. The second explores a friend who feels taken for granted and undervalued by their group. We'll unpack the underlying emotions and offer insights into building stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
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Ep. 12- AITAH: Facebook Mom and Capsized Dad

September 4, 2024
In this episode of Joinery Therapy, we delve into two more Reddit posts. The first explores a mother's struggle to respect her daughter's privacy regarding pregnancy news, while the second examines a heated conflict between a sailing instructor and a parent. Using emotionally focused therapy, we'll unpack the underlying emotions, navigate the complexities of family dynamics, and discuss the importance of open communication and unde...
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Ep. 11 - AITAH: Squandered Inheritance and Hall Pass Usage

August 28, 2024
In this episode of Joinery Therapy, we delve into two deeply personal Reddit posts. The first explores a family fractured by resentment over a lost inheritance, while the second examines a husband contemplating using a "hall pass" after his wife's infidelity. Using emotionally focused therapy, we'll unpack the underlying emotions, navigate the complexities of family dynamics, and discuss the importance of open communication and und...
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Ep. 10- AITAH: Asking Son for Money and Baby Names

August 20, 2024
In this episode, we dive into two emotionally charged Reddit posts. The first involves a family struggling to reconnect after a painful rift caused by past actions. The second centers around a sister who takes a name reserved for her sibling's future child. We'll explore the underlying emotions and offer insights using emotionally focused therapy to understand and navigate these complex relationships.
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Ep. 9- AITAH: Overlooked by Parents and Boundary Setting

August 13, 2024
This podcast explores the emotional side of relationships through Reddit posts. In this episode, your host discusses two posts: one from a 16-year-old feeling overlooked by their family and another from someone whose neighbor is picking their lavender. Using emotionally focused therapy, they highlight the importance of emotional awareness, validation, and setting boundaries in relationships. They emphasize that even difficult conve...
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Ep. 8- What is EFT? Feat. Special Guest David Bleckley

August 9, 2024
In this episode, we dive deep into Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a powerful approach to understanding and improving relationships. Joined by special guest David Bleckley, we explore the four attachment styles, the dynamics of pursuers and withdrawers, and the importance of emotional awareness and empathy. Whether you're struggling with communication challenges or seeking to deepen your connections, EFT offers valuable insights...
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Ep. 7- AITAH: ‘Tradwife’ and Not Worth Marrying?

August 1, 2024
In this episode of Joinery Therapy, the host explores two Reddit posts through an emotionally focused therapy perspective. The first post is about a woman who kept detailed records of her contributions to her husband's business as a precaution since she was a stay-at-home wife, which caused tension and feelings of distrust between them. The second post involves a man who made a custom engagement ring for his girlfriend, but her dis...
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Ep. 6 - AITAH: No Means No and Helping Dads

July 16, 2024
In this episode of Joinery Therapy, the host examines two Reddit posts through a counseling lens. The first post involves a woman who leaves a family party after her father-in-law ignores his fiancée's clear refusal to be dunked in the pool, as she believes strongly in teaching her children the principle that "no means no." This incident leads to tension with her husband and in-laws, who view her reaction as controlling. The discus...
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Ep. 5 - AITAH: Uh oh Elope and Get Over it Dad!

July 12, 2024
In this episode of Joinery Therapy, the host explores two Reddit "Am I the Bad Person for X?" scenarios from a therapist's perspective. The first case involves a woman who eloped and faced criticism from her aunt for "taking away" her sister's dream of being a maid of honor. The host explains that while the aunt's feelings of anger and disappointment are valid, they stem from unmet expectations and personal insecurities rather than...
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Ep. 4 - AITAH: Cheating Spouse and Family Reunion

July 11, 2024
This podcast dives into how Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) can be used in real-life situations. One example is a wife who feels betrayed and unsafe after discovering her husband's infidelity. The podcast explains how EFT can help her acknowledge her hurt and anger, while also recognizing that these feelings, though valid, don't necessarily mean the marriage is over. Instead, EFT focuses on identifying her underlying need for sec...
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Ep. 3 - AITAH: Mom Drama and Baby Names

July 10, 2024
In this podcast episode, the host discusses two posts from Reddit and provides therapy-based advice to the individuals seeking help. ​ The first post revolves around a man who is hesitant to consider his wife's dream name for their daughter because it is the same as his mother's name, with whom he has a strained relationship. ​ The host emphasizes the importance of communication, validation, and healing in order to navigate the c...
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