The Married Therapists: A Relationship Podcast

Luis and Amber take a thoughtful look at the themes of submission and power dynamics in relationships, sparked by the documentary Shiny Happy People and the belief system of the Duggars. They explore how gender norms, biblical submission, and cultural influences can shape (and sometimes distort) our understanding of healthy love.

The conversation moves into the importance of accountability in relationships, why mutual submission oft...

Are common marriage myths hurting your relationship? In this episode, Luis and Amber Semidey break down the most popular misconceptions about love and marriage like Happy wife, happy life and Love is enough. They share real relationship advice for thriving partnerships.

They explore how communication, independence, intimacy, and conflict resolution can strengthen your marriage while balancing the challenges of parenting. If you want...

Is marriage supposed to last forever, or have we been sold an outdated idea?

In this powerful episode, Luis and Amber get real about the complexities of marriage, divorce, and what it means to be in a truly healthy relationship. They explore how family, children, and mental health are impacted by staying in an unhealthy marriage, and why it’s so important to question whether your relationship is genuinely serving you or simply servi...

In this raw and honest episode, Luis and Amber Semidey explore their personal experiences with fertility, pregnancy, and the emotional ups and downs of trying to conceive (TTC). From childhood perceptions and cultural messages to the very real challenges of infertility and family planning, they unpack what it’s really like to navigate the world of reproductive health as a couple

They also discuss how fertility education is often inc...

In this episode, Luis and Amber Semidey dive deep into the honeymoon phase of relationships, breaking down what it really means, how long it lasts, and why it's often misunderstood. They explore how authenticity, communication, and intentionality are essential to sustaining healthy love well beyond the initial butterflies. Through a mix of personal insights and a thought-provoking Reddit story, they highlight real-life dating d...

In this episode of The Married Therapists: A Relationship Podcast, we dive deep into the complex intersection of mental health and relationships. From anxiety and depression to communication and therapy, we share our own personal experiences and break down the stigma that often surrounds mental health in romantic partnerships.

We explore the ways mental illness can affect connection, intimacy, and trust, and why hiding severe mental...

In this conversation, Luis and Amber dive into how much finances impact relationships, often more than people realize. They open up about their own experiences with money growing up and how those early lessons (or lack of them) shaped their beliefs around budgeting, debt, and financial responsibility as adults. One big point they touch on is how financial literacy isn’t really taught much in school, which leaves a lot of people fig...

In this episode, Luis opens up about his personal experience living with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), offering a candid look at how the condition shaped his life from childhood through adulthood. He describes the early signs of inattentive ADHD, a type that is often misunderstood, and the significant challenges it brought, including procrastination, burnout, and struggles with motivation—often tied to dopamine r...

In this episode, Luis and Amber dive deep into their relationship by answering thought-provoking prompts from the Skin Deep card deck. Through a series of intimate questions, they explore how their individual experiences, including trauma, skin issues, and ADHD, influence the way they connect and support each other. Their candid conversation highlights the role of open communication, emotional support, and self-awareness in navigat...

In this episode, Luis and Amber offer insightful relationship advice as they explore two relationship dilemmas submitted on Reddit. The first involves a woman grappling with emotional cheating after discovering her husband's close connection with a coworker (AKA his "work wife") which sparking a discussion about trust issues and personal boundaries. The second centers on a woman whose fiancé admits to lingering feelings for his ex,...

In this conversation, the Amber Semidey, LCSW and Luis Semidey, LPC discuss their thoughts on gender roles in a marriage. They explore their childhood experiences and cultural perspectives, examining how these early influences shape expectations in marriage and household responsibilities like cooking and cleaning. They emphasize the importance of clear communication and adaptability in navigating relationship dynamics, highlighting...

In this episode, therapists Luis Semidey, LPC, and Amber Semidey, LCSW, offer valuable relationship advice as they explore the intricacies of conflict resolution and conflict management. Drawing from both their personal experiences and therapist insights, they examine how early life experiences influence our approach to relationship dynamics and conflict. The discussion highlights the impact of attachment styles, the power of healt...

In this conversation, Luis and Amber explore their experiences with dating and relationships, both before and after marriage. They speak through how expectations, communication, and compatibility shape meaningful connections, while also emphasizing the role of personal growth and emotional health in building lasting partnerships. The discussion covers the challenges posed by dating apps, the lingering effects of past relationships,...

In this conversation, Amber Semidey, LCSW and Luis Semidey, LPC dive into the complexities of cheating in relationships, challenging the notion that "once a cheater, always a cheater." They explore how infidelity can stem from deeper issues and emphasize the potential for reformed cheaters to grow through emotional growth, self-disclosure, and accountability. The discussion highlights the role of communication and therapy...

In this episode, Amber Semidey, LCSW and Luis Semidey, LPC delve into the dynamics of friendship between men and women, unpacking the layers of emotional intimacy, vulnerability, and the fine line where communication and boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining trust and avoiding cheating. They also debut a new segment called Mood of the Moment, where they open up about their current emotional states and reflect on their perso...

In this conversation, Luis and Amber delve into their personal backgrounds and reflect on how their childhood influences shaped their marriage expectations. They explore how their relationship dynamics have shifted over time, revealing their evolving perspectives on both marriage and dating. Through candid discussion, they emphasize the role of communication in marriage and how open dialogue supports both emotional connection and m...

In this conversation, Luis opens up about his experience in an abusive marriage, sharing the emotional journey from the early excitement of love to the painful realization of red flags and harmful relationship dynamics. He reflects on the complexities of emotional abuse, the toll it took on his mental health, and the internal battles he faced throughout the engagement and marriage. Luis candidly discusses the moment he reached his ...

In this episode, Amber shares her deeply personal journey through an abusive relationship, shedding light on the emotional abuse she endured and the red flags she overlooked. She opens up about the emotional turmoil, the control and isolation she experienced, and the eventual realization that change was necessary. The conversation explores the complexities of family dynamics, the long-lasting effects of domestic violence, and the v...

In this inaugural episode of The Married Therapist: A Relationship Podcast, hosts Luis Semidey, LPC and Amber Semidey, LCSW dive into their personal love story and their journey of trauma recovery from past abusive relationships. As therapists, they share insights on how their dating experiences shaped their approach to building healthy relationships. They open up about meeting on dating apps, their first dates, and the deep conver...