25: Soft Life Singles

“Being a husband or even a male partner in a long-term relationship is not who you are as a man–it's an office you hold. It's an office that has been bestowed upon you, and you can lose it. You can't lose your manhood, but you can lose your office–any office that someone seeks to hold. ~Jeremiah

Is it true that a man showing up in a certain way can evoke new ways of being for a woman? Yes. But does femininity require the presence of man or what he can offer? No.” ~Joyice 

Intro:

Hey, Lovebugs! Join me as I list 10 practices to infuse more softness into your life. From prioritizing self-care to fostering a community of support, we'll explore how embracing softness can transform your outlook and relationships. I also share insights on the concept of the "soft life" and how it intersects with modern romance. 

Are you waiting for someone else to provide the comfort and ease you seek, or are you cultivating it within yourself? Let's unpack the dynamics of partnership and personal empowerment with a touch of vulnerability and reality!

To add male perspective, I invited my husband to the conversation to share his thoughts on the role of men in creating an environment where femininity can flourish effortlessly. Together, we will challenge conventional notions and discuss the balance between individual authenticity and relational harmony.

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Time Stamps:

• [2:07] - I am sharing ten practices for fostering softness with self-care and accountability.
• [4:24] - I discuss the term “soft” and urge authenticity and balance in adopting its practices.
• [5:26] - #1: Prioritize yourself as the central focus of life and reality.
• [5:42] - #2: Embrace  joy authentically, acknowledging pain without resorting to superficial positivity.
• [6:32] - #3: Prioritize stillness and quietness for emotional and mental rejuvenation.
• [7:19] - #4: Honor your capacities and limits.
• [8:11] - #5: Build your community, nurture those relationships, and share mutual care.
• [9:17] - #6: Factor your patterns and moods for optimized time and energy management.
• [10:34] - #7: Embrace kindness and compassion, shaping your identity and fostering empathy.
• [11:41] - #8: Let go at the perfect time.
• [12:33] - #9: Delegate tasks that do not require your personal presence or signature.
• [13:19] - #10 Mind your money and the quality of life it can afford.
• [14:08] - Many Black modern women seek partners who complement their softness.
• [20:08] - Men can support and foster environments conducive to femininity, complementing women's commitment to it, and Jeremiah adds his male perspective.
• [22:04] - Jeremiah points out that partnerships entail roles that must be fulfilled.
• [24:37] - Jeremiah adds that authenticity fosters effortl