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November 5, 2025 35 mins
What should you be saying to your kids? In a time of gentle parenting, the come back of authoritative styles and more, it can be confusing to know how to talk to your kids and how to correct them. Amy Hughes joins Julie Lyles Carr on this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast to unpack what's up with parent speak.

Show Notes: https://bit.ly/47gtJO3 

Takeaways:
Writing is often a reflection of what we need to hear ourselves.
Gentle parenting is a response to authoritarian styles of parenting.
Language choices can significantly impact a child's emotional health.
Phrases like 'don't be sad' can shame children for their feelings.
Encouraging children to express emotions is crucial for their development.
The balance between authority and gentleness is a common struggle for parents.
Children need to learn how to navigate different communication styles.
Role-playing can help prepare children for real-world interactions.
Awareness of harmful phrases can lead to better communication.
Parenting is a journey of learning and growth for both parents and children.

Sound bites:
"This needs to be its own book."
"Don't be sad is shaming."
"Hurry up can cause anxiety."

Chapters:00:00 
Introduction to Parenting Dynamics
02:51 The Importance of Language in Parenting
05:53 Navigating Emotional Expression
10:00 Replacing Harmful Phrases
12:07 Building Emotional Resilience
16:32 Trends in Parenting Challenges
19:07 Engaging with Community Language
22:43 Understanding Rising Childhood Anxiety
25:43 Preparing Kids for the Real World
27:54 The Role of Repair in Parenting

Keywords:parenting, communication, childhood emotions, language impact, gentle parenting, childhood anxiety, emotional intelligence, parenting challenges, family dynamics, child psychology
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