아버지란 존재의 의미| Becoming Dad: Healing the Boy, Raising the Man — The One with Mr. Chris Chime | Episode 22 (2025)

The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 

 

What’s better than a blast from the past? Having a guest return—this time, even more vulnerable and wiser. Just 13 episodes ago, Chris Chime gave us a masterclass on entrepreneurship. Now he’s back with something even more profound: a masterclass on fatherhood, intentional partnership, and generational healing.

As a child of divorce, Chris grew up watching a love that didn’t last. That experience left scars—but also planted the seeds of a promise: “When it’s my turn, I’ll do it differently.” And that’s precisely what he’s doing. In this emotionally honest episode, Chris opens up about what it takes to lead your family with love, clarity, and conviction. From making the bold decision to shield his wife from extended family interference, to redefining masculinity by being present with his kids, he reminds us that being a man isn’t about dominance. It’s about devotion.

We discuss how unexamined loyalty to siblings or uncles can quietly erode a marriage, and why boundaries aren't a betrayal but a form of protection. Chris shares the quiet rituals that matter most: letting kids choose the restaurant on their birthday, hosting quarterly family meetings, and building trust through simple moments of connection. He also speaks openly about how he and his wife handle disagreements by protecting their values, maintaining open communication, and refusing to use divorce threats as a weapon.

And to men in the diaspora, he offers a simple, powerful charge: “Help your wife.” Because true partnership is hands-on.

Whether you’re a dad, a husband, a child of divorce—or still figuring it all out—this episode will challenge, encourage, and maybe even heal you. Missed Episode 9? Go back and catch Chris’s first take on purpose and business.

Listen. Share. This one’s for the generational curse breakers.

Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/becoming-dad-356f075051cc