Those “soft life” influencer videos? The stay-at-home girlfriends making lattes, baking bread, and living in perpetual golden hour? Yeah… it’s not the whole story.
In this episode, I break down why the soft girl dream is often a trap — built on economic dependence and social media illusion — and what it actually takes to create a truly soft, sustainable life.
You’ll learn:
- Why the influencer version of “soft life” is a luxury built on privilege
- The real risks of financial dependence
- How to design your own “soft-ish” life through freedom, flexibility & financial control
- The practical path to becoming work-optional — no man or corporate job required
If you’re craving less hustle and more ease, this episode shows you how to build softness on your own terms.
Want to explore our Freedom Life Programs?
Hop on a call with Katti No matter when you’re ready to start, we’ll help you find the right fit.
Links & Resources:
→ Follow my Spain life on Instagram
→ Follow Move Abroad Coach on Facebook
→ Follow Tori Dunlap (Her First 100K) on Instagram
→ Follow Delyanne the Money Coach on Instagram
→ Financial Feminist Book
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- #12 Escape the 9-to-5: Building a Life of Freedom through Freelancing with Kelly Dunning
- #21 The Ultimate Leap: Relocating to Mexico with School-Aged Kids Ft. Michelle Melville Kashon
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