"I don't trust people who don't love themselves and tell me, 'I love you.' There is an African saying which is: 'be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.'"
~Maya Angelou
We are all so quick to judge others based on the shortcomings we project onto them, where the reality is that we should be shining that spotlight on ourselves, and into our deepest shadows. When we love ourselves completely, we love others completely, and without expectations. We will even love them enough to let them go if that serves us better. Are you willing to be in that spotlight?
This week in a week devoted to dating, I'm here with Men's Motivation Coach Tawny Loveless, author of the amazing dating and personal development book Red Flags Explained: A No Bullshit Guide to Identifying and Understanding 69 Red Flags in Dating. She is going to give us all a crash-course on what to look out for while you're seeking out your perfect match. We dive into everything, from what red flags are, why they matter, what they are (and are not), and what YOUR potential red flags might look like. Yes, you have them too. Aren't you're glad someone is making you aware of these self-development opportunities?
We touch on a lot of factors of why we develop red flags, and how we can see our own flags, and do something about them. Our own flags may give us a window into our own inner world, personal woundings, and opportunities for growth.
Around here, we always say to fall in love with yourself. Wouldn't you like to know what your own red flags are so you know what you're getting into? Let's go!
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