The Cost of Keeping the Peace; Are You Betraying Yourself?

In this raw and revelatory episode, Christy and Marti explore the Prostitute Archetype not as something shameful, but as a deep survival pattern rooted in childhood. This archetype is the guardian of integrity, showing up anytime we trade our truth for belonging, safety, or approval.

Together, they reflect on the moments we've all said yes when we meant no, kept quiet to avoid rocking the boat, or betrayed ourselves to keep peace in the tribe. You'll hear how this archetype isn't about moral failure, it’s about how we learned to survive. And it's not your fault.

Through psychosomatic insights, tapping practices, and reflection prompts, this episode invites you to slow down, listen inward, and rebuild trust with the part of you that once had no choice. This is a journey of reclaiming integrity, not through judgment, but through compassion.

Key Points:

• What the Prostitute Archetype is, and how it relates to integrity
• The link between fawning and self-abandonment as a trauma response
• "What are you willing to sell yourself out for?" A question to reflect on deeply
• The importance of tapping on self-judgment first to open space for change
• How our childhood teaches us to survive by pleasing, performing, or hiding
• The danger of overvaluing others' opinions instead of trusting your inner knowing
• Signs of the Prostitute pattern: "I don't want to rock the boat," "It will cost me too much," or "I'll do whatever it takes to keep the peace."
• Where does this pattern live in the body?
• The Guardian of Integrity (Light) – honors truth, sets clear boundaries, stands rooted in self-trust