You Can't Change What You Don't See

In this powerful and deeply validating episode, Christy and Marti explore the Saboteur Archetype through both a psychosomatic and tapping lens. They shine a compassionate light on the unconscious ways we block our progress, not because we're broken, but because we're trying to stay safe.

From body tension and mind chatter to chronic resistance and judgment, the Saboteur lives where fear and choice collide. You'll hear how patterns learned in childhood show up in your adult nervous system, and how these responses are not your fault, but your responsibility to shift.

With gentle truths and practical tools, this episode reminds you that you always have a choice. Action may feel hard, but it's the most radical form of self-love. The path forward begins by releasing judgment, listening to your body's cues, and building trust with your inner compass.

Keys Points:

• What the Saboteur archetype is and how it works to protect you
• The difference between resistance and non-resonance
• Why projection is a shadow of the Saboteur and how it keeps us stuck
• Releasing the belief that "you attracted this" and why that idea is harmful
• Patterns you didn't choose but now have the power to shift
• Why choice is a muscle, and how to strengthen it through small acts of love