EP101 "Book Clubs & Parenting" ft Teniel

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
you're listening to the no service podcast with
sheldon grant, meltup, j-romeand sasha lee.
You done flipping no, tune in,let's go rest of course, you
know what I said.

Speaker 3 (00:11):
I'm gonna behave.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
You know why it's been like three months and I'm
gonna behave going forward onthe part.

Speaker 4 (00:17):
I really think that this is a good like um, what
would you call it?

Speaker 2 (00:21):
intro initiation what's that?

Speaker 4 (00:24):
like a carrier, like a, like a cuddle carrier, you
know.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
No, I don't know.
You have to explain yourself.
See the thing about podcasting.
You can't just like assume.

Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, you have to explain, you have to explain
yourself Wow.

Speaker 4 (00:36):
The mic is resting restfully in my tits.
It's a critter.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
I'm done.
You know.
They always say if women hadpenises for a day, what would
you guys do with it?

Speaker 3 (00:48):
They just go around and be like this.
Mel done told us what she wasdoing.
I honestly, oh, I know whatMel's doing.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
I'm scared, I've run away from her.
What am I doing if I have apenis for a day?

Speaker 4 (01:03):
I'm sorry for any man who.
I think, I think I can like, Iagree with that, like 100% and
then I had it.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
I better have.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
I better have girth and length, I better.
Have girth and length, I betterhave girth and length.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
Pencil dick is not it .
No, it's not, I want girth.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
I want length and I want to beat it up from the back
Straight up.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
So you want to have sex?
If you had it, yeah, what isthe purpose?

Speaker 5 (01:41):
It's not the other way around for a man.

Speaker 4 (01:42):
Everyone say hi to Gabby, hi, gabby, so not the
other way around Everyone say hito Gabby, hi, gabby, so wait.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
Shelly, if you had a vagina.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
No, if you had a vagina, nothing I'd probably DJ.
That's it, dj yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:52):
Oh, play with yourself, it's not that much fun
.
That's all you do with it, yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
You want me to get Hell?
No, you wouldn't get a mirror.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
And try to look up In our paintings.
You wouldn't get a mirror.
And try to look up at night andthings.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
I already seen one.
What do you mean?
Well, yeah, but on your ownself.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
No, no, I already know what a vagina looks like.
So you just rub it off, I justwant to DJ Because I want to
know if the clit really is thatpowerful, so you wouldn't want
to go get dicked down by a biggirl.
Yeah, I'm inside DJ.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
Experience.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
I want to see how far I can pee.
You know, like us boys, we aim.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
This chick said yeah, because if you have a vagina
for a day, I want to see if Ican stand and pee in the urinal.
You're giving head for the 24hours.

Speaker 4 (02:41):
Why would you?

Speaker 2 (02:43):
No, we don't do that.
I know, I know what I'm saying.
I would try he wants to do that.

Speaker 4 (02:46):
You guys can't even do that with a long apparatus.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
No, no, don't speak for me.

Speaker 5 (02:52):
Wow, I'm nice.
I don't understand where thiscame from my aim is 100%.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
This went for the word.
That's what they say.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
No, no, no no, no, no , no, I don't do that I got
girls in my house.
I can't do that?

Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah, that's true, it's all girls in there, I'm an
only man.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
You have your own bathroom.
So again, this is why I have toask wifey, Not necessarily, I
have little tip.

Speaker 3 (03:12):
Who she calling.
She's saying hi daddy, oh Miles.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Somebody she's calling.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
I'm just hoping for at least Seven and a half inches
Minimum.
I want girls.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Minimum.

Speaker 4 (03:26):
So okay.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Okay, you have 24 hours.
You wake up, you realize youhave it.
You have all that you asked for.
Where are you going and whatare you doing?

Speaker 4 (03:34):
Like you're just gonna run outside and look for
the first man.
So our job or I mean woman Ourworkplace, our workplace.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (03:40):
Jesus.
So I'm a walking deer, allhandsome and stuff Smelling good
, and I'm just gonna talk andI'm gonna be like Hi, how are
you?

Speaker 2 (03:56):
You women, like to do what y'all don't want Done to
yourselves.

Speaker 4 (04:00):
What do you mean?

Speaker 2 (04:00):
You hate that stuff.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
Y'all do it anyway.
So why Not y'all Tell me what Ihate?
What do I hate?
You just said you All right,y'all do it anyway.
So why what do I hate Not?

Speaker 2 (04:05):
y'all.

Speaker 4 (04:05):
Tell me what I hate.
What do I hate?
You just said you're going togo to finesse women at work?

Speaker 2 (04:08):
No no.

Speaker 4 (04:08):
When I say finesse, you're telling me that I have a
penis for 24 hours, yeah, 24.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
Yeah, that means it's limited, exactly You're going
to be cackling.

Speaker 4 (04:18):
No, no, I'm going to be very Everybody.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
Come get that cocky.
Everything with legs,everything with legs.

Speaker 4 (04:26):
I'm going to be very forward as long as I'm an
attractive, handsome man thatsmells good, I'm going to look
up with that change in my pocket.
I drive a nice, decent car.
I'm going to be like yo.
I'm not going to lie to you.

Speaker 5 (04:40):
I, I'm going to say it straight.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
I'm just going to be honest, but that's something you
wouldn't like to happen to you.

Speaker 3 (04:46):
No, no no, if you're transparent, I'm okay with it.

Speaker 4 (04:50):
Allow me to decide.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yeah, I've heard that before.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
If I just look up front, you want to just tell me
I'm going to give it.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
Okay, so after the first bus Because you know us
men, usually after the firstwe're like we need a break.
Somebody says 10 minutes Surebut for y'all you have 24 hours.
How are you maximizing thisbreak?
Like you know, you bust onetime.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
You're just gonna be like get it back up no, no, no,
no, because again I'm a rookiein the game I don't I don't know
how the the penis works likethat for you right.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
So you're gonna have be like get your knowledge up
and all that Right.
So I'm going to eat, refuel thebody.

Speaker 4 (05:29):
You know.
Get a little juice supplement,peanut, punch them something.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
Blend up, blend up.
Yeah, build up my body.
So you know what I think I'dstruggle with what when to rest
my balls.

Speaker 5 (05:38):
Do I rest it up front going to do with it?

Speaker 2 (05:45):
Because this one wants seven inches.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
She's small.

Speaker 5 (05:46):
Do a leg now.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
Right.

Speaker 4 (05:49):
And Mel already walks a little.
Sasha's really thinking thather penis is going to be huge.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yeah, she don't understand.
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
Sasha's really thinking that she's going to
have a whole baby's foot.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
Her baby's leg hanging down there.

Speaker 4 (06:02):
Her baby's leg hanging down there.

Speaker 3 (06:04):
You guys understand we're briefer boxers.
You want to know why she'ssinging that Because her body is
so heavy.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
Do you want her to swing when you walk?
I might want to feel it on myleg.
Listen, remember the balls arevery sensitive, so if it nicks,
Wait balls are sensitive.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
What?
If it nicks.
Wait, what do you mean?
Balls are sensitive.
You're a mother of.

Speaker 4 (06:21):
Is that why you guys like that is why you guys like
when girls Like if you'regetting head for them to play
with the balls, yeah, but likewhere Our mind is focused on you
.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
If she hits that at the wrong angle, it's gonna kill
me.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
So, but do you like the licking of the balls?

Speaker 2 (06:34):
Sure.

Speaker 4 (06:35):
Sure, does that feel good?
Not really.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
Not for me.
For me it's not really.

Speaker 4 (06:40):
Well, does it feel like weird?
Because you're just like onenick of a tooth Right.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah, like I'm worried more than I'm enjoying
it.

Speaker 4 (06:47):
That's what I've heard, guys.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
I'm worried because if you nick it the wrong way.
Yo, it's like you shot me inthe head.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Yeah, it's painful.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
Anyways, I didn't know, that I didn't want to
start like this after fourmonths off.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
Welcome back.
You can tell that some of usare backed up.
It's paused.

Speaker 3 (07:03):
Why it's cool, maybe she's getting a call.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Should we call?

Speaker 4 (07:07):
Someone text no.
Oh, we're back.
No.

Speaker 2 (07:13):
We can start the show right here.
It's a good spot to get into it.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
I don't know why it paused it doesn't matter.
I'm sorry, I don't.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
Okay so we're just gonna end back you.

Speaker 4 (07:40):
Sasha's back.
Nice, get me white and red.
Overproof the tanning QuietEverywhere we party, everywhere
we party.

Speaker 5 (07:50):
People laughing.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
Because I've been so happy Street vibe Drum, as much
we make something.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
I'm going to need the money.
I'm going to need the money.
I'm going to need the money.
I'm going to need the money.
I'm going to need the money.
I'm going to need the money.
I'm going to need the money.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
I'm going to need the money.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
Yo, it's us, we're here Finally.
Back in the house, back in thebasement.
Our bellies are full Mel hascoke in her system.
No ice, thank god.

Speaker 5 (08:18):
She's still on her phone, ladies and gentlemen.
She dead.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
We're all here, sasha's here yeah, yeah mel is
here so I'm sorry, I'm here, youknow, but she's not really here
and we have a special guestwith us who has fed us,
entertained us uh, give jokesgreat insight.
Our dear friend teneal.
Clap it over for Tenille.

(08:44):
Ladies and gentlemen, hello.

Speaker 4 (08:47):
Tenille, how are you?
I'm great.
I'm happy to be here.

Speaker 2 (08:50):
Welcome to the pod.
I'm sure you've listened to alot of episodes.
I have, I have you know how itkind of goes down here.
Anything goes.
Feel free to be yourself.
Yeah, I was going to say do wereally want that?
Be careful what you tellTenille.
Be careful For those of you whodon't know.

(09:10):
Tenille is our co-worker andone of our favorites.
I wanted you on the show for along time, but.

Speaker 4 (09:12):
I think this is the right time.
They never invited me.
No, it had to be the right time.
They asked me if me really is aJamaican.
Them do all kind of things Inever invite me, I'd never
invite you.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
No, hello, don't speak for me.
Y'all in the book club, y'allare in all kind of clubs and
never said to you to come on theshow.
Yeah, that's not true To NealSheldon, are you?

Speaker 4 (09:30):
really putting this on us, because the book club has
been going on for over a yearnow.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
Oh wow a year.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
So it confuses place, it's our fault because we're
not that consistent, to behonest.
Okay, we just got a part of it,we feel like it, but um yeah
we're back, man, how's everyonefeeling such?

Speaker 3 (09:53):
how you feeling, man, I'm good, you're good, great.
How's life?
Life is laughing, it's life.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
And I told someone that in the dm they say they dm
me on the page and they're likeyo, where are you guys?

Speaker 3 (10:00):
are you guys?

Speaker 2 (10:00):
okay, life is life because we haven't posted, we
haven't put an episode out intwo months.

Speaker 3 (10:06):
I think it was October, I feel like it's more
than that Before August, end ofAugust.

Speaker 2 (10:12):
Yeah, it was Kegan's birthday around that time.

Speaker 4 (10:15):
Listen, life is life.
Life is life, you know.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
We live in Canada and everything's expensive.
I haven't had grapes in likethree months.
Who has has money, though.
Grapes cost a lot like a lot ofmoney, and I can't afford it
sorry, I'm turning off my phone,yeah melissa doesn't know how
to pod properly, guys it's beenthree years.

Speaker 4 (10:34):
I don't understand mentorship.
You work where we work and youhave your phone that makes
sounds.
My phone never makes soundsbecause of that reason, like I
don't ever have Not evenvibration- Really.

Speaker 3 (10:48):
No, if you get me, it's a You're lucky.
Mine too.
Mine doesn't vibrate Nothing.
My watch does.
I'm not going to lie, my watchvibrates and that's the only way
I know the phone's ringing Metoo.

Speaker 4 (10:55):
That's literally the only way.

Speaker 2 (11:05):
But, as far as like audio, audio from my phone no,
yeah, true, yeah, it's just.
I mean this week we could turnit back on though vacation, I
guess, when your vacation athome staycation?

Speaker 4 (11:11):
yeah, I was actually supposed to go away, but I'm not
me too, me too do you guys wantto go away?
Let's go three days where arewe?
Going let's just pick a flight,go for 48 hours and come back
look at the one with no children.

Speaker 3 (11:23):
I know right like no responsibilities as soon as she
said that, I'm thinking okay,babysitting kids have schools
lunch at the park.
Who?
I'll pick them up how did it go?

Speaker 4 (11:32):
It's Sasha's birthday this week, so that's why, Yay.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
I am turning 13 now.
I was going to say you're not13 now times 1, 2, 3.
We're the same age youngin?
No, we're not.
I don't know how old you peopleare you're 88 because you're.

Speaker 2 (11:54):
November, you're end of the year.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
I'm 89.

Speaker 2 (11:58):
I'm born in the early 80s.

Speaker 3 (12:02):
You're 89 baby when you burn me I wash, cook and
clean.

Speaker 2 (12:04):
That's not true.
See how fast you just Jump backto the busy.

Speaker 3 (12:05):
You're 89, baby, yeah , april.
Anyways, when you burn me, Iwash, cook and clean.
That's not true, right?

Speaker 2 (12:09):
Something about wiping Back up.
Still, mel, where you been, yowhat's up?

Speaker 4 (12:13):
I'm just here living, surviving.
Yeah, that sounds like a reallyDepressed person.
Yeah, like you know.
No, to be honest, see, I justwant to say seasonal depression
is real.

Speaker 3 (12:24):
It's real.

Speaker 5 (12:25):
It's called SAD, Seasonal Affectiveness Disorder.

Speaker 4 (12:27):
Yeah, it's been real for me.
I'm trying to navigate that?

Speaker 2 (12:33):
Do you think Especially working where we work
?
Do you think someone can everget over seasonal depression, no
matter how long they've livedin that climate or country?

Speaker 4 (12:41):
No, it's just for the season, I know, but can you get
over?

Speaker 2 (12:44):
it at any point.
Yeah, go ahead.
Yeah, no, like I'm just saying,are you?

Speaker 4 (12:47):
are you?
Do you think it's like seasonalaffectives, or do you think
it's more along the lines oflike other things?
And other contributories inyour life.
That's making you feel okay,this is not where I want to be,
and that's why that adds to ityeah that adds to it, plus the
weather.
Yeah, and then the sun got me,so early like yo.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
I don't even want to come outside yo like my, melanin
doesn't recharge, no more likeone time I have to take my
vitamin d.

Speaker 5 (13:14):
I was gonna say have you been taking your vitamin?

Speaker 4 (13:16):
I'm not getting vitamin d, but I'm taking.

Speaker 5 (13:18):
I do take vitamin.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
D but, I'm not getting vitamin D so last time
we spoke, you weren't gettingvitamin D either.
So like is there an effort to?

Speaker 4 (13:37):
you know what?
Let's call her Las Vegas it is,it's dry.
I'm just relaxing right nowlike I'm not.
I'm not dating, I'm not looking, I'm just doing me but why
should I look at?
Yeah, I've been resting myfriend for quite some time.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
Yeah, her friend is very well rested.

Speaker 5 (13:56):
It's well rested it overslept.

Speaker 2 (14:01):
That's what's happening yeah 100, but um I'm
just um.
I'm just doing me right nowlike I'm okay so we're coming up
to the end of the year you'redating yourself.

Speaker 4 (14:11):
I am that part.
I'm dating myself.
A lot about myself, yeah Ithink they know that's very,
that's something that's soimportant that we don't do, and
I think because we can a marriedperson do that?
Um sorry to cut you I think youcould yeah you still have to
know, because for me I don'tlike there's not a lot of places
I go by myself like there's alot of places that I'm like, oh,

(14:33):
I want to go.
And then my first thing is oh,what's bunny doing?

Speaker 5 (14:36):
and I'll call bunny and she's my ride or die.

Speaker 4 (14:38):
That's her daughter, that's my daughter, yeah she's
19 yes I had her when I was fiveyeah, she's 19.
Yes, I had her when I was fiveso but I don't, I don't know
like I don't.
I've never been to a movie bymyself you should try it.

Speaker 5 (14:57):
Oh my gosh I've never been to eat really no, no, no,
I've done that too just like howwe went for the book club.

Speaker 1 (15:04):
Go somewhere like that that's the only theater I
go to yeah, so go there.

Speaker 4 (15:07):
It's so amazing.
I even last time I went alone.
Big up, kevin, I hope you'redoing okay I ended up to go see
what's the one, the third one,what's that movie?
The Marvel movie, with all ofthem at the end.

Speaker 5 (15:20):
Endgame With Thor.
Endgame, yeah, so.

Speaker 4 (15:23):
I went to see Endgame by myself, and who did I see?
Little Kevin, oh, and me andhim Ended up sitting beside each
other Watching a movie.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
Look at that.

Speaker 4 (15:30):
Oh, nice yeah, was it awkward?
But we didn't want to seenobody If we go.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
We didn't want to see nobody, I mean we didn't really
talk, like he just Ended upsitting, like we sat two, like
how is that?

Speaker 4 (15:41):
I'm gonna, is it?

Speaker 2 (15:43):
later in the other day yeah, dry.

Speaker 3 (15:45):
So that's what I'm saying first of all, why would I
be chubbsy him?
Why not?

Speaker 4 (15:53):
one, two she don't sorry he's my friend, you guys
know kevin yeah, sure, yeah, we.

Speaker 2 (16:00):
I'm just saying like, after you watch the movie
together, you sat beside eachother for two hours and it it's
in a reclinable litter, right?
Well, no, the Avengers movie islike four hours.

Speaker 4 (16:07):
Yeah, but we talked in the beginning, before the
credits, because I like to seethe previews.
I don't know about you guys,the previews are my thing, I'm
not going to miss the previews.
I actually I endeavor to seepreviews, but I'm never on time

(16:27):
enough to see them.
I have like the movie starts, Igotta, I gotta hurry up and I
gotta get there and then I'm,you know okay well, I shouldn't
try to go to the movies byyourself as an experience.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
No, no, no, it's not the time to eat.
I should smell you're not full.

Speaker 4 (16:38):
No, I'm gonna go.

Speaker 3 (16:39):
No, no, so I have to save room for my nighttime meal,
but I do feel very guys, tanielfed us today and I just want
you to know like the food was sogood.
It was to the point where Itried to sabotage by telling
people certain things tasted bad.

Speaker 2 (16:51):
Can we just tell the spread, because I?

Speaker 3 (16:52):
didn't want anybody else to eat any.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
Can we tell the spread?
We had shrimp.

Speaker 3 (16:56):
Pepper shrimp.

Speaker 2 (16:57):
Cornbread Almond.

Speaker 3 (17:01):
Not salmon, rice and cheese.
Almond Salad.
There's dessert.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
I didn't even touch the salad, yet my plate is full.

Speaker 4 (17:08):
Gravy yeah, thank you .
T the cake, the cake, the cake.

Speaker 2 (17:12):
Yeah, cornbread.
Thank you T, you're welcome.
Yeah, sasha.

Speaker 3 (17:20):
She has effectively replaced you.
No, no, no, I'm okay with that.
Y'all think I'm not okay.
I'm okay.
No, I'm wanting to take it.
I welcome this.

Speaker 4 (17:25):
You know, Sasha's never made anything for me.
Sasha's food is amazing.
Sasha's food is amazing, yeah,but she never made anything for
me.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
This is why we tease her because her food is good,
and then she'll bring it likeonce.

Speaker 3 (17:45):
And then we're like yo, is she going to bring it for
?
No, no, if you're coming, ifyou bring anything to my house,
if you're coming because you'relisten, your setup is different.
Your setup is we all contributeand one person cook.

Speaker 4 (17:50):
No, that was now sasha, but before have you seen
her?

Speaker 3 (17:53):
yeah I've never come here before that.
We're talking about book clublizard.

Speaker 4 (17:58):
Yeah are you kidding me?

Speaker 5 (18:02):
you've been in book clubs since last not even last
August, the August before Holdon.

Speaker 4 (18:08):
And you have never brought food.
You have to understand that.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
I'm usually coming from work, so I stop and I pick
up either it's a wine or food,something, and I pick that up
and bring.

Speaker 5 (18:17):
But I'm usually coming from work, If you want
tea it's my aunt.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Her hand is very delicate See, dear lick it
Delicious.

Speaker 3 (18:29):
Yeah, no, thank you T for the food.
It was amazing.
I'm okay with this.

Speaker 2 (18:31):
Honestly, guys, seeing as we have a lot of women
on the show today, I am backingout.

Speaker 3 (18:40):
Don't do that.
We need a male's perspective.
No, I'm here.

Speaker 2 (18:43):
I'm here to give you guys perspective, but I am
backing out today Because todayis all about y'all.
It's all about Uno.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
I'm nervous.
Bad Woman's sweat Don't benervous.

Speaker 2 (18:55):
There's so much to talk about.
We missed a lot in the threemonths we were off.
The last time we were here,Diddy was going to jail.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (19:06):
And since then he has a hundred million charges
against him.

Speaker 5 (19:08):
Yeah, a hundred million.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
Yeah, it's over, he's never coming out.

Speaker 5 (19:12):
What do you?

Speaker 2 (19:12):
guys Like do you even care anymore?

Speaker 3 (19:15):
No.

Speaker 2 (19:16):
Like ever since the news came out.
I was kind of not shocked, butI was like yo, is he really
gonna get charged with all this?
And now I'm just likeeverything I hear, I believe it.
I'm like he did that.

Speaker 4 (19:26):
He did all of that so random question, epstein?
Did they treat Epstein the same?

Speaker 2 (19:32):
way.
Oh, they killed him, isn't hedead?
Yeah, I was gonna say I thoughthe was dead.
They killed him.

Speaker 4 (19:36):
This is different, though but I'm talking about the
um dehumiliation oh, no, no, no, that's reserved for us.

Speaker 2 (19:43):
What I mean by us is so they they handled him with
more care.

Speaker 4 (19:47):
Yeah, yeah, you can say that, yeah, we're not
getting those I don't want to.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
I don't want to dwell on that.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
I just want to get your guys quick opinion on diddy
because, like so much hashappened since in terms of his
case and his name, like his kidshave tried defending him and
you know okay, but let's beclear, I mean as much as you
know your father or whoever likehe was an active father.

Speaker 4 (20:08):
You can't yeah, he's a great father yeah so as a
father, you're gonna defend,like as a as a child, you're
gonna defend your dad yeah, likeI would, I I know, for me a
hundred percent and I'll bewrong, and strong because it's
my daddy.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
I was going to say regardless of like what you know
or what he's accused of to me.
I wouldn't speak publicly.
I would support him, you know,privately, because yeah, but
that's your life.

Speaker 4 (20:34):
You have to understand that these kids have
lived in the limelight for thewhole yeah, for all of their
life, when their mother diedwhen, like you know what I mean,
like all this stuff like that'stheir life, that's the curse
that they have as much as youmight say, it's a blessing but,
it's also a curse, because ifeverything you do scrutinize and
everything is under amicroscope in front of people,
that's a lot yeah, that's veryhard to.

(20:56):
So when your dad is wrong,you're gonna be strong for him.
You're gonna be like nah, it'sokay, he's just human, though.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
He just you know yeah , I'm not saying it's right,
yeah, no, I'm saying I agree,and like they've grown up in a
bubble, basically.
So I wouldn't expect them tohave a certain moral code, right
, like to understand that, hey,your dad probably did some nasty
things, but but okay, justblindly supportive in that and
okay, so let's go back to that,because if you've grown up in

(21:23):
that bubble, the things thatyour father did.

Speaker 4 (21:26):
If you don't know, like those who know better, do
better for sure they don't knowthat.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
That's wrong, not to say they don't know that's all
they see, but they grew up in it, yeah, so their moral code is
very different from ours yeah orfrom, and they're rich yeah,
like everything gets brushedaside, yeah, so it's.

Speaker 4 (21:44):
It's just very different.
I find.
I feel, like it's hard for youto be like, oh well you know, I
feel bad for them, and themtrying to be the poor little Ray
J yeah, that's what I'm talkingabout.

Speaker 2 (21:58):
They're defending their dad's honor, but I get it.
Donald Trump.
It's a new president wait, waityeah, no, like the world is
going crazy.
America season five is lookingamazing right now greatest

(22:21):
greatest show on tv.
Like damn, I thought kamala wasgonna win.
Um, it seemed that way, butlook like trumpy.
You know big, big d he's got Ishould have.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
I should have bet money on it.

Speaker 2 (22:34):
He's got a.
He's got the lock on the peopleman, I was surprised yeah
because the way it seemed likethe perception was that you know
he's, he's a racist and youknow the first term wasn't so
great so we're not gonna do itagain.
And he meant one of thelandslides a lot of black
americans vote yes, I was okay.

Speaker 4 (22:51):
I think that, um, and this is just my consensus but I
think that a lot of peoplethey're tired of the way things
are being run and especially,like you know, those of us, or
those of them, I should say, whoare religious and just, very,
like they don't want to see.
They they're they're talkingabout like transgender isters,

(23:15):
they're talking about like allthese other things that they're
not okay with like morally.
They grew up knowing andthinking that that's not okay
yeah, so now it's just like no,we need somebody to fix this,
because I mean listen, I'm asliberal as the next person, but
it's gotten way out of hand.
When you can change and pleasedon't come for me and I'm sorry,

(23:37):
but you can change your sexualgender and your identity, but
you can't buy out by alcohol ortobacco yeah like there's just
just something wrong with thatyou know, so I think when he
says and he makes claims ofbeing like okay, well, you know
what, I'm gonna change, that,I'm gonna fix that, it's almost
like a change that they want andthey need not from him, no,

(23:58):
it's definitely not.

Speaker 2 (23:59):
But who else is bringing it?
And he's smart in the senselike there's nobody else.
He's smart to play the angle of.
You know, let me give thepeople what they want, because
the Democrats are like yeahwe're going to change this and
we're going to accept all thesepeople.
And then you have those hardcoreAmericans who are on you know
standards, or true Americans arelike no, we don't want to

(24:20):
change this and change that.
So whoever would come out andsay that I'm going to support
that, they would have voted forhim yeah, regardless and now you
have donald trump, which to me,oh so good luck for y'all for
the next four years it's gonnaget nasty yeah, but I don't.

Speaker 4 (24:33):
I mean, I grew up in the states, um, and I don't know
like you guys are saying likeyeah, it's a show and you know
season five I really feel likewe're like the states is like
the great anatomy of tv likewe're in season 28 it's not just
like because you guys notremember the bill clinton and
monica lewinsky for sure.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
First of, all first of all bill clinton was my
president.

Speaker 4 (24:58):
Okay, okay, and him getting a little bit of neck and
then then lying about it.

Speaker 2 (25:03):
Yeah, it was the lies , no question, it was the
blatant lies, was it?

Speaker 4 (25:06):
during a speech.
He was getting hit.
No, no, no, no, it was probablyin the Oval Office.
He got it in the office, yeah,yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:11):
And apparently he was doing some craziness like
putting a cigarette in hervagina, all kind of stuff, but
the thing is that she wanted it.

Speaker 4 (25:27):
Like, let it happen, you have to.
I don't know if I feel like I'mokay, I get it, but she's
married, he is, and they're likesome marriages you look at and
you're just like, oh my gosh,how are these two people
together?
That works a few stolen moments.

Speaker 2 (25:49):
Hey, did you guys know, mariah?
Carey dated derrick cheater forlike a couple months is he a
baseball player?

Speaker 4 (25:57):
yes, derrick cheater.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
Yeah, I heard about the baseball player I had no
idea, and she wrote a song abouthim.

Speaker 4 (26:02):
What song was it again?

Speaker 2 (26:04):
I'll tell you after I forgot.
But yeah, tesla robots.
Robots.
Who's getting a robot in theirhouse?
I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (26:12):
Okay, so iRobot and all these Girl, I thought I saw
iRobot.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
Who's getting a robot in their house?

Speaker 4 (26:19):
There was another movie I think it was on Amazon
Prime I could movie.
I think it was on amazon prime,I could be wrong, um, and it
was about how, like the smarthome system, like locked, down
yeah, I don't remember what itwas, or michael I don't remember
what it was, but I'm just likethis is this, is this is the
thing.
Like I, I I have a lot of smarthome products I have google and

(26:40):
alexa.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
Well, because, okay, I'll tell you right?

Speaker 4 (26:43):
no, but I tell you what happened.
So, google, I love the factthat you can make announcements
to each room and stuff like thatand then I started using Alexa.
Actually, my boyfriend hadAlexa and then we started using
and I'm just like, oh my gosh,so Alexa, because I'm the
administrator of the app, so Icontrol everything, so I put
Alexa's in my kids' room and Idon't have to wait for them to

(27:05):
answer.
Like Google, you can call theGoogle Home Mini and they have
to answer, and then you talk tothem.
Alexa, don't do that shit.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
Alexa just drops in and you just hear what's
happening in there.
I don't like that.

Speaker 4 (27:17):
I love it, so you just.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
So you'll just be like but you have teenage kids.
What are you doing?

Speaker 4 (27:23):
just be like but you have teenage kids.

Speaker 3 (27:24):
What are you doing?

Speaker 2 (27:25):
what are you talking about?
You have teenage kids.
You're dropping it on theirbusiness yeah, we're not doing
that.

Speaker 4 (27:31):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 3 (27:32):
well, this is where people understand that a very
open relationship yeah, we do.
That's great, I love itextremely open, so even if
something did I go out and thenshe's like ma it's like what are
you doing?

Speaker 4 (27:45):
yeah, I would I would probably yeah so, but, that's
my thing.
But I love that because my sonwill be like oh, I never heard,
alexa, I was sleeping likethere's no part of him that
didn't hear me calling him yeahso when I drop in I'll be like,
oh, I hear you on your game.
Don't let me shut down thatinternet really I'm not an

(28:09):
annoying mom like I don't thinkthat I am yeah but if I call you
, I want you to come so what ifyour son?

Speaker 2 (28:15):
what if your son is like yo?
Please quiet, let me gowwwumancom.
Oh my god like you know what Imean.

Speaker 4 (28:23):
We actually have talked about this we're very
open, like it's very you knowwhat?
No, you know what I feel like.
If you're not open with yourkids, somebody else will be.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
Yeah because they they're.

Speaker 4 (28:40):
I mean, they're at an age where they're experimenting
, they're trying to see you knowwhat they can do, and stuff
like that, and it's reallyimportant for you to be open
with them, because if you're notsomebody from India, go be open
with your piggie, so question.
And sit and picture.

Speaker 2 (28:53):
Like it's not okay.
How did you build that likerelationship From when they were
younger?
Okay, it was always like that.

Speaker 4 (29:00):
Yeah, was like that.
Yeah, yeah, I remember my son,um, like it was just.
It was just very open in thesense of anything can be talked
about.
Because when I was 18, I askedmy mom like what was sex?
And she said when two peoplekiss and make love I think I was
driving, I was driving and shesaid that to me and I was
floored because I was thoughtwhat?

Speaker 5 (29:22):
kissing is all you need.

Speaker 4 (29:24):
That's what you thought, and then she like
talking about it and stuff likethat.
It was really like taboo forthem, yeah and I didn't want
that to be?
Yeah, I didn't want that to befor my kids.
So we talk about fellatio, wetalk about clenolingus, we talk
about anything that's good andthat can be brought up at the
dinner table or wherever,because your first form of

(29:45):
education, and whatever willcome from me in our home.
It makes sense, because we cooklike this we talk about anything
like if you're going out thereand you're with, yeah, that's it
yeah it's very important, likeif you go out there and you're
just like mom, okay, so I had ahard-on because like that's

(30:06):
something.
No that's something you have totalk about because it's just
like, well, what's happening?
And I, unfortunately, I'm asingle mom, so it's just like no
, we talk about everything and Ido find, I'll be honest, like
talking to my son about certainthings that's what's good next
is a little bit different fromtalking to my daughter like my
daughter.
My daughter is a little bit moreum.

(30:27):
As she's gotten older.
I feel like she's just a littlebit more um.
I want to say conservative, butthat's not the word, because
she's pretty wild and out thereyou know what I mean listen
she's not, she's to kneel 2.50like

Speaker 5 (30:42):
we're a lot alike.

Speaker 2 (30:43):
I think that that does have so do you guys clash
in that sense, like how you sayyou guys are alike and whatnot?
Um, because we all know yourpersonality, you're very
outgoing and stuff.

Speaker 4 (30:53):
But like does it shock you sometimes with certain
things that she might see, thatlike are open and so as she
gets older and she's having herown um experiences, yeah, and
like going out there without me.
That's what's really shockingme, because you're going out
without me?
No, but not even that, becauseI encourage that, like my kids

(31:13):
are like you're not helping andI'm like no, because you need to
learn how to navigate thisworld by yourself yeah but for
me, but I'm just like I, she'll,she'll tell me, it's like
scenarios.
I'm like, oh damn well yeah,these kids these days yeah I
thought we were bad.
Now, yeah, so but with mydaughter it's it's different
with my son.
So my son has had, I guess,more interactions um that we

(31:37):
talk about more.
I guess, like we, both of them,we talk about everything, but
my son, I realize, um, theselittle girls are trifling these
little girls are a lot.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
They are a lot and if you walked in.

Speaker 4 (31:49):
What if you walked in on him having sex?
What would you do um?

Speaker 2 (31:54):
is he allowed to bring?

Speaker 4 (31:55):
friends over.
He can bring girls, like he hashad girls over, but not to the
point where they can have no,why are you clapping?
Because if they're not doing itat home, do you know?

Speaker 2 (32:07):
you know much james bond activities I had to do yeah
, to bring girls in my houseclimbing up the side of the
house come to the top roomwindow like listen man.
So if, if I had thatopportunity where I could just
be open Like hey, mom, this is.
Whoever, and you know, andshe'd be like Okay, you know,
guys, have fun, be safe.
It would have been so mucheasier for me.

Speaker 4 (32:29):
You know it's, it's very true, because it's so much
easier.
I sneaked in a young boy'shouse I believe you and my purse
fell out in there.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
And in my purse Was a condom.

Speaker 4 (32:40):
At least you were safe, but I wasn't having sex
yet.

Speaker 2 (32:43):
Did they see it what you want to do with the condom?
Just in case, because I wantedto.

Speaker 5 (32:49):
I wanted him to take my virginity.

Speaker 4 (32:51):
Oh, okay, yeah, he ended up being my first, yes,
but what I'm saying is like themom called my mom.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
Yeah, I would believe that, Because you snuck into
ours.

Speaker 4 (32:59):
Because they knew we're together.
We're boyfriend and girlfriend,right yo miss me get that piece
of bean that night there.
What I'm saying is his momallowed me to come over, right,
so it.
It is okay, yeah, but then itisn't okay to say that, because
I'm telling you, yeah, we didn'twant to, but I like I was
scared.
I was only 16 at the time.
I didn't 16 or 17 because Ithink it's better.

(33:22):
I think it's better that the momallowed you to come in, but she
was mad that she allowed it,because now she's like she's
thinking I'm fast who was madHis mom, and then I got beaten
because my mom was like well,yeah, dude, calm down, but the
school gave it to us, fam.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
Of course, yeah, they were giving it to us sometimes,
yeah.

Speaker 4 (33:36):
So it was just in my wallet, it wasn't that.
I just feel like.
I was gonna go bareback anyways, no.

Speaker 2 (33:45):
No service podcast.

Speaker 4 (33:47):
He was my first.
He was my first.

Speaker 2 (33:50):
I was like what give it?
Now Give it.
Really your first time.

Speaker 4 (33:57):
Hold on.
It was his first too, yeah, butso you knew it was gonna be a
mess.
Like you knew it was gonna be amess.
Like you knew it was gonna be awhole bunch of foolishness are
you gonna go done?

Speaker 3 (34:11):
I'm all like wait it reached we'll put it.

Speaker 4 (34:14):
I'll just say this without saying all my business
thank god that it wasn't itwasn't what I expected at all,
obviously well, no like, noteven a little bit.

Speaker 5 (34:23):
It's never the first time Like the best.

Speaker 4 (34:26):
Do you guys remember?

Speaker 3 (34:27):
your first time.
How was it?
Of course?
How was your first time, sasha?
It was not, it at all.
Did it hurt Hell yes.

Speaker 4 (34:35):
Did you bleed?
Did you push?

Speaker 3 (34:37):
him.
No, I think my hymen must havebroken.

Speaker 4 (34:41):
Did you bleed he?

Speaker 2 (34:42):
didn't push it all the way to neil bled oh my god
no, I just I.

Speaker 4 (34:46):
I, I it was, it was not.
I was not in an age where youguys were, so it was just a
little bit different for meyou're younger or older?

Speaker 1 (34:53):
I was younger?

Speaker 4 (34:55):
yeah, do you want to say how young you were?
No, okay.
But also to like I, I okay.
So I came to canada when I wasaround 14 and when I came to
canada, I it was.
It was so much of a cultureshock for me and it was such a
rude awakening because thethings that canadian children

(35:16):
were dealing with at that age wehad superseded a long time ago.
So for me, I was just it was.
It was very different for me.
So, meeting people and talkingto guys like I remember I talked
to one guy in high schoolbecause the rest of the guys I
was talking to were dealing withwere all older because I just

(35:37):
felt like this was not, this isnot where it was at for me.
No, it was very like it was sojuvenile for me.
But I mean in the same breath,I would never want my children
to grow up the way I did likenot at all, it was not so you
didn't bleed your first time didyou bleed?

(36:00):
No, because I don't you want toknow why.
The reason why I'm sofascinated to know that the
three of us did not bleed on ourfirst time.

Speaker 2 (36:07):
I didn't bleed either .

Speaker 4 (36:08):
Did the girl you.
Okay, any virginity that youtook, did they bleed?

Speaker 2 (36:15):
Yeah, so.

Speaker 4 (36:16):
Because I'm saying, a lot of girls growing up told me
they bled and I'm like bruh, Iwas waiting for it Me, bring pod
yeah me put on.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
What did you think?

Speaker 3 (36:29):
I just thought I was gonna bleed right away.
I thought it's gonna be so muchBleeding that needs right maybe
from just terrible.

Speaker 2 (36:41):
Why, how and why she was not paying attention in sex.

Speaker 4 (36:42):
It no, but they tell you that you bleed, though,
right, but they never.
But they never explainedwhether it's gonna be like a
period and ever explained theflow of it.
They just said some women bleedand some don't sometimes we
bleed.

Speaker 3 (36:49):
No, and it's not a period, it's just from hot fuck.

Speaker 4 (36:52):
Pardon me, oh my god but you know what I, I, I I'm
sorry.
No, sometimes you fling up andit brings your period down no,
it's not a period, it'sliterally just a white spot spot
and it's done, my the wall tearup.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Oh my god, tell your husband to take time.

Speaker 4 (37:11):
You hear that, mr man , that's why you need them, so
knock, yes, oh my god, clearly,precisely it's not genetics at
all.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
No, it's not genetic it's not that it's

Speaker 4 (37:26):
coming down from a grandmother.
So question, so question forthe ladies.

Speaker 3 (37:29):
So after you get them hot walk right, yeah, you go
supper with cool, water no, no,but does it hurt to walk?

Speaker 4 (37:34):
like, do you walk?

Speaker 3 (37:35):
funny after.
Yes, have you walked.
Funny after no can't sit down.
You know, I feel like I'm cutby the sides.
You know, I'm just not going toput my business out there, I'm
just not going to put mybusiness out there.

Speaker 4 (37:46):
You have to cut, I'm not going to.

Speaker 2 (37:48):
I do jumping jacks and I'm done.
I'm not going to put mybusiness out there, I'm going to
dug you up and dug like onebefore a walk three days I'm
going to pretend, I'm going towalk like no, I'm not.

Speaker 4 (38:01):
Meanwhile, I'm dying.
I'm just not going to put mybusiness out there, but alright
you can't bring it up in this.

Speaker 2 (38:07):
I know, like, why you started this.
She always does this youstarted this.

Speaker 4 (38:11):
I mean I've had, I've had like one particular person,
because I've never had, likeyou know, this feeling with
different, like a lot of people.
So with this one person, I,yeah, I did walk with a little,
you know, I walked with a littlelight you know yes, no, no, no.

(38:38):
You know what and?

Speaker 3 (38:38):
then, when that first I have seen you with that
gingerly walk you know thegingerly walk I'm talking about.

Speaker 5 (38:46):
She's walking on eggshells.

Speaker 4 (38:47):
It was way before.
Let's date that Do you knowwhat the funny thing is?
I'm the one you warned aboutthat.

Speaker 3 (38:55):
Sometimes it comes out.

Speaker 4 (38:56):
I'm not always the one.

Speaker 3 (38:58):
She's the one.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
Sheldon.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
How many times have you had?

Speaker 2 (39:04):
to believe I've never said it and she's here saying
it to me?
No, you say it in the moment,you'll be like I did this and I
did that wait, I gotta believeyou.

Speaker 3 (39:10):
I'm like bro, you did not think before you spoke no,
that's because I talk some um,it was before that so it wasn't
any time now okay, yeah, so thatgingerly walk I just no one do
I need to poop or do do so backto the parenting thing um,

(39:31):
because we went off on a tangent.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
Yeah, we really did um like you know, being open
with you because I think youhave the oldest kids here I do.

Speaker 4 (39:38):
My children are um, and I really, when I out with
them, they tell me that, oh,your sister looks really.
And I'm just like yeah, it's mysister.
And I think the craziest thingis going to a club with my
daughter where they're like ohmy God, You've done that.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (39:55):
And how was that?

Speaker 4 (39:56):
You know, what.
The first time.
It was weird my daughter's analcoholic.

Speaker 2 (40:05):
No, you are not, not gonna do that to bunny bunny.

Speaker 4 (40:08):
I'm here to defend you, bunny.
I'm here to defend you.
That's why we're besties.
I rebuke that.
You know what I think theweirdest thing is seeing people
talk to her like older guys orstuff.

Speaker 3 (40:20):
That's like, that's kind of weird and you're looking
at them like what don't move Iknow that one time at the party
I was like which one my dinner?

Speaker 4 (40:30):
I was like who was the waiter?
The waiter was flirting withher.
Which one?
The waiter was a girl?
No, there was a guy there tooin the back.
Oh, and I was like excuse me,excuse me bunny, I me Bunny.
I said, bunny, what's going on?

Speaker 5 (40:46):
She's like I don't know what you're talking about
Auntie.

Speaker 2 (40:49):
Mel had to step in.

Speaker 4 (40:50):
You know what With my daughter?
She can hold her own.
She's just got such a strongpersonality that I don't
necessarily worry about her.

Speaker 2 (41:01):
I don't, which is good.

Speaker 4 (41:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (41:03):
You trust her a little bit.

Speaker 4 (41:05):
Ah, yeah, she's just she's not exactly like I don't
know.
She's not like a nice personlike me, she's more.

Speaker 3 (41:12):
How are you talking about bunny?
You know what you don't thinkshe is not a nice person.

Speaker 5 (41:18):
I'm telling her.

Speaker 4 (41:19):
No, she she.
No, she, she, she understands.
No, she knows.
I talk about her like what am Isaying tomorrow?
The next time I see her, I'mtelling her no, she's um, she's
just got a very strongpersonality.
So when it comes to people orpeople like taking over, like
she's from she was younger and Idon't and people say, oh,
that's you know.
Okay, that's great that youinstill that in her, but I don't

(41:39):
know how much I have.
My daughter has had very clearboundaries, okay, and that's
something that, like even Idon't know how much I have.
My daughter has had very clearboundaries, okay, and that's
something that like even I don'thave boundaries like that, but
that's good, like she's veryclear with like how she?
and if she's like, if she's in asituation where she feels like
overwhelmed or she feels likelike it's too much for her, or
she's like social anxiety meter,her social is like down, she's

(42:01):
done, she's done.
And she's like, yeah, we'redone and we're leaving and we're
we're out, you know, she's just.
Or if she has like friends orsomething like that, where she's
like, oh, they're like, oh,yeah, come on and whatever.
She's never gonna be the one tobe like oh, mom, I went because
I felt bad, because not thatnot happening.

Speaker 5 (42:21):
She's not gullible.
No, that's good, no, that'sgood, though.

Speaker 4 (42:26):
Okay, all right, Speaking about boundaries.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
Yes.

Speaker 4 (42:30):
And just you know, praying over people and hoping
the best for them.
Can we pray for TD Jakes?

Speaker 2 (42:36):
Yeah, TD Jakes.
Yeah, he had a little collapsetoday.

Speaker 4 (42:40):
He looked like he had a stroke on stage he looked
like he had a stroke on stage.

Speaker 2 (42:47):
Yeah, like a mild stroke.

Speaker 5 (42:48):
This is the second um second pastor that actually had
this um the winans oldestbrother had a stroke recently.

Speaker 2 (42:53):
Oh yeah, he was preaching and he just same thing
.
Like you know, you're talkingand they're just kind of slowly
fading out.
Um, he was there and he'spreaching and like his voice
just kept getting lower andlower and lower and he just like
tipped over.
Like just how we saw TD Jakestoday, like same thing.

Speaker 4 (43:06):
So the second time this year but he was preaching
about like it was like he wassaying bye to the congregation,
yeah, like he was sayingsomething like I love you guys
or something like that, and thenall of a sudden his hand just
dropped.
Have like a lot going on rightnow with a lot of other things
like I mean thatyeah, that stress can really
like affect you.

(43:26):
And I was thinking the samething, me, my best friend big up
, tanisha.
We're talking about the samething today.
We're talking about the samething on my way here, and she,
she was just like, well, youknow, not wishing bad on anybody
, but yeah, this is a hell of athing.

Speaker 2 (43:41):
No, but she's not jamaican, she's trini and
beijing.
Okay, I apologize, black people.
You don't want me to say blackpeople, so I'm just trying to,
you know.
No, we always do this thingwhere it's like especially my
mom used to do this a lot whereshe sees celebrities, um, you
know, either pass away, she'slike, hmm, that one day.

Speaker 4 (43:58):
No, she wasn't speaking bad on him, but I know
what you mean and I also madethe point to her that because he
gave the church to his daughteror something like that, he
passed over.
I said who's to say he wasn'tfaced with this medical
condition, then right and heknew he would deteriorate, yeah
but, then you know it's allassumption it could just been
random 67 years old, he's young.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
Yeah, he's not old, he's gray or whatever.
He's not old, that's young.
I know, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (44:21):
He's young I just hope he's really not involved
with the diddy stuff.
I pray and hope he's doing fineand yeah, yeah, but if you
weren't there, they could nevercall your name you know what I
mean.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Like that's one thing .

Speaker 4 (44:32):
No, I'm being so for real, because that's one thing
that I've learned from veryyoung like if you're not there,
nobody can call your name that'sa fact.

Speaker 5 (44:40):
No, you're right.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
So there has to be whether to the extent we don't
know well, he did say he's hisum advisor, spiritual, uh,
diddy's spiritual advisor.
But I mean, I wouldn't want totie myself to diddy at any point
I got something, yeah, that's.

Speaker 4 (44:55):
Oh, I got something for sheldon's ass too.

Speaker 2 (44:57):
When you guys are done, no, no, no, I only doodle
with this by hand.
I'm not saying it's a baby oil.

Speaker 4 (45:04):
Speaking about being wrongly convicted.

Speaker 2 (45:08):
Yes, go ahead.
That was my next story.

Speaker 4 (45:10):
Jesse Smollett.

Speaker 2 (45:12):
Oh well, not him.

Speaker 4 (45:13):
Jesse Smollett his conviction, they reversed it.
The Supreme Court that don'tmake it.

Speaker 3 (45:20):
Why?
Because I'm of money.

Speaker 2 (45:21):
Let's stop right there.

Speaker 4 (45:23):
That doesn't mean he's innocent well, it just
means they throwing it out rightnow.

Speaker 2 (45:28):
I do talking about he was um racially profiled by two
men wearing white masks oh,what are you talking?

Speaker 4 (45:36):
about she's talking about jesse.
I'm talking about yeah, we canskip over jesse, because I don't
really care.

Speaker 2 (45:42):
Whatever, Jesse I'm not rocking with Jesse, but who
I'm actually happy for.

Speaker 4 (45:50):
Jonathan.

Speaker 2 (45:50):
Majors got his charges dropped.

Speaker 4 (45:55):
The Dirty Gal.
Sorry, because domestic abuseis real.
Domestic abuse is real, butshe's dropping the assault.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
I want to have this conversation because my man.

Speaker 4 (46:05):
She's dropping the assault and defamation.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
My man lost his whole career based off of an
accusation.
Regardless of the video that wesaw, of him running from
homegirl.
He still lost his job, lost hiscareer, lost future
opportunities, lost lots ofmoney right, and we're clowning
him.
We were making fun of him, allkind of stuff, putting him down,
talking about he deserved it,and now look, she's Scott, or

(46:30):
he's free Of the charges, she'sjust you know.

Speaker 4 (46:34):
Going on about her life.
Who's to say he didn't pay herout too?
That's the thing.

Speaker 2 (46:38):
I doubt it no he can't have contact with her.
It was in the court of law theycan't it would.
It would because they wouldhave said it was a settlement
there some.

Speaker 4 (46:45):
No, they don't have to.
Yes, they do.
They could have just did it offthe books.

Speaker 2 (46:49):
So then they would have said they settled out of
court they don't have to.

Speaker 4 (46:53):
That could just be a personal agreement.
Listen, you y'all don't watcholivia pope.
I know she's not on anymore,but I mean, they do things like
this, come on you cannot be thisnight.

Speaker 5 (47:01):
I know sorry, but I saw.

Speaker 3 (47:03):
I saw a big black muscular man running for his
life from a little white woman.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
Okay, you guys telling me he's guilty but you
have to understand, like a lotof times when you're associated
with something like that, likeit's never gonna go well for you
like it's not, and it's reallyhard because, even as a mother
of a, getting back to being amother, but as a mother of a
young, you know black boy yeahit's very much like babe.
You got to be careful of thepeople you associate yourself

(47:37):
with, because it doesn't haveyou like.

Speaker 3 (47:39):
You don't necessarily have to be the one in the wrong
yeah and you could be runningaway from the situation and it
affects you totally different,like going back even to the
Chris Brown and Rihannasituation.

Speaker 4 (47:50):
I know y'all gonna come for me for this one, go
ahead, go ahead, tread life,tread life.
I'm treading heavy and hard.
Okay, girl, when it comes tolike listen.
Domestic abuse and violence isnever okay never okay, so that's
not what I'm saying, but wewomen can be so spicy like I

(48:16):
know that there are times wheny'all gonna get me careful, like
you know you're in a situationand you're in an argument with a
man and like a man that youknow, and you're telling me that
you're not pushing and pokingand prodding like you as a woman
.
You know exactly.
Tell me, sasha, you don't knowhow to get under your man skin.

Speaker 3 (48:39):
I do, but I don't so what you're saying is, if I lick
on a boy and hold on, but Idon't, so what you're?

Speaker 4 (48:43):
saying is if you.

Speaker 3 (48:50):
Don't a boy Wow.

Speaker 4 (48:51):
Hold on.
What you're saying is if me noboy in our argument, I'm in the
Kim don't know, just off a whimand I Like him.

Speaker 1 (48:59):
Why are?

Speaker 4 (49:00):
you putting your hands on anybody.
But what up?
Why are?

Speaker 1 (49:02):
you putting your hands on anybody?
Why are you putting your handson anybody?
I don't care If it's my son youbetter lick our ass.
Okay, that's my point.
No, I'm being serious.

Speaker 4 (49:10):
I didn't raise no beating stick.

Speaker 2 (49:12):
You didn't come here to be my beating stick.
That's my point.
If your son is Jonathan Majors,you still have that same
thought Like hit her back, likeif he has millions of dollars at
stake his whole career ahead ofhim.

Speaker 4 (49:26):
No, I'm not saying that.
I'm just saying that, as awoman, why do you feel the need
to put your hand?

Speaker 5 (49:30):
but that's my point.

Speaker 4 (49:31):
So I'm saying it's not no it's right, you're okay
with that, because you shouldn't?
Put your hand on a man, I don'tthink you should put your hands
on anybody, okay like she's notthe fact she's not like
defending herself or defendinganything that you know what I
mean right I'm just saying, likeyou know, when it comes yo,
when it comes to likerelationships and you've never

(49:52):
been in a fight with a man andit get hot, that heavy, and
you're just like I don't evenknow what happened there, I
don't know where that came fromI don't even think that was me
like think about it.

Speaker 1 (50:01):
I don't even know yourself.

Speaker 4 (50:02):
Yeah, like that was so out of character for me like
that is not yeah that's not whoI am I don't even know who that
person was.
I don't know who that personwas, who I was.
I don't know who he was no.
No, I think you know literallyand you know who the person was.
It's just sometimes we act outlike no, that's what I'm saying
but no, I'm saying like in yoursense you're like, that's so out
of my character yeah, for me Iwould never do that.

(50:25):
But look what I did, like youknow, as a woman, as a man, as a
child, a boy, like evensometimes when you're mad at
your children like there's sometimes that I've been mad at
those kids and I'm ready to dashthem, and I yeah and then
you're just like, okay, nothat's not what's that breaking?
Song a man.
Sometimes I'm on forget cool,forget hey.
So so what do you guys think?

Speaker 2 (51:11):
should he get his job back, jonathan majors, I mean,
he has talent.
I do think he should what Imean by his job back, his marvel
job.

Speaker 4 (51:15):
So that was his big um thing before I think a lot of
people who are in marvel havedone worse than him, right?
So I don't know true, but I'mjust saying like there's a lot
of people who have done worse.
So I do believe that he shouldget his job back.

Speaker 2 (51:31):
He won't, but I think he should get a fair shot at um
, some kind of redemption, likeyou know, like he was on his way
to stardom, basically, and thenthis little video comes on.
Everything comes crashing down.
Then he, he's engaged tohomegirl now, um, that's what
I'm saying he's living it up.

Speaker 4 (51:46):
Megan said I don't want to pass the man.

Speaker 5 (51:52):
I don't want to pass the man I thought they were so
cute, did not?
Oh, no, wow, no, I wassomething I don't know.

Speaker 4 (51:59):
It was something I don't feel like she could have
been who she really was, and Iit's very important for me that
people be authentically them andI don't know, it was something
I don't feel like she could havebeen who she really was and I
it's very important for me, forpeople to be authentically them
and I don't think that she wasauthentically herself when she
was with him.
She was very much what hewanted her to be.

Speaker 2 (52:13):
But they wrote a book .
Yeah, some marriage book orwhatever.
Should you want us to write abook?
You're like, that's no see,this is what I don't like when
people do this stuff, like youknow, these couples, celebrity
couples that have this type oflike self-help or you know, do
this this way or be like us typeof thing.
Bro, don't tell me how to livemy life and you guys don't even
know how to live yours properlythat's okay I see what tanil's

(52:35):
saying.

Speaker 1 (52:35):
Now you know about what about her not being herself
no, she just thinking about themegan before and the movies.

Speaker 5 (52:42):
Well, whoever she portrayed herself to be Her
girlfriend.

Speaker 3 (52:45):
And then she was with him and then all of a sudden
it's all Miss Goody, two-shoe,high and Mighty, and you know.
So, that's very much what hewanted from her.

Speaker 4 (52:53):
And that was what he required, and he said it.

Speaker 2 (52:59):
Yeah, like he in almost every interview he said
it whatever it's, it's not okay,it's not wrong necessarily, but
that's yeah, but if you needsomebody who's yeah and just
being conforming and stuffthat's different, like she was
not meant to be what why are youlaughing?
I just pictured bell as a firstlady what does?

Speaker 3 (53:16):
what does that mean?

Speaker 4 (53:22):
no, no no, no, pause, pause, cut the tape.
What are you trying to say?

Speaker 2 (53:26):
I can't be a first lady.
That's not what I said.
I said I pictured you as onefor the right man yes, for the
right man.

Speaker 3 (53:30):
Yes, I don't know about that.
See, it couldn't be for anywith your personality.

Speaker 4 (53:35):
No, I don't think you could be sasha.

Speaker 2 (53:45):
Could definitely be, yeah, and you don't want me to
tell you why okay, whoa okayokay, I don't know what she's
doing with that, but sure, Ijust okay because I can feel
you're piercing the whole sideof my face.

Speaker 4 (53:57):
They're basically looking at you, but go ahead,
okay.
Okay, yeah, because the side ofmy face didn't feel it.
I think you could be a firstlady, because when we ask you
about certain things, I don'tknow what you're talking about
so being that type a first ladyis gonna be like that in church.

Speaker 3 (54:13):
So hold on, mel.
Does it ever occur to you oranybody else who believes that
thank you, does it?
Ever occur to uno that.
I really just don't know.
I really just don't know,because I choose to block shit
out.

Speaker 2 (54:27):
I believe you Sasha's clueless.

Speaker 3 (54:28):
From my personal well-being and my mental health.
I will see shit and block shitMusic and when you ask me and I
tell you that I don't know.

Speaker 4 (54:39):
I literally don't know I'm talking about music.
I literally don't know I'mtalking about music, even just
music, that's what she listensto.

Speaker 3 (54:43):
See she's silent now, because I've I've already gone
down this road with you, I know,did you hear Kendrick Lamar's
New album who?

Speaker 4 (54:52):
I'm not gonna listen to Kendrick.
I never listened to a new album, so we're there.
I didn't listen to Kendrick.
But I think you would make Agood first lady.
I do too.

Speaker 2 (54:59):
But, but.
You just can't wear the thingsyou wear.
I want to see Mel With yourbutty jaw and you're going to
wear

Speaker 5 (55:04):
that to church, just for the fun of it.

Speaker 3 (55:06):
Is the person okay with the outfit?
Your pastor.

Speaker 4 (55:09):
Yeah, but it's not the pastor, it's the
congregation.
It's the congregation.

Speaker 5 (55:12):
First of all your butty jaw is like.

Speaker 2 (55:16):
I want to know if you can differentiate your pastor
from your husband If he's thesame person.

Speaker 3 (55:25):
Ooh, husband, if he's the same person, oh no, because
he'll be up on the rastam.
We just go, girl.
I said oh sorry, what is?

Speaker 4 (55:28):
she grabbing his bum.
Oh, his bum.

Speaker 3 (55:31):
You grab it in during service I probably would,
because he was just asking canyou differentiate?
Do you do that?

Speaker 4 (55:37):
with your husband now .
Yeah, you just grab his bodyanytime you know, mostly in the
house, in the house, in thehouse.
But I'm just imagine, I'msitting there on the.
Grab his body anytime you know,mostly in the house, in the
house.

Speaker 3 (55:47):
But I'm just imagining I'm sitting there
under Rastam and he's up therepreaching and I'm going to tell
him something and I'm going tojust walk off, or you could
whisper in his ear during thesermon I am going to tear that
ass up.

Speaker 5 (55:59):
Listen as a member of the congregation.

Speaker 4 (56:13):
I would be like I'd be nastily nasty for my pastor
husband.

Speaker 1 (56:16):
Like just in our service.
I just walk up on him Becauseyou read too many illicit books.

Speaker 4 (56:20):
First of all, listen to me If you guys want to know
anything there's this book thatI read Don't do, it'm gonna tell
you the name.
Okay, I'm in a book club.

Speaker 3 (56:32):
Oh my gosh, what's called.
What's the book mind you?
Mind you, this book that she'sreferring to.

Speaker 4 (56:35):
It's not a part of our book club okay, I read this
book already, but these twoheifers are gonna pretend like
they didn't read it?

Speaker 3 (56:41):
yeah, because the last two books that you have
referred to us, me and Tadeo areliterally rolling our eyes.

Speaker 4 (56:48):
First of all, tadeo, the book that I want you guys to
listen to or read Pussies Eat,pastors, pastors.

Speaker 3 (56:55):
Yo, it's not good, it's not good, it's not good.

Speaker 4 (57:01):
Pastors Eat Pussy 2.
A really good book.

Speaker 3 (57:07):
Oh god, it's only two hours.
Yeah, it's very short and sweet, but the one I want you guys to
read is a lot.
I couldn't get into it, I'msorry.

Speaker 4 (57:10):
The thought one with the old lady.
No, I couldn't get into thethought one.
I had a hard time with that one.
I told you just get pastchapter three.
I know you did say that and Iwill.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
I can I ask how is it running a book club?

Speaker 4 (57:22):
I've never been involved in one honestly, it's
very, it's very time consumingit is for who, the organizer or
the everyone?
It's very time consumingbecause it's also keeping
everybody on the same track.
And, just like now that ourbook club has kind of grown, we
have an Ottawa chapter and wehave our GTA chapter and it's

(57:44):
just very, um, just even gettingeverybody together is a lot
like we should get men involved,no a one, two men.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
That would be interesting we could to get
men's perspectives though.

Speaker 4 (57:54):
Like moving forward.
Our book club is going to be onthe same day every month I sort
of asked like the same.
I think we should get men in itbecause it'd be nice to have a
few men, but it has to be.
We really have to vet the mencoming in, but I think we should
.
We should be open to it howwould you vet?
Them.
I think we can have them aslike guests every so often.

Speaker 2 (58:11):
Yeah, I don't know if I would want you guys like read
the pages at the same time,like together.
No, no, you have a month toread it at your pace okay,
gotcha, yeah, and then you guysare doing like story time, like
you know, no, no, we cometogether and we do, we do
questions okay we have questions, we've done acting scenarios,
we've done.
So if somebody does not finishthe book within that month, you
guys oh why are we talking aboutmelissa?

Speaker 4 (58:33):
and she's right here.
Why am I not surprised?

Speaker 2 (58:38):
she's even listening.
Just tell you.
No, I said if you don't finishthe book within the month, then
you go to book club.

Speaker 4 (58:44):
I still go to the meeting.

Speaker 5 (58:49):
Answer the question Me and my book club bestie,
onika, because Onika will lookat me and say you can see them
on the couch we were.

Speaker 4 (59:04):
Me and Onika the first two books we were rolling.
We don't know nothing.
I'm gonna sit down there.
Yeah, I hate that bitch didn'tread it at all and you know what
I do find like that's one of mybiggest pet peeves with you
guys but now I'm way better, nono no, I'm talking about reading
the messages, we have awhatsapp group and I post the
messages on there, and forpeople who are in a book club

(59:28):
and who are supposed, to read.
I'm gonna have to say that toSasha yeah, thank you, I respond
, I respond not the

Speaker 3 (59:39):
book the messages in the group.
I respond to you.
I am very up to date.
I am very up to date.

Speaker 4 (59:46):
I disagree I don't know if I would say that I vote
if I say to you can I show youthe last time you voted I?
did well, I voted on the lastone.
Right away I double tapped.
I said but that's because Isaid to you, mel, are you not
voting?
That's not the point.
That's not the point.
Just know that I votedpreviously.
No, I think that's one of mybiggest pet peeves.

(01:00:07):
When they'll be like?
Well, when is, and I'll be like?
I posted it and I try to domessages where they're very
clear and concise so that nobodyis like wondering.

Speaker 1 (01:00:16):
I even do like bullet points and I make sure they're
spaced correctly because I'mjust, I find, and yet still
we're there just tell thelisteners, before we go to our
next topic, what's?

Speaker 5 (01:00:29):
the book.

Speaker 4 (01:00:30):
What book we're reading right now and this could
be us by kennedy ryan.
This fucking book is freakingamazing.

Speaker 5 (01:00:37):
It's number two for the first one was the first one.
Uh, before I let go, no, beforeI let go before I let go, no
before.

Speaker 3 (01:00:43):
I let go Before I let go With Vashti Dirty, vashti,
vashti, vashti is not dirty.

Speaker 4 (01:00:49):
Vashti is very dirty, very dirty, vashti didn't do
anything wrong.
What do you mean?
She didn't do?
She took the people their money.
She didn't do anything wrong.
She was working for the both ofthem and knew what happened.
That's all.
She's okay being okay withVashti.
Vashti knew People listen tothis.
We're going to do a poll.
Vashti is working in arestaurant Vashti.
Sheldon, listen to this.

(01:01:11):
Vashti is working in arestaurant with a couple.
Then she knew.

Speaker 3 (01:01:17):
They were divorced.
They were divorced.
No, no, no, hold on.

Speaker 4 (01:01:24):
When Vashti came into the whole thing.
If you guys don't remember,because I will remind you I'm
telling you, she wasn't workingwith them.
She was working at home becausethe wife had lost her baby and
she was in a major depression.
She was at home cooking theirmeals at the yard.

Speaker 3 (01:01:39):
Okay, that's how I started this yes okay, and they
were not divorced.
They were not divorced, theywere not divorced.
They were still together,because I must have missed that
part because I remember at theend of it, I'm waiting.
I'm like, why did melissa hatethis girl so much?
And I'm waiting and the bookfinished, I'm like why did she
hate her so much?
So?
the point the portion where shewas cooking and taking care of

(01:02:01):
them at the house prior.
Yeah, part I didn't know.
How did you not know that?
I must have missed that part,but that's how she even knows
her.

Speaker 4 (01:02:09):
Don't worry about that part that she'll done.
That is very significant yes.
But after the fact she in atthe store with the man working
very close.
Oh, he smells so good, he looksscrumdiddly.
I want that.
The lady just lost her bed, herbelly, yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:02:27):
and her and his mother like his, the aunt who
raised him and the aunt whoraised him he loses, so the both
of them really close to her theboth of them are going through
troubled times now, shall they?
Yeah okay.

Speaker 4 (01:02:36):
So even if them go to one like a rocky stage, that
doesn't mean you who they gave ajob to come swooping.

Speaker 2 (01:02:41):
Come take the gal man and then what was the man's
angle, though?
Was he like?
He's a man he no, no, but heloved.

Speaker 4 (01:02:48):
He loved his wife but he did not know how to be there
for her like that because shekept struggling.

Speaker 2 (01:02:54):
Yeah, they're struggling.
I see, don't get over that.

Speaker 5 (01:02:57):
She's no, no, no, she was, she did she did push him
away, but she still loved thedivorce, yeah, but this duchy
gal but this dutty gal.

Speaker 4 (01:03:04):
No, the dutty gal should have known there's red
flags.
This man doesn't really wantyou.
You're a backup.
He allowed me in his house.

Speaker 2 (01:03:11):
What was she looking for?
A relationship or just us?
No, she wanted a whole husband,relationship, husband, kids,
everything.

Speaker 1 (01:03:18):
She's dutty.

Speaker 4 (01:03:19):
That's on her and then she come in at the door and
I want to go sure about no, no,but she heard the wife's voice
outside and she come out in at-shirt on purpose On purpose.

Speaker 2 (01:03:40):
To say yes, is this what book club is like?
Yes, oh, I'm coming, I'm coming, it's lit, I'm coming, it's
spicy, I'm coming and like weboth were like no, I'm not
psycho.

Speaker 5 (01:03:51):
But honestly, guys.
So this is a book that we didlast year January.
Not this.

Speaker 4 (01:03:55):
January Last no it was this January.

Speaker 3 (01:04:04):
No, no, no, this january sorry yeah yeah, it was
this january and since januarywe've been hating.
So for the listeners who areinterested, if you want to
listen on spotify, what was thebook again, pastors eat pussy.
No, not that one, because Iwant the listeners to listen the
first the first um the firstbook in this, in this uh it's
going to be a trio, because ifthey're, yeah, it is a trio,
becausehendrix, I can't wait I can't
wait for him um, but it it wasit's called.

(01:04:26):
Before I let go that's the onewith vashti.
Yeah, vashti, listen to thatone and y'all could decide for
yourself if vashti was a bitchor not.

Speaker 4 (01:04:35):
We can do like a whole poll on it and then the
second one, I wasn't.
Uh, it was okay for me, really,it was okay for me you know
what I really okay for me.
You know what I really likednumber two Because I felt like
Soledad, so this one is thisCould Be Us no-transcript.
I honestly felt like it waslike three books in one.
Yeah, it was Because it was hertrifle at trifling.

Speaker 3 (01:04:57):
Ozban.

Speaker 4 (01:04:58):
He's disgusting, I'm just.
I'm worse than any man me know.

Speaker 2 (01:05:02):
Wait, wait, wait.
No, I'm into it, I'm into it,I'm into it.

Speaker 1 (01:05:05):
Let's not give away the book to the people.
Okay, and then the second partof the book was Self-love, self
love, yeah, self love, anddating yourself and finding out
who you are, and just likepicking up the pieces from when
you're just dropped like thatlike you don't have, and I do
feel like and I've said thisvery often I have a different

(01:05:26):
respect for women who can solelyrely on a man.

Speaker 2 (01:05:30):
I don't know how to do that.
That's a good topic you justlanded on right there.
I do.

Speaker 4 (01:05:34):
I don't understand I to do that?
That's a good topic you justlanded on right there.
No, it's very true, I do.
I don't understand, I don'tknow how to do that.
I have friends who will be likewell, I don't know.
I don't know how to pay thatbill or what to do, and I'm just
like I beg your pardon.

Speaker 2 (01:05:45):
Would you, as women?

Speaker 4 (01:05:47):
Absolutely not Okay.
No, I have a question.

Speaker 2 (01:05:51):
Would you, as women, would you, as women, want to be
a not just stay at home, but,like you said, uh, fully reliant
on a man financially, um,everything else you can, you
know, basically be yourself in,but, like, fully rely on him to
pay the bills, take care ofeverything I can't, I can't, I
mean he could do that, noproblem.

Speaker 3 (01:06:12):
But I have.
I have to make my own money.
You still want to have your own.
I have to make my own money.
I need to know how it's beingpaid.

Speaker 4 (01:06:17):
I need to know.
How.
Is it the fear?

Speaker 2 (01:06:18):
of like losing it or him just leaving and leaving you
high and dry, like what is itLike?
You know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:06:32):
Like everything is taken care of.
I, you give me a monthlyallowance.
No, not even that.

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
So he gives you a credit card or like your own
bank account, that's, you know.
You don't have to worry, youdon't have to look at it.

Speaker 4 (01:06:41):
Whatever you need, it's there, right yeah, but
who's in control of it?

Speaker 2 (01:06:44):
you are, he's just.

Speaker 5 (01:06:46):
He's just throwing the money like I, but no, I
think that no, I can't.

Speaker 4 (01:06:50):
I would have to work together, we'd have to know and,
honestly, there would be an ohshit fund and oh shit money,
because I've always had thatmoney, yeah like, but I've
always yeah and I've always hadto.
I don't know if I could be umokay with that.
I know in a lot of culturesit's yeah what's expecting and
it's a, thing, but I don't knowif I would be okay, because if

(01:07:10):
something ever happens to him,because you have to understand
life, life's- a.
And if he's making money andhe's doing it and he's, you know
, whatever.
What if something happens tohim?
Yeah, you get fucked.
What if he has a stroke Likeyou know what I mean or has
something?

Speaker 2 (01:07:25):
happened to him.

Speaker 4 (01:07:25):
And when?
Huh.

Speaker 2 (01:07:26):
He's got all of it, All the assets.
How do you?

Speaker 4 (01:07:28):
but how do you know that?

Speaker 1 (01:07:29):
Okay, all the assets.
How do you know that he doesn'thave like liens mortgages?
He?

Speaker 4 (01:07:35):
doesn't have things out on those assets.
You know what I mean.
You could be left in a worseposition than you would ever
know, because he's trying totake to make more money than he,
than you guys had before.
It's not, I don't know so he weshould be partners right.

Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
So what if you take that money that he's giving you
freely and you do your own thingwith it?
Say set up yourself just incase do you think he has a right
to be upset, that like, say,the relationship doesn't work or
whatever, and then you leaveand he's like, well, I'll leave
you behind.
Well, I actually took the moneyand I invested this and I
bought a house over here and Iyou know.

(01:08:11):
Should that still be his likeconcern, if you?

Speaker 4 (01:08:17):
think about what.
Who was, uh, my kid?
Just me and cc were justtalking about this yesterday.
Uh, as a candy, what was hername?
Ken, ken kiara kiori, whateverthe girl who gucci means wife oh
yeah, that's what it is.
Yes, he left her like he wentto jail and she didn't know when
this film was coming out orwhatever, and he left her with

(01:08:37):
two million dollars when he cameout of jail this girl gave him
back six million dollars likethat's some down.
Oh, he gave her two.
She gave him back six somethinglike that.

Speaker 2 (01:08:48):
She just multiplied it.
She had, I think, like a nailcompany or something like that
some aesthetics company and whenhe came out it was like worth
$10 million.

Speaker 4 (01:08:56):
Yeah, Like it was crazy and it was just like she
just held him down, Wow.

Speaker 2 (01:09:02):
So you guys don't see yourself doing that at all
Holding a man down.
Not just that.

Speaker 4 (01:09:09):
I mean I'm just saying, like, with the
day-to-day operations and stuff,I just would have to know.
Maybe it's a trauma responsefor me, maybe it's just like not
ever really having that.
I just don't feel 100 like Iwould be okay.
I need to know where where themoney I go, where, how it's
coming in, how it's going now.

Speaker 2 (01:09:25):
I need to know all that I think, I think that's a
new age thing and I want to workthe women back in the day, and
I'm not saying like a girl butlike it just seemed that way,
like the women back in the daywere like okay, I'm just gonna
take you to the house, raise thekids and whatever else.
Whatever you bring in, I'msatisfied with that I'm not
gonna go.

Speaker 3 (01:09:41):
And then the man died .
And right when after he died iswhen you realize shit, he has
that debt, that debt yeah, andat the end of the day there was
absolutely nothing left for herand the kids nothing.

Speaker 4 (01:09:51):
And then what happens in that situation?
Like you have to like,literally pull try to keep the
house yeah, but not mean.
Even if you can't keep thehouse, like what do you have to
fall back on?

Speaker 2 (01:10:02):
nothing, and that's not okay.
You didn't have life insurancewell, no, I'm talking like
caribbean people and like youknow, but even like, even I just
recently had somebody I knowpassed away and this man was
like.

Speaker 4 (01:10:15):
I have no idea who this woman was and he was.
It was his wife and he livedwith her and there was just debt
and there was this and therewas, and he she was into so many
things.
He had no clue and I thought tomyself like that's crazy, that
is crazy that's literally andthat wasn't like a girlfriend
boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (01:10:34):
That was a wife situation.
I think women, these, days wantto have their.
Like Sasha was saying, you knowyou want to have your own thing
, just in case, right, likethere's no, there's no.
Like full dependency on anotherperson, regardless of a man or
woman.
Yeah, Like there's nodependency on and again I get it
.

Speaker 4 (01:11:02):
This day and age, if you get left by yourself, it's
hard, and I mean, and there'ssometimes.
You know, I recently wentthrough this well, not recently,
but like a year ago with my dadwhen he passed away.
Do you have any idea how hardit is to deal with banks?
And I was talking to sashaabout this the other day and I'm
like make sure your parentshave things set up and put,
because it is the bank puts aseize on everything and then
they have to go through this andthen, like in it's months,

(01:11:22):
we're still dealing with so manythings and that was.
I'm on my mother's account, areyou?
Her oh gosh, I can't rememberher attorney that's so important
, because you can be on.
If it's not me, it's my aunt ifyou can be on her account, but
if anything ever happens powerof attorney means you can't do

(01:11:43):
nothing.
Have control, if anything butthere's the power of attorney,
and there's another one too.
I can't yeah, she wants to giveit to me and I don't want it.
Why not?

Speaker 2 (01:11:51):
why would you want?

Speaker 4 (01:11:51):
it.
I have siblings, bro.
You know how that works.
I have siblings too, and I'mthe youngest and I did yeah,
you're lucky, you're an onlychild.
That's when I'm, but you knowwhat it doesn't matter, because
that one child always becomeslike the brunt of and always
gets the brunt of it.
And does the head of it thechild who's the closest and

(01:12:14):
stuff to them or is the one whogets?

Speaker 5 (01:12:16):
all the responsibility and it's hard.

Speaker 4 (01:12:20):
It's hard, and you know what?
It's overwhelming when you'redealing with funerals and stuff.
You realize how horrible peoplecan be yeah, it's, they show
their true colors funerals andweddings.
I guess you know that's whatthey say.
But honestly, when you'redealing with you, just realize
how.
Yeah, but selfish greedy wherethe money I go, what is left
over come we want this and thatand then yeah, no, I'm not and

(01:12:44):
it's like little things like.
There are things that came upthat I didn't even bring to
anybody else because I was justlike you know what.
Let me just deal with this onmy own, because there's no like
it, because I'm sure yousheltered a lot from your mother
too, and you just took care ofher because she was grieving
yeah like she was.
You know, up until this day sheliterally lost and you can tell

(01:13:05):
the difference in her.

Speaker 2 (01:13:06):
Like she lost her best friend, yeah not to not to
make you sorry, not to make itany sadder, but my wife told me
a story yesterday.
She was at work and this olderlady came up to her in her 90s
or something she said.
And she said she just lost herhusband of 66 years.

Speaker 4 (01:13:22):
Yeah, and the lady's like.

Speaker 2 (01:13:24):
I just need someone to talk to.

Speaker 4 (01:13:25):
Yeah, no, it's so true.

Speaker 2 (01:13:28):
I felt it just her telling me the story and I'm
like I could imagine youstanding there with this lady
that you don't know, yeah,confiding in you and telling you
, yo.

Speaker 1 (01:13:38):
I just lost my husband, 66 years, and she's
like I don't know what to do.

Speaker 4 (01:13:40):
I'm just like no, she's like I'm just walking
around and talking to people somy mother went through a really
bad depression.
Um, and I don't think I I didtake time edit, edit, edit this
part right here 1 13, 52 seconds, okay, no I am, because she

(01:14:01):
went through a really hard timebecause she had no idea what to
do with herself like, so shebecame an insomniac.
We had her on medication tosleep and it like she wouldn't
sleep she would literally like,so we'd give her the medication
and no, she'd take it.
We'd make sure she took it, likehold her tongue down.

(01:14:22):
She would be like, oh, andshe'd sit on the couch and she'd
fall asleep for like an hour ortwo and then she would wake up
and she would be live an hour ortwo.
And these are like strongmedications my mother would wake

(01:14:43):
up and she'd be like so 10,what we gotta go cook for
christmas.
Like I mean, if you know my mom, you know like that's, wow,
that's very important to her.
No, I love your mom, she's, butshe would just not.
And we didn't understand youknow why.
And then, like even now, it's athing, you know where we work
and where we work when you comehome, you do not want to be

(01:15:07):
sitting and talking to people.

Speaker 2 (01:15:09):
That's my spot, right there On the carpet, that's my
spot.
You lay on the floor, on thefloor.

Speaker 4 (01:15:13):
Yeah, the carpet, that's my spot.
Like you, just on the floor.
Yeah, like you literally don'twant to come home and talk to
now, when I come home I make ita point to not be on the phone,
to walk in that door and atleast sit down and talk to her
for at least half an hour to anhour.
Um, because she, just she, sheneeds it yeah, she really needs

(01:15:35):
just human interaction and notthat my kids don't interact with
her and stuff.
It's just that she just wants totalk and she wants to have a
conversation and she wants, andit's just like how are you doing
?
What did you do today?
What did you watch?
What did you?
Eat, yeah, and you know whatshe can tell me about sister.
Bobby and Sister Mary andwhatever I thought I was the

(01:15:57):
only one.
Like four times a day.

Speaker 2 (01:15:59):
That's my grandma.
Now my grandma calls me anddoes that randomly.
Yeah, and you just be like,yeah, I gotta go Sorry.

Speaker 4 (01:16:04):
No, you just honestly you just.

Speaker 2 (01:16:06):
Two hours later yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:16:08):
Like my dad died suddenly and we were like really
, because we weren't expecting,we knew his health was
deteriorating a little bit, butit wasn't, you know.
And I realized like I wish Ihad like another week with him
or another couple hours oranother, like to tell him stuff

(01:16:29):
and to you know.
So now I try to not like be, soyou know, harsh with her and
try to be like oh yeah, she wantthem both to marry.

Speaker 2 (01:16:35):
About five times we'll hear about system.

Speaker 4 (01:16:40):
I lie oh, you never hear.
No, she just told me about this.
She literally just told meabout this, but she needs that.
So and I realized that Irecognize that, that she needs
that.
That's what I'm now recognizingyeah mom, so like when I come
from work and I'm like how'syour day, mom?

Speaker 3 (01:16:57):
what did you?

Speaker 4 (01:16:57):
do, are you okay?
You know, mr Ben, to our clean,or under the cabinet over the
yellow, because mr and it dirty.
I thought my mom was.
Yo, my mother, the white balldo wallows today and I know my
heart is hurting me.

Speaker 5 (01:17:12):
I said why did you do ?

Speaker 4 (01:17:13):
it, mom, just the things I used to take me 15
minutes out.
Chill, I know I said why didyou do it, mom?
You used to take me 15 minutesand I'm like why are you doing
it?
And now you're going tocomplain and tell me so you're
in pain, but why not Exactly?

Speaker 3 (01:17:23):
Why not yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:17:24):
Like what is she Like ?
She went in my son's room.
My son is going to be 16 yearsold on the 20th.
My son, I take years old on the20 ms on a tech.
No, no, no, but you know what Imean.
Like he's his own, he's his own.
Like he's he's older, he can dohis own thing.
And my, you know I'm going outof boy no, no, no no, no, he's.

(01:17:50):
He's not there yet, okay heactually.

Speaker 2 (01:17:53):
He actually does Tissue?

Speaker 4 (01:17:55):
That's another story.
Oh my gosh, no.

Speaker 2 (01:17:57):
All right, yo Tia, all right, we're moving on.
Anyway, yeah, let's lighten themood guys.
Yeah, we're not going to do it.
Okay, let's lighten the mood.
So, Pasa, pasa of the Year.

Speaker 4 (01:18:11):
Hello Alright let's let it move a little bit.
I thought it was a year.
Oh, ready, ready, pasa, pasa ade year.

Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
Guys, it's that time of the year.

Speaker 4 (01:18:23):
Oh lord.

Speaker 2 (01:18:24):
Christmas, christmas is here.

Speaker 4 (01:18:26):
No, no, no, it's my favorite holiday.
We're not talking about SashaDay it's.

Speaker 3 (01:18:29):
We don't talk about Christmas Till after the 26th.
Oh gosh.
She's thawing out we don't talkabout Bruno oh Mo.
After the 26th she's, she'sthawing out.

Speaker 4 (01:18:36):
We don't talk about bruno oh, moana 2's coming out,
girl on the 27th.
I want to see wiki.
I want to see wiki um christmasplans, guys.

Speaker 2 (01:18:47):
Anything y'all feeling christmasy?

Speaker 4 (01:18:49):
no, yeah I.

Speaker 2 (01:18:50):
Christmas is like literally my favorite time of
the year, so we live in can,canada, and the snow has not
shown its face in the lastcouple of years.
I know I'm agreeing, but areyou guys worried about climate
change at all?

Speaker 4 (01:19:02):
Is it?
Where were you?

Speaker 2 (01:19:02):
that it was 20 degrees, like three weeks ago.

Speaker 4 (01:19:05):
We're going to get a rotted lake.
I'll be right back.

Speaker 2 (01:19:08):
Oh, I don't want to.
I don't want to.
That pepper shrimp, that peppershrimp.
I really don't like wintertoilet paper is on the left, on
the left, oh my gosh, okay.

Speaker 4 (01:19:18):
I really, I really have a hard time with winter me
too, I don't, and you knowCanadian winters are so
different from you know wintersanywhere, anywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:19:27):
Yes, it's bipolar and I don't mean that like in a
weird way like one day it'll benice and sunny, and then two
days it'll be like a snowstorm.
Then it'll be like an ice storm.

Speaker 4 (01:19:40):
It's weird, it's never consistent.
So I grew up in New York andwhen I was growing up we had
snow.
And because New York is merelylike a concrete jungle, the snow
would come and it wouldprobably be like a quarter inch
and it would come and we'd belike, oh my God snow.

Speaker 2 (01:19:59):
It's pretty in New York in Christmas time.

Speaker 4 (01:20:01):
Yeah, like it was really.
It was really different.
And then I remember coming tocamp and you saw three feet of
that.

Speaker 3 (01:20:09):
What is this?

Speaker 4 (01:20:10):
And is this?

Speaker 3 (01:20:10):
I'm like they don't go outside with this and they do
no but like you guys reallywere all about it like they were
outside, yeah, and I was like,but it's snowing, everything's
supposed to be cancelled.

Speaker 2 (01:20:26):
I had such a hard time with it.
Listen, man.
I remember like growing up you.
Alright, that was a charliehorse, or you do the slip out
slip out, slip out.
You're walking like how you.
That's that gingerly walk Itold you about.

Speaker 3 (01:20:44):
That's that gingerly walk that's going on YouTube, by
the way.

Speaker 4 (01:20:46):
I told you to know.

Speaker 2 (01:20:49):
So yeah, christmas plans y'all, y'all celebrating
this year, or what?

Speaker 3 (01:20:53):
I shall be somewhere nice and hot and um no I'm lying
actually yeah, but no, I lie,I'll be here for christmas.

Speaker 2 (01:21:01):
I forgot good, you bugger oh, is it one of those?

Speaker 4 (01:21:04):
but you're still going away though no, no I know
I'll be here for christmas.

Speaker 2 (01:21:07):
I leave after um yeah , it doesn't feel like christmas
, not even just the weather, butthe culture and the vibe of
Christmas is dead yo.

Speaker 3 (01:21:18):
It is.

Speaker 2 (01:21:18):
Because everything's so damn expensive, everything is
so hard to get.
It's not fun anymore.
You can't go to Walmart andspend $100 and buy gifts for
everyone anymore.
No, you know what I'm saying.
You can't go to Walmart andprepare for Christmas dinner.
Grocery store prepare forChristmas dinner without
spending $600.
No, you're right, prepare forChristmas dinner.
You know?
Grocery store prepare forChristmas dinner without
spending $600.

Speaker 5 (01:21:37):
No, you're right, it's ridiculous you're right.

Speaker 2 (01:21:40):
So like that feeling of Christmas is just it's not
there no more.

Speaker 3 (01:21:43):
I don't even leave my house.
I said no every time I startthat engine.
It's $600, we're not goinganywhere I purposely every time
I leave my house, it costs money.

Speaker 2 (01:21:52):
I'm not going outside .
Purposely chose to work thisyear at Christmas.

Speaker 5 (01:21:55):
I didn't have to, I said you know what I'll go to
work.

Speaker 2 (01:21:58):
How can I tell you why you did?

Speaker 3 (01:21:59):
that.

Speaker 2 (01:22:00):
Because of the paycheck.
No, not even the money, Notonly the money.

Speaker 3 (01:22:03):
But you're probably going to be asked to host.
That's going to cost money,absolutely.

Speaker 4 (01:22:10):
And the I'm working.
Why did you host last year?

Speaker 2 (01:22:12):
I hosted last, like three years, ever since you
bought the house, oh yeah, youknow, Jamaicans.
Oh go ahead, feed my house Bighouse.

Speaker 4 (01:22:19):
Yeah, exactly, she's so over it.
Now my older sister she's likeI am not doing this, that's
Tammy, if you ask Tammy rightnow to host a birthday party for
four kids.

Speaker 2 (01:22:27):
She's not doing it.
No, in here.

Speaker 4 (01:22:31):
My sister's done, because, I'm not gonna lie, I
didn't have clean up for thelast so many years.

Speaker 2 (01:22:34):
So you're the one.

Speaker 4 (01:22:35):
Eh, You're one of those You're one of those that
knock out after dinner.
No, no, for sure, I'm on thecouch knock out, but that's not
the point.
I ask and they say no.

Speaker 3 (01:22:43):
That's not the point.
What do you want me?

Speaker 4 (01:22:51):
to do.

Speaker 5 (01:22:51):
That is the point.
No like.

Speaker 4 (01:22:52):
I literally do help, Like I go in the kitchen and
pack up and stuff, but likedishes on the mat.

Speaker 2 (01:22:56):
You're not like the overly helpful type of person
who will clean the whole kitchenwhile the rest of them do stuff
.

Speaker 4 (01:23:01):
No, I am that type.
But the thing is it's just thatI'm lazy too, and if the itis
catch me, it catch me, anywhereit catch me.

Speaker 2 (01:23:11):
You, you never grew up where it's like all the women
.
The parents will grab the womenand come and clean up the girls
.

Speaker 4 (01:23:16):
No, it's sexism.
I know, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:23:19):
But I was raised different because I was one of
the only few boys in the family.
Were you raised here?

Speaker 4 (01:23:24):
Yeah, Like in yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:23:26):
But my household is very Jamaican.
You know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (01:23:28):
Like Brampton.

Speaker 2 (01:23:30):
No, no.
Toronto.

Speaker 4 (01:23:31):
Southside Gin Street, aka Biggs from Southside Gin
Street.
I didn't know that.

Speaker 2 (01:23:38):
Wanton Biggs?
Talk lightly, wanton Biggs.
I grew up here, but my house isvery Jamaican.

Speaker 4 (01:23:43):
I said Wanton Biggs, I don't understand.

Speaker 2 (01:23:45):
He retired that name remember the artist formerly
known as Biggs.
But yeah, no, I used to have towash clothes in the bin.
The washing machine was rightthere.

Speaker 4 (01:23:55):
Why are we doing?
That now Biggs.
That's why I'm not callingmyself Biggs again, sorry.

Speaker 3 (01:24:02):
Wait, is that why they called you Biggs?

Speaker 2 (01:24:04):
No no.

Speaker 3 (01:24:06):
Talk to.

Speaker 5 (01:24:06):
Kings man, Talk to Kings.

Speaker 2 (01:24:09):
It was from basketball.
I was six.

Speaker 3 (01:24:13):
No, I was like 5'11".
Why is Mel doing this to you?
I was six.

Speaker 2 (01:24:15):
No, not six.
I was like 5'11".
Why is Mel doing this to you?
I'm sorry, I was 5'11 when Iwas in grade seven Damn, I was a
tall kid right, and I used toplay basketball with the high
schoolers and I used to beatthem up Like physically, like so
one guy's like, oh Sorry, Letme turn off my mic right now.

Speaker 4 (01:24:36):
Yeah, so, yeah.
So back to the story.
Yeah, that's Mike.
Yeah, you guys switch mics.
No, no, no.

Speaker 3 (01:24:41):
Wait no that one is Mel yeah you're back now.

Speaker 2 (01:24:46):
Yeah, I was playing basketball and I was bullying
them, so they called me Biggsafter that.

Speaker 3 (01:24:50):
And it just stuck.
So, mel, you're wrong.
No, we're on hiatus.

Speaker 2 (01:24:52):
Oh wow, plug it out.
Let me see.
And it just stuck.
So, mel, you're wrong.
Yeah, I know.
Okay, can you turn back on mymic?

Speaker 3 (01:24:55):
No, we're on hiatus, oh wow, I'll plug out
everybody's mic.

Speaker 2 (01:24:57):
Plug it out.
Let me see.

Speaker 3 (01:24:59):
No, she will Sheldon.
You know this.

Speaker 2 (01:25:02):
Can you just sit?

Speaker 4 (01:25:03):
her down, look at her , look at her.

Speaker 5 (01:25:03):
Her back is messed up .

Speaker 4 (01:25:09):
She can't even get up .
Would you rather no Edge andMakeda?

Speaker 2 (01:25:12):
Yes, Can I get a song please?
Okay?

Speaker 4 (01:25:17):
I want to hear a song .
Can you play it?
Tell me, a few stolen momentsis all that we share.

Speaker 5 (01:25:26):
What's the name of it ?
Bunny's going on a date.

Speaker 4 (01:25:28):
Oh my gosh.
She looks cute, she looks nice.

Speaker 5 (01:25:32):
Yes, girl Got your family and they need wants to
date, but people think she'svery intimidating she is, and
that's okay, she really is.

Speaker 4 (01:25:43):
So, oh my god, the number one me at the song.
I didn't know that singing thissong is.
At a young age I didn't knowwhat the song meant how would
you know?

Speaker 2 (01:25:51):
but now it's an older woman as an older woman.

Speaker 4 (01:25:54):
I listen to the song and I'm like Whitney Houston.

Speaker 5 (01:25:58):
Whitney.

Speaker 4 (01:25:58):
Houston not easy.

Speaker 3 (01:26:00):
Alright.

Speaker 2 (01:26:07):
I'm not singing her anthem.

Speaker 5 (01:26:09):
This is not my anthem , but the song.

Speaker 4 (01:26:11):
Notice who's belting it out my accent but this song
you requested it To resist beinglast on your list.
Notice who's belting it out toit.
Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:26:22):
That's Tenille singing.
By the way, you were singingSashalee.
No, I wasn't.
I don't even know this song.
I'm kidding.
I'm kidding, she's lying.

Speaker 5 (01:26:32):
I was about to throw this whole machine.

Speaker 2 (01:26:35):
You don't know this song.

Speaker 4 (01:26:36):
Satchely was singing it.
No, I wasn't.
You can turn it down.
Do your thing, amazing song.

Speaker 2 (01:26:44):
We used the rest of the piece.
Her mom yeah, we spoke aboutthis Her mom in the past.

Speaker 4 (01:26:50):
Love your own.
Stop tech people, man, sir.

Speaker 2 (01:26:54):
Alright, I got a, I got an, I got an education video
for you guys so we're gonnaplay the video macons are the
fastest people on earth, andhere's why I'm already.

Speaker 1 (01:27:07):
Jamaica is a tiny island, yet it's produced an
insane number of gold medalsprinters.
So how is this possible?
One answer is genetics,specifically something called
the founder effect, the loss ofgenetic variation that occurs
when number of gold medalsprinters.
So how is this possible?
One answer is geneticsspecifically something called
the founder effect, the loss ofgenetic variation that occurs
when a new population isestablished by a very small
number of individuals.
You see, most Jamaicans aredescended from a small group of
West African tribesmen broughtto the island as slaves.

(01:27:29):
This little group just sohappened to have a particularly
high incidence of two genes onewhich helped fast twitch muscles
generate strong contractions,and another which makes it more
likely for one to be born with alarger sized heart.
More on that in the captionbelow.
And since nearly all Jamaicansare descended from this
relatively small group, you seean unusually high incidence of
both genes in today's Jamaicanpopulation.

(01:27:51):
Add lots of sprint training anda strong track and field
culture and you have a recipefor the fastest island in the
world.
So Jamaicans.

Speaker 2 (01:28:02):
you know how we're fast.
It's not the yam, it's not thebanana, it's the genetics.
Did you know that?

Speaker 3 (01:28:09):
I know now.

Speaker 2 (01:28:11):
You, Sasha, as a Jamaican, the resident Jamaican
in this room.

Speaker 3 (01:28:15):
The resident Jamaican who knows?

Speaker 2 (01:28:16):
all the dance altars.
You didn't know that we're fastBecause we have two Strong
genes in our DNA that make ourmuscles Well, I know about the
genes, but I didn't know thatthat is the cause of Whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:28:32):
I just started training and, whatever the case
may be, you have a talent, youhave a talent, you're fast,
you're fast.

Speaker 2 (01:28:37):
Well, I didn't know.
You all learned something today.
Mel your time.

Speaker 4 (01:28:44):
What do you mean my time?
Why are you playing the Macy?

Speaker 3 (01:28:45):
song.
It's not a person.
She requested the song.
I know Exactly, right All righty'all, Everyone's favorite time
.

Speaker 4 (01:28:54):
Yo.

Speaker 2 (01:28:54):
Favorite segment.

Speaker 4 (01:28:55):
Talk that up, talk that up, talk that up.

Speaker 3 (01:28:58):
Oh God, how does that even go again?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:29:03):
Thank you for tuning in to another episode of she
Starts with Meltdown and SashaLee, and to Neil we keep it
right, we keep it tight.
Talk to it nice.
Can you turn it down?
Music they didn't hear us itwas so loud talk to a nice.

(01:29:25):
So it is a three way today, ohmy gosh ain't nothing better
than three wayway baby.
Two in the bottom, one on top,two in the front one behind.

Speaker 3 (01:29:37):
So today are we going with this young man Go ahead.
His name is Omarion Smith,Omarion With an A Omarion.

Speaker 2 (01:29:48):
Smith.

Speaker 3 (01:29:49):
So this young man is 21 years old.
He is Michigan State footballplayer.
He recently lost his mom tocancer, so condolences to that,
um, but he was left raising hisfive siblings after his mom
passed.
Yeah, yeah, so ages what?
19, 16, 15, 11, and theyoungest is two yeah, so young

(01:30:11):
man I encourage you to go on aworld of fiat so is he still
like playing sports?
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:30:17):
They didn't say yeah, I think he is.

Speaker 3 (01:30:19):
He is going to school and so I think while he's in
school, the 19 year old ishelping with the rest right yeah
, got it, got it.

Speaker 2 (01:30:26):
Yeah, shout out to you man he's fighting

Speaker 3 (01:30:28):
yeah go on a world of fiat, yo we're praying for you.

Speaker 4 (01:30:30):
We're sending prayers .
Yeah, we wanted to shed lighton it because, like there's
always you know, there's always.

Speaker 3 (01:30:36):
He's still a baby.

Speaker 4 (01:30:37):
Yeah, he really is, but there's always like that
story where it's so easy forpeople to get into sports and
their parents are doing good.
We wanted to shed light on adifferent type of story of his
come up and, like yo, noteverybody has a silver spoon in
their mouth.
That's true a lot.
So I don't know if he has agofundme page up, we're gonna
look into that.

Speaker 3 (01:30:53):
Yeah, it's a lot of responsibility, man he's playing
sports in college.

Speaker 2 (01:30:56):
I'm sure he has uh people that scholarship and
things that are helping.
No, outside of the scholarship.

Speaker 4 (01:31:01):
You know, like boosters and such who help out
yeah, depending on his level,we're hoping, but he's really
good on the field.
Why does it sound like your?

Speaker 3 (01:31:07):
dog is out.
Um, he's not.
He can't come to us.
I heard galloping.
He doesn't know how to come tothe city.
I heard galloping.

Speaker 2 (01:31:12):
He doesn't know how to come to the city.

Speaker 3 (01:31:13):
I mean we run.

Speaker 2 (01:31:14):
Where.

Speaker 4 (01:31:15):
I don't know.
Well, that is she.

Speaker 2 (01:31:18):
Sports Before we end she Sports.
A very important sporting eventhappened.

Speaker 4 (01:31:24):
It did.

Speaker 2 (01:31:24):
A ceremony actually.
Yes, that took place here inToronto.
Yeah, Mel, your children'sfather.

Speaker 4 (01:31:33):
My baby daddy.
Who that is my baby daddy?

Speaker 2 (01:31:36):
He officially got his jersey retired.

Speaker 4 (01:31:38):
He did.

Speaker 2 (01:31:40):
My girl Shout out to Vince Carter, who finally
reconciled with the Raptors.

Speaker 4 (01:31:46):
Yes, I think it was a good thing.
Where were you when you heardthe news, though?
When you heard the news, wherewas you at?
I was at work, I was on a break.

Speaker 5 (01:31:54):
Tell me about it.

Speaker 2 (01:31:56):
I was on a break and I saw the video of him and him
and Masai.

Speaker 3 (01:32:02):
Mel was throwing shots.
No, I know it's okay.

Speaker 2 (01:32:05):
My gun ready anytime.
But him and Masai were talkingand I saw him get the news and
he was all crying.

Speaker 1 (01:32:12):
It was because he opened the park at Dixon.

Speaker 2 (01:32:14):
Yes, he revitalized dixon yes, that was dope and um,
yeah, he got the news there.
He was just in tears and I waslike he deserves it, man, he
deserves we love you, vince.

Speaker 4 (01:32:24):
I I was at work when I heard the news and um, big up
bukla, big up your blood clotself.
Bukla messaged me and she'slike girl, our baby daddy what
our?
Our yeah, I mean her shirt him.
Okay, she said our baby daddyhas finally been recognized for
his accomplishments we have beenhere since day one and you know
from north carolina.
Yeah, all the way, all the wayup here.

(01:32:46):
Because he wasn't even supposedto come to toronto.
That's fact.
He got traded for antoinejameson who is he?

Speaker 3 (01:32:52):
look at her who is he ?

Speaker 4 (01:32:53):
I don't even know what happened to antoine?
Do you know?

Speaker 3 (01:32:57):
decent, but not vince worthy no, and vince is here,
you know I mean, and he did somuch for the city.

Speaker 4 (01:33:03):
Vince, we love you most well known about any
subject since we started thepodcast, since we started the
podcast I love vince.
I followed him, you know, likewhen he was a Tar Heel he was my
baby daddy like he was supposedto do so much and he did that.
And I just want to say, vince,we love you.
You should have retired with us, but it's A-OK.
Big up your blood clots.

Speaker 2 (01:33:25):
I think this is a great story about reconciliation
and, you know, forgetting aboutwhat happened in the past,
because that was like over 20years ago yeah, we heard him
though we did, but it was, itwas mutual hurting.

Speaker 4 (01:33:37):
Yeah, we were sad that he wanted to leave and
we're sad that he got triggered.
He wanted to go and he didn'twant to go no, no, no, because
he wanted to go to the party.
I mean, he wanted to go to theparty and he knows that we were
in the finals, bro his momwanted a little parking spot and
he said, nah I know that wasthis and he's like yo amalia
this is my mom.

(01:33:58):
That's his mama.
Yeah, that was disrespect forsure.
Uh shout out to vince man Iactually had to put his jersey
up just because, um because hewas gully creeping in the club
the night before no vince is alegend in toronto club let me
tell you guys about a story Ihave about them.

Speaker 5 (01:34:14):
Whoa, whoa, whoa, hold on, hey, hey, hey, whoa
whoa.

Speaker 2 (01:34:18):
Yo me fight against your money, Come on.

Speaker 3 (01:34:21):
Me.
Fight against your money.
This is an exclusive Secondtime today, mel has wanted to
fight me over my Yo me fightagainst your money, fight your
Obama, blah blah From a littlebit of just so much time.

Speaker 4 (01:34:35):
Anyways, Tell from a little bit just so much time.
Anyways, tell your story mynephew um me and him are
actually he's older than me itis a real story, so he used to
work for the rap hat okay, yeahand he used to get us tickets
all the time and we would go, meand like my friend and whatever
we would literally go toraptors games like all the time,

(01:34:57):
because we would always justget free tickets like free
tickets.
So one day I was like waving tohim and I was like my god, he
just walked right past me,didn't see yeah, he wouldn't
know you, I was really.

Speaker 5 (01:35:09):
You're not his baby mama, apparently not you're not
me right.

Speaker 4 (01:35:14):
I went home that night and I had a dream that I
bought him kfc.

Speaker 3 (01:35:20):
Okay, he was so happy that was a story for my kid.

Speaker 4 (01:35:23):
Yeah, that was so happy for my kfc and I was just
like it was a moment before yougot your bed, didn't you?
No, I'm gonna like rice whatdid you eat?

Speaker 3 (01:35:33):
late and went to bed.

Speaker 1 (01:35:34):
Can I tell you something?

Speaker 4 (01:35:35):
can I tell you something and I just want to
share that story thank you, me,me and buccala used to take

(01:36:10):
turns feeding him kfc, so youfed him my kfc.

Speaker 2 (01:36:12):
No, no, no.

Speaker 4 (01:36:13):
My Thank you for tuning in to another episode of
she Sports with Mel Dub Tennilleand Sasha Lee Pick up on the
blood clots.
We keep it right, we keep ittight Talk to you when I Bam,
bam, bam.

Speaker 2 (01:36:26):
Yeah, man, vince Carter, you deserve everything
that you're getting now, man,everything, and even if you want
me to.

Speaker 4 (01:36:32):
I want to sit on it I can make him chicken.
Tell me why you deserve it.
I can make him chicken.
I don't have to like give himKFC.

Speaker 2 (01:36:44):
I was going to say your food is probably better
than KFC right now.
Yeah for sure, the new KFC,that's for that.

Speaker 4 (01:36:50):
Listen, I don't know how people like honestly, maybe
like 20 years ago I stoppedeating anything even near-named
KFC About that?

Speaker 2 (01:36:56):
yeah, because I just I couldn't understand.
Kfc is so trash man, it'sgarbage.

Speaker 4 (01:36:59):
And people really line up for that pan tu zeno.

Speaker 1 (01:37:01):
Yeah, really bad.

Speaker 4 (01:37:02):
Yeah still.
Like it's very, and they don'teven have pieces of chicken.
It's like cuata piece.

Speaker 2 (01:37:18):
And like they're disrespectful.
Yeah, and it's not seasoned, notaste, like it's not the
addictive kfc that we used tohave.
No, no, yeah, not at all,unless I mean jamaican kfc, I
mean hello, come on, come on, melight up for that one anytime
listen, I go in jamaica.

Speaker 4 (01:37:27):
When I get there, I literally wait before this.
Please, whooping, so that I canbe like 49.

Speaker 2 (01:37:33):
That's the first stop out of the airport.
Yeah, literally that's thefirst stop for us kids, yeah, my
kids oh yeah.
Sasha, what you got for us.

Speaker 4 (01:37:41):
What you got, sasha, would I rather what.

Speaker 2 (01:37:43):
KFC in Toronto or Jamaica?
Not even a question.

Speaker 4 (01:37:46):
Toronto or Jamaica.
Melissa's doing this week's,would you Rather?
What do we have?

Speaker 2 (01:37:52):
Would you rather give Vince Carter, oh my.
You got nothing.
How can I get him?
She's laughing, so it's alright, it was nasty.
Go ahead.

Speaker 4 (01:38:04):
It's an interesting one Based on the place that we
work at.
Oh lord.

Speaker 5 (01:38:09):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:38:13):
May I be excused?
No, okay, ready.

Speaker 4 (01:38:15):
Would you rather walk around your office or school
all day with your favorite porncategory labeled on your
forehead, or have a vivid sexdream about your boss and have
to tell them and the rest ofyour team about it in detail at
the next?

Speaker 5 (01:38:34):
board meeting.

Speaker 4 (01:38:36):
Oh, I would tell them about it.
I've done that.

Speaker 5 (01:38:38):
No, no, not done it, but.

Speaker 1 (01:38:39):
I would have no problem in doing that so
basically your favorite porncategory on your forehead.

Speaker 4 (01:38:44):
No, you don't need to know that.
Or?

Speaker 5 (01:38:47):
You don't want to know that I was going to say.
Do you want to know?

Speaker 2 (01:38:58):
Or have a vivid sex dream about your boss and have
to tell them and the rest of theteam about it in detail at the
next board meeting.

Speaker 4 (01:39:00):
That's tricky for us because we have multiple bosses.

Speaker 2 (01:39:00):
Yeah, yeah, I was going to say I don't mind
telling one of my bosses, so Iwould just tell the vivid sex
dream.
Oh, the dream, yeah, oh.

Speaker 4 (01:39:08):
I wouldn't mind telling one of the bosses, the
female.

Speaker 2 (01:39:10):
I'll tell her no, I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:39:12):
I mean that's yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:39:14):
I'm not walking around with no category in my
foot.

Speaker 4 (01:39:16):
Yeah, no, not at all.
I don't have a porn category.
You don't Wait what, wait, waitwhat.
Okay, what is your porncategory?

Speaker 3 (01:39:22):
I like big butts, but I cannot lie.

Speaker 4 (01:39:24):
What's your porn?

Speaker 3 (01:39:25):
category.
I like big butts, but I cannotlie.

Speaker 2 (01:39:30):
You a big cat didn.
Should I tell them the real one, or should I tell them the PG
one?

Speaker 3 (01:39:34):
I'm trying to think of a PG one.
I can't tell them the real one.

Speaker 4 (01:39:37):
I don't know what, the PG one she likes the
underwater one.

Speaker 2 (01:39:42):
Yeah underwater.

Speaker 4 (01:39:44):
I don't know if mine is a category, what is it you?

Speaker 2 (01:39:48):
don't have to say it, I'm nervous, I'm nervous, I
might have to believe this one.

Speaker 4 (01:39:55):
So it's like all of us are here right, the fact that
you are nervous so it's likethis part so all of us are here,
right, and it's like if, ifthere was like a guy that I
liked here that I want to slam,we're all here.
But I'm taking like a buckersin the corner and nobody knows,
but I'm here in the room withyou guys.

Speaker 2 (01:40:12):
Oh, like that, why would?

Speaker 1 (01:40:13):
nobody the desk.

Speaker 4 (01:40:14):
You're not paying attention to it like I'm just
catching a quick little fling upand you guys are just in the
room talking to me.

Speaker 3 (01:40:21):
Normal, but may I take work wait, they're talking
to you yeah yeah, she's partying, but she had tech work, so he's
like under the couch yeah yeah,just like yeah, guys.

Speaker 2 (01:40:29):
So you know, I just like yeah, the fact that you
have like a whole, like actingyou never seen that you never
seen baby boy when she's on thephone with home girl and she's
like, yeah, girl, he acting upgirl, I'm gonna call you back.

Speaker 4 (01:40:44):
I know every female here has had that happen.

Speaker 3 (01:40:48):
I think that's so sexy, has what happened?

Speaker 2 (01:40:51):
you're on the phone that's him walking so he's, out
no, that's not him never mind,that is him, no, that's not him
walking you ask sasha becauseshe, I don't sasha I'm sure you
have been on the phone and andlike what hussy might just slip
it in yeah yeah, yeah, and thendo you stop talking no, her

Speaker 3 (01:41:11):
breath I cut.
I cut the conversation talkingmy best friends.

Speaker 4 (01:41:15):
Like you're a whore, get off my phone cuz I'm just
gonna go and we'll talk later.

Speaker 3 (01:41:31):
I would just say you fucking nasty I would just say
it Get off the phone.

Speaker 4 (01:41:34):
I'd be like listen what's your man like Smaddy
Anyam.
Dina Mexico.

Speaker 5 (01:41:37):
Really yeah, I would.

Speaker 4 (01:41:39):
I would have no, really.
But I also too, like friendswho call me like Tanuka and like
Nikki or whatever.
Those are people who literallyknow me.
So they know.
So Like I'll be on a video callwith you as I'm in the bathroom
, like I don't like having ashower or what I'm have like the

(01:42:00):
right boundaries.
Have you ever been thatposition?
Like on the phone like wifey'son the phone.
A yagi abacas, what she'shardly.
Have you ever just slipped itin?
Okay, anyways, pick one Porn onthe forehead.

Speaker 5 (01:42:17):
Well, he said the vivid dream.
The vivid dream.
What about you?

Speaker 4 (01:42:20):
Porn yeah, but she says she doesn't watch porn.

Speaker 3 (01:42:23):
Yes.
You don't watch porn at all,not that I don't watch, but I
don't have a category.
Okay, what porn do you likelooking?

Speaker 5 (01:42:27):
at.

Speaker 4 (01:42:33):
You don't.
And a woman.
Oh my God, fix your face, blackor white.

Speaker 3 (01:42:37):
No, definitely not white.

Speaker 4 (01:42:38):
Oh my God, I can't watch black porn.

Speaker 3 (01:42:41):
What I can't watch black porn.

Speaker 4 (01:42:43):
We're done with her.
To an extent we're done withher.
But I can't really Because someof them.
You like watching white people,no I like Pinky, I like
Cherokee, I'm done.

Speaker 2 (01:42:52):
I, like old school ones, wait a second Wait a
second Stop.
I'm done, so you watch whitepeople.

Speaker 4 (01:42:58):
Yeah, because a lot of the new ones, like you know,
I like Pinky Her stuff is so old.
I like Cherokee, like I likesome of those.

Speaker 2 (01:43:05):
Oh, she has names.
Yeah, I'm talking about you.
Watch white people why?

Speaker 4 (01:43:13):
what's wrong with watching white people?

Speaker 2 (01:43:15):
nothing, just.
I mean we had a whole talkabout them not bathing past
their waist, but what does thathave to do about porn?

Speaker 4 (01:43:23):
what does it have to do about porn?
Just, look dirty, like not allyou're you're making a statement
based off of, like not allwhite people.
You know that that is a veryyou're to have to take out this
whole comment I was going to sayI don't think it's.
That's not okay.
I mean, there are black peoplewho don't as well.

Speaker 3 (01:43:48):
Do you know that right?
I just know that white porndoes nothing for me.

Speaker 4 (01:43:53):
No, there's some white porn.
That does not do anything forme, but there's some white porn.
I'd rather look at cartoon porn.
No, there's some white pornthat does not do anything for me
, but there's some white pornwhen that man they are true, I'd
rather look at cartoon pornthan watch white porn.

Speaker 3 (01:44:03):
I think it's called anime Anime.

Speaker 2 (01:44:05):
No, anime is actually just anime.
I don't know, I don't mind it.

Speaker 3 (01:44:07):
No it's anime porn, isn't it?
Well yeah, I'd rather watch twostick figures than watch white
porn.
She said really.

Speaker 2 (01:44:19):
No, I'm watch what he said.
Really, there's some black pornthat I'll watch, but I usually
yeah, I don't mind, like I don't, I don't um.

Speaker 1 (01:44:29):
Like whatever just turns me on.
Most of the ones that I've like, yeah, but that's the only
thing I started on where you'rejust having sex in a corner.

Speaker 2 (01:44:37):
Like she's not willing like the hidden stuff.
Yeah, people are not aware.

Speaker 4 (01:44:40):
I like Voyager sex Like just you know.

Speaker 2 (01:44:42):
You like watching it or?

Speaker 4 (01:44:43):
you like being the one watched.

Speaker 2 (01:44:48):
Being the one watched .
Yeah, sure, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:44:51):
I get what she's saying.
That was a great episode guys.
Oh, we're done, it's just thewhole not being caught thing we
don't have to be.

Speaker 4 (01:44:58):
Yeah, just not being caught.
So why?
How do you not have a categorythat you like?

Speaker 3 (01:45:00):
I feel like that's weird, I don't just go watch
porn like that, Like I don'tremember the last time I watched
porn, so why do you watch porn?
I don't really watch porn't.
I'm not saying I haven'twatched porn, but I know I know,
but to masturbate you don'twatch porn no do you watch porn
when you masturbate?

(01:45:21):
Yeah, I do I don't need porn torub my nose I don't need it.

Speaker 5 (01:45:24):
I don't need it, but I need I enjoy it, and it could
even be myself.
Yeah, I enjoy it like videos.

Speaker 4 (01:45:30):
You don't take videos of yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:45:31):
I haven't taken a video wait, wait, wait, hold up
what I haven't taken a video ofmyself in a long time, like four
or five years I haven't reallyyeah, yeah, yeah, no I think I'm
with my ex.

Speaker 4 (01:45:41):
One video oh I would like take a video and then send
it to you in the middle of theday, like remember this yeah, if
I met someone who took that outof me, I would yeah, yeah, I
guess I guess, it has to be yeahsomeone has to take it out of
you.
I never, so you don't reallyhave a son.
That's kind of, and I don'tmind two women.

Speaker 2 (01:46:04):
Yo, I'm enjoying Sasha's face right now.
I know Sasha's face tells nolies.

Speaker 3 (01:46:10):
It's just right out there, sasha's like oh what.

Speaker 4 (01:46:14):
You never watched two women eat each other and be
bent or not.
Sasha, you've never had athreesome, Bumba clap.

Speaker 2 (01:46:21):
Well, that's a wrap.

Speaker 4 (01:46:23):
I've never had a threesome.
I'm happy for you guys, causeyou make it sound so out there.
No, I've never had one, butI've been asked.
I've been asked more than once.

Speaker 3 (01:46:33):
I've been asked 100%, but I don't indulge, I'm sorry.
Are you afraid to do three?

Speaker 4 (01:46:38):
so yeah, I'm afraid, but I just if I'm doing a three
thumb, it's two women no, it hasto be to be the third, but to
it's all I want to women like Iwant another girl, why I just, I
, just, I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:46:56):
She wants her front eight, yeah, yeah, but a man, no
, by a woman I wouldn't.

Speaker 4 (01:47:00):
I would, but why?

Speaker 5 (01:47:00):
I wouldn't mind experiencing how a woman eats
front, but she's not doing itback.

Speaker 4 (01:47:04):
I'm not doing it back yet, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:47:07):
I mean, that's not.
That's not, that's selfish.

Speaker 3 (01:47:13):
That's very.

Speaker 5 (01:47:14):
I mean, you want her name feel yeah like that's the
thing, though but why do youwant her to do it?

Speaker 4 (01:47:20):
because I want to see who does it better, because
they say usually women do itbetter.
Because we know, we know ourbodies right, like we know what
we want.
So I would want to experiencejust a woman in that sense.
I mean I I hear what you'resaying and I see the logic
behind it yeah, but I'm noteating front.
I mean, what are you going tobe like?
Oh, I'm tired.
No, I'm not going to be no.

Speaker 5 (01:47:41):
What I'm going to say is oh, I'm so tired.

Speaker 3 (01:47:43):
Now I'm going to say thank you Thanks for your
services and that's it, just getup and go.

Speaker 4 (01:47:57):
Well, if me and my man are know.
So what is?

Speaker 3 (01:48:00):
her purpose, then, just to come near my front and
left.

Speaker 4 (01:48:02):
Yeah, wow, that is a very interesting three.
That is such a yeah.
That's weird.
Why is that weird?
Because you just want to havewhat I want.
What you want is a lesbianinteraction.
I don't want it.
But I'm saying we're asking thequestion like if I had to
experience something, that'swhat I would experience in a
threesome.

Speaker 3 (01:48:20):
I think you want it because you've mentioned this
before.
Yeah, we've talked about thison the podcast before.

Speaker 4 (01:48:23):
No, no, no, we've talked about it because you guys
asked me before if I'd have athreesome.
No, do I desire it.
No, if my man, if I'm with myman and he wanted it, I would do
a one-time only thing.
But the girl have to eat myfront.
I'm in my, not penetrator noneat all.
So what kind of I'm supposed?

(01:48:44):
to say okay okay, I'll be honestwith you.
I don't think you would everwant to have a threesome, and I
don't know why people do this orhow people do this.
I don't think you would everwant to have a threesome with a
man who you are like in lovewith or even like you see a
future with or anything likethat, yeah it's not
worth it.
If he touches her titty, licksher, it's gonna, it's a fight.

(01:49:04):
I mean, if you're a jealousperson, I am, I'm crazy jealous.
Yeah, see, if you're a jealousperson, it's definitely not for
you and two.
You don't want to have it likeI don't know why people would
ever have threesomes or anythinglike that.
With people who know, withpeople who you are in love with.
It's not an act that Ipersonally feel that you should

(01:49:26):
have, Like I would never do itwith my husband.

Speaker 3 (01:49:29):
Not in a million years.

Speaker 5 (01:49:32):
Was your threesome with a long-term partner?
No, okay, definitely not See inthat essence.

Speaker 4 (01:49:35):
I get what you're saying, because when I was in
college a lot of girls weredoing it and she's like yo.
This is the time to experienceit, because you don't know,
these fools Just have fun.

Speaker 3 (01:49:43):
But I couldn't.
Yeah, I can't have two men andI'm a whore.
I can't do it, not one time,mel.

Speaker 5 (01:49:56):
You have more than one hole.
First of all, my, the way mybody is set up, not not.

Speaker 4 (01:50:00):
Yeah, but nobody said anything about your body no,
she's not gonna do that no, Iknow, but nobody's saying that
you don't know my mouth nothere's other holes?
No, no, there's just it's not.
I can't, I can't, I can't, girl, get even front, and that's it
yeah, that is an interesting.
I'm selfish, no you are selfish, you don't have to ask I'm

(01:50:21):
selfish to do.

Speaker 1 (01:50:22):
What do you mean if you?

Speaker 4 (01:50:23):
know.
No, it's not a question.
It's a statement you're making.
Clearly there's no part of thatcan be a question.
I'm selfish, I'm gonna make younyeh me out, but me nah gonna
touch you.
You can't go and bolt yourbusiness.
I will not scissor after butyou know you're talking about
scissoring like you.
She's talking about scissoringlike she know about it, cause

(01:50:45):
I'm like scissoring stop this,mel.

Speaker 3 (01:50:47):
You've talked about scissoring on the podcast.

Speaker 4 (01:50:48):
I have not talked about scissoring.
Sheldon, have I talked aboutscissoring?

Speaker 2 (01:50:52):
I gotta go back and check I have not talked about
scissoring.

Speaker 4 (01:50:55):
I know Not scissoring , that's a lie.

Speaker 3 (01:50:57):
Just because I know scissoring doesn't mean I
indulge, but yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:51:00):
Say who.

Speaker 3 (01:51:04):
Sounds like she wants to see how she looks.
I don't.
No, my hair is.
I can leave you, though, butyeah.

Speaker 5 (01:51:06):
I can't.

Speaker 2 (01:51:10):
No, I'm not.

Speaker 4 (01:51:10):
I'm not Sanitizer, I don't desire to be with a female
, but if I had to do a threesome, that's how it would be.

Speaker 2 (01:51:17):
How did we get here?

Speaker 4 (01:51:18):
I don't know.
I think Mel asked the questionI did not ask the question.

Speaker 3 (01:51:22):
Yes, you did.
I said she's pointing at me.

Speaker 4 (01:51:24):
You asked the question.

Speaker 2 (01:51:25):
You're like have you ever had a threesome.

Speaker 4 (01:51:27):
I said what is your sex category?
You asked her if she had athreesome Ten.
It wasn't me.
You're right, Because youalways make me Y'all.
They all turn out.
They try to make me look likeI'm the aggressive Sexual
hypersexual person?

Speaker 2 (01:51:46):
No, you're not hypersexual.

Speaker 4 (01:51:47):
You're just aggressive.

Speaker 2 (01:51:48):
I am not aggressive.

Speaker 4 (01:51:51):
You're an aggressive bunny.
When's your birthday?

Speaker 5 (01:51:56):
I love that you see this.

Speaker 3 (01:51:59):
What do you mean?

Speaker 4 (01:52:00):
yeah, I'm just saying leo's are aggressive, you don't
think?

Speaker 1 (01:52:04):
no, I'm not or is that a statement again?

Speaker 4 (01:52:06):
I think sometimes I can be aggressive, but I'm not
always aggressive that's a softy, but if you poke the bear, I
don't know if I feel like I'venever looked at her and thought
she was a softy no, you can'tlook at her.

Speaker 2 (01:52:18):
You have to know her personally, like know yourself.

Speaker 3 (01:52:21):
But there's a tough layer in the beginning there's a
layer that's a strong layer inthe beginning that if you pass a
little this, is not dr philtime anyways guys, thank you for
tuning in to the episode ain'tnobody trying to dissect me
about.

Speaker 2 (01:52:51):
And even if he was, he would have got cussed out to.

Speaker 3 (01:52:56):
Like when I say you're like, I'm not aggressive,
but now exactly it.

Speaker 4 (01:52:59):
Really it's a trauma response actually what the
problem is that he's bringing uphe's bringing up chevy's name
and me and chevy we're we'rebeefing right now because he
disrespected me and how did he?
Disrespect you.
We can't talk about that whycan't we?

Speaker 5 (01:53:14):
talk about it he disrespected me.
My man's not disrespectful,he's very disrespectful and very
man's not disrespectful youmust have.
We can't talk about their armright now.
Why can't we talk about it?
He disrespected me.
Sheldon knows how he's verydisrespectful and very rude.
My man's not disrespectful.

Speaker 1 (01:53:22):
You must have earned it, no.

Speaker 4 (01:53:24):
He disrespected me and then he tried to blow it off
and make it seem like it wasnothing.
So when he came here today Iwas going to light his blood
clock.
That's so aggressive very muchso I'm learning to change.
I'm learning, are you?

Speaker 2 (01:53:38):
you're learning to change or you're like changing
I'm what?

Speaker 4 (01:53:41):
are you changing your diaper?
Because that's the only thingit can change, but you're
learning to change.
I'm learning to change and be abetter person sasha lee is so
aggressive?

Speaker 3 (01:53:52):
why is mel picking on me today?
Sasha's?

Speaker 4 (01:53:54):
aggressive.
I don't think Sasha'saggressive I think Sasha's not.

Speaker 3 (01:53:57):
Sasha has only child syndrome.
She's intimidating.
In her own world.

Speaker 4 (01:54:01):
Sasha has only child syndrome.
Sasha Lee may have you guysfooled, but this whole facade
sitting here like oh my god.
I don't know what's going on.
Yo, she's mud sick head.
No good, she's a player full ofcatchphrases.
Exactly the biggest bully.
She's mud sick head.
No good, She'll play a fool forcatch wise.
Yeah, exactly, Missy man.
Missy, the biggest bully in theroom is.
She really wanted to be, butshe pretends Wow.

Speaker 3 (01:54:23):
Okay, look at the thing, sheldon seriously, I
think I.
Look at she's pretending rightnow I don't do that Sasha needs
to forget.
No, I don that all the time.

Speaker 2 (01:54:39):
I don't think she's intimidating.

Speaker 5 (01:54:40):
People don't speak to me because they just look at me
and think I'm intimidating.

Speaker 3 (01:54:43):
Yeah, a lot of times I don't know if I see that I
don't talk much unless I knowyou well, and I'm not one to
just meet you and just throweverything on the table.

Speaker 4 (01:54:51):
Then how do we start talking If you don't spend?

Speaker 3 (01:54:52):
the time, time to knew you were such a mother oh,
but I'm a virgin.

Speaker 4 (01:54:57):
You, how did?

Speaker 2 (01:54:59):
that happen.

Speaker 4 (01:55:00):
Sat on the toilet seat wrong I've told my kids
this for years I only sat on atoilet, seat wrong.
That's how you guys got heremakes sense sashley has a
resting bitch face that's whatI'm saying.
She's intimidating at firstshe's very aggressive as well
when I first came into thedivision.
Let's be clear.
Do you remember our firstinteraction?

Speaker 3 (01:55:18):
No, let me tell you.

Speaker 4 (01:55:21):
That was not our first interaction, but go ahead.

Speaker 3 (01:55:23):
So when was our first interaction In front of where
we signed in our documents?
At the end of the day, thatwasn't our first one.

Speaker 2 (01:55:30):
It was in the Can I tell you guys my first
interaction with Mel?
You had just come in with atrainer.

Speaker 4 (01:55:42):
And I told you congrats she, you and your
training partner.
Even if she wants to say thatwas the first interaction, she
was rude because she, she onlywant to really dap sean because
sean and you know, no, no, youguys were not together.

Speaker 3 (01:55:48):
You said I was with my training partner, that's sean
.
Yeah, you guys both came in,but with different people, so I
greeted.

Speaker 4 (01:55:54):
I greeted you first and then him she didn't really
want to greet me first.
She wants to greet him, butbecause I was in front, she
greet me and it was one of theseyeah man, congrats, boom.
And then she went to no, no butwhen she went to sean, but when
she went to sean it was likethis hey, oh my god,
congratulations sean got thefull package.

Speaker 3 (01:56:16):
Sean didn't get a full package.
What you're?

Speaker 4 (01:56:17):
saying is that she's just intimidating to women.

Speaker 3 (01:56:20):
No, thank you, okay, I want you guys to know that
Melissa is lying out of herteeth right now because that
story I just told was a fuckinglie.
Do you see how I catch people?
Do you see how I catch people?
Hold?

Speaker 1 (01:56:32):
on hold.
On hold on.

Speaker 4 (01:56:33):
That was a fucking lie.
She could be lying right nowtoo.
We don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:56:36):
I mean, neither was, we don't know.
Yeah, neither was a lie, so wecan't verify this.
Yes, exactly, we gotta decidewho we're gonna believe right
here.

Speaker 4 (01:56:43):
You see how I just gave her who are we gonna
believe right here, I shouldtake it down the line.
Okay, okay, watch this.

Speaker 3 (01:56:53):
And there direction.

Speaker 4 (01:56:53):
And then she said oh, but not even that time, it was
this time I don't know whichside of room incident you're
talking about.

Speaker 3 (01:56:58):
I remember the first time I met you.
What was the first time?
But now I'll tell you okay,because now you're gonna go.

Speaker 2 (01:57:03):
Now you're making shit up.

Speaker 3 (01:57:05):
I do remember, she doesn't remember.
I do remember, she doesn'tremember I don't remember.

Speaker 1 (01:57:08):
It's just because, again, we're on the park and we
can't call names.
Yes, you can.
I just called sean's name.

Speaker 3 (01:57:14):
That's fine, sean's name Sean's okay with his name
being called.
Yeah, so who?
One other person?
It's alright.

Speaker 4 (01:57:22):
I don't remember meeting both of you.
I think I was sitting down andI saw, like I don't remember.

Speaker 3 (01:57:26):
Our first interaction .
You were just a sweetheart toeverybody, so you just People
just gravitate towards you.
I remember meeting Mel.
I remember meeting Sasha too.

Speaker 4 (01:57:33):
Late relief it was a couple years, a year after I
started.
Okay, now you gotta take thatout.
Well, whatever, okay, no, it'sjust late relief, yeah, okay.

Speaker 5 (01:57:41):
I remember meeting this one here.

Speaker 4 (01:57:42):
This one.

Speaker 3 (01:57:43):
Yeah, the aggressive one.
Yeah, she tried to scoop me.
The aggressive one.

Speaker 2 (01:57:46):
I tried to scoop me early on and I'm like what did
scoop him up?

Speaker 4 (01:57:53):
she tried to scoop me .

Speaker 2 (01:57:54):
I said I'm okay, I was trying to look you no, I
said I'm okay, thanks, because Isaw her in the dominoes at
lunch break and she was yellingafter her she was yelling after
her old man.

Speaker 4 (01:58:05):
I won't say who who was that yelling at?
Wow, uncle Roy.
I was yelling at Roy.

Speaker 2 (01:58:09):
Yes, which is probably right and my trainers
at the time.
They're like Don't go in thatroom because it's scary in there
.

Speaker 4 (01:58:15):
I said yeah man, oh was she playing.
She was playing, she wasyelling at everyone.

Speaker 2 (01:58:19):
And then when it was time to go to work, no, she saw
me in the garage.
She was with Chevy, actually,and we were walking out and the
Chevy's like no, she saidsomething to me and then Chevy's
after, like I said no, that wasthe first time.
You don't even remember that?

Speaker 4 (01:58:35):
Yo, I don't even hang with.
I never hanged with Chevy untillike year six.

Speaker 2 (01:58:40):
No, that's not true.
We were going to work in thegarage we were going.

Speaker 4 (01:58:46):
I don't remember that .
I don't even remember how I methim.

Speaker 2 (01:58:51):
I don't remember how I met none of you guys, I don't
even remember how I startedtalking to Chevy?
He remembers me, though Iremember talking to Sasha.

Speaker 4 (01:58:57):
I think you were trying to look my man and that's
how you ended up talking to him.
No, no, no, Never.
I don't even remember him beingin the lunchroom.

Speaker 5 (01:59:07):
Yeah, he was always in that lunchroom, but I never
seen him.
That's what I'm trying to say.

Speaker 2 (01:59:10):
He was there.
I never saw him.

Speaker 3 (01:59:27):
We're going home, home, guys are we and to address
your resting bitch face.

Speaker 5 (01:59:30):
Okay, I'm just saying because you and many other
people have this, this thing inyour head.

Speaker 3 (01:59:32):
How many different people how many different people
?

Speaker 2 (01:59:34):
that's a thing that you have right and I'm
explaining it.

Speaker 3 (01:59:39):
I don't say what.
I'm thinking a lot when I'mthinking.
It shows on my face that.
I'm thinking something.

Speaker 4 (01:59:46):
That's not what it looks like.
That's not what your restingbitch face is.
Your resting bitch face doesnot look like you're thinking.

Speaker 2 (01:59:52):
It looks like you'll come over here and say that to
me.
Can you do it?

Speaker 3 (01:59:57):
I don't know what face you're talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:59:58):
No, because we're talking and we're laughing.
No, it's different.
So her face is like I can't doit because I'm laughing.

Speaker 4 (02:00:06):
I don't know if I even see this face.

Speaker 2 (02:00:08):
Right, you would have never seen that face.
No, no, but I'm telling youwhen.

Speaker 4 (02:00:10):
Sasha's standing.
Her facial structure isdifferent, so it's like I'm
thinking man and y'all thinkit's about y'all.

Speaker 3 (02:00:16):
Yeah, maybe I think that she's thinking.

Speaker 2 (02:00:18):
It's not that we think this is what we see.

Speaker 3 (02:00:20):
She is not thinking I'm telling you she's not
thinking Because I'm a blondeand I don't think.

Speaker 2 (02:00:24):
No, I've seen you stand up in the division doing
so shit, you have to take thatoff doing it sometimes just off

(02:00:49):
the rip because I'm thinking Iwas like, I was like, so we're
just, and then I'm like, okay,maybe I'm just new to this,
because I don't understandsometimes now we're off the rip.

Speaker 4 (02:00:53):
Yeah, you probably won't even put this in, but
either way no, no.

Speaker 3 (02:00:56):
Does it ever occur to you that I have a lot going on
in my head?
That's fine.

Speaker 2 (02:00:59):
But we don't know that Right, because we don't
know you.

Speaker 1 (02:01:02):
I know, but people see them think that it's about
them, or they see them thinkthat I'm standoffish because I
don't like them.

Speaker 4 (02:01:09):
I got shit going on in this head that has nothing to
do with work.
Sasha Sasha, Sasha Sasha.
Nobody said your resting bitchface meant that you don't like
the person.
You just have a resting bitchface.

Speaker 2 (02:01:18):
That's all.
To make you sound better if Isay good morning to you.
You take, but to make it soundbetter if I say good morning to
you.

Speaker 3 (02:01:36):
You take a break your face will change, and that's
the thing.

Speaker 4 (02:01:38):
But you have a resting bitch.

Speaker 2 (02:01:40):
But if I'm like, a you can disagree.

Speaker 3 (02:01:42):
That's fine If I'm a weak-hearted person and I look
and see.

Speaker 2 (02:01:45):
Sasha, come in.
I'm like yo, I'm going that way, bro, Because this girl is-.

Speaker 4 (02:01:48):
I need to fix my face , yes, but you do have a, we
talk about all the time, thelittle, young, new one that we
talk about.

Speaker 2 (02:01:55):
Her face is always bent up, bent up and she's like
no which one.
I can't tell you now, I'll tellyou after.

Speaker 4 (02:01:59):
I don't like that for me, but she has this face.

Speaker 2 (02:02:01):
When she comes she's like no, her face is mean and
then we tell her she's like Idon't even realize I'm doing it.

Speaker 4 (02:02:11):
I know people with faces.
Yeah, fix your feet.
I had to type her.
I said, yo, it's bad.

Speaker 2 (02:02:14):
That was really bad.

Speaker 4 (02:02:16):
And then she just smiled.
Was it worse than mine?
Yes, Her teeth are so white.
I'm like why?

Speaker 5 (02:02:18):
don't you smile.
Well, anyways.
Okay, thank you guys for tuningin to another episode of let's
get out of here?

Speaker 4 (02:02:25):
What is the no Service Podcast?

Speaker 2 (02:02:27):
I miss her walking escaping the we're gone yeah,
and we'll be back again in thenew year, tania thank you so
much for showing up thank youfor having me, thank you for
feeding us.

Speaker 3 (02:02:42):
I'm about to indulge a little more yeah, guys, we're
back, we're back.

Speaker 2 (02:02:49):
Hopefully it's not another three months from now?

Speaker 4 (02:02:52):
well, I mean, snow is coming winter is coming.

Speaker 2 (02:02:55):
Don't say that.
What happened?
Oh shoot.
I changed the song.
Well, I mean snow is coming, no, no, no, winter is coming.
Don't say that.
Don't say that.
Don't say that.
Okay, what happened?
Oh shoot.

Speaker 5 (02:03:02):
I changed the song.

Speaker 2 (02:03:06):
It's true.
Yeah, follow us on social mediaguys, at no Service Podcast, on
Instagram, on Spotify, appleJust search us up the no Service
Podcast Podcast.
We're everywhere.
Soon they'll put YouTube.

Speaker 1 (02:03:22):
YouTube, if Mel will stop talking.

Speaker 2 (02:03:25):
Nastiness.
Oh, why Will YouTube camp foryou?
They'll flag us yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:03:36):
We'll talk about Christmas.
I'm gonna know the rest.

Speaker 4 (02:03:47):
He was wanting so hard.
That's his Sacheron, that's allright.
What did we call her?
Aka Tifa Gelman Manteve.

Speaker 2 (02:03:56):
Manteve.

Speaker 4 (02:04:08):
AKA Manteve, aka what ?

Speaker 2 (02:04:09):
was the next one.
Tell them the story Tell themthe story.

Speaker 4 (02:04:12):
Alright, I didn't know Sasha Ronks in the building
.

Speaker 2 (02:04:15):
Alright, guys, we're out of here.
Peace out, Bye, bye, say black,don't bleach.

Speaker 4 (02:04:21):
Hey say, black don't bleach.

Speaker 2 (02:04:22):
Brush your teeth.

Speaker 4 (02:04:23):
What was my line?
Again, brush your teeth.

Speaker 2 (02:04:24):
Don't sell out no drink water.

Speaker 3 (02:04:27):
I'm minding business.

Speaker 2 (02:04:28):
Oh, that's what I say .

Speaker 3 (02:04:30):
Drink water, mind your business.
Oh so, and be this kid man,Come on.
Good job guys.

Speaker 2 (02:04:49):
This is very aggressive music.
This is very aggressive.