If I Have a Program That Requires ME to Run It— It’s a Failure In Progress!

What if our best intentions were doing more harm than good? In this compelling and unflinchingly honest conversation, global humanitarian consultant Jen Brewer, Vice President at Care for Life, challenges the deeply ingrained dynamics behind the so-called “hero complex,” also known as the white savior complex.

Jen’s lived experience—once showing up with “20 suitcases full of stuff to give” to Guatemalan communities—serves as the jumping-off point for this raw and revealing discussion about what real help looks like. With decades of international service work, Jen isn’t interested in guilt trips or shame tactics. Instead, she invites a shift from paternalistic giving to genuine empowerment.

Care for Life’s Family Preservation Program in Mozambique provides a concrete model. Rather than offering handouts or short-term missions, they employ local staff to walk with entire communities through multi-year journeys of education, self-reliance, and sustainable growth. Jen makes clear: this isn’t about swooping in and saving people—it’s about listening, partnering, and trusting communities to lead themselves.

“The only tweak we needed to make,” Jen explains, “was to train their doctor—rather than replace them.” That small shift encapsulates her broader message: good intentions aren’t enough. Without humility, reflection, and a willingness to step back, well-meaning aid can unintentionally dismantle local economies, erode agency, and reinforce dependency.

She contrasts acute and chronic interventions, urging nonprofits to ask hard questions: Are we helping during a crisis—or perpetuating a crisis mindset for long-term issues like poverty? Are donors prepared to support systemic change instead of photo-worthy quick fixes?

The impactful discussion also surfaces the unspoken cultural programming behind American charity impulses—whether it's collecting coats for refugees or defaulting to physical donations over economic solutions. It’s not that action is wrong, Jen argues. It’s that the type of action matters—and often needs recalibrating.

Jen is not interested in charity that centers the giver. Instead, she calls for philanthropy that trusts and equips communities to solve their own problems—on their own terms. As she puts it, “If I have a program that requires me to run it, it’s a failure in progress.”

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