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May 17, 2022 18 mins

It's Norah's prom. Tune in to hear Norah talk all about her prom weekend — her gorgeous dress, her date, the lack of any prom king or queen, and why we both strongly believe in dishwashing at home and at work.

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Dad (00:00):
Hey, Nora,

Norah (00:01):
Hello dad.

Dad (00:03):
what are we going to talk about this week?

Norah (00:05):
And this week we are going to check prep prom.

Dad (00:22):
Welcome back to the Nora and nacho, I'm dad and I am and
I'm here.
Oh, and I'm here with Nora.
Hey Nora,

Norah (00:31):
Hello dad.

Dad (00:32):
me off.
You're stealing my thunder.
How are you?

Norah (00:35):
I'm pretty good.
Tired.

Dad (00:37):
You have had quite the busy week.
Why, why don't you fill us allin with the busy-ness and
craziness of what a 15 yearolds, mid may weekend looks
like,

Norah (00:52):
I had prom and then I had to work and I had to do
homework.

Dad (00:57):
You had to, you, you had, you had to work first.
You worked you worked Thursdayright?
You worked Thursday.
Yeah.
And then,

Norah (01:03):
hours though.

Dad (01:04):
and then you prompt on Friday and then you.
I Worked

Norah (01:08):
Saturday a lot.

Dad (01:11):
and then you homework all day today, Sunday, we usually
record not to, not to destroythe mystery of our little show
here, but we usually record onSunday evenings.

Norah (01:21):
Or Monday's

Dad (01:22):
yeah, Maleah Sundays or Mondays, they

Norah (01:23):
how many hours did I work yesterday?
I got there at 3 55 and I leftat 9 55.
I worked for six hoursyesterday.

Dad (01:29):
worked for six hours.
That's, that's some serious atsome serious, like your mom.
And I stopped up last night fora glass of wine at the old wine
cellar in Olmstead falls, Ohionudge, nudge, wink, wink, people
should

Norah (01:41):
Come visit me

Dad (01:43):
and it was jamming lasts.

Norah (01:46):
and we were short a dishwasher, so I was doing
dishes too

Dad (01:50):
you're really good at it at home.
So I imagine you're really goodat, at work when someone's

Norah (01:53):
well, and it's kind of easy at work too.
It's much easier than it is.

Dad (01:58):
What makes, what makes it easier at work?

Norah (02:00):
We have, well, cause you don't have to like scrub.
'em like, like you didn't haveto get all the stuff off of them
because it, but then there's asanitizing fluid and you dip it
in the sanitizing fluid.

Dad (02:10):
I was going to say it.
You make it sound like you don'tclean the dishes.
When you

Norah (02:14):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
It's not, not.
We, we rinse all the food off ofthem first and then we scrubbed
them with soap and then wedetermined the sanitizer.
Uh, I kinda just let them dry onthe drying rack until we got
really busy.
And then I had to kind of drythem in between so I could wash
stuff.
And at the end of the

Dad (02:32):
your boss, your boss, not going to be real happy if you
make it sound like you'reserving people on dishes that
you did not clean all the

Norah (02:38):
No, we clean all the food off of them.
I would eat off the dishes.
It's just easier than I, Iguess.
No, I guess that's probably thesame as at home because it's
like, we, cause we use thedishwasher, so we scrub it
clean.
We don't use soap at home, butwe soap it there.

Dad (02:52):
we don't use soap.
We clean up dishes with soap,throwing.

Norah (02:55):
now when they go to the dishwasher,

Dad (02:58):
Oh, yeah, but if they're not going to go in the
dishwasher, we certainly cleanour dishes with soap.
That's

Norah (03:02):
yeah, I know I do the dishes.

Dad (03:05):
I know, but all of our listeners, now we're going to
think those, those they'renasty.
They don't use soap to cleantheir dishes.
We absolutely use soap to cleanour

Norah (03:13):
No, we don't.

Dad (03:15):
Stop,

Norah (03:16):
We don't, we never, we actually never clean our dishes.
Anyways.
We just have piles and piles ofdirty things.
There's bugs, crawling all overthem.

Dad (03:26):
I guess to be fair, like who's coming here for dinner.
So if they all want to thinkthat who cares, right.

Norah (03:31):
I guess

Dad (03:32):
it's not like people are coming here to eat dinner, so
you okay there, you had a hairon your tongue,

Norah (03:42):
it's really short hair.
I don't know.
I don't know whose hair thatwas.
It was really short.

Dad (03:45):
Uh, it was probably Dante.
Cause you had him up swinginghim

Norah (03:48):
No, it was black.
It was like Zoe hair.

Dad (03:52):
You'd have black hair

Norah (03:52):
It looked like a Zoe hair.

Dad (03:55):
Okay.

Norah (03:56):
It was like a really thin dog hair type

Dad (03:58):
Okay.
It wasn't mine.
I don't have any hair to give

Norah (04:00):
Nobody has black hair in our house.

Dad (04:02):
No, not, not me.
So prom on Friday, you.
looked gorgeous.
Number one.
Um, if people want to catch alook of Nora in her prom dress,
go to Nora and dad's show onInstagram.
There is a lovely picture thatone of Nora's friends took and
then sent the Nora who

Norah (04:23):
No right.
Ryan sent the check that

Dad (04:26):
or whatever.
I think you said, I thought yousaid

Norah (04:28):
no, Ava took them on a run at night together.

Dad (04:30):
Ah, okay.
So Ryan, uh, the boyfriend tookthe picture of you, which is a
gorgeous picture.
And so that's up on theInstagram.
People can go to Nora and dadshow on Instagram, and, uh,
check out, what you look like inyour very, very, very pink, prom
dress, which was interestingchoice because you're not,

Norah (04:49):
I like pink.

Dad (04:50):
you haven't been a pink person for a long time.

Norah (04:52):
Not until like last year I was, I was like, pink is too.
I'm too cool to like pink, but Ireally

Dad (04:57):
I mean, you were, you were a pink.
when you were like a toddler andlike a little child, you were
really into

Norah (05:02):
yeah, my

Dad (05:02):
You, you had like a bubblegum, hot pink.
bubblegum bedroom.
Your favorite Disney princesswas the pink.
one, Aurora

Norah (05:11):
I felt like a roar on Friday.

Dad (05:13):
you look fantastic.
You had flowers in your hair,you had, a very gorgeous pink
dress.
you.
look fantastic.
So, so what do high school kidsdo nowadays at prom?

Norah (05:27):
I don't really know.
I don't.
I feel like I am not one of thenormal high school kids.
I don't really like dances.
so I mean, we, we ate food andthen me and Ryan kinda just like
went outside and talked.

Dad (05:43):
Do they have, do they still do, did they start?
So It was

Norah (05:46):
It was really,

Dad (05:47):
other, any other day for the two of you, is it for
dressed?
Really fancy and it.
cost me a lot of money.

Norah (05:52):
Yeah.
Like I probably wouldn't havegone to prom, but I wanted a
fancy dress.

Dad (05:57):
Would you have gone even without the.
Like, would you have gone justif it were just like you and
your friends,

Norah (06:04):
Probably not.

Dad (06:05):
because most of your friends didn't have

Norah (06:07):
No.
They went with each other.
Um,

Dad (06:11):
Which is, which is, which is a new thing.
Like when I was or newish, Ithink like when I was in high
school, we only had senior promyour high school, cause you're
only in 10th grade, but ninethrough 12, the whole upper
school goes to PR or gets to goto prom.

Norah (06:24):
Yes,

Dad (06:24):
Yeah.
So my high school only seniors.
went to prom.
Um, And yeah, only seniors.
Well, my, my high

Norah (06:31):
normally juniors and seniors.

Dad (06:33):
but my high school had 4,000 kids.

Norah (06:35):
Oh, well, Lakeridge has a hundred kids in

Dad (06:38):
Yeah.
My high school, had a lot ofkids.
Um, but yeah, but it was, we,they had a junior prom that I
didn't go to.
They had a senior prom that Idid go to, but like I needed a
date because people just didn'tgo in groups.
Like you went with it.
If you didn't have a date, youdidn't go to prom.

Norah (06:52):
Yeah, I wouldn't, I don't know,

Dad (06:54):
I couldn't even tell you now the name of my, like I don't
remember the name of my promdate.
I couldn't, I know she had red,hair, but I

Norah (07:02):
like red, like ginger hair or like dyed red hair.

Dad (07:05):
oh, no, no.
Like red, like ginger red hair.

Norah (07:07):
I love ginger hair.
It's a.

Dad (07:09):
could not for the life of me tell you what her name was.
Um, she was a friend of afriend.
We went, we had a.
I would say a mediocre timeproblem.
Cause it was like a, it was likea first date for both of us.
Um,

Norah (07:23):
mean, I think I would prefer as Ryan and I both, like,
we both just prefer to like,stay at home, but it's like,
it's like fun to go for like alittle bit.

Dad (07:34):
do they still do, like prom king and prom queen?
Is that still a thing?

Norah (07:38):
that happens at like every school except for
Lakeridge.
I think, I don't know.
It doesn't happen at Lakeridge.

Dad (07:43):
one D do you know why?

Norah (07:45):
No, we're different.
I don't know.

Dad (07:47):
Well, you've definitely different.
Yeah.

Norah (07:49):
Um, we do gift cards instead.
He put your name in a raffle andyou get gift cards.
Oh no, maybe that was justsomething this year.
I didn't get a gift card, so,

Dad (07:58):
Oh,

Norah (08:00):
but.
I'm trying to think if other, Imean, like I've seen other
schools do prom king and promqueen, just because like on
social media,

Dad (08:13):
and you don't do it.
You don't have like homecominghomecoming, king and queen.

Norah (08:17):
court.
I know a lot of schools dohomecoming court though.

Dad (08:20):
Yeah,

Norah (08:21):
We

Dad (08:22):
maybe Lakeridge doesn't want to, maybe there don't.
want to promote popularity.
I think the whole thing stupidanyway, like a giant popularity
contest to make the most popularkid in school feel good about
being the most popular kid inschool to me is really

Norah (08:35):
I don't really care.
It

Dad (08:37):
would have voted for you.
I would've voted for you forprom queen.

Norah (08:41):
Well, thank you.
I wouldn't have voted formyself.

Dad (08:43):
No.
Who would you have voted for?

Norah (08:45):
Not me.

Dad (08:47):
No, why not?
I would have voted for

Norah (08:48):
just don't wanna vote for myself.

Dad (08:50):
I think you deserved.
I think you deserve to be promqueen.

Norah (08:52):
know who I are.
Everyone had really prettydresses.
Oh, the listeners don't know whoKashi is, but Kashi had a
beautiful dress.
It was very pretty

Dad (09:04):
I saw a picture, that is on your Instagram, which to
listeners can't see.
Cause it's pride that, um,

Norah (09:10):
is pro should I make it public

Dad (09:12):
Uh, it's up to you.
I don't care.

Norah (09:14):
that you.

Dad (09:15):
well I know, but now you're 15.
I don't really

Norah (09:17):
Oh, I'm going to make

Dad (09:18):
mean, let me, let, let me re let me rephrase that.
I care.
Like, I don't want like,creepers, like all up in your

Norah (09:25):
Well, I'll tell you if there's keepers, I've told you
if there's creepers

Dad (09:27):
I know, I know you will.

Norah (09:29):
I'm going to make it public.
Now everyone can go follow me.
Now

Dad (09:32):
You wrote, you wrote a whole song about creepers up on
your business on Instagram.
Yeah.
So like I

Norah (09:39):
follow normal amount,

Dad (09:40):
No, not guys girls.

Norah (09:42):
the guys as a gender neutral.

Dad (09:44):
Oh, okay.
People

Norah (09:46):
Yeah, I wasn't saying like men follow me, you know, it
was just like listeners followme.

Dad (09:50):
men, men stay away from the, from the daughter please?
Yes.
She's she's 15.

Norah (09:56):
I don't like men very

Dad (09:57):
Yes.
You don't like men very

Norah (10:00):
No.

Dad (10:01):
You're um, I'm a man you're dating a man.

Norah (10:05):
Well, you're my dad's whole different.

Dad (10:07):
Your brother's a man,

Norah (10:08):
No.
It's just like, like,

Dad (10:09):
your uncles are

Norah (10:11):
not like

Dad (10:11):
Oh, well, yeah,

Norah (10:13):
I trust stranger woman.

Dad (10:15):
like really?

Norah (10:17):
Well, not a lot, but I trust them more than I trust
stranger man.
Like if I was like in adangerous situation and like, if
I had just been like kidnappedand I ran away, I would go to a
woman's car before we go to aman's car.

Dad (10:32):
I think that probably makes sense.
I'm not sure it's any safer, butI

Norah (10:36):
it isn't because I'll tell like this one serial killer
couple Lord pupil in MyraHenley.
She did all the capturing andIan Brady did all the killing
because people trusted her, eventhough she was really scary
Looking, let me show you whatyou

Dad (10:48):
heard about my Myra,

Norah (10:50):
Myra

Dad (10:51):
my, my Iranian.

Norah (10:52):
Myra and Ian brown.
Yeah.
They're the ones who the Smith'ssong is about.

Dad (10:57):
Yeah.
Right.

Norah (11:00):
She's scary looking.

Dad (11:01):
No I'm down.
I'm down with Myra

Norah (11:03):
No, you shouldn't be there.
They killed five children.

Dad (11:08):
Yeah.
They probably had a co they,they She's

Norah (11:13):
really scary looking.

Dad (11:14):
she's, she don't know.
I just see your that's rock and

Norah (11:18):
Isn't she scary looking?

Dad (11:20):
Yeah.
So people should, what, what'sher name, Myra?
What

Norah (11:23):
No, don't look her up.
She's weird.
Meyer

Dad (11:25):
Alright, Myra Henley.
Myra Henley, and her creepyhairdo for the

Norah (11:29):
doesn't look as creepy, but he still looks creepy.

Dad (11:32):
so prom was problem was okay.
You're glad you went.

Norah (11:36):
yeah,

Dad (11:37):
Okay.

Norah (11:38):
I was really tired afterwards.

Dad (11:40):
you know, No decent food, no dancing for

Norah (11:43):
No, dancing for me.

Dad (11:44):
Not even like one dance went, Ryan, like not one, like a
slow dance, like a nice littlelike huggy, like slow dance with

Norah (11:51):
if they played any slow dance.

Dad (11:53):
Um,

Norah (11:55):
I don't know, it was really loud in there.
No one was wearing their masksand it was also really hot out.
So I just wanted to take my maskoff.

Dad (12:03):
And then no, no.
After parties,

Norah (12:06):
I would have fallen asleep.
I fell asleep on the way toRyan's house and then we were
awake for like 30 minutes andthen I fell asleep.

Dad (12:15):
But there were, I'm assuming there were like your
school doesn't do school.
Doesn't do after.
prom either.
So there's just people havehouse parties.
I right.
I think,

Norah (12:23):
Yeah.
I, I mean, I heard of, um, Iwasn't invited to any,

Dad (12:28):
oh, I'm sorry.
I know you wouldn't have gonebut I'm sorry.
You should've been invited.

Norah (12:33):
That was okay.

Dad (12:34):
Okay.

Norah (12:36):
They're juniors and seniors, and really hang

Dad (12:38):
Oh, okay.
So next year, when your friends,when you're a junior, there'll
be after parties and then you'llcome get invited to not go.
Right?
Fair enough.
Fair enough.
Um, and then schoolwork all day.
Uh,

Norah (12:51):
Saraj go to,

Dad (12:53):
she didn't,

Norah (12:54):
I thought she did.
Oh, that was the, the, themusical party.

Dad (12:58):
that was the musical party.
They went to like two in themorning and I had Saraj was our
exchange student who lived withus when you were in

Norah (13:02):
an adult now, which is a

Dad (13:04):
she was in touch.
She is an adult she's, she's a23 or 23 year old adult.
Um,

Norah (13:09):
my age.
That's so weird.

Dad (13:10):
I know.
Um, but yeah, but after themusical close, they had their
cast party that went way laterthan she thought it was going
to.
And, uh, I got really madbecause she blew her curfew by
like two and a half, threehours.

Norah (13:23):
she didn't have a ride.
Right.

Dad (13:24):
didn't have a ride or cell phone died and I had to call,
um, some strangers home, uh, whoI did not know to say I was
looking for my exchange student,who I knew was there.
can you please find her and puther on the phone?
This wasn't like two o'clock inthe morning.
Yeah, it was a veryuncomfortable, it was
uncomfortable for everybody.
She thought we were shipping herback to Germany because of how
mad I was.
And I just didn't want to haveto call her parents and tell her

(13:45):
parents that we had lost.
there.
We lost their Docker

Norah (13:48):
This is, that's why we, um, have, those at school now.

Dad (13:54):
The cast parties.
'cause I got mad because I gotmad that one time

Norah (13:59):
No it's because Ms.
Rodriguez, well, I thought itwas like, those was of COVID,
but we kept doing them at schoolafterwards because Ms.
Rodriguez who's the theaterdirector at Lakeridge.
she didn't want to stay up thatlate or didn't want people
staying at that lake.
So if anything happened, she'dbe responsible for it.
like someone like fell asleep atthe wheel or if after she left

(14:19):
at people, Took things out thataren't illegal or that aren't
legal.
Um, so they're at school now andthey go to like 11 or 12 and
then it's more organized

Dad (14:32):
much bigger fan of that than the coming home at two
o'clock in the morning fromsomeone's house.
Yeah.
So you're down, you're in thehomestretch kiddo.
You got what?
Like, uh, not even, I mean,you're almost, you're pretty
much done with classes.
three days.
of classes left a couple of

Norah (14:49):
Well, I have my four day final thing for history, which
all this week I have my paperfor English the next Monday,
which I haven't started yetbecause I haven't finished the
book yet.
Um, and then my math final andmy I'm, I'm a certified chemist,
but actually not almost out ofmy chemistry thing.
I still have the whole other boxto make, but I have one box
done.

Dad (15:11):
yeah, they, they, they can't see it

Norah (15:12):
I know.
I'm very proud of it.

Dad (15:15):
but you're doing like a crime, like crime scene diorama,
which is really cool for your,forensics case and chemistry
class, which is super cool.
Um, and then you have,

Norah (15:23):
over

Dad (15:24):
yeah.
And then you have one, one exam.
Next week and that's it.
And then you're a junior.

Norah (15:30):
yours.
And then I'm 16.

Dad (15:33):
Then you're 16.
I know a big birthday coming up.

Norah (15:36):
What are you doing for my sweet 16 throwing the biggest
banger in Berea.

Dad (15:41):
There will not, there will be no, there will be no,

Norah (15:44):
Who big bang.

Dad (15:46):
there will be.
There will be no bangers.

Norah (15:48):
That was such good alliteration.

Dad (15:49):
It was fantastic alliteration.
but there will be no bangers.
no, you said you wanted to go toBarrio also starts with a B,
we're going to have a,

Norah (15:56):
big bang or at Barrio

Dad (15:58):
we're going to have a big banger Barrio for the five of
us.

Norah (16:03):
yes.

Dad (16:04):
Yeah.
It'll be a big, yeah, it'll be,uh, it'll,

Norah (16:09):
more than a junior scoop.

Dad (16:11):
it'll be a, it'll be a bitch and banger at Barrio.

Norah (16:15):
Am I allowed to swear,

Dad (16:17):
I have, I don't know why

Norah (16:20):
birthday bang or at Barrio?

Dad (16:22):
bitch and birthday.
I don't think that's swearing.

Norah (16:25):
Well, I don't know.

Dad (16:26):
I think you were okay.

Norah (16:27):
podcast?

Dad (16:28):
thought you were going to drop the F word.
Don't

Norah (16:31):
not going to pull a Donovan home in here.

Dad (16:34):
Yeah.
Don't don't don't drop the Fword.
We appreciate that.
Um, yeah.
All right.
So all in all good weekends,

Norah (16:41):
Yes.

Dad (16:42):
you're ready for the homestretch.
Ready for summertime.

Norah (16:44):
Yes.

Dad (16:46):
Awesome.
Awesome.
Awesome.
Awesome.
All right.
Any parting words on the oldPrama Ru,

Norah (16:54):
Um, it was fun.
It was more fun than last year.

Dad (16:57):
do you know that you know that every week when I say any
parting words on you alwayspause for a second and you go,
and it was fun.

Norah (17:07):
Not every week.
I'm sure.
I didn't say like getting rid ofabortion was fun.

Dad (17:11):
No, that wasn't probably.
And maybe when you talked aboutyour time in the mental,

Norah (17:14):
Yeah.
That was fun.

Dad (17:16):
That that, um, that I don't think you said that was fun.
but usually when we're talkingabout something like not heavy,
and I say any parting words, yougo, it was fun.
It's my normal impersonation.
How did I do

Norah (17:30):
My voice is not high.
Is it?

Dad (17:32):
it?
Was it, was it?
Yeah.

Norah (17:35):
No,

Dad (17:36):
Yeah.

Norah (17:37):
no.

Dad (17:38):
It is sorry.
My voice isn't that deep either,but yeah.
Sorry.
right.
Well, we will see everyone nextweek.
if there are topics you wouldlike to hear us talk about on a
future episode hit us up at Noraand dad's show at g-mail dot

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com.
while you're over on the oldInstagram, checking out the
picture of Nora from prom, uh,

Norah (18:06):
look up my things on

Dad (18:08):
At Nora and dad show, give us a follow while you're over
there as well.
Um, and then I'm sorry, whatyour, your Instagram.
is?
What now?

Norah (18:15):
Normal Mao or Nora Marine music, or just fall both

Dad (18:19):
Yeah, you got, you got two we'll we'll add them to the,
well, there everything's in theshow notes.
So I'm not going to tell

Norah (18:24):
now

Dad (18:25):
to the show notes.

Norah (18:26):
public account.
This is

Dad (18:27):
Go to the sh go to the show notes.
They are all there and we willsee everyone next week.
Love you kiddo.

Norah (18:36):
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