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November 16, 2022 76 mins

CW: Domestic Violence 


Annesa has earned herself 400,000+ followers on TikTok for her advocacy against Domestic Violence. This week, she sits down with The Now What Pod to vulnerably share her own personal experience as a survivor. She tells us about being raised in a traditional Bengali family, how she met a man who sold her a dream and married him fast and young, only to have those dreams shattered a few weeks into the marriage. She explains the role that culture and religion played in her life before, during, and after her marriage. Now, Annesa is inspiring women and bringing light to important issues within the South Asian community. 


 


Topics Discussed:
Meeting “The One”
Red flags 
Love bombing 
Getting engaged 
The first time he hit her
Family response to abuse
The Decision to Leave
South Asian Culture
Healing after Domestic Violence


 


Resources:


Love Bombing
https://www.healthline.com/health/love-bombing


 


Trauma Bond
https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ending-domestic-violence/what-is-trauma-bonding?gclid=CjwKCAiA68ebBhB-EiwALVC-Np87S0Gc5GVl6C4D6SdwiDMvKVqxyoGrwzspChIRp756VsvKeeILfhoCn1AQAvD_BwE


 


Domestic Violence Resources for those who are or know someone who is seeking help (Canada)


https://www.casw-acts.ca/en/resources/domestic-violence-resources#resources


 


Domestic Violence Resources for those who are or know someone who is seeking help (US)


https://ncadv.org/RESOURCES


 


 


About Annesa:
Annesa is a Nurse, Survivor, and Advocate based in Austin, TX. She brings awareness to social issues in the South Asian community that are often stigmatized and looked past. She hopes to continue to inspire and bring light to important issues the community faces in order to help the next generation of men and women of this community.


IG: @ovo_nesa
TikTok: @ovo_nesa
Email: itsannesa@dulcedo.com


 


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