The Objectify my Love Podcast

The Objectify my Love Podcast

A podcast about the various aspects of BDSM hosted by a couple who live the lifestyle 24/7.

Episodes

August 15, 2023 59 mins

In this episode js and I discuss our experience at FetishCon 2023. Spoiler Alert... We had a great time!!! We got to meet and visit with some great vendors and meet some very interesting people. 

Links to some of the vendors mentioned in this podcast:

For some great latex products check out The Latex Store: https://thelatexstore.com/

For amazing corsetry check out Dark Garden:  https://www.darkgarden.com/...

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Well after a few months of absolute craziness your favorite Owner/property couple are back and dusting off the podcasting equipment and getting back into the swing of things. 

In this episode you will get some insight into our evolution in both thoughts and actions as well as some of our upcoming plans including FetishCon 2023. We hope that you will enjoy our return as much as we did recording it.

All in all we ha...

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January 9, 2023 66 mins

What do we consider extreme??? Well in this episode we discuss our thoughts on what or what is not extreme in the BDSM, D/s or Owner/property realm. 

Although we don't cover every topic nor do we get too in depth on each, we do share our thoughts on a multitude of subjects regarding extremes. How we are able to move each others opinion's on each by how we feel,  i.e. if I don't think something is extreme, j....

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December 17, 2022 52 mins

Well, well, well... After a few months of too much work and no play, your favorite Owner/property couple have finally returned. 

In this episode, js. discusses her latest epiphany, "enjoying and relishing the journey" while her Owner discusses his shortcomings in keeping the relationship moving and developing in the right dynamic. 

The moral of the story is They're back and thankful to share with yo...

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In this SEVERELY delayed episode js and I take on listener questions and other banter. 

We cover topics like locks, "funishment", playing when you have teens around the house, and going on dates. 

All in all it is just a fun conversation.

Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following:

Twitter:

@jssontrou
@jssontrousowner
@objectifymylove

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August 20, 2022 50 mins

A look back at the fun and frolic of FetCon 2022. 

Thanks for listening and as always you can follow the fun at the following:

Twitter:

@jssontrou
@jssontrousowner
@objectifymylove

Mark as Played
June 5, 2022 51 mins

Do you have the discipline to listen to us banter about discipline? 

In this episode we dig into the idea of discipline from the standpoint of having, or creating, the discipline to do what it is we strive for in our relationship (we don't go disciplining js for her infractions, however fun that might be). Discipline is at the heart of what we do together and we look at how we have developed and nurtured the disciplin...

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May 29, 2022 56 mins

In this episode we explore Power Exchanges and our differing definitions of them. We discuss our relationship, the way we practice our power exchange while looking at others to determine what their exchanges might be like. j.s. reads an offer she made to her Owner many years ago that has become the definition of our Total Power Exchange relationship.

You can follow us on the following:
Twitter:
@objectifymylove

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February 27, 2022 55 mins

Because we have been gone for so long... We are treating you to not one but two episodes in one day!!!  BONUS!!!

In this episode js and I discuss our fantasies, how they have evolved, which ones we would like to explore and js's idea that many should not see the light of day. As you would expect I disagree and push to fulfill many of her deepest and darkest fantasies. 

You will hear both js and I share more i...

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February 27, 2022 56 mins

We're back!!!

We are finally back at it. Sorry for the long delay. All sorts of stuff going on but all good. In this episode js and I explore our affinity for playing in public, both "public public" and "play party public" 

We share some of our adventures and our thoughts on how to navigate each situation. Public play is something we truly enjoy and hopefully it shows in this episode. 

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November 28, 2021 56 mins

In this episode we discuss our journey and how we came to the Owner/property dynamic and what it means to each of us. We ramble and get off track a few times but all in all; the conversation is fun and gives some insight as to how we see our relationship and how it has developed over the years. 

As always you can find us on the following:

Twitter: @objectifymylove @jssontrou @jssontrousowner
Email: jssontrou@g...

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November 21, 2021 52 mins

Hey everyone... We're finally back. After a few weeks of illness, both of us being sick with "colds" and coughs to the point where there was no way to create a podcast we are back!!!

In this episode we take on the discussion of mistakes, sharing our personal experiences and mistakes we've made over the years. js shares one experience where she had pushed and pushed and eventually got what she wanted, on...

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October 10, 2021 52 mins

In this episode we play a little game called "Truth or Truth"...

In reality it's just us asking each other questions that neither of us knew were going to be asked. js tries to spice the game up by adding a drinking game. Which turns out to be just js drinking for no other reason than to enjoy. This makes for some fun interaction between her and her Owner

Among the many questions;  js is asked about...

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September 26, 2021 51 mins

Does a Dominant treat a submissive different if they have a loving or caring relationship outside of their BDSM experience? Would a Dominant push someone further if it is a "one-time" encounter? 

Owner and js try to take this on. Using their years of experience they discuss their thoughts on how a connection that is developed outside of the D/s perspective might influence how hard one might push a submissive. The...

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September 16, 2021 50 mins

Pony Play is on the agenda... js and I took some time this week to explore pony play, using the theme throughout the week in our 24/7 Owner/property relationship. js muses on the week including how much fun she had shopping for pony gear and accessories. She even makes a fun analogy between my role as an owner and a yoga instructor (you'll need to listen to understand).

We recap the events of the week, our impressions...

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September 10, 2021 51 mins

Its all about chastity today. We discuss chastity from a few different angles including some history regarding chastity also debunking a few myths that have circulated for years. Then its time to discuss our history with chastity, where  js exposes why not all chastity belts work; specifically the selection we currently have on hand. We both give our thoughts on chastity both male and female and why we have and interest in explorin...

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In this latest episode we discuss traits or attributes that we think are important for either the Dominant or submissive to have. The conversation focuses on what is important to us, and how we might demonstrate these in our relationship.

As the conversation develops, there are a few moments we banter quite heavily regarding definitions or importance, but all in all it is a nice representation the traits we have and how th...

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My Lover and i discuss (between my giggles) the ways to mark a submissive. Bare handed, flogger, crop, cane, or more permanent markings, and the pleasures they hold (or don't) are discussed. We dive into how each have been applied and my love or distaste for each. It is a fun lighthearted look into our preferences and views on each scenario.

If you have any questions, ideas or thoughts on our episodes please reach out...

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August 22, 2021 44 mins

On this episode of the Objectify my Love Podcast, we look back at a full week of long-term bondage for js. We highlight some of the challenges she was asked to endure while she shares how each of these challenges played in her beautiful mind. Then we move the discussion towards a failure in our journey this past week. We discuss what happened and how we were able to overcome it and move through. 

We both sincerely hope you...

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August 13, 2021 58 mins

This week we discuss books and movies that influenced our BDSM perspectives. We share our thoughts on some popular books and movies as well as those not so well known or popular. js gives us some insight regarding her earliest movie influences as well as how much she loves movies with a mental push/pull dynamic. It is a spirited discussion that gives much insight into some of the influences that continue to shape our relationship.

T...

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