138. CLINICAL DIRECTOR Reveals: This Is Why You Struggle With Your Self-Image

🧠 Episode Summary: Struggling with feeling ugly, ashamed, or alone?

In this episode, Dr. Sony Khemlani-Patel shares insights from 25+ years of treating OCD and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). Discover how BDD affects self-worth, why it’s often misunderstood, and what real recovery looks like.

 

 

🔍 What You’ll Learn:

• How Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) differs from body image issues and eating disorders • Why people with BDD often suffer in silence—and what keeps them from speaking up • The impact of social media, AI, and perfection culture on self-perception • Real-life insights from clinical practice, including powerful patient stories • How shame, trauma, and brain biology intertwine in BDD • What therapy approaches work best—and how to break the comparison cycle • How to recognize the signs of BDD and take the first step toward healing

 

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS: [00:00:23] Introduction to the episode [00:01:48] BDD vs Body Image vs Eating Disorder: Understanding the Differences [00:03:36] Eating Disorders and BDD: How They Overlap and What Makes Them Different [00:05:10] BDD and Distorted Perception: Seeing Flaws That Aren’t Really There [00:05:51] Is BDD in the Brain? The Biological Side of the Disorder [00:06:53] Best Real-Life Example of BDD in Everyday Life [00:07:26] Hyperfocusing: When the Brain Locks Onto Details and You Zoom Out [00:07:53] The Patient Who Was a Photographer: A Unique BDD Story [00:08:25] What to Say When Someone’s “Flaw” Isn’t Just in Their Head [00:09:46] Is BDD Caused by Trauma or Is it Something Else? [00:10:52] Understanding the Gap Between Appearance and Body Image [00:12:07] Looking in the Mirror: Carrying the Weight of Childhood and Environment [00:12:53] Spotting BDD in Yourself: Key Warning Signs and Actions [00:15:36] What Percentage of People with BDD Experience Suicidal Thoughts? [00:16:08] Why People Hide Their BDD from Doctors and Loved Ones [00:17:13] The Comparison Trap: AI, Social Media, and Unrealistic Perfection [00:19:04] How to Stop Comparing Yourself and Find Peace [00:19:59] What Therapy Works Best for BDD? Expert Recommendations [00:21:44] Managing Heavy Emotions and Shame in BDD Treatment [00:23:13] Closing Reflections and Final Thoughts

 

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