The Openlove101 Show
This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.
Episodes
Can you feel joy when your partner finds happiness with someone else? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into the concept of compersion—the emotional opposite of jealousy—and how it can create deeper connection, trust, and personal growth in non-monogamous relationships.
They share their own experiences, discuss challenges rooted in traditional relationship norms, and explain how compersion can reduce pressur...
How to Reconnect After a Lifestyle Misstep
In this heartfelt episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the emotional side of open relationships—exploring the joys, challenges, and growth that come from forming emotional connections beyond a primary partner.
They share how maintaining friendships, embracing vulnerability, and communicating openly can actually strengthen the bond between partners. Jackie discusses how love isn't fini...
Curious about exploring a swingers club but not sure how to bring it up with your partner? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share personal stories and thoughtful advice on approaching the lifestyle with someone who may feel hesitant.
Filmed in New Orleans during Mardi Gras, they discuss common fears, misconceptions, and the importance of honest, pressure-free communication. Jackie opens up about her own early do...
Curious about the secrets behind open relationship success? Ever thought about how boundaries and rules can transform your love life? Let’s explore it together! In this exciting episode, we chat with lifestyle coach Diana Ryan about what it takes to build trust, intimacy, and open communication in a consensual non-monogamous relationship. Whether you're navigating swinging, threesomes, or exploring the open lifestyle for the first ...
Jealousy in Relationships: How to Talk About It | John & Jackie | OpenLove101
Jealousy isn’t just one emotion—it’s a mix of fear, anger, and vulnerability. In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into the emotional complexity of jealousy and how couples can navigate it with open, honest communication.
They share personal stories and explore how different people process jealousy in unique ways. Discover how unders...
How Single Men Can Succeed in Swingers Clubs | Tips from John & Jackie | OpenLove101
Filmed during Mardi Gras in New Orleans, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into what single men need to know before stepping into swingers clubs like Colette. From respectful etiquette to building genuine connections...
Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Ever thought about what it’s like to embrace intimacy, trust, and communication in new ways? Let’s explore it together! 🌟 In this eye-opening conversation, John and Jackie from OpenLove101 chat with Black Coco, a proud unicorn in the swinging world, as she shares her incredible journey and breaks common myths about threesomes, swingers, and the open lifestyle. Discover the secrets...
In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from Openlove101 dive into how relationship dynamics evolve over time—especially in open and non-traditional partnerships. They share real-life experiences of how initial excitement around adventurous intimacy (like inviting others into the bedroom) can shift into feelings of jealousy and insecurity as emotional bonds deepen.
Discover the hidden truth about partner jealousy in open relationships! Ever struggled with feelings of control when your partner is with someone else? In this raw and honest video, I share my personal journey from experiencing intense anxiety to finding peace and excitement in open relationships.
In today's throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about visiting a swingers club as a single woman!
They discuss expectations, ways...
Debunking 5 brutal myths about open relationships! 🔍 Curious about the lifestyle? Let's explore together! Ever thought STDs were inevitable? Or that open relationships always fail? Think again!
We're busting common misconceptions and revealing the truth about swinging, intimacy, and trust in non-monogamous partnerships. Discover the secrets of successful open relationships and how they can actually strengthen your bond!
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In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about dealing with fear and jealousy in an Open Relationship.
Do you throw in the to...
Curious about non-monogamy? Join us for a fascinating journey through 40 years of open relationships!
Ever wondered how someone's upbringing shapes their view on sex and love? John shares his eye-opening experiences from Catholic school rebel to swinger club owner.
You'll be surprised by his candid stories of threesomes, roller rink hookups, and personal growth! Want to explore open relationships with your partner? This video is pa...
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about "Coming Out" to your kids.
They discuss the intense feelings, navigating havin...
Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥 Ever wondered what it's like to dive into the open lifestyle? Join us for some juicy stories!
Curious about threesomes, swinging, or open relationships? We're spilling all the details! From our very first encounters to cringe-worthy moments, we're holding nothing back.
You'll hear about unexpected house calls, DVP adventures, and how we navigate separate play dates. Want to know...
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about Overcoming Fear in Open Relationships (A Different POV)!
They discuss the earl...
The TRUTH about swingers clubs? It's not what you think! Ever wondered what really goes on behind those doors?
Surprise - it's not just for swingers! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Let's explore it together :) Discover how these clubs offer a safe, respectful space for everyone - even if you're not looking to swap! Tune in to learn why couples love the sexy atmosphere, open conversations, and judgment-free zon...
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the self care through self empathy and giving yourself a break.
They discuss t...
The ugly truth about open relationships? It's NOT cheating!
Join John and Jackie as they tackle the biggest misconception about ethical non-monogamy head-on. Ever wonder why people automatically assume open relationships are about cheating? We're breaking down the real difference between consensual non-monogamy and infidelity. Discover how trust, honest communication, and mutual respect are actually the foundation of successful o...
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how to defuse arguments within the lifestyle.
They discuss how most arguments are rooted in fear of the unknown and how to find a way to work through that fear in order to communicate with your partner.
Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)
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