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You know what, nobody talksabout how to start working at
2:00 PM when you've already beeninterrupted 17 times, or how to
dive into focus mode at 8:00 PMafter the kids are finally in
bed.
Everyone's obsessed with morningroutines, but what about the
other three times a day that youneed to start working?
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That's what we're fixing today.
Hi, I'm Cindy Gordon, aself-made entrepreneur, busy mom
and execution coach.
After years of starting andstopping work throughout the
day, I'm talking about schoolpickups, client calls, family
needs.
I discovered that the secretisn't having the perfect
morning.
It's having a simple routinethat you can use before any work
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session.
And I'm talking three minutes,not 30 minutes.
Let me break down the exactsystem that I use to instantly
shift into focus mode, whetherit's 6:00 AM or 9:00 PM If you
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This is something that comes upin almost every coaching session
that I have.
My clients say, Cindy, I can'tget into the flow.
By the time I sit down to work,I'm already distracted.
Here's the thing, it's notbecause you lack discipline.
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It's because you are trying togo from chaos to focus without a
bridge.
Think about it.
You just finished making lunch,answering texts, maybe handling
a mini crisis, and then you sitdown and you expect your brain
to magically switch into deepwork mode.
That's like trying to go fromzero to 60 without even starting
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the engine.
The women I work withconsistently struggle with this
transition problem.
They have these scattered workwindows throughout the day, an
hour here after dropping off thekids at school, 30 minutes in
between meetings, maybe anothersession after dinner, but
without a routine to signal workmode.
They spend half of their timejust trying to figure out where
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to start.
And if you have a family, thiscan be even worse because your
brain is constantly switchingbetween mom mode, business mode,
and house mode.
No wonder why we have troublefocusing, your mind needs
transition cues.
Just like your body needs awarmup before exercise, your
brain needs a signal that says,Hey, we're switching gears now
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without this signal, your brainis fighting against mental
inertia.
Research shows what's reallygoing on here.
When you jump straight into workwithout a transition routine,
your brain is still processingeverything that just happened.
Those dishes in the sink, yourbrain's still thinking about
them.
That text you just read, it'sstill taking up mental space,
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that meeting you have later.
Yep.
That too.
But when you create a consistentpre-work routine, something
powerful happens, your brainstarts to recognize the pattern
and automatically beginsshutting down those other mental
tabs.
It's like training your brain toknow when I do these.
Three things.
It means focus time.
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So this isn't about morningenergy or perfect conditions,
it's about creating a reliablemental switch that you can flip.
Anytime.
So let me share the exact threeminute routine that works
whether you're starting work atdawn or after dinner.
Remember, this isn't aboutperfection, it's about
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transition.
So first you're gonna clear.
Your physical and digital space.
So take 60 seconds, close alltabs, except for what you need
to work on this session.
Push everything on your desk tothe side, except the current
project.
Turn your phone face down or putit in a drawer.
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This isn't about having aPinterest perfect workspace,
it's about removing visualtriggers that pull your
attention.
So there's one minute done.
Next, you're gonna write yoursession intention.
So another 60 seconds.
This is not a to-do list.
It's not five goals.
One specific outcome for thiswork session, write three
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emails.
Finish the slide deck throughSlide 10.
Complete the client proposaldraft.
Those are examples.
Write it on a sticky note.
Put it where you can see it.
This becomes your north star.
When distraction tries to creepin, your brain wants to check
Instagram.
You look at your North Star noteand remember your one mission,
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for your final 60 seconds, outof this three minute routine,
you are gonna do a focusactivation.
Take three deep breaths whilelooking at your session
intention.
Say it out loud for the next,and then you insert your time
period.
I am focused on an insert yourintention.
So an example for the next 30minutes, I am focused on
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answering client emails.
That's your example.
It doesn't have to be elaborate,it just needs to be simple and
clear.
And yes, I want you to say itout loud even if you feel silly,
and actually, especially if youfeel silly.
This verbal commitment triggersaccountability in your brain.
It's making a promise toyourself that your brain can
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take seriously.
The biggest resistance I hear isCindy, I literally don't have
three minutes betweentransitioning from mom stuff to
work stuff.
The truth is you're alreadylosing way more than three
minutes to the mental chaos ofnot having a transition routine.
This is going to save you time.
So start by using this routinefor your most important work
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session tomorrow.
Not every time you check email,but for that one block that you
really, really need to focus.
Notice how different it feelswhen you start with intention
instead of stumbling into thatwork.
And when you catch yourselfstruggling to focus check.
Did I skip that routine?
Nine times outta 10, your answeris yes.
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Build it into your existingroutine.
Keep sticky notes in yourworkspace.
Set a phone reminder for yourusual work Times that say three
minute setup, it makes itautomatic as buckling your
seatbelt, the one thing that Iwant you to take away from our
conversation today, you don'tneed a perfect morning routine
or an Instagram worthy office orthree hours of uninterrupted
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time.
Yes, all those things are nice,but honestly, you need a simple
routine that tells your brainit's time to work, whether it's
at 5:00 AM or 5:00 PM and thisthree minute setup routine is
about working with your realityand not against it.
When everything feels urgent andyou're constantly starting and
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stopping, this becomes youranchor.
Clear the space.
Set one intention, activatefocus.
That's it.
Try it before your next worksession.
Just once clear space.
For 60 seconds, write onespecific outcome, take three
breaths and state your intentionout loud.
Notice how different it feels tostart with purpose instead of
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panic.
Now go set yourself up forfocus.
It only takes three minutes andyour future focus self will.
Thank you.
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And remember, friends, you'vegot this.
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Thanks for spending
these few minutes with me today.
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It's simply your brain's way ofsaying pause and take a little
reality check.
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