The Parenting Standard

There you are. Your kid scrapes their knee at the pool. They curl up, hurt—but not broken. Another parent looks at you. “Aren’t you going to help?” But what if you didn’t? What if you let them stay in the water, just long enough to learn something?In this episode, we turn parenting upside down. We talk about false expectations—not failure. We unpack how a milkshake swirl leads to a breakdown... and a breakthrough. And we share how ...

Picture this: You wake up determined—today’s the day. You’ll finally reclaim time for yourself. Maybe it’s the gym, a quiet coffee, a meditation. But life barges in. A text from work. Milk’s out. Kid’s shoes are missing. And that promise to yourself? Gone again.In this episode, we explore what happens when we treat our own promises as optional. You’ll learn why that erosion of trust—with yourself—is the true cost. And how it’s not ...

Imagine your kid’s face scrunching up, baffled by “share your toy, but also be kind to yourself.” That confusion? It’s a parenting trap we’ve all fallen into. In this episode, we unravel why “sharing” is a messy, useless word that leaves kids lost. Instead, picture your child crafting a playdate like a master host, handing out goodie bags, even giving away their favourite toys to spark joy. We explore how to swap sharing for “commu...

Picture this: You’re pleading with your kid to learn their mother tongue, but they shrug, “It’s boring.” Your heart sinks—how do you share your culture? In this episode, we dive into why motivation isn’t the answer. We share tales of kids who found joy in heritage through curiosity, not pressure. From Priya's own quest to connect with her grandmother’s language to simple ways to weave culture into daily life, we reveal how to m...

Picture this: You hand your child a dollar, their eyes wide with possibility. But then you hear yourself say, “Don’t waste it!”—and instantly, you’ve planted a seed of scarcity.And then perhaps you find yourself accidentally growing this scarcity mindset by repeating phrases like "Money doesn't grow on trees!", "I'm not made of money!" & "Money can't be wasted".In this episode, we unrav...

Picture this: Your kid’s eyes light up, holding money for a new toy, but they hesitate, thinking ""I don't want to lose my money..."". They are wrestling with what ""loss"" means to them. We show you how discipline isn’t about enforcing bedtime routines—it’s about crafting questions that ignite a child’s deepest ""why.""

We share a child’s journey from yarn to plant...

Imagine this: You catch your nine-year-old sneaking chocolate — again. You’re not angry. Just confused. You had the talk. You made the rules. You were clear. And still, here you are — standing in the doorway, wondering why nothing you say seems to stick.

This episode takes you into the trap every parent falls into believing that understanding = change.

But asking “Why did you do that?” will only make it worse.

You’ll lear...

There you are: Your voice snaps at one child for a minor mess, but the other’s chaos goes unchecked. Are you unknowingly playing favorites?

We dig into the unsettling truth behind stricter parenting—how your own self-doubt and discomfort with a child’s differences fuel uneven rules.

From clothes strewn by an eight-year-old to a teen’s maddening empty milk carton, rigid expectations can trap you in bias. Worse, your self-cri...

"Imagine a 9-year-old girl, voice trembling, saying, “I want my younger brother back.” Her world’s shifting as her brother hits puberty, and she’s desperate to hold onto their wrestling matches and math sessions. We dive into this family’s raw, real dialogue, uncovering how change—like a teen’s mood swings or screen obsession—ripples through everyone. It’s not just about his transformation; it’s about her heart, her fears of l...

Picture this: You hear your daughter whisper through tears, “I want my old brother back.” Puberty has stolen the boy she knew, and answers from ChatGPT only fuel the confusion: anger, aggression, territory. All expected, it says. Everyone nods—but should they?

This week, we dig into why easy answers do more harm than good.

You'll hear the harrowing story of a boy whose whole identity was crushed by a book that taught him ...

Imagine this: You’re pouring your heart into parenting, but each attempt to “listen” leaves you and your child on opposite sides of an invisible divide.

The advice to ""listen to your child"" & understand their perspective?

It’s a trap, setting you up for a lifetime of blame from a kid who feels unseen.

In this episode, we expose the dark flaw in modern parenting—treating your child as “other” ri...

There you are—snatching a toy from your kid’s hand, just to prove a point. You say, “How would you like it if I did that to you?” But here’s the twist—what if they say, “I’m fine with it”?

This episode peels back the layers of parenting tactics we think are harmless—and reveals how they’re built on failed psychology, institutional control, and fear. We dig into why “consequences” might be the most damaging word in your parenting...

Imagine this: You blink, and your child is dangling from the top of a jungle gym. Your breath catches. One wrong move and—your mind races. You want to shout. You need to shout. But instead… you stay silent.

Because deep down, you’re testing something: What if your instinct to help is causing harm?

This episode lays bare the invisible tension every parent carries—the crushing belief that constant instruction equals love, safet...

There you are, within earshot of a conversation that stops you cold: a mom tells her little boy she hopes he marries an ""Elsa."" It sounds sweet, but a nagging feeling surfaces.

Are we sleepwalking into accepting potentially harmful role models for our kids?

Frozen is everywhere, its songs inescapable, but what dangerous ideas might be hiding beneath the sparkle?

We tackle the Elsa paradox head-on. ...

Picture this: You’re standing in your kitchen, exhausted. Your kid just rolled their eyes at you—again. You tried reasoning, consequences, maybe even a sticker chart. But nothing’s working.

Now imagine this: What if the real problem wasn’t your kid—but the entire system you’ve been using?

We’ve all been conditioned by behaviorism—rewards, punishments, control tactics we don’t even question. But what if there’s another way? A way that...

Picture this: Your child slumps onto the couch, sighing, "I'm bored." You reach for a solution—an activity, a screen, something to end their discomfort. But what if boredom is exactly what they need?

In this episode, we dive into the power of boredom and discomfort in shaping resilient, independent kids. We explore why today’s children crave constant stimulation, how overscheduling steals their ability to self-ente...

Picture this: You're late for school, tension’s high, and you casually ask, ""What makes a sleepover unforgettable?"" It seems random, but that’s where real conversations begin.

In this episode, we reveal why heavy, planned ""talks"" at dinner or bedtime often miss the mark—and how brief, casual chats during everyday moments can build lasting trust. Hear stories of kids opening up abou...

Picture this: Your teenager stands in the kitchen, face serious. “Mom, can you celebrate me? Like... really celebrate me?”

Turns out, he’s been craving the same over-the-top praise you used to give him when he was little—potty dances and all.

In this episode, we explore what happens when the cheering stops. When milestones become expectations, and our kids quietly wonder if anyone notices them at all. We share wild stories—road rage,...

Picture this: You’re exhausted. It’s been a day of breaking up sibling fights, micromanaging homework, reminding them—again—to be kind, to share, to clean up. And yet, tomorrow, it’ll be the same. Because here’s the truth: the more you control, the less they learn.

This episode is about why most parents set their kids up for failure by over-managing instead of guiding. We’ll break down Priya's very own ""RADaR"...