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July 14, 2025 • 34 mins

What if we stopped fearing lament in church, and started embracing it as holy?

In this powerful follow-up conversation, pastor and author Aubrey Sampson joins Tara Beth and Mark to talk about leading while grieving, pastoring through pain, and creating sacred space for sorrow in the church.

🎙️ In This Episode:

  • How unprocessed grief distorts our leadership and faith
  • The courage it takes to bring your honest self to the pulpit
  • Why lament isn’t faithless, it’s an act of deep spiritual trust
  • What churches gain when they normalize grief in worship

⏱️ Timestamps:


03:00 – Prayers we’re afraid to pray

08:00 – The grandkids only God could give

12:00 – The gift of lament in public worship

17:00 – Creating space for sorrow in Sunday services

21:00 – What unprocessed grief does to leaders

26:00 – Giving yourself permission to pause

30:00 – Big Feeling Days and writing for the littlest grievers


đź’ˇ Takeaway:

Grief doesn’t disqualify us from ministry: it deepens it.

Lament is not a detour from discipleship; it is discipleship. Aubrey’s story invites us to become churches that grieve well, love honestly, and make space for the sacred work of tears.

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