When Rescue Breaks You: The Cost of Saying Yes Too Much

When Saving Animals Almost Broke Me

What happens when the thing you love the most is the very thing that pushes you past your breaking point?

I found out in the middle of a hurricane—soaked, sobbing, and clinging to my barn while sick kittens cried in a barely secured shed. That was the moment I realized something had to change.

In this raw, unfiltered solo episode, I’m sharing the story I’ve kept quiet for too long. After fostering more than 4,000 animals, turning my property into a sanctuary, and running a rescue from the ground up, I hit a wall. The emotional toll, the sleepless nights, and the savior complex nearly cost me everything.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:
• Why saying yes to every animal can hurt more than it helps
• The hidden cost of rescue culture that no one talks about
• The moment I knew I had to step back—and how I’m rebuilding with purpose
• The simple boundaries that can keep you from burning out
• A preview of what’s next, including the truth about the no-kill movement and what SMART sheltering really looks like

If you’re in rescue and running on fumes—or if you love someone who is—this is the behind-the-scenes look you need. Because saving animals should never mean losing yourself.

🎧 Press play. Take a breath. And let’s talk about the part of rescue no one wants to admit.

PS: You might hear us call the show Muddy Paws and Hairballs. That was our old name. Now we’re focused on helping you—the pet parent—not just your pets. You’re in the right place.

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