25-164 Encouraging Siblings to Love One Another

Sibling relationships have the power to shape a child’s character and future in profound ways. These relationships are often the first training ground for learning forgiveness, humility, patience, and selfless love. And God is not silent about how we’re to treat one another—even in the smallest corners of the home.

Our springboard for today’s discussion is:"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you…" — John 13:34

Teaching siblings to love one another doesn’t begin with behavior correction—it begins with heart formation. It’s not about getting kids to simply “get along.” It’s about helping them see each other as image-bearers of God, placed in the same family for a reason.

Here are a few ways to disciple your children in sibling love:

* Model it – Show grace and respect in your own relationships. Children replicate what they see.

* Pray for one another out loud – Let siblings hear each other’s needs lifted to God. It softens hearts.

* Teach peacemaking, not just peacekeeping – Train them to work through conflict biblically, not just avoid it.

* Celebrate one another – Encourage them to cheer each other on rather than compete for attention.

* Speak blessing – Teach them to use their words to build, not tear down.

Sibling rivalry isn’t new—it’s been around since Cain and Abel. But in Christ, our homes can be different. God wants to use sibling relationships to build unity, sharpen character, and reflect His love.

If your children struggle with tension, don’t lose hope. Ask the Holy Spirit to move in their hearts. Begin praying for a spirit of unity and kindness between them—and don’t stop. God cares deeply about what’s happening between your children.

Question of the Day:What’s one way you can help your children grow in love and unity toward each other this week?

Mini Call to Action:Lead your children in a short time of praying for one another today. Even one sentence each. Watch what begins to shift.

Let’s Pray:Lord, teach our children to love each other as You have loved them. Help us lead by example. Let our home be filled with grace, patience, and a Spirit of unity. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Let’s Get To Work!The love your children learn to give each other at home will shape how they love the world.

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