There’s a reason Jesus linked our ability to receive forgiveness with our willingness to give it. Forgiveness isn’t just a kindness—it’s a command. But let’s be honest. Forgiving someone who wounded you, betrayed you, or left you bleeding? That’s not natural. That’s supernatural. And that’s why we’re starting here.
Our springboard for today’s discussion is:“For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you...” — Matthew 6:14 (ESV)
Forgiveness doesn’t mean what they did was okay. It means you’ve decided not to carry the poison anymore. It means you’re surrendering the offense, not condoning the offense. That’s a huge difference.
When Jesus teaches us to forgive, He’s not minimizing our pain—He’s maximizing our freedom. Because holding onto unforgiveness binds us, not them. It ties our soul to the offense. And Jesus wants us free.
You might say, “But they haven’t apologized.” That’s okay. Forgiveness isn’t based on their repentance—it’s based on your obedience. You don’t need closure from them. You need healing from Him.
And here’s the truth: forgiveness is not a one-time emotion. It’s a decision you may have to make every single day for a season. But each time you choose to release, something breaks off of you. The grip of the past loosens. And you begin to heal.
Remember, the Cross wasn’t just about forgiving your sin. It was the power for you to forgive others—even when they don’t deserve it. Because that’s what grace does. And that’s how the Kingdom moves.
Question of the Day:Who do you need to forgive today—even if they’ve never said “I’m sorry”?
Mini Call to Action:Write their name down. Speak it out loud. And say, “I release them. I choose freedom over bitterness. In Jesus’ name.”
Let’s Pray:Father, I confess—this hurts. But I don’t want to carry the weight anymore. Help me to forgive, not because they deserve it, but because You forgave me. Set my heart free. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Let’s Get To Work!Forgiveness isn’t weakness—it’s warfare. Today, you’re breaking chains. Walk away from that offense… and into the freedom Jesus paid for.
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