We talk a lot about forgiving others. But sometimes the hardest person to forgive… is yourself. You know what you did. You replay the moment. The regret. The shame. And even after God has forgiven you—you struggle to receive it. That ends today.
Our springboard for today’s discussion is:“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” — 1 John 1:9 (ESV)
Let’s get one thing straight: God’s forgiveness is not earned. It’s not awarded based on your behavior. It’s not delayed until you feel worthy. It’s given the moment you come to Him honestly, humbly, and confess your sin.
And when He forgives… it’s total. Complete. Final. “As far as the east is from the west…” (Psalm 103:12). He doesn’t just forgive the act—He washes the stain.
But the enemy loves to haunt forgiven people with unforgiven feelings. That’s where shame tries to take root. And that’s where we must stand on the Word, not on our feelings.
If you’ve confessed it, God has forgiven it. Period. If you’ve surrendered it, He’s covered it. Don’t pick it back up. Don’t punish yourself longer than God has.
You might remember what you did. But God chooses not to hold it against you. That’s the power of grace. It doesn’t ignore sin. It destroys its power. And when God looks at you, He sees the righteousness of Jesus, not the wreckage of your past.
So stop rehearsing the guilt. Start receiving the mercy. And live like someone who’s been fully, freely, and forever forgiven.
Question of the Day:Is there a sin you’ve confessed but still carry the shame for? Why haven’t you let it go?
Mini Call to Action:Write down 1 John 1:9. Read it out loud. And declare: “I am forgiven. I am clean. I am free. Shame has no power over me.”
Let’s Pray:Jesus, thank You for forgiving me—even when I struggle to forgive myself. Help me receive Your grace today, fully and completely. I lay down my shame and pick up Your mercy. In Your name, amen.
Let’s Get To Work!You’re not your mistake. You’re not your past. You are the beloved, blood-washed child of the King. Walk forgiven. Live free.
My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.
New Heights with Jason & Travis Kelce
Football’s funniest family duo — Jason Kelce of the Philadelphia Eagles and Travis Kelce of the Kansas City Chiefs — team up to provide next-level access to life in the league as it unfolds. The two brothers and Super Bowl champions drop weekly insights about the weekly slate of games and share their INSIDE perspectives on trending NFL news and sports headlines. They also endlessly rag on each other as brothers do, chat the latest in pop culture and welcome some very popular and well-known friends to chat with them. Check out new episodes every Wednesday. Follow New Heights on the Wondery App, YouTube or wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen to new episodes early and ad-free, and get exclusive content on Wondery+. Join Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts or Spotify. And join our new membership for a unique fan experience by going to the New Heights YouTube channel now!
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!