When we think about King David, most of us remember two things: he killed Goliath, and he sinned with Bathsheba. His life was marked by both great victories and great failures. And yet, Scripture calls him “a man after God’s own heart.” That title wasn’t given because he was flawless—it was given because, despite his flaws, his heart’s deepest pursuit was God Himself. That’s the kind of man we’re called to be. Today we’re asking: what does it look like to be a man after God’s heart?
Our springboard for today’s discussion is:“I have found in David the son of Jesse a man after my heart, who will do all my will.” — Acts 13:22 (ESV)
David’s story reminds us that being a man after God’s heart isn’t about perfection—it’s about direction. When he fell, he repented. When he sinned, he ran back to God. His failures didn’t disqualify him because his heart refused to stay far from the Lord.
A man after God’s heart prioritizes obedience over convenience. He doesn’t chase popularity—he chases God’s presence. He doesn’t measure success by earthly wins, but by faithfulness to the will of God.
Brother, every man is chasing something. Some chase money. Others chase power. Some chase comfort or recognition. But the man after God’s heart chases the heart of the Father, even when it costs him. And here’s the truth—God delights in that pursuit. He’s not looking for perfect men. He’s looking for surrendered men.
David’s strength wasn’t just in his courage with a sling—it was in his songs, his prayers, and his trust in God through every season. And that’s the model for us. Being a man after God’s heart means bringing your victories, your failures, your questions, and your praise all before Him.
The culture says, “Follow your heart.” God says, “Follow Mine.” And when you do, your life becomes a testimony of grace, strength, and faithfulness that points others to Him.
Question of the Day:Are you chasing after the world’s rewards—or are you pursuing the heart of God above all else?
Mini Call to Action:Spend ten minutes today reading a psalm out loud. Make David’s prayers your prayers, and let them recalibrate your heart toward God.
Prayer:Father, I want to be a man after Your heart. Teach me to pursue You above success, recognition, or comfort. Help me to walk in obedience and surrender, even in my weakness.
Let’s Get To Work!A man after God’s heart isn’t perfect—but he is persistent. Keep chasing the Father, and He’ll shape you into the man He’s called you to be.
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