25-293 What Defines a Godly Man

TODAY’S LESSON

Let’s get one thing straight: masculinity is not toxic—it’s sacred when it’s redeemed.The world has spent years trying to blur, shame, and redefine manhood until it’s unrecognizable. Yet Scripture gives zero apologies for calling men to strength, courage, and leadership under God’s authority.

A godly man isn’t the loudest guy in the room, flexing ego and dominance. He’s the one who carries quiet power because he knows Whose mission he’s on. He leads by conviction, not popularity. He protects the weak, provides for his home, disciplines his emotions, and bows to no one but Christ.

Culture tells men to “find themselves.” God says, “Lose yourself—then follow Me.”The truth is, the moment a man stops chasing worldly approval and starts obeying divine orders, everything changes. His purpose locks in. His confidence roots deep. And his strength becomes righteous instead of reckless.

Real masculinity is defined by submission to God and service to others. Jesus didn’t come swinging a sword; He came carrying a cross. And that’s the model every man of God follows—courage without arrogance, authority without abuse, leadership without pride.

If we want revival among men, it begins right here: rediscovering our God-given identity, walking in truth, and rejecting every counterfeit label this culture throws our way.

📖 SCRIPTURE ANCHOR

“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.”— 1 Corinthians 16:13 (ESV)

LIVING PRINCIPLE

A godly man doesn’t wait for permission to be what God already commanded him to be.He doesn’t mirror the crowd; he models Christ. The measure of a man is found not in applause, but in obedience.

DAILY ACTION

Take ten minutes today and define—on paper—what kind of man God is shaping you to become. List five traits that reflect Jesus’ strength and humility. Then circle the one you struggle with most, and make it your battleground for the week.

PRACTICE (Do This...)

☑ Start your day in Scripture before scrolling news or social media.☑ Pray over your household—out loud. Let them hear your faith.☑ Text a brother in Christ and speak life into him.☑ End your day thanking God for one area where He made you stronger.

CHALLENGE OF THE DAY

When the culture mocks manhood, stand taller. When temptation whispers compromise, fight harder. And when God calls your name, answer faster.

PRAYER

Father, forge me into the man You designed before the world distorted masculinity.Strip away pride, fear, and complacency. Replace them with courage, purity, and purpose.Teach me to lead like Jesus—strong in truth, gentle in spirit, unshakable in faith.In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

IN CLOSING

Brothers, this world doesn’t need weaker men—it needs wiser warriors.Men who will bow before God so they can stand before kings.Your family, your church, and your nation are counting on you to be that man.

Let’s Get To Work!

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