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April 18, 2021 44 mins

 So for those of you just meeting me, know that I really am shy and mostly do not enjoy the feeling of not knowing what I am doing :)  Over the years, I've grown to respect the process of learning and mastery to the point where I am now- when I feel inept and uncoordinated I can embrace the challenge.  I can look the new idea in the face and be like, “o, we got this kolee, we got this!  ENTER sex.  I’m not 'not experienced' (or inept per se) with the penis in the vagina sex, I have 5 sons for god's sake.  I am also comfortable and "one" with my body, as much as possible and have grown to love it.  I’ve even had lovers where we had more freedom to play and enjoy each other, yet still, my mind was often other places than my body.  I wasn’t wholly present and therefore the kind of sex we talked about during this podcast was something I have no idea about!  I had to google “BDSM” haha if this helps you to feel smart or at ease now :) 

Crazy how someone in their 40’s could never have had a real meaningful fully present sexual experience, after being married 14 years, after having 5 children, after having sex with plenty of other bodies- it’s just a crazy indicator where the human race exists on planet earth at the time of this writing April 2021.  

This is why Angelique and her partner in crime as they call each other John Luna embarked half a decade ago to begin bringing professional powerful nontraditional sexual conversations to the public and never looked back.  In all my levels and breakthroughs, the size of the leap out of the comfort zone I lived in equaled the size of the miracle or breakthrough I experienced on the other side.  I can only pray it will be the same here in the sex arena! Sex is such a complicated convoluted piece to our existence!  It ravels and travels inside outside all around us in our very core essence in the guise of survival of the fittest, comfort and belonging, community and care.  It can and has basically gone extinct in some cultures and through science and technology can be basically done away with for reproduction purposes, so what then IS the reason for the act?  Why would humans choose to connect in this most powerful and intimate way if it’s no longer needed?  

Let’s go there then :) 

listen to full cast here, click here to watch the youtube interview as well as read the full blog piece 

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