How We Cheat On God

Picture this: God tells you to marry a “prostitute.” Yes, someone who can’t keep their parts to themselves or just for you. Your first reaction? Leave them! They’re a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater. But then God says, “Go marry that cheater-cheater pumpkin eater” and uses it to demonstrate His unwavering love through you. Sounds crazy, right?

This week, on The Process with Sade 'Marie we’re diving into a story that’s misunderstood but loaded with spiritual truth from Hosea 1:2.

Now back to marrying a proustite, most of you'll would be like, Nah, Nope, NOOO, that’s dumb and desperate. And honestly, I get it—sounds wild. But wait, there’s more. What if God then shows you that the same unfaithful spirit you’re judging is actually in you? It might not look like literal prostitution, but it’s there—just in a different form. Maybe it’s idolatry, chasing things you shouldn’t, or turning away from God when you don’t get your way.

Many of us have moments when we stray—when we put other things, people, or desires above God. Whether it’s out of frustration, impatience, or even rebellion, we “whore after” false idols—things that cannot fulfill or sustain us that literally kill us in the end. We are so unfaithful and sometimes we don't even realize it. And yet, God still loves us. He still calls us back to Him.

If only you could let those false idols, other gods and deities go- how much further along would you be?

Here’s the challenge: Instead of running to temporary solutions, we run to the One who holds all the answers? What if we took the time to sit in God’s presence, to listen, to ask, Lord, what is on Your heart for me and for my life?

I know this is not an easy topic. Trust me, I’ve been there. I know what it feels like to wrestle with desires, with frustration, with not wanting to hear what God has to say because you want what you want. But let me tell you—God’s grace is bigger. His love is deeper. And when we truly surrender, He will pull us out of whatever pit we’ve fallen into and restore us.

This episode is an invitation to go deeper—deeper in your relationship with God, deeper in your faith, and deeper in understanding the Lord's heart for you. It’s not always easy to hear, but it’s the truth that sets us free.

Tune in, lean in, and let’s process this together. I believe this message will touch your heart if you let it.

May Your Heart Be Healed!