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Would you know if your child wasbeing groomed while you're ready to give you
what's up? Everybody? I'm KeishaKine, Welcome back to my channel.
What happens when the place that yousend your child to learn becomes a grooming
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ground. America has been rocked bycountless stories of teachers showing children inappropriate images,
inappropriate videos, and even allowing inappropriatepeople such as drag queens to perform
to miners all while at school.Many times, we've even had movies like
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Netflix's Cuties that jew Concerns a fewyears back, causing people to cancel their
subscriptions. You'd think that that wouldhave slowed down the inappropriate sexual images content
that was being shown to children,but day by day, more and more
children are still being harmed by thosewho we are supposed to trust. Recently,
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Joseph Bruno, a dean at FrancisW. Parker, an elite prep
school in Chicago, Illinois, wascaught on camera by Project Veritas saying this,
take a look. I had likeour LGBTQ Plus Health Center come in.
They were passing around buck flugs ntilthose to my students, talking about
queer sex using blu versus using spit. Meet Joe Bruno, dean of students
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at the prestigious Ranchis W. ParkerPrivate School in Chicago, which happens to
charge forty thousand dollars per student.They're just like passing aroun until those button
flogs. The kids are just playingwith them. They're like, how do
you how does this work? Howdo I do? Like? How does
this work? That's a really likea blue part. At my job during
Pride, we do a Pride weekevery year and I had I had like
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our LGBTQ plus Health Center come in. We were passing around bud plugs and
buildos to my students, talking aboutqueer sex using blue versus using spit.
Who is this? This is uh? An LGBTQ plus Health Center came in
to talk to my high school sides. They're just like passing around until those
fut flugs. The kids are justplaying with us, looking at us in
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the school and you're gonna class.Yeah, while I'm sitting there, And
we had a track queen come inpass out cookies and brownies and do photos
and it's amazing and everybody's cool withthat, like the clugs and then buildos
nobody complaints. I mean, ifthe parents don't out with me, now,
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it's queer sickers. If you arepart of the Keisha King Show,
if you're part of our community,you know that these are topics that we
deal with all the time, andwe know that these things have been happening
for quite some time. So thistime, I don't want to just give
you another bad news story. Idon't want to just share with you what's
happening and just kind of give mycommentary. I want to arm you with
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information that you can share with othersto help prevent this or stop this from
happening to children. Before we getto that, make sure you like this
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out there and grow the channel.I think one of the reasons that these
stories weigh so heavily on my heartis because that I was molested when I
was a little girl. I wasfive years old and I was molested by
a relative who had come to livewithout family. We were helping my mother,
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My parents were helping this individual,and he took advantage of that and
he started to molest me. AndI can't even imagine if that was happening
at home. And then I wentto school and in trot's a drag queen,
or I'm in school and they're showingme but plugs and penises and you
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know, all of these types ofthings. I think that could have really
made me think that what was happening, or what had happened to me was
okay. That okay, Well here'sthis relative that's doing it. Now I
go to school, this is theplace I trust, the authority figures are
there, they're showing me sexual things. I think that probably would have had
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a much different effect on me.And I think about the children today who
are being sexually abused and then theyhave to go to school and watch adults
show inappropriate sexual items, toys andall those types of things right in front
of their faces. I mean,I'm sure that has to be very disturbing,
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and it could make them feel likethere's nowhere to turn, and it
could probably make them feel like thatwhat has happened to them is okay,
because I knew what was happening tome was wrong. I knew it was
wrong, But if I would havegotten to school and saw these things what
I have still known, I thinkthat would have caused me, caused me
confusion to see it. It's likeit's everywhere I go. So it's another
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reason why it's so disturbing that theybring in these drag queens and all these
sexual toys and the sexual pleasure andthe sex head and you know that it
is causing even more harm to thechildren who are being sexually abused, because,
trust me, it is happening.It is happening. So what are
some of the signs that you needto look out for as a parent to
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determine to make sure that your childis safe, to make sure that your
child is not being sexually groomed.You'll probably know the person. A predator
will need access to a child throughtheir caregivers, which means they normally will
have a relationship with you. Thiscould be a relative. This could be
a teacher. This could be aneighbor, This could be a coach,
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this could be it could be anyone. It literally could be anyone, and
so you don't you don't know.Groomers usually involve a perpetrator Grooming usually involves
a perpetrator establishing a trusting relationship witha child and those associated with the child's
care and well being to create anenvironment in which the abuse can occur.
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With all of these things happening insideof a classroom, I mean literally,
these strangers who we think we cantrust. The doors are closed, nothing
that you know. You don't knowwhat is happening, what's being said,
you don't know. You don't evenknow what has been said previously. To
make the kids more comfortable with certaintalks that takes down their guard, so
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they're not even on guard to notethat something is not right to Predators are
difficult to spot. They are difficultto recognize, and the behavior it's going
to be hard to know that itis grooming, Grooming and related techniques are
difficult to explicitly define and identify.Researchers found that child textual abuse perpetrators are
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diverse and differ in their motivations andbehaviors. When we think of child predators,
we think they are monsters. Theyare, but they don't look like
monsters. They are typically going tobe the person you would at least expect.
If that is one thing that Ican say that is so important because
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again, people like teachers, peoplelike the coach, people like the priests,
people like the pastor the deacon,the usher. It's going to be
people that you would never expect.You know, we have to remember that
the enemy comes as an angel oflight. You know, no one would
drop their kid off to someone whowas obviously going to harm their kid.
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They would or you would do everythingyou could to protect your child if you
knew if this person came off lookinglike they were would harm your child.
So it's not going to be aperson that you would automatically suspect something.
The other thing, Watch out fortoys, the report. I will leave
a link for this um this articlein the description box below so you can
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read these for yourself. Watch outfor toys, the report warns a perpetrator
may target children using age appropriate gamesor toys. You know, I remember
back in the day it was oh, I M you know, high,
little child, you would you likesome candy? They would leave the child
over to try to get you know, get them to get candy or things
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like that, or when they getthem in their presence, they try to
show them different types of things thattries to get take down their barrier,
because kids too have a natural barrierto say like, oh, this isn't
right. It's not as strong asparents. That's why we are here to
protect them. But they do haveit, and you know, toys,
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candy, anything that can draw akid over, or draw their attention or
make them think that this person isa friend, they will use. Acts
of grooming are often undertaken with theaim of making the prospective victim feel special
or privileged. The report ads,of course, it is normal for children
to receive gifts, but if anadult seems to take quote an interest in
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child play and toys that appear toexceed his or her caregiving role, then
be alert. For instance, bringingsex toys into the classroom for instance,
drag queens. Oh I'm gonna readyou a book, but I'm dressed like
this, for instance, basically allof this stuff that we've been talking about
for the last couple of years nowthat's been happening in the classroom. Be
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aware of secrets techniques used to keepa relationship between an adult and child secret.
A an adult explicitly asking a childto keep a relations secret might also
be indicative of grooming. We're seeingthis. Also, Oh, the teachers
know better. Your parents are oldand outdated, l what do they know
now. I'm not saying that everyteacher is a groomer if they have adopted
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this crazy mindset, because a lotof this stuff comes out of these whack
out woke institutions universities, and theylearn this stuff and they take it into
their classrooms. I'm not saying thatevery teacher is a groomer, but if
that is happening, that teacher needsto be checked. You don't tell my
child something about to keep something fromit, don't. You don't undermine my
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role as a parent. Just likeif you're married and you don't. Your
spouse should not undermine what you sayin your home. A teacher certainly should
not undermine what you believe in theclassroom, and they certainly should not be
encouraging the child to break away fromfamily. Um. That is highly inappropriate.
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And if that, if your childrenare telling you that, then that
teacher needs to be checked. Groominginvolves three main stages. It is understood
that grooming involves the main stages firstly, gaining access to a victim, Secondly
initiating and maintaining abuse, and finallyconcealing the abuse. So you have to
gain the access initiating and maintaining it. UM. So once the person is
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in your home or once the personyou know you've gained trust, Oh can
you stay after class or you knowsomething like that. UM, they may
ask they keep asking you, youknow, to stay after and they may
put their hand on their leg,on your leg, on the child's leg
to see how the child reacts,and if the child isn't, like,
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you know, push them away orum. If the child seems to receive
that, then little by little itgoes even further. And then finally it's
oh, don't tell, because youknow the abuse is happening, and they
don't want to get in trouble,and they're going to try to make sure
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that the child does not keeps thissecret. Now, some children are more
at risk than others. There isa consensus in the research literature that some
children are more vulnerable to being sexuallyabused. These include those socially isolated,
those with low self esteem, orchildren with one parent who is constantly who
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is continually absent. If the childhas been a victim of bullying or has
low self esteem, they are alsoat risk. This is so good.
This is why the nuclear family isso important because there are there are consequences
when you don't have both parents inthe home, and one of those consequences
are one parent has to wo workand the other parent and the children are
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left or just exposed to to morebeing out of their parents' presence. So
that allows them for all types,it can expose them to all types of
different people who who have who areevil. And so if you can't do
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everything when you're one parent, youjust cannot. And so it is imperative
that you know, we try tokeep our families together as best as possible,
and also maintaining a good relationship withyour children's father or parent, the
other parent, even if you aredivorced. It's just very important because the
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child is the most important. Makingsure that you raise you all raise that
child in healthy environment is important,super important. So parents, you could
be at risk too. So whenthere are manipulators and predators out there,
they will also try to quell yoursuspicions to make you feel more comfortable.
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They'll manipulate you. I know onething that's going on in the trans move.
They will always say, would yourather have a dead daughter or a
live son. That's a manipulation tool, you know. So be aware of
people who are trying to play onyour emotions. Be aware of people who
are trying to play on your emotions. And something doesn't seem right, it
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should be questions. The key toall of this Knowledge is power. Knowledge
is power, and talking to yourchildren. When my oldest order was in
like six or seventh grade, Ireally stopped asking her just to kind of
how is your day? Hos fun? And then you just kind of move
on. I knew that, youknow, okay, times are different,
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and so I started asking just moreprobing questions like what made you smile today?
What was funny today? What wasyou know? Was there anything crazy
that happened in school? Was thereanything that made you feel uncomfortable at school
today? Sometimes we live in wasthere anything or anyone that made you feel
uncomfortable in school today? This ishow you can start to see what really
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is happening, what your children arereally going through when you drop them off
to these strangers, because let's bereal, they are strangers. I know
we like to think that they arenot strangers, but they are strangers.
And you know, we just don'tknow these people like that, and just
the ideas that people have nowadays,you just never know, You never know
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what they think because coming out ofthese universities, you know, they believe
that some of them do believe thatthere is no boundary between children and adults,
that children that some of these peoplebelieve that children are sexual, not
saying that that that they are harmingthem, but if they already believe that
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children are sexual, you could justgo down a rabbit hole with that.
Bottom line is it is imperative thatwe protect our children. It's they are
the next generation. If we areIf they're not mentally stable, if they
are not emotionally stable, if theyare not equipped comprehensively, if they're not
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well rounded children, how are theygoing to be productive in their next phases
of life? How are they goingto be good wives? How are they
going to be good mothers? Howare they going to be productive citizens?
How are they going to do this? If they've been exposed to all of
this crap? How are we goingto equip them to leave the world better
than what we founded then what theyfounded? How if they are already not
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if they're not Okay, Hey,so we have to take these things seriously,
especially when we see everything that's goingon in the world. And you're
not crazy. You're not crazy forasking these probing questions. You are not
crazy for, you know, makingsure that things are knowing exactly to the
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best of your ability, what ishappening in your child's classroom. You are
not crazy. That is your rightas a parent. You have every right
to know what is going on withyour babies. These people have lost their
freaking minds if they with this thoughtof that parents have no idea and that
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is unacceptable. So let me knowwhat you guys think in the comment section
below. If you have some othersigns and that you think that I left
off that you think parents could benefitfrom, please put them in the description
box below. What we want todo is arm parents with the most information
that they can give them, somethingto look for, give them so we
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can help them. I'll in withus. I remember when I first started
in this journey, there was alegislator here in Florida who was telling us
about an eight year old little girlwho was being sexually assaulted by another eight
year old little boy, and theonly way her parents knew was that she
started wedding the bed, she startedregressing in her development, and that's what
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made them I start to ask questions. Here's the kicker. Everyone in the
school knew, the teachers knew,and the administration knew, but they did
not tell the parents. This iswhy I'm doing this, This is why
I made this video because parents needto know what to look out for,
and you cannot depend on the schoolto be there for you. These are
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not the same times, y'all.These are not the same times. We
cannot depend on them to do ourjob, and we shouldn't. We should
not be depending on them to doour job because they are our children.
God gave them to us in itthat we have to be good stewards over
our babies. We must, especiallyin these trying, wicked times. So
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