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(00:20):
Uh, It's your host.
Raimundo.
Welcome to my show.
Well, we.
Laugh.
Talk about how we can be better.
And just have fun in theprocess.
But this is episode 53.
growing pains.
Uh, remind me of a song byludicrous.
Think of a barbecue.
(00:41):
And when to change was Teddyboy.
but yeah, didn't have no ideawhat I was going to come up with
and had a conversation about it.
And now.
Is the fucking episode.
So sit back, relax.
And, uh, Enjoy the show.
Right.
And then it goes black and thenboom.
I'm on stage.
(01:03):
But let's get into that quote ofthe day before we start this
episode.
Right.
Growing up is losing someillusions.
In order to acquire others.
By Virginia Woolf.
Probably not the first time Iquota.
And that pool just went.
So perfectly with what I'mtrying to get across on this
episode.
Which is.
(01:23):
Sometimes we just got to growthe fuck up.
This is what we wanted when wewere younger and now was here
and now we wish we could go backin time.
But we got to face the music.
And.
Mature start doing thingsdifferently.
I feel like that, like, as like,when you think.
Like a kid or.
You think in a way where itdoesn't do you any good?
(01:45):
And you can, and you know,you're to yourself that you
could be.
Childish.
You know, you become acollection of all these child,
these things that make you feellike you're not growing up.
And I feel like that's thebeyond us.
That's kind of what I'm dealingwith.
Like.
I'm a grown ass man.
I'm closer to 40 than I am the30.
Other people say when again,Close to You know, the higher
(02:07):
number.
I'm a father of two beautifultwins and.
Sometimes I look in the mirrorand I be like, yo, you dad acid
that.
Like I'm like, yo, it's stilllike, I love them to death.
Like I can't even, I don't evenremember the world without them
anymore.
And I don't even want to.
Well, sometimes I be like, yeah.
You a damn man.
(02:27):
You got so growing up to do yougot some changes to make.
The way you saw things before.
It's not the way you should beseeing things now.
you know, I'm a different man.
Um, I feel like I hadopportunities.
So really.
Put in.
You know, all that time.
Uh, but now I kind of got tolike, Still keep it going.
But.
You know, I got to make surethat income rate.
things ain't getting easier.
(02:49):
They just trying to make.
They just trying to make way oflife more difficult, but.
You in this type of country, youonly the strong survive.
So you got to.
You gotta be one of the strongones.
And like I said, the, the cohorthall cause.
We will have illusions of who wethink we all who we could be.
And we can make them come tolife, but.
We're going to give a flow.
(03:09):
We got to give up the childishones.
In order to embrace.
The adult ones.
Right.
Like.
Uh, what's that saying?
Um, When I grew up, I putchildish things away.
You and I remember when I, uh,when I stopped playing with
toys, when I was like, 11.
I put all them shits out.
Like I put all my toys out and Iwas like, yo.
I'm too old to be playing withthese shits.
(03:31):
I like, that's it.
I watch a BT now.
I can't be fucking.
I'm listening to DMX Mac B.
Having a Spiderman and fat.
Uh, Spider-Man Batman and, and.
And in the power range isjumping.
Ninja turtles anymore.
I'm going to do that.
Added like you don't take it upa notch.
But yeah.
(03:51):
That was a good quote of theday.
Shout out to Virginia Wolf.
Uh, but yeah, let's get into thenitty gritty of the episode.
Growing pains, man.
Yo, when we were younger, Idon't remember.
Y'all like I saw everythingdifferently.
I saw myself having a car 17.
So myself having all these girlsout myself, having money, I
probably saw myself in the MBA.
(04:13):
Like I really.
Thought I was going to go to theMBA at.
At one point in my life andlike, I didn't even do anything
to really show that, but like, Iremember being younger.
When you, when your mom.
Get your ass inside.
You know what I'm saying?
You you be like IO.
When I get old, I want to stayout.
As long as I wanted to.
Now that you old and older, youdon't stay outside as long as
(04:33):
you want to anymore.
You got to use something.
You got to go aside.
You know what I said?
top be inside of the thing, butwhen you're younger, I don't
even think you even think.
About losing energy to just, ifyou don't have energy, you would
just pass out.
All right.
Um, man.
Which as kids, we didn't knowthat when we took naps.
We did our parents a favor causethey got some time to them.
(04:55):
So they had time to just chill.
You know, I'm living that fromexperience.
From experience every time.
They take the first nap.
That's like, you know, sayingwhen I'm not working.
That's like, you know, that's metime right now.
Like I got to just chill.
They sleep in the F you.
The breakfast already.
that's another thing they don'ttell you about.
I mean, Your parents are likethat with you, but.
(05:15):
It makes a parent's day when.
Their kids eat.
Like every time my kids eat.
I feel full.
You know what I mean?
Like.
I feel complete.
I feel like I'm good now.
You know what I'm saying, but ifthey don't eat.
I don't feel good.
I feel like, I feel off.
Like I can't enjoy my day Butlike the saying says babies,
ain't going to go hungry.
If they hug me, they going tolet you know.
(05:37):
And you know, they, I think theypretty good.
Well, yeah, growing up.
I remember that toys have rosecommercial.
Out of water to grow up.
Um, that I could play with,like, And I remember like,
feeling that like, yeah, youknow what I'm saying?
Jeffrey yell at me.
Like it was, um, You know what Imean?
(05:59):
Like I probably took that shittoo personally.
And I'm not like.
Childish where everything isjust.
I don't know.
I feel like sometimes I don't befacing that.
I knew I can't do things.
The way I did before.
You know what I mean?
Like I'm older, my life'sdifferent.
It's not where I want it to be.
So I got to do different things.
And this looks to be so aware.
(06:20):
cause it's like.
So be aware and to not do islike it's its own.
You.
It's not any of the noble and atthe end of the day, it's never
on anybody else, but you, but.
When, you know, but.
You know, you question.
Washington's a certain way.
But you haven't.
You haven't did it in adifferent way.
Like you dead eyes wake up.
Mad.
Do the same shit every day.
(06:42):
And then things.
This is going to be different.
I feel like a lot of us do that.
I, you know, of course I'malways speaking about me, but a
lot of us really do that.
Like, I work with people wherelike, They hate a certain
coworker.
They hate that they.
And they were just.
Keep keep going, man.
You're the cycle.
The cycle was real, man.
Like, I feel like I'm caught upin a cycle right now where like,
(07:02):
I'm doing everything lastminute.
I'm not.
Being consistent.
Against the, I have my child,you know what I'm saying?
I have my ways where I need togrow up and.
Act like a real adult.
Like.
I'm someone's father.
Um, two kids, violet, I will behere.
Like playing around.
Yeah.
Like even.
This podcast.
I feel like if I would have.
You know, did.
(07:23):
The other thing that I've setout to do.
The party would have been payingme enough to.
I want to say goodbye job.
But I didn't take advantage.
Uh, pretty much took it forgranted of the time.
I had to be able to do that.
You know, and.
a way to grow is to.
Experience things right.
Going into the unknown.
Helps you.
Mature a little bit.
(07:43):
It.
Ads like, As like another badgeto, to your life.
Shit, you know what I'm saying?
Like you get another badge thatI, you did that.
You didn't die.
You didn't get hurt.
And you can live to talk aboutit.
Right.
And you think about a man like.
We love being comfortable, thechallenges is what really makes
you.
Like formidable, you know whatI'm saying?
This is a big majority of peoplethat just quit.
(08:05):
After the first try or peopledon't like failure and people
don't like, know, so.
If you able to take challenges.
And, Overcome them shits.
Like.
That's like adding weight everyweek to the gym, like just.
It's a little bit, little bithere, little bit there next to
you, you know?
Flight you acting right?
You act like how you supposedto.
But without those challenges.
You you like, how can you reallyimprove?
(08:26):
Like you got to really anxious.
I know it's hard to like, Reallygo do.
Go.
Really challenged yourself, butyou can start small.
If you play two K right.
And you play on a rookie, likeplay on veteran.
You know what I'm saying?
Play against some realcompetition.
You know what I'm saying?
If you, if you take the call towork.
Get on the bus.
see how long it takes you to getthere on the bus.
Yeah, I would say like, It just,it's just crazy, like right.
(08:49):
To evolve, to develop, to be.
I feel like this.
Ultimate version of yourself is.
Purposely putting yourself.
In a challenging.
Fearful.
Life changing situation.
And that doesn't have to be likesomething crazy.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, Given the speech.
Or.
You know, like I went skydiving.
I don't recommend that foreverybody.
(09:09):
I read that shit in a book andit said he got through all his
fears after he.
When Scott Dobbins.
That was that bullshit, man.
Oh man.
And, and the thing is right,like, Tom waits for no man,
you're going to grow older andyou don't want to be.
Like a man child, you know whatI'm saying?
You don't want to be like agrown ass man.
That's aware and knows what timeit is.
(09:31):
Like.
If you have like a mentaldisability, you know what I'm
saying?
I, you know, All respect.
I wish you the best.
But if you are aware and ableman or able woman.
In.
You acting like you, you gottime.
We don't really got time.
We dead ass on borrowed time.
Like.
It's crazy how much we take itfor granted, There's the date
(09:52):
that you eat?
Like you're not on this worldafter that date.
And we will have that day.
You.
The date that nobody thinksabout.
We will have a date.
Last day with the, you know, thepeople we love.
And.
You want to make sure that.
You gave it your all.
You do what you have to do,especially if you got young
ones.
And even if you don't got youngones, man, to generate, you
(10:12):
know, the future.
The children are the future.
You know what I'm saying?
Accomplishing things.
Saying goals.
And just fucking shit up, like.
Plate work hard, play hard, man.
That's another thing you got toenjoy your life too.
Yeah.
Um, I'm not saying grow up andnot have fun.
I'm just saying balance it out.
If.
You're not where you want to be.
Cause You doing a little bit toomuch at a pleasure thing.
(10:34):
It's time to come on all thetime to come on over baby to
the.
To the work thing and balance itout.
Yeah, it is this podcast.
I forgot his name, but he's a,he's a, some Brawley dude.
Hey there.
Th this is the schedule.
He works from six to 12.
Three days a week.
Now.
You imagine you work 40 hours onpeople work 80.
(10:54):
Some people be wiling outworking the one 20.
Maybe that's too hot.
But.
Imagine.
We're hugging yourself.
That's all position with you.
Get the work only four hours aday.
All your bills are paid.
And you're taking care of you.
Your children and you, but tohelp out with your family when
they need you.
You know, same with you.
Can't be like that.
If you acted like a kid.
(11:15):
You looking for somebody to saveyou?
Or you play a victim or you wentfor a situation to just come
knock on your door.
It's never going to happen.
That's the thing.
So some of us think like, likeincluding myself, That it was
just automatic progression oflife, of how things would be.
But no, you don't become thosethings until you, until you do
(11:36):
those things.
I didn't become a podcast untilI started doing a whole bunch of
episodes.
You don't become in shape by notworking out.
On a regular basis.
you all, what you eat and youare what you do.
So if you have a.
If you feel like me, you haven'tproblems with like, feeling
like.
You know, you're not taking themature route, the grown route.
(11:57):
You still moving like you didwhen you was 22 and now you're
40.
Like.
Some things.
Got to change.
And what are we waiting for tochange it?
Like, honestly, what are wewaiting for?
What, what are you waiting for?
Like, what are you waiting for?
Whereas to get an Amazon packagesaying, yo it's time,
motherfucker.
Like nice.
Bazell he good?
He already did.
He, this shit like he'schilling.
(12:18):
Bazell good.
Bazell um, shit.
He run, he run into internetgame, like surprise.
Anybody else makes money the wayhe makes money with Amazon.
Like, it's crazy, but.
Big world.
That loves consumerism.
So.
When I be bought of it.
Capitalize on it.
But that's another episode.
Uh, probably give somebody thatwar.
(12:39):
Everyone is an online business.
That's making money from thecrib, like.
And you knew it was double byworking online.
You get to, well, if you reallymaking money from online or
you're doing this research in.
And putting it.
In traffic in positions where itcan make you bread.
Uh, you, ain't got to talk tonobody.
You don't gotta deal with noattitude.
You just got to like lead them.
(13:01):
Electronically.
You know what I'm saying?
You got to lead them.
Like.
Where like they click onsomething and then they go to
your store and they buy it andthey know when they buy it, they
get it.
And then they get something.
And.
Having a whole bunch of peopledo that.
Imagine like, and, and I feellike I'm saying that because I'm
in customer service and I got totalk to certain people.
(13:23):
And I'm like, you know what?
It would be nice if I didn'thave to talk to those people.
You know, and not because.
You know what I mean?
I don't want a job, but just.
Make the money.
On the other side of humaninteraction.
Which is.
You know, working off with.
That's appealing to them.
Well, this is what it's allabout.
Honestly, that's what this wholepodcasting fucking music.
(13:44):
Uh, You find a way to people tocome look for you.
So it's a want to listen to whatyou got to say.
And.
Either there.
Waiting for you to drop some newshit or they listening to your
old shit.
That's like, there's a guy thattalks to me on my job about, um,
There's this podcast, the townDillon.
And I'm like, yo, I wishsomebody was speaking about more
podcasts the way he keepstalking to me about Tom Dylan.
(14:06):
He always got some shit.
About Tom Dylan.
And it's some funny ass shitthough.
I ain't gonna fly.
I have checked it out.
It is a good shout out.
And heal.
The town guys.
Now I just said it to.
And he don't even record avideo.
He just straight audio and I'mlike, damn, I used to love just
recording audio.
(14:26):
But at the same time, you wantto see the person that's
talking.
You know what I mean?
Like.
Kind of thought you build thatconnection.
You know what I mean?
I used to like, look in therecord in the camera.
Like I'm looking at you.
Like you, I'm talking to you,motherfucker.
I usually look away.
I feel like all podcasts, dothat shit.
But.
Yeah, man, like.
I just guess I just wanted toput this episode out.
(14:48):
Because I'm dealing with it.
And I know I'm not the only onethat dealing with it and it
doesn't have to be.
In all areas you live, it couldbe like one particular area
where you still.
Doing shit childish.
You know, say you being childishwith it.
Like when you, you know what I'msaying?
You can add a little bit of ageand a little bit experience to
that.
You know what I'm saying?
The little salt, babe, that.
Yeah.
(15:08):
So.
Uh, yeah.
But yeah.
You know what the final say?
I usually don't do this for thefinal sale, but I'm going to
freestyle it right.
And I ain't trying to rhyme.
I'm just.
Just going to finish thatepisode out.
There was a song that saidbreaking up is hard to do.
But I think growing up is hard.
Because when we were kids.
That's when life was.
(15:30):
Great.
We didn't have bills.
You know, our parents werearound.
And all we had to do was go toschool.
Why Saturday cartoons and.
Entertain ourselves.
All parents could do what theygotta do.
What time.
Which is a fucking illusion.
It doesn't stop.
And.
We grow old.
(15:50):
Well, we get older.
Of course we get wiser.
Well, sometimes it's a necessarything we have to do.
To obtain.
The life that we want.
And what self-help.
If you can't get the fuckinglife that you want.
Individually takes a little bitof growing up a little bit
mature and a little bit of like,Acting like.
On the adult that's.
Trying to start a business.
(16:10):
On adult that's.
Trying to provide the best ofhis family.
On the thought that just wantsto be.
The best they can be and give itthe best every day.
I think it's worth.
Looking into.
Um, man, but this was a greatepisode.
And this is your first time.
Listen, I appreciate you.
If you will, regular degular,you know, I love ya and always
(16:31):
appreciate ya.
Um, I hope.
Got my point across in thisepisode.
I always try to.
This was actually my firstfreestyle episode when you work.
And you got twins.
And.
You having trouble with growingup?
You do shit like.
Freestyler episode, but I thinkit came out pretty good.
(16:52):
So, well, you let me know in thecomments that you don't comment
on.
So next time, peace, love Mundo.
Ah.
Uh, It's your host.
Raimundo.
Welcome to my show.
Well, we.
Laugh.
Talk about how we can be better.
And just have fun in theprocess.
But this is episode 53.
growing pains.
Uh, remind me of a song byludicrous.
Think of a barbecue.
(00:41):
And when to change was Teddyboy.
but yeah, didn't have no ideawhat I was going to come up with
and had a conversation about it.
And now.
Is the fucking episode.
So sit back, relax.
And, uh, Enjoy the show.
Right.
And then it goes black and thenboom.
I'm on stage.
(01:03):
But let's get into that quote ofthe day before we start this
episode.
Right.
Growing up is losing someillusions.
In order to acquire others.
By Virginia Woolf.
Probably not the first time Iquota.
And that pool just went.
So perfectly with what I'mtrying to get across on this
episode.
Which is.
(01:23):
Sometimes we just got to growthe fuck up.
This is what we wanted when wewere younger and now was here
and now we wish we could go backin time.
But we got to face the music.
And.
Mature start doing thingsdifferently.
I feel like that, like, as like,when you think.
Like a kid or.
You think in a way where itdoesn't do you any good?
(01:45):
And you can, and you know,you're to yourself that you
could be.
Childish.
You know, you become acollection of all these child,
these things that make you feellike you're not growing up.
And I feel like that's thebeyond us.
That's kind of what I'm dealingwith.
Like.
I'm a grown ass man.
I'm closer to 40 than I am the30.
Other people say when again,Close to You know, the higher
(02:07):
number.
I'm a father of two beautifultwins and.
Sometimes I look in the mirrorand I be like, yo, you dad acid
that.
Like I'm like, yo, it's stilllike, I love them to death.
Like I can't even, I don't evenremember the world without them
anymore.
And I don't even want to.
Well, sometimes I be like, yeah.
You a damn man.
(02:27):
You got so growing up to do yougot some changes to make.
The way you saw things before.
It's not the way you should beseeing things now.
you know, I'm a different man.
Um, I feel like I hadopportunities.
So really.
Put in.
You know, all that time.
Uh, but now I kind of got tolike, Still keep it going.
But.
You know, I got to make surethat income rate.
things ain't getting easier.
(02:49):
They just trying to make.
They just trying to make way oflife more difficult, but.
You in this type of country, youonly the strong survive.
So you got to.
You gotta be one of the strongones.
And like I said, the, the cohorthall cause.
We will have illusions of who wethink we all who we could be.
And we can make them come tolife, but.
We're going to give a flow.
(03:09):
We got to give up the childishones.
In order to embrace.
The adult ones.
Right.
Like.
Uh, what's that saying?
Um, When I grew up, I putchildish things away.
You and I remember when I, uh,when I stopped playing with
toys, when I was like, 11.
I put all them shits out.
Like I put all my toys out and Iwas like, yo.
I'm too old to be playing withthese shits.
(03:31):
I like, that's it.
I watch a BT now.
I can't be fucking.
I'm listening to DMX Mac B.
Having a Spiderman and fat.
Uh, Spider-Man Batman and, and.
And in the power range isjumping.
Ninja turtles anymore.
I'm going to do that.
Added like you don't take it upa notch.
But yeah.
(03:51):
That was a good quote of theday.
Shout out to Virginia Wolf.
Uh, but yeah, let's get into thenitty gritty of the episode.
Growing pains, man.
Yo, when we were younger, Idon't remember.
Y'all like I saw everythingdifferently.
I saw myself having a car 17.
So myself having all these girlsout myself, having money, I
probably saw myself in the MBA.
(04:13):
Like I really.
Thought I was going to go to theMBA at.
At one point in my life andlike, I didn't even do anything
to really show that, but like, Iremember being younger.
When you, when your mom.
Get your ass inside.
You know what I'm saying?
You you be like IO.
When I get old, I want to stayout.
As long as I wanted to.
Now that you old and older, youdon't stay outside as long as
(04:33):
you want to anymore.
You got to use something.
You got to go aside.
You know what I said?
top be inside of the thing, butwhen you're younger, I don't
even think you even think.
About losing energy to just, ifyou don't have energy, you would
just pass out.
All right.
Um, man.
Which as kids, we didn't knowthat when we took naps.
We did our parents a favor causethey got some time to them.
(04:55):
So they had time to just chill.
You know, I'm living that fromexperience.
From experience every time.
They take the first nap.
That's like, you know, sayingwhen I'm not working.
That's like, you know, that's metime right now.
Like I got to just chill.
They sleep in the F you.
The breakfast already.
that's another thing they don'ttell you about.
I mean, Your parents are likethat with you, but.
(05:15):
It makes a parent's day when.
Their kids eat.
Like every time my kids eat.
I feel full.
You know what I mean?
Like.
I feel complete.
I feel like I'm good now.
You know what I'm saying, but ifthey don't eat.
I don't feel good.
I feel like, I feel off.
Like I can't enjoy my day Butlike the saying says babies,
ain't going to go hungry.
If they hug me, they going tolet you know.
(05:37):
And you know, they, I think theypretty good.
Well, yeah, growing up.
I remember that toys have rosecommercial.
Out of water to grow up.
Um, that I could play with,like, And I remember like,
feeling that like, yeah, youknow what I'm saying?
Jeffrey yell at me.
Like it was, um, You know what Imean?
(05:59):
Like I probably took that shittoo personally.
And I'm not like.
Childish where everything isjust.
I don't know.
I feel like sometimes I don't befacing that.
I knew I can't do things.
The way I did before.
You know what I mean?
Like I'm older, my life'sdifferent.
It's not where I want it to be.
So I got to do different things.
And this looks to be so aware.
(06:20):
cause it's like.
So be aware and to not do islike it's its own.
You.
It's not any of the noble and atthe end of the day, it's never
on anybody else, but you, but.
When, you know, but.
You know, you question.
Washington's a certain way.
But you haven't.
You haven't did it in adifferent way.
Like you dead eyes wake up.
Mad.
Do the same shit every day.
(06:42):
And then things.
This is going to be different.
I feel like a lot of us do that.
I, you know, of course I'malways speaking about me, but a
lot of us really do that.
Like, I work with people wherelike, They hate a certain
coworker.
They hate that they.
And they were just.
Keep keep going, man.
You're the cycle.
The cycle was real, man.
Like, I feel like I'm caught upin a cycle right now where like,
(07:02):
I'm doing everything lastminute.
I'm not.
Being consistent.
Against the, I have my child,you know what I'm saying?
I have my ways where I need togrow up and.
Act like a real adult.
Like.
I'm someone's father.
Um, two kids, violet, I will behere.
Like playing around.
Yeah.
Like even.
This podcast.
I feel like if I would have.
You know, did.
(07:23):
The other thing that I've setout to do.
The party would have been payingme enough to.
I want to say goodbye job.
But I didn't take advantage.
Uh, pretty much took it forgranted of the time.
I had to be able to do that.
You know, and.
a way to grow is to.
Experience things right.
Going into the unknown.
Helps you.
Mature a little bit.
(07:43):
It.
Ads like, As like another badgeto, to your life.
Shit, you know what I'm saying?
Like you get another badge thatI, you did that.
You didn't die.
You didn't get hurt.
And you can live to talk aboutit.
Right.
And you think about a man like.
We love being comfortable, thechallenges is what really makes
you.
Like formidable, you know whatI'm saying?
This is a big majority of peoplethat just quit.
(08:05):
After the first try or peopledon't like failure and people
don't like, know, so.
If you able to take challenges.
And, Overcome them shits.
Like.
That's like adding weight everyweek to the gym, like just.
It's a little bit, little bithere, little bit there next to
you, you know?
Flight you acting right?
You act like how you supposedto.
But without those challenges.
You you like, how can you reallyimprove?
(08:26):
Like you got to really anxious.
I know it's hard to like, Reallygo do.
Go.
Really challenged yourself, butyou can start small.
If you play two K right.
And you play on a rookie, likeplay on veteran.
You know what I'm saying?
Play against some realcompetition.
You know what I'm saying?
If you, if you take the call towork.
Get on the bus.
see how long it takes you to getthere on the bus.
Yeah, I would say like, It just,it's just crazy, like right.
(08:49):
To evolve, to develop, to be.
I feel like this.
Ultimate version of yourself is.
Purposely putting yourself.
In a challenging.
Fearful.
Life changing situation.
And that doesn't have to be likesomething crazy.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, Given the speech.
Or.
You know, like I went skydiving.
I don't recommend that foreverybody.
(09:09):
I read that shit in a book andit said he got through all his
fears after he.
When Scott Dobbins.
That was that bullshit, man.
Oh man.
And, and the thing is right,like, Tom waits for no man,
you're going to grow older andyou don't want to be.
Like a man child, you know whatI'm saying?
You don't want to be like agrown ass man.
That's aware and knows what timeit is.
(09:31):
Like.
If you have like a mentaldisability, you know what I'm
saying?
I, you know, All respect.
I wish you the best.
But if you are aware and ableman or able woman.
In.
You acting like you, you gottime.
We don't really got time.
We dead ass on borrowed time.
Like.
It's crazy how much we take itfor granted, There's the date
(09:52):
that you eat?
Like you're not on this worldafter that date.
And we will have that day.
You.
The date that nobody thinksabout.
We will have a date.
Last day with the, you know, thepeople we love.
And.
You want to make sure that.
You gave it your all.
You do what you have to do,especially if you got young
ones.
And even if you don't got youngones, man, to generate, you
(10:12):
know, the future.
The children are the future.
You know what I'm saying?
Accomplishing things.
Saying goals.
And just fucking shit up, like.
Plate work hard, play hard, man.
That's another thing you got toenjoy your life too.
Yeah.
Um, I'm not saying grow up andnot have fun.
I'm just saying balance it out.
If.
You're not where you want to be.
Cause You doing a little bit toomuch at a pleasure thing.
(10:34):
It's time to come on all thetime to come on over baby to
the.
To the work thing and balance itout.
Yeah, it is this podcast.
I forgot his name, but he's a,he's a, some Brawley dude.
Hey there.
Th this is the schedule.
He works from six to 12.
Three days a week.
Now.
You imagine you work 40 hours onpeople work 80.
(10:54):
Some people be wiling outworking the one 20.
Maybe that's too hot.
But.
Imagine.
We're hugging yourself.
That's all position with you.
Get the work only four hours aday.
All your bills are paid.
And you're taking care of you.
Your children and you, but tohelp out with your family when
they need you.
You know, same with you.
Can't be like that.
If you acted like a kid.
(11:15):
You looking for somebody to saveyou?
Or you play a victim or you wentfor a situation to just come
knock on your door.
It's never going to happen.
That's the thing.
So some of us think like, likeincluding myself, That it was
just automatic progression oflife, of how things would be.
But no, you don't become thosethings until you, until you do
(11:36):
those things.
I didn't become a podcast untilI started doing a whole bunch of
episodes.
You don't become in shape by notworking out.
On a regular basis.
you all, what you eat and youare what you do.
So if you have a.
If you feel like me, you haven'tproblems with like, feeling
like.
You know, you're not taking themature route, the grown route.
(11:57):
You still moving like you didwhen you was 22 and now you're
40.
Like.
Some things.
Got to change.
And what are we waiting for tochange it?
Like, honestly, what are wewaiting for?
What, what are you waiting for?
Like, what are you waiting for?
Whereas to get an Amazon packagesaying, yo it's time,
motherfucker.
Like nice.
Bazell he good?
He already did.
He, this shit like he'schilling.
(12:18):
Bazell good.
Bazell um, shit.
He run, he run into internetgame, like surprise.
Anybody else makes money the wayhe makes money with Amazon.
Like, it's crazy, but.
Big world.
That loves consumerism.
So.
When I be bought of it.
Capitalize on it.
But that's another episode.
Uh, probably give somebody thatwar.
(12:39):
Everyone is an online business.
That's making money from thecrib, like.
And you knew it was double byworking online.
You get to, well, if you reallymaking money from online or
you're doing this research in.
And putting it.
In traffic in positions where itcan make you bread.
Uh, you, ain't got to talk tonobody.
You don't gotta deal with noattitude.
You just got to like lead them.
(13:01):
Electronically.
You know what I'm saying?
You got to lead them.
Like.
Where like they click onsomething and then they go to
your store and they buy it andthey know when they buy it, they
get it.
And then they get something.
And.
Having a whole bunch of peopledo that.
Imagine like, and, and I feellike I'm saying that because I'm
in customer service and I got totalk to certain people.
(13:23):
And I'm like, you know what?
It would be nice if I didn'thave to talk to those people.
You know, and not because.
You know what I mean?
I don't want a job, but just.
Make the money.
On the other side of humaninteraction.
Which is.
You know, working off with.
That's appealing to them.
Well, this is what it's allabout.
Honestly, that's what this wholepodcasting fucking music.
(13:44):
Uh, You find a way to people tocome look for you.
So it's a want to listen to whatyou got to say.
And.
Either there.
Waiting for you to drop some newshit or they listening to your
old shit.
That's like, there's a guy thattalks to me on my job about, um,
There's this podcast, the townDillon.
And I'm like, yo, I wishsomebody was speaking about more
podcasts the way he keepstalking to me about Tom Dylan.
(14:06):
He always got some shit.
About Tom Dylan.
And it's some funny ass shitthough.
I ain't gonna fly.
I have checked it out.
It is a good shout out.
And heal.
The town guys.
Now I just said it to.
And he don't even record avideo.
He just straight audio and I'mlike, damn, I used to love just
recording audio.
(14:26):
But at the same time, you wantto see the person that's
talking.
You know what I mean?
Like.
Kind of thought you build thatconnection.
You know what I mean?
I used to like, look in therecord in the camera.
Like I'm looking at you.
Like you, I'm talking to you,motherfucker.
I usually look away.
I feel like all podcasts, dothat shit.
But.
Yeah, man, like.
I just guess I just wanted toput this episode out.
(14:48):
Because I'm dealing with it.
And I know I'm not the only onethat dealing with it and it
doesn't have to be.
In all areas you live, it couldbe like one particular area
where you still.
Doing shit childish.
You know, say you being childishwith it.
Like when you, you know what I'msaying?
You can add a little bit of ageand a little bit experience to
that.
You know what I'm saying?
The little salt, babe, that.
Yeah.
(15:08):
So.
Uh, yeah.
But yeah.
You know what the final say?
I usually don't do this for thefinal sale, but I'm going to
freestyle it right.
And I ain't trying to rhyme.
I'm just.
Just going to finish thatepisode out.
There was a song that saidbreaking up is hard to do.
But I think growing up is hard.
Because when we were kids.
That's when life was.
(15:30):
Great.
We didn't have bills.
You know, our parents werearound.
And all we had to do was go toschool.
Why Saturday cartoons and.
Entertain ourselves.
All parents could do what theygotta do.
What time.
Which is a fucking illusion.
It doesn't stop.
And.
We grow old.
(15:50):
Well, we get older.
Of course we get wiser.
Well, sometimes it's a necessarything we have to do.
To obtain.
The life that we want.
And what self-help.
If you can't get the fuckinglife that you want.
Individually takes a little bitof growing up a little bit
mature and a little bit of like,Acting like.
On the adult that's.
Trying to start a business.
(16:10):
On adult that's.
Trying to provide the best ofhis family.
On the thought that just wantsto be.
The best they can be and give itthe best every day.
I think it's worth.
Looking into.
Um, man, but this was a greatepisode.
And this is your first time.
Listen, I appreciate you.
If you will, regular degular,you know, I love ya and always
(16:31):
appreciate ya.
Um, I hope.
Got my point across in thisepisode.
I always try to.
This was actually my firstfreestyle episode when you work.
And you got twins.
And.
You having trouble with growingup?
You do shit like.
Freestyler episode, but I thinkit came out pretty good.
(16:52):
So, well, you let me know in thecomments that you don't comment
on.
So next time, peace, love Mundo.
Ah.
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