Healthy Relationships turning Toxic, Spontaneous vs. Planned Partners & Pajama Talk with Kaylee Brooke

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Speaker 1 (00:04):
you ready?
Yeah, all right, five, four,three, two, one, my, my, my,
meryl.
Welcome back to another episodeof the relationship method
podcast.
It's your boy, chris, and todayI have a very special, lovely
guest, um.
You might have heard her on,like the radios, itunes, spotify
, just running it up, uh-huh,you've probably seen her ass on

(00:27):
um, on the voice season.
What 24?
Kobe bryant rip um.
Uh, today I got kaylee and I'mnot gonna mess up her last name
shimizu.
Kaylee brooke, shimizu man,hell, yeah, yeah, you got it.
You got it.
Kaylee girl, how are you today?

Speaker 2 (00:45):
I'm really good man hell yeah how are you?

Speaker 1 (00:49):
a girl.
I'm excited, you know.
I'm saying uh, I've beenhitting you up like for a while
now we finally connected and um,before we start going um, how
did I finally get the yes?

Speaker 2 (00:59):
how did you finally?

Speaker 1 (01:00):
yeah how, finally, how I.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
I love talking stories and I look through your
page and I'm like I love thetopics he talks about.
I love how real it is.
Oh my God.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
You know, it's just on the real right.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
No, seriously, though , I'm for real guys and I was
just looking through everything.
I love what you do.
Honestly, I really to say yes.
Oh, I had to say yes.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
See, man, I'm not a weirdo.
No, a lot of people would thinkthat because you know, it's
just a random person going inthe DMs and I mean, if your
email contact info was in there,I probably would have done that
.
However, comma, look here, mom,let me tell you no, but yeah,

(01:46):
that's like like how I get a lotof my guests is just going
through the dms and maybe likein the pictures.
But if you know, I'm not, I'mcool with the no, you know I'm
cool with the maybes.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
But, man, I do appreciate you coming on today
yeah, let me be real, I repliedlate and that's because I don't.
I don't see my requestssometimes and I'm like I'm fake
as heck.
I'm fake as heck because he dmme and a week after I seen it oh
yeah and I was like no, Ineeded, I want to do it, I want
to do it hey, I appreciate you,and um, today's the first uh we

(02:13):
are, our theme is pajamas hellyeah, hell yeah oh yeah, so
where'd you get your um shindigfrom?
girl, you know, you know Ineeded to oh, the girl I got
this from Target.
Ain't nothing wrong with Target.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
Tarjay, tarjay.
Ain't nothing wrong with Tarjay, but let me be real guys, I
don't be wearing this to sleep.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
I wear a big shirt and a tittle bun.
Let's be real.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Because it's so hot, yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
It is hot, but it's just more comfortable, guys.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
Okay, sometimes I wear stuff like this, but if I'm
feeling just extra comfy, bigshirt is the way to go.
So let me ask you, um, in themovies and the tv shows, when
you see a person wearing, like,let's say, a one piece that
matches and everything that'sjust, that's all fake, because
real people don't do that am Iright, yeah, you're so right
because like honestly, homeclothes, guys, come on like
basketball shorts and a bigshirt.
That's facts.

(03:05):
That's facts.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
Or a sports bra and basketball shorts.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
That is true, yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah, I don't know.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
I've seen my wife wears like they're called.
They're girls underwear, butthey're boy underwear, boy
shorts.
Yeah.
Yeah, she wears that.
I'm like, oh, you can wear thatshit outside.
I'm like, oh, but don't do it,but you can.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Don't, do it, don't do it, but in this heat girl,
I'm from Ewa and it's hot.
It is hot there, hot as heck,but I think the weather's
getting better.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Better.
Better Fall is around thecorner Is Ewa, considered west
side is it south side, west side?
Southwest side west so we havemama in the um, in the audience
and stuff.
So um it's okay, you know, hey,all gravy.
You know I'm cool withchaperones and audiences and
shit.
So we we straight.

(03:57):
So you from eva, um and uh, wetalked earlier and born and
raised born and raised.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
I'm born boined.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
She's boined here.
Who's this girl?

Speaker 2 (04:10):
Oh my gosh, you guys.
Oh my goodness, I'm a littletoo excited, but I'm born and
raised here.
I was living in Wahiawa for abit, okay, and then moved to Ewa
when I was like what, 10?
, 9?
, yeah, and I've been here eversince.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
Cool, my oldest daughter.
She went to leila hua haireally yeah, yeah oh, my mom
went to leila hua hey, okay, ummule mules, yeah, how the hell.
I'm sorry to bag on.
You know, leila, who, you knowthe mascot name, but how is the
mule like intimidating?

(04:45):
It's like, hey, we finna go seethe mules today.
What you know, raiders, is more.
Raiders is to be honest, I'mjust playing, I'm playing mom,
yeah, okay.
So, eva, um, was it hard tofind this joint?

Speaker 2 (05:00):
like here yeah, yeah yeah, you know, to be honest,
okay, I've been here, but sincethey kind of moved like a studio
, I was like, okay, there's likethree doors coming in here yeah
the first door I thought it wasyou because it was open.
The other one wasn't open, sowe went in there and there was a
whole church service going onpraise the lord.
Praise the lord, but I'm sosorry for interrupting, like if

(05:22):
you want me to sing a worshipsong, real fast, I will.
Oh.
I will, any day, any day, I will.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Are you a church-going person?

Speaker 2 (05:30):
I am Every Sunday, I try every Sunday, we try as a
family.
Or Tuesday, youth adults atInspire Church.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
Tuesday Youth adults.
Okay, so let me tell you.
Back on the mainland, I had ablack nanny.
What was a nanny?
Well, she was my next-doorneighbor.
Oh okay, okay, but you know, mydad referred her as a nanny as
a nanny, grandma Johnson, rip,but she would bring me to church
.
It was like for black peopleit's an everyday thing.

(06:00):
Yeah, like Monday is day thing.
Yeah, like monday is like choir, tuesday is like some type of
school, wednesday it's uh, Imean I don't know what the heck.
But then sunday is like thelord's day.
But I, I'm telling you, likeblack people, churches it's,
it's like you have to go dressedup, right, oh my, oh, I like
seeing like the old people.

(06:21):
Just, hell, no, I sing sing,hell, no, I sing off tune I
don't know about that.

Speaker 2 (06:26):
You know what I'm saying.
He's probably lying.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
No, I'm definitely telling the truth.
It's like in the shower.
I like to you know, I like topretend I'm singing good, but
goddamn, no way, hell, nah, yeah, when did you start?
You said you started singing atseven.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
Yeah, I seven.
Yeah, I started singing atseven.
And well, you know what?
I always grew up around musicbecause my mom's side's very,
very talented.
Yeah, um little backstory.
Uh, my mom then put me inballet first.
Okay, oh, that was not it thatwas.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
How was that not it like?
How did you know like an earlyage?
You know um my thing I.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
I have a video.
I don't know if we can likeinsert it real quick yeah, hey I
would I would, and we was shelike what is this?
It was like this you know yourleft.
It was like the scene in umwhat is it?
Alfalfa, where they're likedoing the ballet and they're not
on the right timing and goingthe opposite way.
Yeah, it was really funny, butI just knew it wasn't for me,

(07:20):
but I knew I had fun I was okaythen I did hip-hop and jazz.
I had fun, but my mom's like, oh, she's always singing around
the house this and that, so theyput me into vocal lessons oh,
did you try anything else likeboxing or sledding or some type
of?
After I'm still like doingboxing and stuff like that okay
yeah, but they put me into umsinging lessons and then I had

(07:41):
my first performance at sevenand from there I fell in love
with it there was no going back.
I knew this is what I wanted tocontinue to do hey, that's
what's up in school.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
Did it continue during high school?
Alright, we're skipping throughhigh school now.
So you were singing high school.
Was there like guys on you, orwas there like females on you as
well?
And then was there guys on you,or was there like females on
you as well?
And then was there hate at youknow?

Speaker 2 (08:08):
yeah, honestly like both sides and shit like singing
in high school or just likejust singing in high school.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
Yeah, because they like growing up.
I bet you.
They probably think of you aslike oh, there's kaylee the
singer.
Yeah, everyone knew me, knowsme as the singer?

Speaker 2 (08:21):
yeah, but you know there was.
There was definitely guystrying to cover me.
It's funny, but you know, Idon't know, I just got to be
nice.
There was haters, but if youdon't have haters, you're not
doing something right?
Oh my gosh, that's facts.
No, it's facts Really.
That's why like keep doing what?

(08:44):
Uh-huh, Because it's true, yeah.
Also for me, though, like I hadfriends, I had friends in high
school.
I still love some of them.
That's so wrong, so let's cutthat out, guys.
Okay.

Speaker 1 (08:58):
Psych Meh, meh, meh meh.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Wait.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
Wait, where was I going with this?
You said haters lighting yourass.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
Yep, yeah and honestly.
I stayed close to the people inhigh school that I felt like
was for me and will be good formy well-being as well, because
who you surround yourself withis who you will become.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Are you still cool with these people?

Speaker 2 (09:22):
I am cool, but we're acquaintances, kind of like
distance now.
Um, I moved to a new school mysenior year, okay, and the
friends that I made there Istill am friends with now huh
interesting, super, super coolpeople, very supportive, even
the people in campbell that Iwas friends with very supportive
as well.
Still so, yeah, honestly, but Ifeel like if you look at your

(09:45):
friends, you see your futurelike oh, I love.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
There's a quote that I I live by it's you can't soar
like an eagle if you're groundedby turkeys that's so true, so
surround yourself with peoplethat, like want to grind that
love the same thing.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
You love you know what I mean, yeah, and that'll
just you know, help you dobetter in life as well, on that
side of your life cool.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
I'm glad that you you mentioned that topic because a
question from one of these folkssorry go ahead and move it,
move it somewhere right here,okay, it's all good.
It's all good.
It's all good we clean thisplace.
You know what I'm saying?
It ain't dirty, you know.
Let me chill, let me chill, letme relax.
Yeah, relax on me though youknow I'm gonna have to draw a
mustache on your ass, you know,but no, this correlates with a

(10:30):
question from a high school kidum, how do you determine the
people you choose to be in yourcircle?

Speaker 2 (10:37):
like I said, you know you have to feel good around
them.
You can't be like going home,be like thinking like, oh, maybe
I shouldn't have said that orthis, and that you really have
to confide in them, trust themand, like I said, if they have
the same interest as you, it'sso easy to connect yeah I think
that's how I make friends too,like when we have the same
interest or like kind of thesame personality, ish, we

(10:57):
connect so fast.
For example, I made a.
I made a lot of friends in upin the voice, um, but I'm still
friends with him to this day.
And the reason why we connectedbecause obviously we both sing
but our personalities just likenot clash, but like just went
well together.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (11:14):
So whenever we hung out, I was like oh, I knew you
for how long, and it feels likeI knew you for years, yeah.
Oh, interesting.
Yeah, really, really.
That's how I figure out someonereally is my friend Also.
Them just like being there foryou and having your back, no
matter what, even if you guysjust met each other too.
It just shows, like the lovethat you have for people, even

(11:35):
if you're not super close tothem.
Because, as for me, where am Igoing with this?

Speaker 1 (11:39):
I'm like blabbering, it's okay, we like to go on
tangents on here.
Yeah, you're right.
It's all good, we'll talk about, like, freaking horseshoes
later or something I don't know.

Speaker 2 (11:50):
No, but like okay, let me wrap this up.
Really, really just people.
Okay, how, what was I saying?
Okay, you have to cut this out.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
No, no, it's all good .
Okay, it's all good, okay.
We like the real realness ofthis exactly.
You're talking about um beingfriends with people for a short
amount of time, but it felt likeit was a long amount of time
right and just being able toconnect with them and just I
don't know you guys.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
You just get the feeling when you know that they
can be your friend uh-huh and ifyou guys don't click, then you
guys don't click.
That doesn't have to be yourfriend.
You can, can be cool with them,just be acquaintances, but you
know.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
Okay.
So when I went back home.
I went back home like say liketwo months ago, right, I saw my
folks from the block.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
We're still cool, but I know it's like me being in
the military.
A lot of things changed aboutme.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
Yeah, but I know that , as for them, they're still the
same chilling at the blog youknow chilling at the corner
store you gotta grow people,yeah, yeah, you love them, but
you can love them from adistance.

Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah, yeah exactly, yeah, so like when your your
friends from eva and then youwent, you transferred your
senior year to this new school.
Yep, what like say like theystopped calling you?
Did they stop hanging out withyou like your peeps in eva?

Speaker 2 (13:07):
like what happened to , where I feel like we all just
grew up and, when I moved away,like we just moved apart and we
just didn't contact each otheras much, but like we see each
other's posts, you know hardeststill yeah yeah, I'll sit in
that ass, like you know, on ig,maybe twitter, I don't know.
But or replying to each other'sDMs here and there, but really,
really, it's just because weweren't going to the same school

(13:29):
anymore, not seeing each other.
Yeah, getting close with otherpeople, stuff like that, which
is okay, because life moves onand you still love them, right.
So, yeah, so when I startedmaking friends in HTA what is
that HTA?
Hta is Hawaii TechnologyAcademy.
It's a charter school, a publiccharter school.

Speaker 1 (13:49):
Never heard of that before.

Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yes, it's in Waipahu.
It's in Waipahu.
Oh okay, cool, cool, cool.
It's pretty cool, yeah, but forme I don't have much friends.
I know a lot of people, but Ikeep certain people close to me.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
Yeah, yeah, yeah Right right, right, right yeah.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
So the people that I am super close to, I love you
guys so much.
Just know, I love you so somuch so so much, so, so much.
So, so, so, oh, my girl.

Speaker 1 (14:19):
In high school when you I don't know, this is going
to show my age.
Did you guys write like lettersto each other too?
Or is it just the DM?
I mean, you know, like a text?

Speaker 2 (14:31):
No, we didn't write letters.
You know what's so funny?

Speaker 1 (14:35):
My mom recently just went through her old high school
box and you had letters to yourmom and all her friends were
writing letters.
I had letters from my friends,right See, I think, right see, I
think my mom just has to hop onthis podcast too.

Speaker 2 (14:50):
I know we're all talking to mom right now.
Thanks, mom.

Speaker 1 (14:52):
Yeah, we love her we love determining, so determining
the circle, because yourfriends weren't around as much
anymore.
From eva, you made these newfriends at hta, yeah okay, cool
so you graduated, yeah Igraduated there, yep so, um,
what's what?
What's?
What does the future hold like?
Are you going to go to schoolor are you doing this uh singing
thing like full time?

Speaker 2 (15:12):
yeah, so I I would say I'm doing the singing thing
full time, like I gig.
I also vocal instruct.
So if you want a vocalinstructor, girl, girl, hit me
up, hit me up, I got you.

Speaker 1 (15:24):
I'm trying to hit her up.

Speaker 2 (15:26):
Yeah, so I vocal, instruct, I gig, and then I'm
getting ready to go to school inOregon.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
University of Oregon.
You're going to be a duck.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
No, I'm not going to be a duck.
I'm going to be going to NewHope Christian College.

Speaker 1 (15:40):
Never heard of that.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
Is that?
Like a D1 or a.
D2?
No, I think it's a privateschool, but I know they're very
into music and the creative sideand I feel so stagnant in this
season of my life that I want togrow.
I want to learn more.
As much as I think I know somuch about singing, I don't.
I don't yet.
I feel like I've been doingthis for so long.
But there's so much other partsto the industry even producing

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and all that.
There's so much other parts.
Oh, my gosh yeah you know, so Iwant to be able to, like, make
my own music and produce my ownmusic.
You know what I mean.
Yeah, and songwriting.
I want to learn music there.
There's so much more.

Speaker 1 (16:19):
So let me ask you there's so many schools on the
west side of America, why thisschool specifically?
Why not Washington or, like,say, cali, or maybe Nevada?
Yeah, why Oregon?

Speaker 2 (16:37):
Let me be so real.
Coming off of the Voice, I wasoffered a full-ride scholarship
from this school.
Oh, yes, and I performed inthis church growing up and the
pastor blessed me with the fullride scholarship.
But I was like, you know, Iwant to see what opportunities
roll out for me after coming offof the Voice and I did so much

(16:59):
last year, which I'm so thankfulI did that, but, like I said, I
want to grow more.
So this year I'm like I didthat, but, like I said, I want
to grow more.
So this year I'm like I want togo to school.
Okay, yeah, but then again theysaid they'll be flexible with
my like performance schedulesand stuff like that.
Oh, that's cool and that's whatlike really really caught me.
I'm like okay, so you're gonnasupport me on both ends, which
is great oh, so you can beliving in dorms or an apartment

(17:21):
dorms.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
Single dorm room is this one of them schools where
you have to wear a uniform,uh-uh, thank God.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
No, I can't.
I don't like uniforms.

Speaker 1 (17:30):
You can't wear uniforms.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
I just want to be myself, uh-huh yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
Ooh girl, you get to wear hoodies and scarves.

Speaker 2 (17:36):
I've never seen snow before, guys oh for real.
I've snow, so this will be myfirst time, but I'm so sad I'm
missing.
I'm gonna see, without myfamily, like I'm, like we all me
and my sisters we all havenever seen snow in our lives but
isn't there snow?
Oh my gosh, there's an islandhere oh, mauna kea, yeah, yeah,
yeah, isn't there snow at thetop?
Yeah, am I wrong?

(17:56):
Oh, my goodness don't don't,don't, don't kill me in the
comment if I'm wrong it's some,but yeah, isn't there snow out
here?
there's not here, but likeanother island.
Yeah, I think I would startyou've never visited never, okay
, I'm right, all right, okay,all right, I knew it.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
You go to oregon, be careful yeah because, um, I
drove, you know, like when itwas snowing.

Speaker 2 (18:23):
Yeah, is it bad it gets.
Bad it gets.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
You just got to be careful with the black ice.
Oh, the one that makes you slip.
Yeah, because you don't, youreally don't see it.
It looks like regular pavedroad.
Right.
But when you're stopping you'llfeel that little.

Speaker 2 (18:38):
No, do they put something on the tires?
You have to put something onthe tires, so they put chains on
.

Speaker 1 (18:47):
Dad, I'm gonna have to call my dad fly out late dad,
goddamn fly out to oregon rightnow, because I literally will
get hurt.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
If you don't know, I'm just kidding.

Speaker 1 (18:54):
So when the first time I ever rode in snow, um,
like I didn't know anythingabout it, I kind of I drifted
into like this bush, luckily mycar.
Nothing happened to my car, butI was just like, oh my god,
this is different this is when Iwas stationed in washington.

Speaker 2 (19:04):
I drifted into this bush.
Luckily nothing happened to mycar, luckily you were drifting
into a bush.

Speaker 1 (19:06):
Oh my God, this is different.
This is when I was stationed inWashington.
I learned how to put chains onmy tires.
Basically, with chains, you putit at the very front of your
tire and then you just roll onand then you connect it on the
very top.
Basically, this is the chain,the tire's right here, you roll
it on and then you connect it onthe very top.
So basically, this is the chain, the tires right here, you roll

(19:26):
it on and then you just connectit around.
So you'll be.
I think you'll be able to dothat that is pretty cool yes
girl I never heard of that Ionly heard of.

Speaker 2 (19:34):
Like sand on your, like some type of sand on your.
Like I said, I've never seensnow, so this is probably wrong,
but yeah, that's probably wronggirl um wait hold up.
You said sand Like some type ofsand, snow, snow like on your
tires.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Put sand on your tire .

Speaker 2 (19:49):
Something like a grippy thing who told you that.
I forget, but let me think so.

Speaker 1 (19:54):
I can go back and tell them why you're
embarrassing me on a podcast.
Dumbass hell Ain't no way yeah,honestly, Honestly.
I don't know who said that.
Oregon.
You have a good time.
There's no self-tax there.

Speaker 2 (20:05):
That's what I heard.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
One thing I could help you out is you don't pump
your own gas.
So when I first went throughOregon, they pump your gas and
you don't have to give them atip.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
Wow, that is really cool.

Speaker 1 (20:18):
Yeah, so you can just stay in your car.
Someone will come up to yourcar Relax or 89 and then they'll
.
They'll pump your gas for you Ilike that, but the scary thing
is is that um you know howpeople have like those card
machines.

Speaker 2 (20:32):
Now they can get your card info that's scary, that's
the scary thing, yeah scary,honestly, but I'm like glad that
they have that too, because I'dbe getting scared pumping my
own gas at a gas station.
There's some weirdos, someweirdos sometimes.
What time of day.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Are you going?

Speaker 2 (20:46):
it like the evening, okay one that's where you messed
up girl the evening, like youknow where.
It's like getting not latetoday, yeah learn it's like it's
not getting late, late yet, orsometimes like during the day,
of course, before work orsomething you work yeah, vocal
instruct, that's what I.
Oh, that's your, that's yourgig.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
Okay, I thought you had, like I don't know a job
yeah, like a nine five.

Speaker 2 (21:09):
I got a window cubicle type shit yeah I feel
like vocal instructing is kindof like that.
But ish, I work two times aweek there.
I have like almost 20 studentsreally yeah, and they all have
private lessons each, each ofthem 30 minutes or an hour.
My older student she's 68, andshe's so, oh my gosh, I love her

(21:31):
, I love her.
She brings in her dog and I'vebeen teaching her for like two
months and she's improving somuch.

Speaker 1 (21:37):
All of my students.
They improve so much.
Are they all locals, or do youhave a white and an African?

Speaker 2 (21:42):
or Hispanic, oh, like that, lives somewhere else, no,
no, I mean like your studentsright now.

Speaker 1 (21:47):
Are they all local people?
Or do you have like a whiteperson, a black person, yeah, or
like who you're teaching rightnow?

Speaker 2 (21:54):
oh, yeah, they're all different.
They're all different umethnicities, definitely um
filipino, cambodian, japanese sothe 68 year old she's japanese,
she's talking to me in japanese.
She's like, yeah, I'm like wow,okay, and her dog is so good
really yeah, her dog is so good,but it's so funny.
One time he farted she was likeI'm sorry he farted girl.

Speaker 1 (22:17):
Let me tell you so teaching right, because I used
to teach um hip-hop dance backin californ.

Speaker 2 (22:21):
Oh, nice, nice nice.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
Where was I going with this?
Oh, have you like lost almost.
Don't say any names, though,but have you almost lost your
shit with, like any of yourstudents or whatnot, for I guess
, not doing their homework, orjust be like hey, you're fucking
up today.

Speaker 2 (22:41):
Yeah, right, right right, I get you, I get you.
You know what.
There's sometimes where I getlike, not impatient, but like I
know you can do it.
So please just try to do it,because if you don't try, you
don't know if you can.
You know what I mean and whenthey're like I'm like you can do
it, try, try it's, and evenlike, if they're not doing their
homework or certain things, Ifeel like it really isn't on me,

(23:05):
like if they want to put in thework, they will put in the work
and it will show in what theypresent to me when we practice.
You know what I mean, so Idon't really get impatient.
I think that's one thing aboutbeing a teacher is just being
very nurturing and patient andsafe, safe space for them to
just be able to learn, you know.

(23:26):
But, like you know, it's normalto feel like, oh, you got it,
though, just try, just try, yougot it.
It can get frustrating on myend because I'm like I believe
in you, so just go, go for itgirl, when you go to school, to
oregon, are you what's?

Speaker 1 (23:34):
what's your major?
Is it?
Music um business, business,music and business did teacher
ever cross your path, or likecross your mind, where I could
be a teacher in music?

Speaker 2 (23:45):
you know it, it has, it has crossed my mind.
Not gonna lie like maybe likeopening up my own business and
music later down the line yeahor um, that's the only thing
that crossed my mind, but really, really for me, I want to focus
on my journey with music, beingan artist, making my own music,
um, also like the really reallybehind the scenes type of thing

(24:09):
like stage lighting,coordinating all of that, how to
be more organized, justeverything that has to do with
the music industry, um, more so,just like, yeah, all of that,
but I do think of teaching aswell, maybe opening my mind, oh,
girl.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Go ahead, go ahead, girl.
Okay, so we're going to getinto some more of these
questions, right?
First one Well, the second oneis can a healthy relationship
from the beginning become toxic?

Speaker 2 (24:38):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (24:40):
Like it was all fine and dandy in the beginning.
You were communicating andstuff.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
Honestly, if I'm being so real, yes, I'm so
serious it can get toxic becausein the beginning you guys know
each other, but don't know eachother at the same time, like you
haven't seen each other's badside yet.
You know, in the beginning it'sa honeymoon phase, it's a
honeymoon phase.
All sweet and cute, you guysdefinitely do get along.
In the middle you start likegetting more comfortable and

(25:07):
you're like, oh, you know,comfortable and more in love,
lovey dovey.
I feel like Because you're morecomfortable, and this and that.
Yeah.
But sometimes people change.
You know what I mean and werealize things don't work out,
especially if there's a really,really bad argument and you're
finally seeing their true colors.
It's like, wow, if this is whoyou really are.
When you're mad at me and youdon't know how to talk to me, I

(25:27):
don't want it.
Yeah, I don't want it.
I don't want it.
If you can't respect me inthese times of heated arguments,
no, and if it's a reoccurringthing, then that's toxic, right?
Yeah, so I believe that good inthe beginning and toxic at the
end can happen, because I feellike most relationships end that
way.
Right, if it's like such a,it's good in the beginning.

Speaker 1 (25:49):
yeah, yeah, and then I can see that.

Speaker 2 (25:50):
I can see that yeah, and then like, for example,
maybe someone cheats or just is,they're not getting along too
much arguments.
I feel like that's.

Speaker 1 (26:03):
I feel like, yeah, beginning good, toxic at the end
, I think it's a, it's when theother, because if they're not
cheating or anything, I justthink, yeah, it just got so used
to that other person beingaround that to where it's uh, it
just becomes a consistent thingjust like, yeah, like bored,
you get bored yes, yes right youknow that's a question I asked

(26:24):
my parents.

Speaker 2 (26:25):
I'm like do you guys ever get bored of each other
because they got together inmiddle school?
Okay, yeah, they got togetherin middle school.
Um, you know, everyrelationship has their ups and
downs, but you work through it.
Um, and I'm like do you guysever get tired of each other?
Mom's like I mean I mean no, no, I don't, I still get

(26:47):
butterflies from your dadsometimes.
Sometimes I know he gets on hernerves sometimes, but it's
normal.
Um, and then I remember hertelling me like not too long ago
, a couple years ago, she justgot like comfortable being weird
around him.
So I feel like that's anotherthing.
But when you really lovesomebody, you don't ever get

(27:07):
bored of them.
And if you get bored of themand you're like tired of them
and you just don't see a future,then that's, I don't know, not
the right person, I guess.
Huh, I don't know.
I feel like people come and goif they're not the right.

Speaker 1 (27:21):
No, that makes a lot of sense it's.
It's harder when like sayeverything's like more down
established.
Now you know I'm saying likemarriage you'll probably own
like a dog together.
Or yeah, you know, I'm sayingyou got puppies together.
I think it gets harder,especially like if you have kids
and everything.
I tell a lot of people that arein relationships that you will

(27:41):
not know someone until you livewith them.
Because you don't know howdirty they are how clean how OCD
they can be, Because I'mlightweight OCD when it comes to
things.

Speaker 2 (27:51):
You are.

Speaker 1 (27:52):
Oh my gosh, yes, oh my goodness I have to wash the
dishes right then and there.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
Oh that's good, I can't.
Oh your yes.
Oh my goodness, I have to washthe dishes right then and there,
oh, that's good.

Speaker 1 (27:58):
I can't, I can't.
Oh, your wife must love you.
Oh my, no she's.
She gets annoyed, oh superannoyed.
She's like why are you washingthe dishes?
Well shit, you ain't doing it,so I gotta do it.
My little remarks will get herpissed, but yeah she knows me
well enough to where it's like,okay, he's gonna say something
but yeah it's that or um laundry.
I gotta do everything like thatday I can't let it wait.

Speaker 2 (28:18):
Right, right, right.
I hate it because it stacks up.
It stacks up, oh hell, no, Iknow that good and well.
It stacks up and you end updoing it in a big bulk.
I'm like, oh my goodness, evenafter a busy week I'm like mm-mm
, but that is so true Livingtogether.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
You don't really know each other really is.
Yeah, you know, you know livingtogether.
So I've never lived withsomebody.
Yet let me ask you this doesyour parents or um does?

Speaker 2 (28:44):
anyone else do your laundry.
No, I do it all by myselfyourself right, good for you.

Speaker 1 (28:47):
Um, when you have a man or when you have a
significant other, will you letthem do your laundry or are you
gonna still?

Speaker 2 (28:53):
you know I'm an independent girly, I am gonna do
my own laundry.
But if he's, let me do it foryou.
I'm like, yeah, do it, do it.
I don't want to ask.
I want the guy to think forthemselves Like maybe I should
do my girl's laundry and helpher with things around the house
and this, and that it's thelittle things that count.
That's interesting, becausethat's interesting because it is

(29:15):
Did it stop recording?
Sorry, oh no, it's probablythat one.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
It's a Sony.
It'll turn off in 30 minutes,Okay okay, this one could record
like a long time.
Okay, but um, oh, no, you'regood.
You're good, tom.
What was I talking about?
Oh, laundry.
So as long as I've been with mywife, it's like dude, that's my

(29:39):
shit, like right I still I knowmy funk.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
Yeah, I'm saying, and I don't want you to like to
ever whiff my funk, right?

Speaker 1 (29:42):
it's bad.
It's bad, so it's like, yeah,but I do ask her if I, you know,
if I want her, she wants me todo hers.
Yeah, and it's like there's onetime I did, but then, I folded
it, not her like specificationsand shit, you know.
So she was like I ain't doingit no more.
She's like oh my God, All right.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
Girl clothes is weird to fold too, if it's like a
spaghetti strap or halter.
If it's not folded the rightway, I'm like redo, redo.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
Oh my gosh.
Halter tops right.
I mean spaghetti straps.
Is that supposed to be hung oris it supposed to be in the
drawer?

Speaker 2 (30:14):
or does it matter?
It doesn't matter.
To be honest, I like to foldand just put in the drawer how
do you fold it?
Do you put the straps in andthen you fold it and I fold it
like in a little square, and theway I put it, the things in my
um, my drawer is like upwards,so like I can see it, can you
imagine that?

Speaker 1 (30:32):
no, no, I can see.

Speaker 2 (30:33):
I can see it's like upwards and I can like look
through like paper like agoddamn letter file, right, oh
my, so you're one of them yeah,I have too much clothes, that's
why really yeah, why?
Why do you?

Speaker 1 (30:45):
have so many.
Why do?
Why do women have so manyclothes?
And for guys it's like oh,we're cool, we're in the same
tea why?

Speaker 2 (30:53):
because I feel like girls just have so much options.
Like when I see guys sectionsI'm like it's kind of boring.
It's kind of like girls justhave so much options.
Like when I see guy's sectionsI'm like it's kind of boring.
It's kind of boring, but wehave so much different type of
things oh, yeah, true you guysdon't have halter tops or need
to wear bras or have cute littlesports bras.
I feel like it's just part ofbeing a girl like we got, man we
got.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
We got boxer briefs, your briefs, what the ethical
kind?

Speaker 2 (31:24):
now we have, uh, I don't know we, we have shirts
that we cut, you know thesleeves off, I mean yeah, I
guess we are.
Yeah, we simple, we simple, no,you guys are very simple
creatures, like there's nothingthat you guys have that is like
insane, like oh, what the hellis this?

Speaker 1 (31:35):
oh, yeah, yeah, woman , yeah, they, yeah, y'all got
the spaghetti straps, but thenyou'll be crossing like
crisscross, crisscross in theback, and then you have like man
there's so much.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
How do you?
How do you?

Speaker 1 (31:46):
guys decipher which like top to choose with what
pants is it one of those?
Are you guys random?
Oh, it just match.
So jeans match with anything,right.
But why does it take so long,for you know?

Speaker 2 (32:00):
oh, this top will look good with these jeans, but
the jeans girls are indecisive,like if we have something that
we want worth two outfits, weask okay, for example my mom,
she asked my dad, which oneshould I wear and then, and then
she's like my dad's like, oh,this one, and then she asked
someone else, right?
No, and then she picks theopposite.

Speaker 1 (32:18):
my dad's like oh, this one, and then she picks the
opposite one.
I'm like why ask?
Yeah, why ask, why do women dothat?

Speaker 2 (32:22):
It's like oh my God, I even do that too.
I do that.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Let's play this game real quick.
So I'm going to say somethingand then you tell me what it
sounds like all right.
All right.
So, babe, you should changeyour shirt.
What is that telling you as afemale?

Speaker 2 (32:42):
it's ugly, or or you think it's too revealing okay or
yeah, either it's ugly or it'stoo revealing could you ever
flip it to where it's like?

Speaker 1 (32:56):
also, we're trying to say I look fat in the shit, you
don't love me, no more.
Are you trying to say I looklike a cow?
You know it's like.
Would you ever?

Speaker 2 (33:04):
I would be like, do you think I'm cute?
Like why are you telling me tochange?

Speaker 1 (33:07):
so I bet you she was wearing this.

Speaker 2 (33:08):
It would be cuter on her right I'm like that it's bad
, but like I feel like I feellike guys dig it because they're
like, oh, she cares, she caresyou know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (33:17):
oh, my god, because my wife would ask me like oh, um
, oh, I'm hot.
It's like oh, are you hungry?
And I was like oh no, I'm okay.
But she really wants to hearyes, I'm, I'm hungry, because I
know you haven't ate, becauseyou've been waiting for me all
day, so we're gonna go get yousomething to eat, because,
before you pass out, guys didyou hear that?

Speaker 2 (33:35):
is that real guys?
Did you guys did you hear that?

Speaker 1 (33:38):
yes, did you hear that?
I hate that so much take notesguys take notes.
I hate that so much.
It's like oh man, are youhungry?
No, I'm not, but I know you areyeah, I'm no, it's, it's real,
it's real.

Speaker 2 (33:52):
But sometimes I'm like I'm hungry, I want to go
eat but I don.
But I don't like eating if he'snot going to eat with me.

Speaker 1 (33:59):
Why is that?
Because I could eat perfectlyalone.
I could do a lot of things.

Speaker 2 (34:03):
Because I like to do things together.
If you're not eating and you'rejust watching me, that's
awkward.

Speaker 1 (34:08):
What if he had some fries?
Or maybe he gave you the steakhe had the salad.
Is that okay?
That's fine, that's fine me, aslong as we're both doing the
same thing, right, I think?
That's that's me, but ohinteresting yeah, I know so are
you the are you?
Are you the type of woman thatcould like say if you wanted to

(34:30):
watch a movie by yourself, youcan go, otherwise you might need
someone with you no, I like todo things by myself.

Speaker 2 (34:38):
I'm very like.
I like to be alone sometimes.
Yeah, you know, I can even eatout by myself, if I wanted to do
the same thing too, rightbecause, like, who cares?
Who cares if you're by yourself?
You know what I mean, girl it'speaceful, like you got.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
You got the music, you got the itunes, you got the
youtube pop in and you're justyeah, you're eating.

Speaker 2 (34:53):
No one in your ear, even like when I travel by
myself.
I like to travel by myself.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
Really.

Speaker 2 (34:58):
Because I don't have to worry like guys get your bag
on this, Hurry, hurry.
It's more so like, oh, I justhave to worry about myself, my
bag, my shoes, I'm good.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
Oops, is that why, mommy, you're like hey, mom, mom
be doing, mom things, man mombe doing.

Speaker 2 (35:16):
She got to make sure everything is is set yeah,
exactly no, exactly mama but,like I said, like I don't need a
man to be with me witheverything I do, like I like to
be alone, but if I want him withme, then I want him with me,
you know, and you better want tobe with me too now I know right
is it is it.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
Are you communicating that to him, or should he
already know?

Speaker 2 (35:39):
Like should he already know that he should be
with me?

Speaker 1 (35:41):
Yeah, you know he could be like, let's say, I
don't know, he could be just outwith the boys.
Yeah, I'm going to ask yousomething about the boys too.

Speaker 2 (35:48):
Yeah, let's talk about the boys.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
He could be out with the boys just chilling and would
you be like, oh babe, can youjust be with me, or would he be?
Is he supposed to?

Speaker 2 (36:01):
he's like, hey guys, I'm gonna go chill with my my
woman like if I were to ask ortell him, like I'm gonna go to
um get something at the store,kind of thing, or like what do
you mean?

Speaker 1 (36:10):
like yeah, yeah, okay we'll go back to that game,
okay, so if, um, I'm asking you,hey, I'm going to the store, do
you want to come with me?

Speaker 2 (36:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (36:19):
What are you hearing?

Speaker 2 (36:21):
If he's asking me that I'm going to the store and
I want you to come with me, Likewhat am I hearing?
Like meaning, like should I go,kind of thing.
You know, it's like he wants toinclude me and it's just
grocery shopping.
Honestly, I don't mind that.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
I would be like, yeah , I'd come with you, let's go,
let's go.
I like that.
I like that answer because, asmy wife she would tell me, she's
like you're a grown-ass man,you make your own decisions.
You answer that yourself areyou gonna come with me or not?
Right, I could get kidnapped orwhatever right, right, that's
true.
I'm like, oh my god, it's likedo you want me to go or not?
And it's like nah, you're grownass man.

Speaker 2 (36:59):
You answer that yourself, and I'm like, yeah, do
you want me to come or not?
Yeah, right oh my god right.
Honestly, I don't mind it toomuch.
It's just, I like to be withhim.
Like I enjoy it, unless I'm notfeeling it, obviously no yeah
but yeah, yeah, as long as I'mbeing included, then I'm happy
are you taking her single?

Speaker 1 (37:20):
um pass cool.
She's um.
She's eating b-max and um.
I like to keep it on.

Speaker 2 (37:26):
I like to keep it on, we'll cut it out, guys, we'll
cut this out, but I like to likekeep it on like the down low,
because people are hella nosy ohyeah, I'm gonna be talking in
like that's cool.

Speaker 1 (37:35):
I have a man, which I do, but I have jesus I have
jesus, I've got.

Speaker 2 (37:40):
Yes, I do have.
That's all I need, man.

Speaker 1 (37:42):
That's my mind, that's my father so, okay, going
back, when your significantother is saying that he's with
his friends, what are you think,as a woman?
Truthfully what you thinking,because I could tell you right
now the answer on what us guysare doing with the boys.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
Okay, so if he was going out with the boys?

Speaker 1 (38:05):
and he's not like he's being, he's not even being
secretive, he's just saying I'mwith the boys.

Speaker 2 (38:09):
Yeah, but like where would he be?

Speaker 1 (38:11):
Where would he be In a?

Speaker 2 (38:12):
setting.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
With the boys.

Speaker 2 (38:14):
With the boys, with the boys, with the boys, with no
setting, just with the boys.

Speaker 1 (38:22):
You know what it depends if the boys are taken or
single.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
It's.
It plays a big role.
It's a mix, it's okay, it's amix, it's a mix yeah, um, you
better be doing right by me,even when you're out, update me,
like I want him to update me.
You know?
Like, especially if it'ssearching places, I'm not okay
with certain places, becausesome places, like, for example,
the bar, if you're taking, youshould not be there.

Speaker 1 (38:41):
I feel like the bar with the boys.
We'll talk about that one.
We'll talk about that one.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
Yeah, okay or like you know, but for me I'm okay if
he wants to just have time tohimself, because we all need
time to ourself with our girlsme time me time right and I want
that for him, you know, but aslong as you're doing right by me
that's all that matters, that'sall that matters.
Update me, text me and don'tjust like leave me on delivered
or anything delivered.

(39:07):
Just like update.
But besides that, I'm okay withit.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
I'm okay with it, like I said, as long as you're
being good, let me tell you, 80of% of the time when we're with
the boys, we are sittingsomewhere talking trash, farting
, cussing, eating.
Not even looking at the femaleis like, not even in our
hindsight.

Speaker 2 (39:31):
That's a thought us girls have like.
Oh you're around, girls, huh,no, we're not.

Speaker 1 (39:35):
We are just sitting down around a couch watching
sports, fartinging, eating chipsand not giving a damn you know,
waiting for that phone to gooff and be like damn, it's my
girl, I gotta go home like deadass.
It's like damn, I gotta respond.
Yeah, after you know what,after this quarter, and then
we're like fuck, I forgot torespond right I'm finna get it.

(39:57):
Oh well, stay till the gameright I think that's what it's
the little thing of the guys,okay that's what we're doing,
right, we're not cheating, we'renot hitting up other females,
we are just doing what guys do.
We're probably even scratchingour balls and going hey, you
know what I'm saying, that'swhat, that's what.
Or we're just, we're just beingdumb and just yeah coming up
with scenarios, or like askingus guys like hey, if a chicken,

(40:21):
if an unborn chicken gets fried,is it called fried chicken?
You know?

Speaker 2 (40:25):
we're I can see that we're doing that.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
I could see that we're not actually like going
out right actively going outokay, that's good.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
Yeah, that's really good.
You know, I feel like the girlpart, like thinking there's
other females around.

Speaker 1 (40:36):
It's not really like an insecurity, it's just like
please, like don't be doing allthe things that you wouldn't
want me to do so, and then, withthe bar, right, because I'm I'm
known to like go to bars andlike just get a drink after you
know, after work, or just to butwhat if it's like after after
hours, it's like why would I becaught there though right, you
know I'm saying like I wouldn'tbe.
So what's after?
After?
Like you're talking about, like11, 12?

Speaker 2 (40:56):
o'clock.
I'm talking about like 9.
You're going there at 9 pm.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
Okay.
So if a guy's going to the barat 9, one, he's probably like
seeing a friend from like backhome, because our schedule is
like 9 to 6.

Speaker 2 (41:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:11):
That could be one.
It could be like someone'sfinally leaving the job site or
there's a retirement thing,right, but that's for us
motherfuckers, that's likethat's working right and working
?
Yeah, but like, if you're andI'm not trying to diss the
construction workers yeah,because I'd be seeing them a lot
.
If they're them, they're theretrying to flex a chain.

(41:32):
Right.
Maybe like talking to like thehostess or whatever, yeah, but
if you're like just out there,then yeah, we're watching sports
eating chips, just you knowthat's drinking.

Speaker 2 (41:44):
That's really good.
That's the.
That's the nine o'clock yeahsix o'clock.

Speaker 1 (41:47):
It's like more of like man.
I just want a burger.
I don't want to talk to nobody.

Speaker 2 (41:51):
Yeah, I just want to be home and sleep after this
yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:54):
So it's like it's one , it's one of them things.
But like for for people,because like with me I'm like
and this is not bad to say butlike I'm kind of done with
females, like the whole smashand dash thing, I'm not even
into that, no more.
I'm more into like the actualconversation and like you know
what?
I'm saying, yeah, I'm all intothat, yep.
So it's like if I could have aconversation, a I'm cool,

(42:17):
whatever, I'm not, I'm not goinghome with the draws.

Speaker 2 (42:19):
Mature and intelligent, like I think that's
what matters to when you'retalking to somebody yeah
seriously, seriously because, ifthey're immature, it's like why
would I want to be talking toyou?

Speaker 1 (42:28):
what's an immature conversation for you?

Speaker 2 (42:31):
um, like for a guy approaching yeah, yes you know a
lot of guys like whenever I goto events and stuff like that,
they approach me and I don'tlike when they're like, hey, hey
, what's up?
beautiful, or like they stilluse that 1980s flow or they're
like oh, my friend, thought youwere so pretty.

(42:52):
Like why your friend talking tome?
Why is your friend talking tome?
First of all, actually I don'teven want to talk to any of you
guys like I don't want to talkto any of you guys like no, and
honestly I think for me, likewhen I'm out, I don't take these
guys like I don't take it as acompliment at all because
they're out out here looking forbitches like sorry, are they?

Speaker 1 (43:12):
really but like in that type of settings, uh-huh
like around, like like, forexample yeah, give me a setting,
for example.

Speaker 2 (43:21):
Give us a setting I'm walking past moani's out of my
out of out of the event.
I'm coming from Moani's inWaikiki.

Speaker 1 (43:30):
I'm just walking past , I'm not going in there.

Speaker 2 (43:32):
I'm just walking past trying to get to my car with my
friend, and that was like whathappened.
I'm like oh, shut your face.

Speaker 1 (43:38):
Really.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
Yeah, yeah, beautiful .
Yeah, hey, my friend Like thatI don't take serious at all
Because it's not coming from agood place and they're all
probably intoxicated or they'rethere to look for girls and
that's not my vibe.
That's not my vibe at all Likemm-mm, Like just leave me alone,
Please leave me alone.

Speaker 1 (43:59):
So for people that like say that's their only
chance of trying to talk to aperson, what's a more
respectable way in getting awoman's attention?
If you're walking to Mawani'swith your friend, to your car?
And you're like dang, she'sreally pretty.
I don't know who she is, but Igotta say something before I'm

(44:23):
never gonna see her again, but Ido wanna see her again.

Speaker 2 (44:27):
I feel like that's what guys like.
That's like a rom-com shit,that's like a rom-com thing you
know, I feel like that's whatguys like a rom-com shit.
Yeah, it's like a rom-com thing,you know.
I feel like that's what guyslike lack like knowing how to
talk to a girl.
They don't know how to talk togirls and I go home cringing at
it because I'm like what madehim want to do this or say this?
But I feel like a respectfulway to come up to a girl, even
around that type of setting, islike maybe like tap me, like hi,

(44:48):
excuse me, I really thinkyou're really pretty, or
something like that.
Or I seen you walking over thereand I honestly was a little shy
to come up Like just being realwith me.

Speaker 1 (44:58):
Sincere, sincere.

Speaker 2 (44:59):
Sincere and just being real, like I was a little
shy to come up, but can I askfor your number?
Just like so, like big chest,like hey, what's up?
Beautiful, or oh, my friendthinks you're really like, it's
just not it.
But first of all, I would notbe finding my soulmate at
Moani's.
Let's be real.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Moani's is a bar I think it's a bar.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
I'm not of age to be in that In Waikiki.
Yeah, but they were like on theoutside.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
I was on the outside too, so I'm like I would not
find my soulmate around the bar.
I don't think so what if he was?
Passing by moani's as well.
You know, you never know, younever know, you gotta, you gotta
see.
You got a point.

Speaker 2 (45:43):
He probably coming from the bookstore yeah, he
probably was, and moani's wasjust right there right, you're
right honestly, then that wouldswitch my whole perspective.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
But would he have to say it first?

Speaker 2 (45:57):
I would see it.
I was coming from the bookstoreand I saw you.

Speaker 1 (45:59):
I just had to say something.

Speaker 2 (46:02):
That's nice, because I'm like okay, you're
intelligent, you like books.
Okay, you're not at the barLove that.

Speaker 1 (46:11):
Do you think, in a certain setting, that that macho
stuff would work?
That what like what you'resaying, like oh hey, what's up,
hey girl, yeah, would that workin in, like in a separate set,
in a different setting, like say, they're in mohani's, the woman
is in mohanani's.
Would that work as well?
No, for me.

(46:34):
No, the whole sincere thing isstill a go sincere, very
respectful, because that goes along way.

Speaker 2 (46:39):
That just goes to show a person's character right
off the bat.
But no, that's all I gotta sayhave you watched Hitch before?
No, it's familiar though.

Speaker 1 (46:52):
Will Smith, eva Mendes Okay, oh, she was too
young, oh, okay.

Speaker 2 (46:58):
Maybe, I am, maybe I am.

Speaker 1 (46:59):
There was a scene where Eva Mendes, not Eva Mendes
yeah, eva Mendes, she wasgetting flocked by guys, right?
Okay, will Smith comes up toeva mendez, gives her a dollar
or gives her some type of moneyand um said oh, I want drinks at
this table or whatever.

(47:20):
So eva mendez follows willsmith and says hey, I'm not a
waitress here.
Here's your money back.
And will smith says I know howam I supposed to get you away
from those guys to talk to you?
Would that ever work on you?
You know what you know what Canthat work on a female?

Speaker 2 (47:40):
That honestly probably could work.
It probably could work honestlyand she was getting trampled by
these guys.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
Yeah, yeah.
So these guys were like tryingto get at her.

Speaker 2 (47:48):
And he was like trying to get them away,
protecting her kind of thing.

Speaker 1 (47:55):
Kind of guys were like trying to get at her just
and he shoot.
He was like trying to get themaway protecting her kind of
thing, kind of, or like maybehis, maybe he was just trying to
talk to her, to you know, justjust him.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
But the only way, to do that was to get no.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
It's because, like oh he's chasing me a little like
that's kind of cute.

Speaker 2 (48:05):
It's kind of cute, it would probably work.
It'll probably work on me,honestly yeah what do you think?

Speaker 1 (48:10):
what do you think of guys chasing the woman?
Is that still?

Speaker 2 (48:14):
I like that, like it shouldn't be the woman chasing
him because that's facts he's aman, he should be leading yeah
we're just following his leaduh-huh you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (48:24):
So I feel like a woman shouldn't be chasing a man
like that when a man stopschasing a woman, does that, is
that, like a, an indicator tothe female?
To me it's like you don't like.
Can you guys tell?

Speaker 2 (48:37):
I feel like the energy shift you can tell you
really could.
And when a guy probably stopschasing, I think that's when I'm
like, am I doing somethingright?
Like that's where communicationcomes in, because I would want
to know, like, what am I doingdifferent?
That you're not, you'restopping what you do You're used
to do, blah, blah, blah.
Sometimes I feel like women canchase to still and just.

(49:01):
It's not really.
I wouldn't say chasing.
I would say, like trying forthe relationship, that's the
right word.
But if the guy is not trying,then if why would we continue?
I understand you got toreciproc the right word but if
the guy's not trying, then whywould we continue?

Speaker 1 (49:13):
I understand.

Speaker 2 (49:14):
You got to reciprocate, reciprocate energy
towards each other.
You guys have to give eachother.
They say you have to bring50-50 to the table.
Right, isn't that the sayingthat's?

Speaker 1 (49:24):
a saying yeah.

Speaker 2 (49:25):
Yeah, but I feel like you both should bring your 100-
yeah for each other instead of50.
50 because where's the other 50on your?

Speaker 1 (49:31):
half on your behalf.

Speaker 2 (49:33):
But yeah, I feel like so young, yet so knowledgeable.

Speaker 1 (49:39):
This one next question is uh do you prefer
someone spontaneous or someonethat plans things out?

Speaker 2 (49:45):
for me, I like spontaneous hangouts and stuff,
but no, let me rephrase this Ilike planned out things.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
Planned out things as in like future or as in like
the day.
Let's go with day first, theday.
Planned out or spontaneous.

Speaker 2 (50:06):
Planned out and then it can be spontaneous, like, for
example, we go to the beach andwe're like, oh, maybe we should
go here, maybe.
Or like, let's just drive aroundand figure out where we want to
go that's spontaneous, but thebeach was planned out in the
beginning yeah, okay and justlike going with the flow after
you know, because I don't thinkeverything has to be so uptight
when you're just hanging out.

(50:27):
If you're hanging out having agood time, let's figure it out.
Oh, we saw a pottery class onthe road.
Let's go.
It wasn't in our plan, butlet's go right.
So I think I'm a mixture ofbetween how about future,
spontaneous or planned out?
Planned out planned out to makesure it's in my calendar,
because I'm forget oh it has tobe my calendar.
so yeah, and for me, I like toplan things out, but also, if a

(50:49):
guy planned things out, thatthat's like Well, that's a plus.
That's a plus, because what doyou mean?
What do you mean?
Let's go have a picnic at thebeach and then get boba and then
do devotions and then come backLike girl.
Please what?

Speaker 1 (51:01):
Oh hook line sinker huh.

Speaker 2 (51:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (51:15):
Like it's just like like to plan things out.
What separates the spontaneousguy from the guy that plans
things out?
Meaning, how do I break this?

Speaker 2 (51:21):
how does a girl feel towards both yeah well, a guy
that plans things out seems likehe has his stuff together,
knows what we want and thingswill go smoothly.
Um, spontaneous guy, I feellike you know you will have fun,
because you don't know whatcomes next and that's what women
right right it's like a mixbetween.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
So I'm like, hmm, it's a mix between so could it
be boring if you're with aplanned out guy for a long time?

Speaker 2 (51:47):
probably yeah yeah probably yeah, because sometimes
you don't want to always go offan agenda, you want to to just
like.

Speaker 1 (51:51):
Oh, that's facts, yeah.

Speaker 2 (51:53):
Yeah, have fun.
I think that's.
Yeah, it is facts, fuck that.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
Super facts.
Yeah, me and my wife, we do alot of spontaneous things.
That's good, but I do like Likewith the kids.
Yeah.
It's like, oh, we're going toChuck E.
Cheese.
Nah, we're going to fucking KidCity.

Speaker 2 (52:12):
Yeah, yeah, yeah right, or we're going to the
beach.
They're still equally fun.

Speaker 1 (52:16):
It's that.

Speaker 2 (52:17):
Right.

Speaker 1 (52:17):
And then when I'm hanging out with my wife, it's
because our schedules are alllike kooky.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
Right, it has to be planned.
Yeah, yeah, you know does.
Especially with a busy life youneed to have a plan sometimes,
but when you're trying to findthat balance, you know kids, and
then just me and her.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
I feel bad though why because?
Uh, like I'm a morning personand she's a night person, I'm a
night person so like when I comehome from work I do my dad
things take the kids a shower,dinner prep for breakfast, this
and the third and all that rightby the time she comes home, I'm
like, like girl, I'm going tosleep, but the babies want me to

(52:55):
sleep in their room, so it'slike I have to be in there, you
know.

Speaker 2 (52:58):
Right, and you just end up falling asleep and I just
end up and then just waking upin the morning, repeat and stuff
I know she wants that.

Speaker 1 (53:04):
You know that us time .
But it's like ah, you know what, I'll make it up yeah, right I
do feel bad, like I know shewants to hang out at night and
stuff and like, do a recap ofwhat happened, because there was
a point where I stoppedfollowing her.
Like her her social mediabecause, like she posts what
she's doing.
It's like yeah what is there totalk about?

Speaker 2 (53:23):
yeah, I already saw it.

Speaker 1 (53:25):
Yeah, was it a problem a little bit um, when we
were first dating, yeah, sheposted everything.
And then, when we're together,it's like I, I really can't say
nothing because I commented oneverything texted love, what
happened.
So when we're together, it'syou know everything already.

Speaker 2 (53:42):
Yeah, that is so true .
Like when you're texting like,oh, how was your day today?
Um, and you see each otherlater in the day.
It's like we're eating.
What do we talk about?
Like, oh, wow, the ceiling isreally nice.
Like what girl?

Speaker 1 (53:52):
are you a mass texter like do you um when your
significant other texts you?

Speaker 2 (53:57):
yeah, do you?

Speaker 1 (53:58):
text back quick or do you leave it like is your phone
usually down or are you on likesilent mode?

Speaker 2 (54:05):
I'm, uh, I'm on silent mode sometimes, most of
the time my mom knows thatbecause I'd be losing my phone
and we can't find it because,yeah, that's what silent mode
does for your phone oh, dnd toosometimes.
Yeah, actually, guys, but thatdepends on what I'm doing.
But, um, I reply fast dependingwhat I'm doing.

(54:25):
Like, if I'm not busy and I'mbed rotting, I'm gonna reply
back fast, but fast.
But if I'm rehearsing, if I'mworking, I'll find time to reply
to you.
Like.
I'll put you.
You know, make sure you're apriority when I have time.

Speaker 1 (54:40):
Girl, you have a 24 hour window with me.
If I see your text, because inmy head I'm just like all right,
man, I'm finna.
Text this motherfucker back.
You got 24 hours until thatshit's like man dog, I forgot.

Speaker 2 (54:53):
I'm so sorry yeah and then it becomes so
disrespectful Like, oh mygoodness, sorry, I meant to
reply yeah.

Speaker 1 (54:58):
I didn't mean to do that, man.
Yeah, why do women and men too?
Why do they ghost each otherLike what's the point of?
Oh my gosh?
That of let's say you textsomeone and there's a lengthy
wait, and then they finally belike okay, or haha, like they're
finally replying to the textlike why do we ghost each other?

(55:18):
Yeah you know, why, why, why isthat?

Speaker 2 (55:21):
in like the talking stage, I feel like not when you
get into a serious stage youcan't ghost each other.
Like when you're serious witheach other and you've hung out
so many times, there's like noway you could ghost.
But if you guys are justtalking and it's like you know
funsies, I feel like it's okaytoo, because then you figure out
like oh, they're not really,they're kind of boring or not
really like the space thing,like I'm.

Speaker 1 (55:43):
This is what I want.
I want space.
That's why I'm not texting backno, that's, that's a lie.

Speaker 2 (55:48):
That's a lie.
I feel like that's a lie.
Girls say like, oh, I wasn'ttexting back because I just
wanted space.
And if it's just a talkingstage and like you guys are
super, super new getting to knoweach other, I feel like that's
a lie.
I don't know.
I need the girls to back me upon that because, like, if you're
not feeling the guy, thenyou're not gonna text back right
away.
If you're feeling him, thenyou're gonna be replying to him,
getting to know him more,wanting to make plans.

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But you know, like I said,sometimes people aren't, some
people aren't for you, and yourealize it, and sometimes you
don't.
We don't know how to like stopthings, so we just go really so
we just go the whole the wholewomen wanting communication.

Speaker 1 (56:26):
Y'all can't serve that.

Speaker 2 (56:28):
Y'all can't really be like you know that is so true,
I can't.
This is not working out for meright now yeah, I'm very, very
good at communicating how I feel.
Like if I'm feeling some way, Iwill tell you and be blunt, um,
but that's when we're laterdown in the relationship.
In the beginning, I don't oweyou nothing like I don't know
you that well?
I don't owe you nothing yeah,yeah no explanation.
I don't know you, you don't knowme that well, bye, I'll

(56:50):
probably see you around, butit's not in a disrespectful way.
It's just like you know.
We're not for each other and weboth realize it when the
conversation is really dry, oh,fast.
You know what I mean it's like,okay, we can just be friends
High five, just be my friend.

Speaker 1 (57:08):
Next question Could you list the things that uh,
women shouldn't say to men andvice?

Speaker 3 (57:17):
versa, or men shouldn't say to women hmm well,
like what?

Speaker 1 (57:21):
as a woman, what don't you want to hear from a
guy?
Oh um no I don't like that one.
I I hate that one so much.

Speaker 2 (57:32):
No, we can't go Like, what do you mean?
No, no, I want to go though Isound bratty, but I feel like no
, when I'm asking a questionthat should be a yes which I
know should be a yes Kind oflike makes me upset.
Why should it be a?

Speaker 1 (57:45):
yes.
What makes it a yes?

Speaker 2 (57:50):
Like what do you mean ?
You want to get cookies with me?
No, I'm just kidding, I'm justlike so the guy right dinner.

Speaker 1 (57:57):
Do you want to have dinner?
No, are you offended?
Well, I can't have dinnerbecause I'm trying to lose
weight that's a good one, that'sa good one that's actually a
really good one.

Speaker 2 (58:07):
Um, for example, yeah , that's actually a good one
okay, if you're like, oh, I'mtrying to lose weight.
I'm like, oh, that's fine, wecan do something else.
Let's steer it another way withthe plans.
I still want to see you.
Oh my goodness, oh my gosh.
Um, but, like you said, you'retrying to lose weight.

Speaker 1 (58:22):
Let's go to the movies no, because I've I've
read the book and just say youhate me.

Speaker 2 (58:30):
I'm kidding.

Speaker 1 (58:31):
I don't say that we're trying to say you don't
love me, no more.
No, it's like no.
So for the movies, I've heardum uh, I've read the book and
I'm afraid that the movie's notgoing to do it justice.

Speaker 2 (58:45):
I've known someone that said okay, if you've seen
it already, or if you read,heard about it already.
I think that's like weshouldn't spend our money on
that.
You can come to my house.
No, you use paper plates and Ineed fancy china At that point I
probably would feel like Iwould feel like that's crazy,
that's crazy.
I would feel like, okay, youdon't want to hang out, we can

(59:06):
hang out another time.
Like you can just tell me like,just be straight up, you don't
want to hang out if you want torest.
I know you had a long day, kindof thing.
Then, oh well, that's when I'mlike oh well, I'll stop trying
I'm done, yeah, kind of thing,yeah, but I feel like for for
girls, things that theyshouldn't say to guys.
Um, I feel like not allowingthem to do things that make them

(59:29):
feel like.
Feel better about, like, goingto the gym Like some girls no,
you can't go, like why.
Feeling masculine.

Speaker 1 (59:36):
Yeah, like that type of stuff.
Letting us be masculine.

Speaker 2 (59:39):
I feel like women shouldn't stop them from that,
Obviously saying another girl ispretty or another girl is hot a
woman can say that to anotherwoman, Right?

Speaker 1 (59:50):
Like oh you're so pretty, or another girl's hot a
woman can say that to anotherwoman, right, like, oh you're so
pretty.
Can a guy says a?
Can a guy tell his girl damnthat that guy works out, he has
a nice ass honestly, that'd besus.

Speaker 2 (01:00:02):
I don't think that would be sus I'm a fucking
handsome yeah, like oh, he'sreally really handsome.
Like oh, he's like bulky.
I'm trying to get like thatstuff like that, that's like
fine, that's fine as long asthere it's not.
But like me saying a guy's hot,or like him saying a girl oh
wow, that girl's like reallylike something like that.
That's hella disrespectful,have you when you're significant

(01:00:23):
other, have you?

Speaker 1 (01:00:25):
have you two ever saw the same booty and you both
looked at each other and you'relike damn.

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
I feel like that's me , though.
I feel like that's me.
I'm like, oh my gosh.
Did you see that?
I'm like, did you just see herbutt?
He's like what.
I feel like he'd be acting likeyou don't see it, but like it's
me.

Speaker 1 (01:00:42):
I'm like, oh my gosh look, and I thought that was
like the coolest thing, where wesaw a female just walk in front
of us right and we're just like, and we're like damn.

Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
Right.
Sometimes it's like it catchesyou off guard and I'm like I'm
trying to get like that.

Speaker 1 (01:00:59):
Like we both looked at the same thing, yeah and it's
not even a disrespectful thing.
No, it's not.

Speaker 2 (01:01:03):
It's like oh god, yeah, it's just like it caught
you guys both off guard.
It's like what the hell?
But yeah, I feel like in thatperspective it's okay in a way.
But as long as you're not likereally checking out, like you
shouldn't be checking out otherpeople, first of all, I'm here.
I'm here.

Speaker 1 (01:01:18):
So do you prefer the guy to lie to you then no, so no
.
That's actually a good.
So I'm saying like let's sayyou both are out.
You saw, like this attractivewoman passing by.

Speaker 2 (01:01:35):
Yeah, you asked the guy hey, did you see her?

Speaker 1 (01:01:37):
and he's like nope, nope, I would not like that,
because I'm guilty of doing thatall the time I watch.

Speaker 2 (01:01:40):
I'll be watching your eyes.
I'm not, I'm like this yeah,I'm wearing sunglasses,
sunglasses, sunglasses.

Speaker 1 (01:01:47):
Yeah, I haven't.
I never see nothing.
Yeah, I didn nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:01:50):
Yeah, one thing about girls is we admire other girls
and it's not even like in achecking out way, it's just like
, wow, she's beautiful yeah, shedid like you know, it's like
just admiring really, but Idon't know, I think I don't know
.

Speaker 1 (01:02:03):
Yeah, I don't know yeah, guys will lie guys will
lie, we'll live with that I'mone of them, because I can't,
because it's gonna be, oh, soyou're checking her out.
I don't want that.
I don't want that conversation.

Speaker 2 (01:02:14):
I don't want that argument.
So I'm just like nope.

Speaker 1 (01:02:18):
Because we're pretty smart.
We'll see that female, like Idon't know, like 20 feet ahead,
and when she comes closer it'slike, oh, fuck this.
Yeah let me look away.
I'm not looking here.
It's like nope, Did you see?

Speaker 2 (01:02:29):
her Nope.

Speaker 1 (01:02:30):
You saw me looking this way, babe.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
Yeah, I never seen nothing.
Yeah, we'll definitely lie, ohmy.

Speaker 1 (01:02:35):
God, I'm just giving you like a heads up.
Right now we will be like nope,we didn't see nothing Like.
If he's one of the ones wherehe's like eye, I see shit.

Speaker 2 (01:02:51):
Nope, no, nope, nope.
Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, Icannot.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
I cannot.

Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
Is that real?

Speaker 1 (01:02:56):
That is no, that's definitely real.

Speaker 2 (01:02:59):
Yeah, honestly though .
But yeah, for me, I don't findmyself like checking out guys.
Sometimes I don't even see theperson I'm like what don't even
see I know they're around, but Ijust don't look.
You know what kind of thingyeah, but I mean your
peripherals, I know peripherals.

Speaker 1 (01:03:16):
You kind of blind girl you can see all this unless
you're like this right?
But if you're like this youcould definitely see like
someone walking yeah, oh damn,you know what smells oh are you
attracted to, smells, okay.
Or like, like, say, if a guy,like a man, walks past you, you
got, you got his whiff andyou're like, goddamn that aqua.

(01:03:39):
The geo is like awesome rightnow well, honestly there was.

Speaker 2 (01:03:45):
I don't I think more so.
It's just like oh, it smellsgood.
I don't like turn my neck andbe like damn, who's that like.
I just like, oh, that smellsgood.
What is that?
It's just like oh, it smellsgood.
I don't like turn my neck andbe like damn, who's that?
Like.
I just like oh, that smellsgood.
What is that?
It's kind of like in the air.
I don't really like like lookback to see if that guy was cute
Like.

Speaker 1 (01:03:58):
Really so you don't look back if the scent matches
the guy's face?

Speaker 2 (01:04:03):
Let me know.

Speaker 1 (01:04:06):
Let's be real now.
I'll be like, damn, that smellsgood.
You well put together, dude.

Speaker 2 (01:04:10):
Hey, you're showing time I think we don't have to
like cut this out, but I'm liketrying not to say much because
my man probably going to watchthis.

Speaker 1 (01:04:17):
She's like, hey, do I speak A conversation about a?

Speaker 2 (01:04:20):
behalf.
No, okay, but like, let me beokay, let's be serious.
There is a scent that my manwears that I love it.
Like he has like three scentsand one of them stands out to me
and I told it, told him I waslike that's like my favorite
scent that you wear do you buyit for him for christmas or
birthday?
He's just been wearing it foryears.
Oh really, I was like beforeyou met him.

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
Yeah, that's his thing.

Speaker 2 (01:04:43):
Yeah, hey, nice you were like three, the three
different colognes, and I knowthe difference.
When he wears this one cologne,I'm like wear it again Because
it smells so good and it's justgreat, like I probably would
turn my neck for him If Ismelled it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:56):
How about Was it detergent?
No, not detergent.

Speaker 2 (01:05:01):
Deodorant.
Deodorant.

Speaker 1 (01:05:02):
Does he use the same deodorant or does he switch up?

Speaker 2 (01:05:07):
I think he uses the same deodorant.

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
Atta boy, because us guys we stick with one are y'all
thinking nice man no no, hell,nah.
No.
Does he axe it up too?

Speaker 2 (01:05:18):
no, I don't axe it up , no, yeah, he's just like.
And then sprays his cologne, Ibelieve good, and he puts it.
He puts his cologne in thefridge.
That's how you know it'd besticking.

Speaker 1 (01:05:29):
Oh yeah, that guy's weird oh I've never heard of
that stuff before put in thefridge put that out.
I'm just kidding um, yeah, frit, okay, oh no, never heard of
that.

Speaker 2 (01:05:39):
I feel like the cologne sticks better if it's
like in the fridge there's likesome it lasts longer.
I think I might be wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:05:47):
I'm finna put my shit in the fridge as a matter of
fact?
Yeah, exactly in the fridge nowokay huh, before we dip out,
tell me one thing that annoysyou of your man, and he knows
about it okay, let's see.

Speaker 2 (01:06:04):
So it's like not a secret oh my gosh, okay, when
we're driving, when I'm drivingand like I'm like taking the
wrong turn and he's like no, hetook the wrong turn, we both
start panicking and I'm like dry, I'm like whoa, what am I doing
?
And I.
I get annoyed because I'm likeI'm literally gonna crash, but I
think he trips out more than Itrip out sometimes.

(01:06:26):
Yeah, yeah, sometimes, becausehe's my passenger princess, with
the GPS in his hand.
Yes, sometimes he's likelooking, I have mine on the dash
, but sometimes he does it forme.
But yeah, that's one thing.
I think, mmm, there's not muchthat I get annoyed by oh, you

(01:06:47):
haven't been with them that long.

Speaker 1 (01:06:48):
Oh, you haven't been with him that long.
No, I have, I have, I have.

Speaker 2 (01:06:53):
I really have.
No, actually there's a lot,there's a lot, that's good
though that's a good one though.
I won't say I feel like just onthe road when you're driving, I
think it's so much anxiety whenyou both know you're probably
going the wrong way.
Oh, that's facts, stuff likethat.
Yeah, you ain't lying like oh,you should have went already,
you should have ran.
I'm like I'm scared.
There's a car coming girl.

Speaker 1 (01:07:14):
Yeah, mine is when my wife says, oh, we'll eat
anything, and I say I go downthe list and it's all no's, no's
, no's, and I'm just like yo, Igive up.
I don't know what you want toeat, you know?
Oh, that's a good one.
Yeah, like oh, what do you wantto eat, babe?
Uh, I don't, I don't knowanything.
That's a good one, jack in theBox.
No McDonald's, no Zippy's, no.

(01:07:35):
Fuck that, what do?
You want to eat?
I don't know anything, the fuck, no, no, hell, no, that's one
thing.

Speaker 2 (01:07:47):
I really I'm just like what do you want to eat?
I'm like I'm not sure I end uppicking.

Speaker 1 (01:07:52):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:07:52):
I think it goes both ways he doesn't know, I don't
know, and I'm like I don't knowwhere we want to go.
Wow, I don't know what theplans should be.

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
Girl, when it comes to food, I'm like I'm down for
anything, Because like my palatemy palate's like everywhere
right, hers is like certainthings.

Speaker 2 (01:08:13):
Yeah, yeah, I'm great with certain things.
I'm great with certain things,do you really?

Speaker 3 (01:08:14):
Yeah, you look like your mom for that one, when you
were in the belly.

Speaker 1 (01:08:17):
Yeah, girl, I was giving her a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:08:22):
She's fish.
She decided when she got oldenough.
She didn't want certain stuff.
I don't like fish you don'tlike fish no.

Speaker 1 (01:08:30):
Are you allergic?
Is that why Fish is gross?
Fish is gross she just doesn'tlike it.

Speaker 2 (01:08:35):
The texture, the smell, Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
I can see the smell.
The texture is alright.
It was like gushy, I'm like no,so is steak, though, uncooked
steak.
Well, not uncooked, but likemedium rare, still bleeding.
That's chewy.

Speaker 2 (01:08:51):
I like mine usually fully cooked.

Speaker 1 (01:08:53):
As in like freaking black on the outside black on
the inside too, yeah, like brownyeah.
Girl, you have not yet.

Speaker 2 (01:09:02):
It has to be juicy though.

Speaker 1 (01:09:04):
Medium, rare, like peak on the inside.

Speaker 2 (01:09:06):
You know what?
I've tried it and I'm not goingto say I don't like it, because
I do like it, but I prefer.

Speaker 1 (01:09:12):
Like well done, like a well done type situation.
Yes, well done.

Speaker 2 (01:09:18):
Yeah, it's like huh, but yeah Cool.

Speaker 3 (01:09:24):
She's got burrito and pizza and burger.
No, not pizza burrito.

Speaker 2 (01:09:27):
I love burritos and burger.
I get my best burritos from LA.

Speaker 1 (01:09:31):
Yes, Cali burritos Barnard you know Hawaii got shit
in there.

Speaker 2 (01:09:38):
Oh my gosh, I've never really tried a really good
burrito here.
No, there's none here.
There's none.

Speaker 1 (01:09:46):
I've tried a lot when we first came on the island.
That's the first thing that wewere looking for.
The closest one was Surf andTurf by North Shore, that's like
the closest authentic Mexicanfood that we've gotten here.
But other than that like themom and pops, it's like oh man,

(01:10:08):
it's not juicy, not enoughflavor, yeah, like they put more
rice and like the condimentsrather than the meat, the meat
right.
Yeah, that's what I recognize.

Speaker 2 (01:10:16):
They call them fillers Right and the cheese
ain't cheesing either, Like whenI'm eating it it's not the
cheese isn't cheesing, no, thecheese isn't cheesing, it's not
like from like a black and whitecow.

Speaker 1 (01:10:26):
It comes from.

Speaker 2 (01:10:26):
Yeah, exactly, ooh, man, but I need to go.
I literally would travel to LAjust for a freaking burrito.

Speaker 1 (01:10:34):
A burrito.
Yes, what's your favoriteburrito?

Speaker 2 (01:10:37):
What is my favorite type of burrito?
Yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:10:40):
I just like my ground beef Carne asada, carne asada
burrito.
Yeah, have you ever had aCalifornia burrito?
No, it's a carne asada withfries in it.
Oh my gosh.
It's called a Californiaburrito.

Speaker 2 (01:10:51):
That sounds so good Girl it is?

Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
Where is it from?
It's in Cali.
Like in every little taqueria,the mom and pops it's called a
California burrito.
It's a carne asada with friesguac like you name it the
fixings with with fries.

Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
That's just fire.
Oh, oh, my gosh.
Do it beyond doing me onputting out like that grills.

Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
We're doing Cali.
This is my blast.
We're in Cali.
Did you try out in and out whatwas your was her?

Speaker 2 (01:11:24):
My honest opinion.
The first time I tried it, thefries made me feel nauseous.
I don't know if I was in thecar my dad was was driving crazy
, but my fries were too.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
Was it regular fries or was it animal style?
No, it was regular, justregular.
Okay, okay, yeah, and I thinkit was too airy.

Speaker 2 (01:11:36):
I think the fries, uh-huh.
And then the second time I camearound, I ordered the right
burger, the animal style fries.
Oh my God.

Speaker 1 (01:11:44):
Girl.

Speaker 2 (01:11:52):
I think that was the hell.
Is this Right, oh my?

Speaker 1 (01:11:55):
god, right, you come here.
You're like dude.
Where's the love?
You realize that.

Speaker 2 (01:11:59):
Hawaii has not much.
They're bringing in some newlike joints here, like okay, but
hey, they gave us a chick-fil-aand I honestly really like it.

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
I was like we need it in and out need an In-N-Out
here, chick-fil-a's not bad.
They do need an In-N-Out.
Yes, mom.

Speaker 2 (01:12:13):
Yeah, yeah, you know, actually Chick-fil-A was what I
crave.
Me and my man went to go grabChick-fil-A one time and we went
to Nimitz to just eat it in theback of his truck and it was
like the best little date.
Yes, hell, yeah, hell, yeah,hell yeah, girl, kaylee, that
was fun.
That was fun.

Speaker 1 (01:12:32):
That was fun, you know I love yapping.

Speaker 2 (01:12:34):
I can talk stories, man, hell yeah.
Girl, that's probably likethat's like an hour and some
change.
Yeah, Do you have any shoutouts or?

Speaker 1 (01:12:39):
anything or where can these people find you at?

Speaker 2 (01:12:42):
Okay guys.
Hi, my name is Kaylee Brooke we.
You can follow me onKayleeShamizu underscore.
I know you're probably likegirl, what the heck Kaylee
really loves it.
I don't know what I'm saying.
I'm trying to like get KayleeBrooke into the picture now but
I can't change my handle rightnow.
So KayleeShamizu underscore ison all platforms On YouTube,

(01:13:06):
KayleeShamizu's YouTube, TikTokand Instagram.
Yeah, if you guys enjoy thispodcast, give him a follow too.
Oh my God, Okay, yes, give hima follow.
People need to know ourconversations.

Speaker 1 (01:13:20):
Yes, no Twitter.
No, that's good, that's good,that's good.

Speaker 2 (01:13:25):
That's good.
Or Snapchat.
I do have Snapchat, but I thinkit's more of a personal thing,
I don't think I.

Speaker 1 (01:13:30):
Ah, you ain't in her circle yet.

Speaker 2 (01:13:32):
Not yet.
Not yet, yeah, but it's okay,we're friends still.

Speaker 1 (01:13:37):
Oh, hell yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:13:38):
With that being said, KOSudios, thank you for the
lovely home.
Rack your bike.

Speaker 1 (01:13:41):
Thank you for the lovely vibe man, and with that
I'm Chris, I'm Kaylee and we outthis bitch Peace.

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