April 1, 2025 • 51 mins
When TikTok star Rancelyn Lucero steps into the studio, what unfolds is far more than just another interview. Her natural charisma and refreshing honesty transform a simple conversation into a profound exploration of authenticity, relationships, and personal growth.
The episode takes an unexpected turn when Rancelyn makes a significant personal revelation - sharing for the first time publicly that she's seeing someone, and that someone is a woman. This vulnerable moment highlights the podcast's unique ability to create a safe space where guests feel comfortable sharing their truest selves.
Rancelyn's journey from Big Island to Oahu in search of better opportunities offers listeners insight into the realities of pursuing dreams in Hawaii. Now working as a server and floor lead at Big City Diner in Kailua, she shares hilarious and sometimes cringe-worthy stories about customer interactions and unwanted advances. Her experiences resonate with anyone who's worked in customer service, especially women who face objectification while simply trying to do their jobs.
What makes this episode particularly compelling is Rancelyn's nuanced take on female relationships and jealousy. She speaks candidly about facing judgment from women who know her through social media but not personally - a phenomenon many influencers experience but rarely discuss so openly. Her perspective on maintaining friendships with exes challenges conventional wisdom, offering a mature framework for post-relationship dynamics that prioritizes genuine care over lingering attachment.
Between discussions about dating pet peeves (don't call her "sexy" or "hot" - "pretty" is the compliment that wins her heart) and her upcoming participation in the Miss Bikini Hawaii pageant representing Hilo, Ranslyn proves she's much more than her social media presence suggests. Her authenticity shines through every answer, making this conversation feel less like an interview and more like eavesdropping on friends catching up.
Whether you're navigating the complexities of modern dating, curious about life behind a popular social media account, or simply enjoy genuine conversations about life's ups and downs, this episode delivers valuable insights wrapped in laughter and heartfelt moments. Listen now to discover why Rancelyn's perspective on relationships and self-discovery might be exactly what you need to hear.
• Moving from the Big Island to Oahu for better job opportunities and finding success as a server and floor lead
• Dealing with uncomfortable pickup lines and unwanted attention in the service industry
• Experiencing jealousy from women who only know her through social media
• Coming out about her current relationship with a woman for the first time
• The importance of setting boundaries and maintaining respectful friendships with exes
• Why being called "pretty" is more meaningful than "hot" or "sexy"
• The different approaches men and women take when supporting friends after breakups
• Preparing to represent Miss Hilo in the upcoming Miss Bikini Hawaii pageant
Find Rancelyn on Instagram: @rancelynlucero and TikTok: @ufwraraw. Support her in the Miss Bikini Hawaii pageant happening April 17th at the Ala Moana Hotel!
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Speaker 1 (00:08):
here we go.
Five, four, three, two, one.
Welcome back to another episodeof the relationship method
podcast.
I am chris and today I have alovely guest.
Uh, she is um, a local of theHawaiian Islands.
She is famous on TikTok andlightweight famous on the ground
(00:29):
, and she was late today.
Gosh darn it.
But it's okay.
It's all good, but you got ithere in one piece and safely.
So thank you, auntie, fordriving her and, other than that
, ronslyn hey Girl, welcome tothe podcast, thank you.
Thank you, yeah, I doappreciate you coming on.
(00:51):
I appreciate you for inviting meoh and I acknowledge you
appreciating me, inviting you.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
You got me on that one.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
I know I learned on that one Girl.
How was your day today?
Speaker 2 (01:04):
My day actually went pretty good.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I mean I'm healing right now because I went to the
hospital last night.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Oh shit For little medical issues.
Really.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
But I'm doing okay taking my medicines and today's
my day off, so I'm just tryingto enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Oh snap, Was it some type of like you finna die soon
type of stuff, or like insulinstuff, or no, it's more of like
they don't know what's wrongwith me.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Oh okay, oh, just like every other hospital, right
yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Speaking of the hospital visits, my dad had a
scare a couple days ago.
I just found out that he hasdiabetes.
So I mean, man, don't awe him.
Don't awe him, man.
Hey, skip that guy, man, I'llbust his ass.
No, but uh no, I just found outthat he has, um, he has,
diabetes and now he has to belike on some type of strict diet
(01:56):
now.
And you know, filipinos theyhate white, they hate brown rice
.
So he's like on that and I'mjust like, oh dude, I'm sorry
you can't smoke as much, youcan't drink as much and you know
a lot of filipino foods.
Like they have a lot of salt ohand all that salt is like all
that business.
Yeah, so gosh, damn well, I'mglad that you're, uh, you're,
feeling better and you are umhealthy and you are here alive
(02:20):
and well, right, um, uh.
So uh, ron slinn, um, can I askyou, how did I get the yes in
you?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
coming on um, coming on the pod, if you don't mind me
asking I love this question oh,you do all right, apparently
I've been following this podcastfor almost a whole year man,
hell yeah, hell yeah, thank youand then just watching like how
you do your podcast and likewhat you talk about with other
people and like just making itlike a whole vibe.
(02:50):
I've never seen a podcast thatwas never like sold out.
Everyone's just always smilingand it's like always good.
So I was just like, if I hadthe chance to be on this podcast
, I am taking it as soon as Ican.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Oh man, the fact that I'm here, girls, stop, don't,
don't even, no, don't even.
I do appreciate you uh likelistening, listening to uh to
this podcast, um, for thatamount of time.
I do appreciate you uh.
Were you listening when I hadjay and laurie, like my old
co-hosts as well?
I think so hey, shout out tothem, man, I miss y'all.
(03:27):
Hope y'all come back soon, um.
But oh, thank you.
I do appreciate you so much, um.
Last uh, this past weekend washawaii fest yes, you went I saw
um.
How was that?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
oh my god, okay.
So, coming from big island, ourconcerts are not as big like I
course everybody goes to it, butit's not as big compared to
Oahu.
Oahu's concerts are bumping,are so crazy different.
Of course there's a lot morepeople, but I just think the
energy that Oahu gives forconcerts is like 10 times better
(04:01):
.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Oh really.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
And it's just like nobody like hitting or bumping
you or whatnot, like everyoneknows you have your own space in
it and then you're just vibingand skanking with everybody and
like it's just a whole vibe oh,I like you use the word skanking
.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
That's um.
I haven't heard that in like inso long.
It's a um, it's like a bay areakind of term.
You know I'm saying, but I likethat, I like your verbiage, I
like your verbiage.
Was there any fights, did you?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
No, oh wow, really.
I mean, I didn't get there inthe beginning of Hawaii Fest,
but the whole time I was therethere was no fights or anything.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
That's good.
That's good.
And what made you move from theisland to over here?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
It was for job opportunities.
Woo, girl Coming from Hilo,uh-huh, there is jobs out there
but they take like years or liketime to apply.
Like respond back to you whenyou apply to a job.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
So it's like I was tired of waiting and then so I
was like you know, maybe try outout Oahu.
So here I came and then appliedfor a job, and the job that I
am working right now came backto me the next day.
I the next day that I appliedis the job.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
if you don't mind me asking is the job?
Um, is it a nursing job?
No, oh, the stereotype is realright.
It of nerdy to a Filipino,right.
It wasn't my dream, huh, no,yeah, what's the gig?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
So I work for Big City Diner Kailua as a server.
I just became a server and nowworking as a floor lead and then
, with all that transaction Ithink about, I only worked there
for six months, so I bumped upfrom buster to server to floor
lead.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Really let me ask you , this being a um, a floor lead
server um, do guys, do guys likeholler at you?
Do they like?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
slip in the the little quirky remarks and try to
get your number and all this mygoodness, there is beyond
stories, beyond stories withthat topic being said, but yes,
so mainly it's the bar area thatkind of hits on me a lot oh,
and I can see, that I can see,and I don't get me wrong.
(06:17):
I love the regulars that docome in.
We appreciate you guys for thegood vibes, but it's mainly the
regulars that say those slurs ohreally yeah, and there's like
one slur that I don't like like.
Of course I know my, I got someand whatnot, but I don't ever
like put myself out there toflaunt it yes so.
(06:40):
But like when I do go to work,they're like oh, can I get two
big jugs off of you and stufflike that.
I'm just like, well, if you'regoing to give me $200, sure I'll
give you a 25 ounce of beer.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Oh goodness, next time they say that, just be like
hey, how about you get that1980s line and just leave it in
the 80s Just?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
clock it.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, just leave it back there.
All right, Come with somethingmore original.
No, Was there any lines thatthey say that stuck to you?
That was like oh, that was agood one, Like good job for
coming up with that one.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
No, not really.
All of them pretty much, soundsthe same.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Oh does it.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
It sounds the same and oh does it it sounds the
same, but in different ways, howthey come and approach me about
it oh, give me, give me acouple like it's like okay, wait
, let me think so.
Like saying about my jugs, likethey're like could I get my?
Could I get two jugs off of you?
And then someone would go belike could I get?
You have really nice melons.
(07:44):
Do you sell melons?
It's literally the same thingbut in different like sentences,
and I was like uh, sir, I will86 you so quick, boo out.
Goodbye, maki.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Die out of here, oh my gosh.
Um, so you being, like you know, really pretty and everything
do um, do you get a lot of hatefrom other females, especially
like workers?
Are your workers cool with you?
I love my yes.
Okay, good, that's good.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
My work, friendships and coworkers.
We are all a family, which Ilove, but out of that, yes, I do
get a lot of hate, especiallyfrom girls that know me off of
social media.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Or know me through people and I don't know them.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Really.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yes.
So those unknown girls, theyreally hate me.
Or especially girls withboyfriends.
They don't like me either,because me as a person, I'm very
friendly, I love to talk and Ijust like to be out there.
If I know you have a girlfriend, I'll respect that and whatever
that's yours.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Boundaries.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Yes, yes, have a girlfriend, I'll respect that
and whatever.
Yeah, that's yours boundaries.
Yes, yes, but there's some way,somehow, some.
Why what?
Who bottles?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
they still don't like me oh, I mean, you know we live
in a world full of, you know,jealousy and stuff.
We just need to stop the hate.
You know, just likecongratuling, like hey, you know
what congratulations like forwhat, just don't worry about it,
congratulations yeah, just behappy, right, exactly, love
exactly.
And then, yeah, like with womenthat are, let's say, um, that
(09:13):
like just don't like you,because the way you look, that's
a and I've gone through thistoo it's like an insecurity
thing for them.
You know, like, let's just keepit real, it is insecurity.
You're afraid that your manmight, you know, double tap the
like, or even like holler in thedms, you feel me.
So I just think it's primarilyit's that, but it could be.
(09:34):
And then, like a smallpercentage, a small smudge,
could be like man, you did myfriend wrong, I hate you because
of that.
So that's like, that's thesmudge right there, but
everything else it's, it's thewhole jealousy factor and I mean
we could do better as humans,you know, I mean.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Literally yeah, especially here on the islands.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Like we're literally on An island Hawaii, hawaii.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
We are here yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Share the aloha Not with your legs, but with your
heart, you know.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Oh shit, you were speaking moke-ish right now.
And that's pretty cool.
That's cool as well.
It's funny because I've been onthis island for like several
odd years now and I still likedon't get.
I get the lingo, but I can'tspeak it, you know.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Oh, the pigeon lingo.
Yeah, I like I understand itnow.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
But I mean, I don't think you'll catch me saying the
kind.
I'll say it just to fuck around, but you won't hear me saying
the kind.
Or I do it to mess around too,like you add the S at the end of
a word, like when you and Iwere messaging I said no ways,
no pops.
Yeah, I do that just to messaround, but I think the pidgin
(10:46):
language is like it's super cool.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Oh, I love it.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's like Hawaii slang, you know, I love it a lot
.
Let me ask you this Are youtaken, are you single, are you
mingling?
Are you on the apps?
What's?
Speaker 2 (10:58):
going on with you right now.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Hey, everybody especially for all those that's
listening on tiktok.
I have someone, yay,congratulations someone, okay,
but she's in a situation, she'sin an entanglement, it's the
whole pause, you know.
But what?
Speaker 2 (11:19):
it's not official but it is not what you guys think
it is.
It is not a male, it is afemale oh hey, is it um?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
is that like do people not know that?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
or is it just?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
oh wow, you're just coming out right now.
Yeah, oh my god, it's a first.
It's a first, it's a first, andit's your first podcast too,
right?
It is my first hell yeah, hey,I do appreciate you like coming
out with this, uh, with thistype of news.
Um, were you like super, likescared sketch, like in like
(12:00):
delivering it?
Speaker 2 (12:01):
no, no, really comfortable, as before we
started, you did ask if I wascomfortable or didn't want to
talk about anything yeah I amopen about everything, because
there's no point of hiding.
I'm just gonna come out with iton my own lives.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
So I might as well just be like bow bow, let me ask
you this um you being, um likeyour, your sexual orientation,
everything.
Can guys or can women still getmad at you for you know you
have a girlfriend now.
Can women still be jealous ofyou because of the guys you know
?
Speaker 2 (12:31):
liking or really yes, how is?
Speaker 1 (12:34):
that If you're taken already you know like the peeing
is like not an option anymore.
Why do women still have thistendency to hate?
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Honestly, I wish I knew, but I think it's just the
way that, or how I'm viewed onon social media.
I think social media is the mainthing really they probably just
see me on social media firstand then they just judge me off
of that and then, until beforethey get to know me, I did have
incidents where, um, there arefemales that didn't like me
(13:08):
because of my social media untilI like we met in person and
then they're like oh wow, you'reactually really nice and cool.
And I was like, well, duh, Imean yeah, we don't know each
other, so why would I hate youin the first place?
Speaker 1 (13:19):
right, exactly.
Um, I like how you interpretedthat, because when, when I get
these guests on, I have atotally different outlook on
them when they come on.
But then when we start choppingit up, it's like oh man,
motherfucker, you're just aregular person like me.
You know we're just chopping,you know shooting the shit and
like with these, let's say these.
(13:40):
Like with these, let's saythese.
I don't want to call them likeA-listers or B-listers, but with
these other people with like ahigh social media following that
I get them on the pod.
I would always think of themlike they'd be stuck up when I'm
.
You know when we're talking.
Yeah, it's just, it's the totalopposite.
You know like they're justregular people too, just wanting
(14:02):
I guess their story and theiropinions out.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
I mean, I love that.
I love how people just like, ohman, he or she is this, but
then once you get to know them,you're like man, this
motherfucker is a dork like me.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Yes, exactly, he's a nerd.
Exactly.
I literally told those girls Iwas like I'm just like you.
We may look different, but wethe same, yeah, the same.
We're just here to chill, we'rehere to vibe, we're talking
stories, like that's it.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
I'm not trying to do anything, just vibes, vibes, how
, um, how long have you been umtalking or uh like being in this
relation with uh, with yourpartner?
Speaker 2 (14:41):
we are just, we just started so you just started
being official first time.
We're not there yet, but I willput respect on her name and say
that I am like I am taken, butlike we're still getting to that
point oh, so this is my first,first time so if a, if another
person spits at you, it's like,oh, I'm sorry, I'm I taken, I'm
(15:05):
reserved right now.
Yes, that type of situation.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
Yes, Okay, okay.
Let me ask you this, Ronslynwhy do you think it's so hard
for men and women to say yo, I'mtaken, when there's flocks and
flocks of guys and women know,trying to get at that?
Why do you think it's so hard?
Speaker 2 (15:27):
honestly okay, we're gonna go back to my old days,
how I was oh, how were you aboutthis?
Don't nobody come at me.
Okay, back in the day.
Back in the day back in the day.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Go ahead, girl um.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
See, like I think it's only hard because it
depends of like how do I saythis?
See for me, for instance forexample guys yeah, example.
Yeah, if I was like taken, andthen I do go out and a lot of
them approach me, I would pickout who got the best game
(16:01):
compared to who my partner is.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Uh-huh.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
And then.
So that's why I think, that'swhy some people don't say
they're taken when they are,especially when they go out.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Just so they can see what the poo is looking like.
They're like okay, so sayinglike this one boy comes up to me
and like he's pooling game leftand right and giving me all the
moves swish, swash, walla, dash.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
What are you?
Speaker 2 (16:26):
a rapper no, I just make words, so like, yeah, I
would see like if he can dobetter in like two minutes than
what I had with this person forfive years, then yeah, I'm not
gonna say I'm taking so.
But not me, guys, not me, I amnot like that, I'm just saying
(16:46):
like I seen it with my own eyesand it was back in the day like
way back when I was a teenager.
Okay, okay, I'm pushing 30 backteenage hey, hey, asian, don't
raisin.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
You know what I'm saying we good, we are good.
You know what I'm saying.
We're good, we are good.
You don't crack here.
You know what I'm saying, we'regood.
Wow, really, that's interesting.
My wife went clubbing the other, I'm gonna say several days ago
right With our home girl.
She went to this spot in Iaia,right next to Pearl City Mall
(17:21):
Would you call it Pearl RidgeMall, whatever it's called and
she was telling me about thatand how like guys were like
trying, they were trying butdidn't, and there was a.
They just, you know, kept ontrying and trying and trying,
and they would spit at herfriend too, and her friend is in
a relationship trying, trying,trying.
(17:42):
I'm like, oh my gosh, thesemotherfuckers just don't quit,
like they don't know they don'tknow what no is.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Yeah right, not a lot of them do know what no is.
Oh my gosh, I just go home andmasturbate.
I'm like all right, I'm good,oh, I'm straight now.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
But I mean it's crazy how they just um like.
They're like vultures, you knowno yeah, tell me about it.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
Literally they don't stop and even if you say the
word no, yeah, and say it overand over, they will still try
and try and try.
And it gets to the point whereit's just like you have to pull
out like your big guns and callup all your boys and be like you
need to pull up here and givesomeone lickings right now.
But it's super bad, especiallylike don't get me wrong, boys do
(18:23):
get hit on and when you guyssay no, some girls do not
respect that.
But as for a girl point of view, we get.
I think like we get a lot worse, especially like since they,
even if we tell them no, theyblame us, of like, so you're,
but you're outside, look whatyou're wearing, look like, look
what you're doing, and it's justlike okay, but we're doing it
(18:44):
with our girls, we're having fun, we're doing yeah.
Like we're not out here likefeeding our tatas and our jujas
for you guys, yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
I like that because I know women and they spend a lot
of time like just gettingpretty, getting ready.
They love that process.
Y'all love that process.
We do I've came to respect itand understand it and I know a
lot of women that when they getready, once they're out 10
minutes later they just want tocome home.
(19:17):
But once they're out it's likewhat you said they just want to
just hang with the girls, have agood time, probably get hit on
once or twice, but respectfully,you know what I'm saying yeah.
But yeah girl.
That is crazy.
But the fact of you know, y'alljust wanting to get ready,
looking pretty, because you guys, you know I don't know every
(19:40):
woman's schedule, but it'stypically nine to five You're
wearing the same thing every dayno makeup, no lash.
Okay, lashes yeah, but I meansometimes a little bit of makeup
, but you're not.
You know, showing the goods andsometimes, I know, for women's
self-esteem, showing the goods,give your, you know, they give
(20:00):
them like a self-booster it doesyou know what?
I am that one, you know.
So, yes, I respect it and Itotally understand it.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
Let me ask you this oh, did I cut you off?
I'm sorry, I cut you off.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
No, you're fine.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Okay, Women hitting on other women when the macker
gets the no, Is it?
Are they as mad or not as mad?
But is it are they like as mentoo, where they just can't take
a no either?
Speaker 2 (20:33):
So I will be honest, I'm not too sure on that part.
Okay, as for me, though, likeif I do hit on my girls and
whatnot, it kind of depends ofwho your girl is and what the
vibe or like the how the energyof the room is.
Yeah, like I can hit on girlsand it goes really good, um, but
if they don't like it, then Ican already read by their energy
(20:55):
and their face, and that'swhere I'll back off.
But I have never experienced orreally been into that like
full-on, like going with a girlgirl like this is like my very
first time, like doing stuff,stuff and being with a female.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
Like holding hands.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
Yeah, it's like holding hands in kindergarten
and stuff.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Like this, but not like this.
Hey, don't play.
I think I said it in one of theepisodes.
I think I was in sixth.
No wait, I was in eighth orninth grade and the way I held a
girl's hand was like this.
And a girl had to teach me.
It was like, oh no, you hold agirl's hand like this.
I was like, oh my God, I feelso fucking stupid, so the whole
(21:41):
time, and I didn't even kiss thegirl yet.
Right, we're just holding hands.
In school, it's always likethis.
She was like a make-out artistright.
So yeah, we're yeah.
She taught me how to hold handsand stuff.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Ay, you're cute.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
No, not even man.
I was like, oh God, everyonewas all experienced.
I was like, oh, here's me.
I'm like, oh God, those aregirls.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
But I think those's really cute, oh, really yeah,
because it's like, ooh okay.
Like if we know that you'remature and like you know
(22:33):
yourself and whatnot, thenthat's fine.
But and like not knowing what'sdoing a relationship.
We think it's cute because wecan be like, oh my god, like we
can literally like show you,guys, like, how to be loved
correctly and all this and that,and show you how things are
supposed to be done.
So it's like a gift every dayfor those who don't know how to
love hey, well, well spoken.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
hey to the motherfucking bear, hey for
y'all, for the teens, the teensthat listen and watch this shit.
I hope you guys are like takingnotes, because these are good
snapplecaps, yeah.
Yes slay girl slay.
Okay, I already asked you whatyou did on the outside world.
(23:07):
You ready for these questions?
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I am ready Shoot them .
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Okay cool to ask how I work.
You ready for these questions?
I am ready, shoot them, okaycool um.
First one from um listeners isuh, are you a likable person
with um, with your, I guess,girlfriend slash boyfriend's
parents?
Speaker 2 (23:23):
um well, usually in all of my relationships I have
been, I've always been, bestfriends with the mom, mom first,
especially if I'm dating a guyyes then the mom is always first
, because that is her baby son.
That's like her son andeverything okay and then so
usually I am, I come close withthe dad first because the dad is
(23:44):
like an uncle and it's likecherry and everything yeah but
when it comes to the mom, like Ireally try to invest myself in
things that she likes or whatshe likes to do, and like I
really try to invest myself inthings that she likes or what
she likes to do, and like I'mtrying to date her as well, like
if I'm gonna date you, I'mmarrying your family too okay
family is big thing for me, soit's like that's good if I like
you, I'm gonna like your familytoo no matter if they don't like
(24:06):
me or not, I'm still gonna havelove for them really so I feel
like I am a likable personbecause till this day, my ex's
moms, all of them still text mehey, ex's moms, and all that
still texting, oh girl or likeinvite me to parties, shut your
ass for real, I'm very likable Iswear pinky promise really yeah
(24:31):
.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
And, and let me ask you this have you ever been in a
situation where they didn'tlike you?
Speaker 2 (24:37):
I did.
I have been.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
I'm going to change this battery real quick.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Talk about it who to look at, but Raja you're going
to look at.
So I have been into a situationwhere I was dating this one guy
and the mom did not like me atall.
See, at first I thought shejust didn't like me because she
didn't know me of who I was andwhatnot.
And I respected that big timeand I was like, okay, you know,
(25:03):
I'll just give her time, like toget to know me and, like you
know, learn about me andwhatever's, vice versa.
But even after getting to knowme and whatnot, she still did
not like me.
And then so I talked to thatdude that I was dating.
At the time I was a kid, likewhat's up with your mom and
whatnot, like I don't want tocontinue this if your family
can't like get along with me tofind out.
(25:25):
Since he was the, he is thegolden child, he was the angel
baby, he was all that.
So it was like, uh, what do youcall those people?
Mama's boy, mama's boy, brotherman was a mama's boy, mama's
boy anyways.
So unfortunately, that's thereason why she didn't like me.
(25:46):
It was just a mama's boy.
And I told him I was like, well, do you realize?
Your mom can marry you or giveyou hoochie or, um, give you a
child.
And he's like, yeah, I know.
And I was like, okay, so like,what's going on?
What's?
What are y'all doing?
Because I'm just sitting heretrying to do my best, trying to
(26:07):
love, and you're just shuttingme down because you're still on
your mama's nipple, but anyways,yeah, I mean, the only thing um
the way I did fix it was that Idid an ultimatum.
I had to make him choosebetween me and his mom.
How?
(26:27):
did that go oh, they're not good.
He, of course it did not gogood at all.
He chose his mom, but stillwanted me around.
Huh, sir, hold up back up wow,okay but anyways, so yeah, um,
he chose his mom and then so Ileft him and then I went out
(26:48):
with another dude right after,posted it up and then he texted
and calls me.
He's like so is that really howyou're going to do me?
And I was like, well, I'm justdoing this dude the way you're
doing your mom.
It's the same thing.
Oh, wow, so you know, fair game, fair game.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
Fair game.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
But anyways, I'm not like that anymore, I promise,
because I know my girl iswatching.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
I'm a good girl.
Well, you know what?
Thank you for maturing.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Have you ever been in a situation where the mom or
the dad was attractive?
Have you?
Yeah, Were you like?
Speaker 2 (27:25):
damn.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
When you first met the parents, were you like oh my
gosh.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
So this is going to be like a whole nother
relationship I had uh-huh therewas one that I really thought
that I always think all the momsare cute, okay, I always think
all the moms are so pretty andwhatnot, but when it comes to
the dads, it's not really thedad that I think looks good,
it's more of like the uncles,the dad's brothers, yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Or like the friends yeah.
Like family, uncles and whatnot?
Speaker 2 (27:50):
I usually just think it's the uncles, the dad's
brothers, yeah, or like thefriends, yeah, like family,
uncles and whatnot.
I usually just think it's theuncles that look really good and
then so, like you know, I do mylittle, you know just a glare
and whatnot, because I am withthat person.
I do my little glares at hisuncles and whatever's, and then,
but you know, to find out afterthe breakup, his uncles all
(28:11):
followed me and I was like well,fair game once again um, okay,
you don't have to say any names,but did you, uh, did you give
them any?
play the uncles no, I, I don'tknow how old are.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
Would they be, though ?
Wouldn't they be like 10, 15,20 years older than you, or?
Oh yeah?
Yeah, but they, they just lookscrumptious, scrum diddly yum
shiz yeah, back at the time,back back back in the day back
in the day, like not now, hey,girlfriend, don't worry about it
, just back in the day, back inthe day, back in the day this is
her first time hearing all ofthis.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Oh, oh, my god, as of right now, she does know that
I'm a little princess, but thisis her first time hearing all
this.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
Oh, she ain't no princess girl, she ain't no
princess no, but she's still agood person though.
Thank you, she got morals.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
Yes, but the uncles.
So they hollered at you Likewhat did they say?
If you don't mind me asking,asking like um, what were their
lines?
Speaker 2 (29:13):
one dm I do remember was that, um, there was an uncle
that asked if, how, how was Idoing?
It was like more of like ahappy birthday type of dm okay
from an ex.
So this is like from an likeyou know for wait.
So like there's this, like, forexample, like if an ex misses
you but you guys are not blockedon each other and they just
(29:36):
text you happy birthday to getyou back or to have a
conversation.
Okay, that's what I mean, oh soit wasn't it was like an.
It was like a snaky way to comein my dms okay since I knew who
the uncle was, I didn't think itwas weird.
He, I didn't think it was weird, so he just texted like how are
you doing?
(29:56):
I heard you and stuff and stuffbroke up.
Just wanted to check on you.
And then so the texting will gofurther and further and then,
like maybe a couple minutes,give it like five minutes.
This uncle will be like, okay,well, you know, I'm always here
if you want to drink or if youwant to come over to my house
and just talk, and I'm just likeI know what this means oh, I
(30:18):
know what this means.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
You're not oblivious to that I know what this means
let me ask you this uh miss, uh,roncelin, okay, um, uh, what if
she?
What if they were just um, likejust legitimately just saying
hey, happy birthday, if you everwant to hang, you know.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Holler at me like it's no horny fashion or nothing
, it's just being, you know,just being a friendly person see
, I wish it was like that, butevery offer I did take up on
that, it does turn the other wayoh, really, yes, it's like oh,
I'm trying to get in your pants,yeah like at first it kind of
gives off like okay, we're justhere, we're hanging out.
(30:57):
And then it gets to the pointwhere they start making their
slow moves and stuff.
And it's so easy to readsomeone when they're trying to
get you, it's super easy.
And then so like once I catchlike that little flag of you
trying to like get with me andI'm just like, oh my God, here
we go again.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Wow, so have you blocked or are you a ghoster or
are you a blocker?
Speaker 2 (31:21):
I am both oh well, well, well well, like, for
example, like I will block youon, like maybe two things, but
keep you on on one platform justso you can watch me and whatnot
, but then I will not text youif you try to slide out in my
dms or in my tiktok or snapchatreally but the main thing I do
(31:41):
block is their phone numbers oh,okay, but like out of the three
social media apps like, I, keepat least one open and you're
blocked on the others oh, you'reso famous.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Oh, whoa.
Let me ask you this like, whatdid you um thought of when, like
, say, I DM'd you the very firsttime to come on or to see if
you're like interested andavailable?
Speaker 2 (32:08):
okay, guys listen to this answer.
Oh my god yeah let's, so let'slisten yeah so so, as you guys
know, I've been following thispodcast for a while.
Oh, thank you.
So when to find out I had a dmfrom from this place, from him,
I jumped in the air like alittle girl trying lollipop for
the freaking first time you'reso.
I was geeking so hard.
(32:28):
I was like I took a screenshotbefore I texted you back.
I took a screenshot and sent itto my bestie and I was like
girl, girl, look look at this.
Look at this and then I was justlike oh my god.
Oh my god, like I was nervous.
It was like my first timetrying to like text someone I
like, like.
It was just like, and I thinkhe's very famous to me, he's
(32:50):
super famous to me, so it's justlike okay, let me prep myself
and be like.
At least don't make me lookstupid when I'm texting you and
hopefully I sign good.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
You're stuffing drafts and everything.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
Yeah, like I literally had to draft it in my
head before I texted you so Icould be like okay, I don't want
him to think I'm such a putaguior anything, so I just have to
be like okay, I have to calmmyself down and be like okay,
breathe in and out.
Really I was afraid that you'dprobably think of me as a creep
because, man, I just shoot myshot everywhere you know, like
(33:24):
to get you know guests and stuffso I'm very happy that you uh,
you didn't take it in that typeof way oh yeah, after watching
all your podcasts, I never feltthat type of way or energy
coming from you.
And one thing is, I'm reallygood at reading people and their
energies, especially if it'snot in person or whatnot text
messages or even just like onlive or whatever.
(33:46):
Like I've never felt.
I didn't feel like I'm gonna beuncomfortable with you or like
scared or anything like I justfelt like it's just gonna be
straight vibes and that's whatit is.
I freaking love that, the vibethat you have.
Oh, give me some period.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
I do appreciate Next question and thank you for the
compliment I do thank you somuch.
Speaker 2 (34:09):
Thank you, but before we start, that is it okay if I
tap on my little phone realquick.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
Yeah, does it say low battery?
Yeah, oh, my gosh, let me guessyou were no.
Go ahead, you can tap on it.
Were you on your phone thewhole time when your mama was
driving?
I was what, mm-mm, Okay, you'reso goofy and she's coming back.
She's coming back.
See, we have all theseunexpected things that happen.
(34:35):
My battery ran out for somereason.
I charged it like the nightbefore and it died.
It's just the awesomeness, youknow.
It's just taking up all thatenergy.
You feel me?
Speaker 2 (34:48):
We're just draining everything.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
Oh hell, yeah, it's too lit Too.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Stop, we out here and we pop it we out here, we out
here, bop, bop, bop.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Oh God, okay, what's the?
Do you?
Oh God, okay, what's the?
Do you?
Can you give me a list ofthings that men shouldn't say to
women?
Speaker 2 (35:11):
Okay, yeah.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
Whoa, she was quick at this one.
Open your pepe aos.
What's that?
Speaker 2 (35:16):
Pepe ao means ears in Hawaiian.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
And hao mau when I'm about to say this.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
Atta girl.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
So to all the brothers, to all the uncles, to
all the locals, To all thebradas, to all the uncles, to
all the locals.
Okay, One thing for me I don'tlike when a guy talks to me is
calling me hot, sexy or gorgeousor beautiful.
My favorite word is prettyPretty.
Is such a pretty word to callanother female.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
But if you're going to call me beautiful, at least
use like what's that that?
Word use a couple adverbs andsome nouns with it.
Use ui what the fuck is it ui?
Speaker 2 (35:53):
ui is the Hawaiian word for beautiful.
Oh okay, cool, cool cool.
I'm learning, I'm learning, I'mlearning okay but like I just
don't like when a guy comes orcalls me baby girl like or uses
the tacoma pickup line what'sthe tacoma pickup line?
Like oh, baby girl, let's hopin my back seat of my tacoma
yeah, you don't, you never heardthat line.
(36:14):
Bless your heart, y'all blesshis heart no, I haven't, that's
a thing that is a.
Thing jump in the back of myyoda yeah, like, oh yeah, oh,
it's lifted, yoda, yoda.
Speaker 1 (36:27):
Oh, yoda, lifted Yoda .
Speaker 2 (36:29):
Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha, gotcha.
Okay, or I just don't like anyof the names that they call me
like baby girl, sweetheart,honey, and I'm just like I am
none of that.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
All the pet names you don't like being called.
Speaker 2 (36:41):
Yes, especially if we're not together.
Yes, especially if we're nottogether.
Okay, if we're together, that'sa whole different story.
But if we're not and you'retrying to come up to me, just be
like, just say hi, that's all.
See, for me, just say hi.
Especially, I just don't likethe word sexy or hot.
I think it's the mostdisgusting word ever.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
Is it really?
Speaker 2 (37:00):
To me it is, I think, because there's the word pretty
, word like pretty, like I feellike that's more soft and every
girl deserves like a little soft, like soft and like kind
compliment towards them okay andlike when you call another girl
, pretty, like all girls smileis that real?
Yes, yes, thank you for the tipof course yeah so you hate the
(37:23):
word hot I hate the word hot andsexy that's a hot, sexy
pepperoni pizza.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Does that make you I'll look?
Speaker 2 (37:31):
at you like huh, I was like, uh, okay, I'm gonna
just pretend that I never heard,that we're still friends, okay
cool, but you remember it thoughright like this motherfucker
called me a pizza
Speaker 1 (37:46):
oh, hey, no, I'm not gonna do it.
I'm not gonna do it, my wifewould kill me.
I'm like, hey, girl, you wanthot and sexy pepperoni pizza?
And she's like, what the fuck?
Literally, I'm like, yeah, man,hot and fresh, delivered 45
minutes, girl, I'm sorry, I'msorry, okay, next question.
So okay, we'll stay on this oneno beautiful, no pet names.
(38:11):
Is there anything else that aman shouldn't say to a woman?
Hmm, or something that would belike, oh man, like that might
degrade you in any way.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Pick up lines.
Oh, pick up lines, do not usepick up lines.
Oh, pick up lines, do not usepickup lines.
Like for me I don't like pickuplines, but if they're like dad
joke pickup lines, those are myfavorite.
Like at least that will get melaughing because like dad jokes
are pretty slow and like cool,so it's like wow, that that joke
was actually pretty funny.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
Have you heard all the pickup lines?
Have you heard like majority ofthem already in your lifetime?
Yeah, really.
Speaker 2 (38:53):
But I do not remember .
Like if I were to see it, Iwould be like, okay, yeah, I
remember this pickup line, it'sjust not on the top of my head.
Speaker 1 (39:00):
Ronson question.
Here comes one.
Y'all hide me.
Here comes one.
Ronson, do you know how much apolar bear weighs?
Speaker 2 (39:11):
No.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
Enough to break the ice.
Hey, my name's Chris.
Hey, that's so good, that's ascientific one right there.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
See, like stuff, like like that, you get a girl
laughing like this, like it's,you got it, you got it wrapped
my guys use it.
Use it guys but I don't knowhow nice girls are, so it's like
I'm pretty not delulu um ditzyso it's like stuff like that
gets me cracking up.
My favorite one is guess whatand then you say what and then
(39:48):
they go chicken butt.
That's my favorite joke that ismy go-to.
That's my favorite dad jokedoes that, does that tell?
Speaker 1 (39:55):
does that tell the person?
Does that tell you about theperson that, oh, this guy's kind
of humorous.
He has a um, I forgot the words, it's on top of my tongue, but
he has a man he's just funny.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
Yeah, so like if he could come up with something,
what you said and like keepcoming up with stuff like that,
then yeah, like I'm just likeokay, so I know you can joke and
joke around.
So it's like I'm just like okay, I can vibe with that.
Okay, because I know I'm notgoing to be sense of humor.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
That's what I was looking for.
It tells you that he has asense of humor.
Yeah, my gosh, I'd be.
I'd be messing up.
I'd be messed up here.
Um, okay, let's see here.
Okay, this is a good one.
Um, this was asked does arelationship continue after a
lengthy breakup, or can arelationship continue?
Speaker 2 (40:42):
oh yeah, oh, that is a good question, but honestly,
to me, I think it just dependsthe connection you had with that
person.
Okay, like, for example, me um,I've been, I had, I was in love
with this one dude really, like, really deep in love, and then
we broke up and I still wantedsomething to still be there, at
(41:08):
least because we can be friends,because he's friends with, like
, my siblings other halves aswell.
Speaker 1 (41:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
So it's like I want all of us to be around.
See, I wanted that, but then hedidn't want to.
So it was just like, oh OK, butthen this other ex of mine we
did break up up, but we're stillfriends and it's like cordial,
like it's super cool, like weshould have been best friends
instead so it kind of dependswho the connection, who the
(41:36):
person is and the connection isbetween you guys so it could be
like an a and b or an a and a oh, okay, what's the a and a?
and is same letter, so it's likea same vibe.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
A and b is two different guys got it, got it
got it, got it, got it, got it.
Um, what?
What you're saying is, uh, it'stotally valid because, uh, I am
still like real good friend.
I'm not, I could say, real goodfriends, but I am still cordial
and friends with, like my exes.
They all have families now andeverything, and I think it's
(42:09):
just when you get older, likeyou know how to set that
boundary.
And yeah, oh hey, it's yourhappy birthday.
Happy birthday to your kid,happy birthday to your husband,
happy birthday to yourgirlfriend, whatever the case
may be.
But yeah, I think it's a maturething when it comes to being
like being friends after thebreakup and even with like this
(42:29):
is a whole uh, like a bit biasedthing.
But, um, you know how you gotto be friends and then you go
into a relationship and thenthat become and then you can
still be friends.
I've been in a relationshipwhere I jumped right in it and
then years down the road it'slike not contact, but then you
know you mature throughout thoseyears and you become friends
(42:50):
again.
Speaker 2 (42:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
So I've been in those situations and what you said
earlier super valid.
Speaker 2 (42:56):
Yeah, and it's just like for me.
I think it's okay to be friendswith your ex, but in a friend
type of way.
Oh, definitely ex, but in afriend type of way, oh,
definitely yeah, if you're stilltrying to be friends with your
ex and, like you know, there isstill that type of feeling that
you are, that you still havelove for them in that type of
(43:16):
way, then that is like a bigno-no, so there's like a
difference yeah like for me andthis one ex.
We're still friends and likeit's friends to the point where
I come to the family parties andI see everyone I'm, I get to
see all the cakeys in the familygrow up and like they them
still calling me auntie and I'mjust a friend.
And you know everyone in thefamily is cordial with how the
(43:40):
relationship is between me andmy ex and, like you know, same
for my family side.
My family still considers thisone ex to be part of my family
and everything and that theystill text him and call him and
invite him to things.
And you know I'm okay with thatbecause we know our, what our
connection is and our boundariesare and I till this day he
(44:01):
knows who he is.
I'm trying to pimp him out tofemales.
I won't say his name because,because he probably would lick
my Behind but Literally lickyour behind.
No, that's not what I meantY'all, that's not what I meant.
Pigeon ways Scrap.
Speaker 1 (44:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
Yeah, yeah, but I'm still.
I'm trying to pimp him outEvery single pimp him out every
single day, but he does not wantto.
And I was like, well, I'mfinding your girlfriend because
to me, like I'm close witheveryone in the family and I
know till this day that I willstill get invited if you do have
a girlfriend.
So, like I want the girlfriendthat gets to be with you will
treat you right because wedidn't happen greatly, so it's
(44:40):
like the next love you find Iwant that to be perfect for you
because, like I want you to growand have a family and have like
a home together and do bigthings.
Yeah, like couldn't be us, butI know someone out there can be
that for you.
So it's like, if I know who thegirl is and her attentions are
and I'm like, oh okay, so like Ican tell like his mom, I could
(45:00):
be like mom.
This girl is like really goodfor him.
Like I know her, she's reallysweet, like I I think I would
trust her if I were to have akid, I would trust her with my
kid alone.
Speaker 1 (45:10):
So it's like stuff like that oh, wow, you're a
great like supportiveex-girlfriend, of course,
basically that's.
I mean that's good, that's.
It's rare to to find and seewomen like that.
I mean you see it a lot in inguys, but with guys there's
always that um, we yeah, we haveintentions, you know you have
(45:33):
to finish that sentence.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
Yeah, I don't want to .
Speaker 1 (45:34):
Yeah, not not all guys have the intention, but
majority of the guys they dohave like that back intention.
And the back intention is andI'm gonna spill one little
secret is that we hook a femaleup with one of our guy friends.
If that doesn't work out, usguys she gets ran by a train.
(45:55):
No, no, not ran by a train, butus guys, we would like.
The person that hooked them upis like what happened?
Oh, I'm here, so we're like thereason.
That's a little tidbit, buthave I done that before?
I don't remember if I've donethat before he had to think I
had to think about that one.
(46:15):
Oh wait, I don't know, I don'tremember.
If I have man hey, holler at me, DM me.
If I have done that to you, Iapologize.
Now I'm a twerp.
If I have done that to you, Iapologize.
Speaker 2 (46:27):
Now I'm a twerp I'm so dead, yeah, man, but yeah,
that's that's.
That's our little thing.
That's our little thing.
That's interesting because see,for a girl, like for me and my
girls, when I pimp out one of mygirls with like a boy or set
them up and whatnot and theydon't work well together, that
(46:48):
boy is like dumped, he's out.
So every time we see him it'slike on site really yeah, so
it's not really like oh, it'sokay, like I'm right here, but
it's more of like okay, I setyou guys up because I knew you
guys are going to be good, andwhy the hell did you break my
girl's heart?
Oh, even though she probablyit's probably fault, why did you
make her do whatever she had todo?
Speaker 1 (47:10):
Even though it's the girl's fault, you still backed
up your girl.
Yeah, because at the end of theday, that's my girl, and if I'm
crying or stuck on the side ofthe road.
Speaker 2 (47:22):
My girl is there.
Speaker 1 (47:25):
Oh, but the guy could pick you up though.
Speaker 2 (47:28):
Both y'all right that's very true, but it's like,
why would I need a guy if I gota girl that knows how to do guy
stuff?
Speaker 1 (47:35):
oh shit, why do I need a girl if I got porn?
You know what I'm saying oh mygod, I'll play, or I'm not, I'm
not playing, I'm not, I'm notplaying.
Oh my god.
Oh okay, ronald.
(47:55):
Uh, time's up.
We had a good time.
That was.
That was.
That was fun.
Um, for your first podcast.
We just popped her cherry onthis one.
Um, uh, how'd you like yourfirst podcast?
Speaker 2 (48:09):
guys, I wish I could marry this podcast.
This has been so good and sofun.
Coming into this I I wasnervous, but then, like you know
, as our wonderful host here,producer and oh, my god, oh and
oh god stop.
Oh, thank you space supercomfortable and fun, like that
(48:31):
is.
One big thing for females ismaking it safe and comfortable,
and you did that oh, before likeall of this happened, like on
the dm and when, like, you metme outside, like it was all of
that.
So it was really fun and I'm soexcited I got to be on this
thank you for coming on and umyou and I was just chopping it
(48:53):
up.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
Did it feel like an hour or some?
Speaker 2 (48:56):
change.
No, I swear to god, I thoughtit was only 10 minutes.
Yeah, right it flows right andthe fact that you can have that
connection with people tells alot about who you are.
Thank, you.
You're a wholesome person witha golden heart.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
Oh, thank you.
So thank you.
Thank you so much.
I do appreciate the kind words.
Do you have any shout outs oranything?
Or where can these people findyou at if they're not following
you or know who you are?
Speaker 2 (49:23):
Okay, everyone.
Well, if you want to find me,my instagram is ranslan lucero.
Tiktok is ufwraraw, snapchat iskai mailani.
If you don't know how to spellthat, that's okay, just search
up filipino princess, that is me.
I would like to shout out to mygirl if she's watching or not.
(49:44):
I love you.
Oh wait, let me redo that.
Let me redo that.
I will talk to you when I amdone.
I love you.
And last shout out goes to missbikini hawaii, to the pageant
(50:04):
that I am starting.
My first pageant.
I'm representing Miss Hilo, soif you guys do want tickets, let
me know.
Speaker 1 (50:11):
When is this happening?
Speaker 2 (50:14):
April 17th at Ala Moana Hotel.
Speaker 1 (50:16):
Hey, april 17th.
Hopefully this episode is outbefore then.
But if you post it, I'll tag mein and I'll repost it.
I'll get you one.
I'll get you one, I'll get youone.
But hey, man, what's it called?
Miss bikini, miss bikini,hawaii, miss bikini, hawaii.
Hey, how much my girl?
Do you need a vote or anything,or how does that this?
Speaker 2 (50:35):
is my first time, hey hey, good freaking luck.
Speaker 1 (50:39):
Thank you for real like good luck.
You've been a lovely guest andit was super awesome to chop it
up with you.
Oh my God, oh my God.
Speaker 2 (50:48):
A fattest shout-out to him.
He made my day today oh gosh,you're very welcome, thank you.
Speaker 1 (50:56):
With that being said, shout-out to KO Studios for the
lovely home.
Raffy Bite, thank you, and man,forever thankful for your beats
, man, and with that I'm Chris.
Speaker 2 (51:05):
And I'm Ranslyn and we out this bitch?
Speaker 1 (51:08):
Oh, and my bad, my bad.
You say Rara, my daughter, Icall her Rara too.
Stop.
Speaker 2 (51:14):
That's why my name was from kids.
Speaker 1 (51:16):
Really.
Speaker 2 (51:16):
Yeah, they called me Rara.
Rara girls out here living life.
Speaker 1 (51:21):
Living life.
Hell yeah, and we out thisbitch Hell yeah, and we out this
bitch peace.
here we go.
Five, four, three, two, one.
Welcome back to another episodeof the relationship method
podcast.
I am chris and today I have alovely guest.
Uh, she is um, a local of theHawaiian Islands.
She is famous on TikTok andlightweight famous on the ground
(00:29):
, and she was late today.
Gosh darn it.
But it's okay.
It's all good, but you got ithere in one piece and safely.
So thank you, auntie, fordriving her and, other than that
, ronslyn hey Girl, welcome tothe podcast, thank you.
Thank you, yeah, I doappreciate you coming on.
(00:51):
I appreciate you for inviting meoh and I acknowledge you
appreciating me, inviting you.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
You got me on that one.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
I know I learned on that one Girl.
How was your day today?
Speaker 2 (01:04):
My day actually went pretty good.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I mean I'm healing right now because I went to the
hospital last night.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Oh shit For little medical issues.
Really.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
But I'm doing okay taking my medicines and today's
my day off, so I'm just tryingto enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Oh snap, Was it some type of like you finna die soon
type of stuff, or like insulinstuff, or no, it's more of like
they don't know what's wrongwith me.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Oh okay, oh, just like every other hospital, right
yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Speaking of the hospital visits, my dad had a
scare a couple days ago.
I just found out that he hasdiabetes.
So I mean, man, don't awe him.
Don't awe him, man.
Hey, skip that guy, man, I'llbust his ass.
No, but uh no, I just found outthat he has, um, he has,
diabetes and now he has to belike on some type of strict diet
(01:56):
now.
And you know, filipinos theyhate white, they hate brown rice
.
So he's like on that and I'mjust like, oh dude, I'm sorry
you can't smoke as much, youcan't drink as much and you know
a lot of filipino foods.
Like they have a lot of salt ohand all that salt is like all
that business.
Yeah, so gosh, damn well, I'mglad that you're, uh, you're,
feeling better and you are umhealthy and you are here alive
(02:20):
and well, right, um, uh.
So uh, ron slinn, um, can I askyou, how did I get the yes in
you?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
coming on um, coming on the pod, if you don't mind me
asking I love this question oh,you do all right, apparently
I've been following this podcastfor almost a whole year man,
hell yeah, hell yeah, thank youand then just watching like how
you do your podcast and likewhat you talk about with other
people and like just making itlike a whole vibe.
(02:50):
I've never seen a podcast thatwas never like sold out.
Everyone's just always smilingand it's like always good.
So I was just like, if I hadthe chance to be on this podcast
, I am taking it as soon as Ican.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Oh man, the fact that I'm here, girls, stop, don't,
don't even, no, don't even.
I do appreciate you uh likelistening, listening to uh to
this podcast, um, for thatamount of time.
I do appreciate you uh.
Were you listening when I hadjay and laurie, like my old
co-hosts as well?
I think so hey, shout out tothem, man, I miss y'all.
(03:27):
Hope y'all come back soon, um.
But oh, thank you.
I do appreciate you so much, um.
Last uh, this past weekend washawaii fest yes, you went I saw
um.
How was that?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
oh my god, okay.
So, coming from big island, ourconcerts are not as big like I
course everybody goes to it, butit's not as big compared to
Oahu.
Oahu's concerts are bumping,are so crazy different.
Of course there's a lot morepeople, but I just think the
energy that Oahu gives forconcerts is like 10 times better
(04:01):
.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Oh really.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
And it's just like nobody like hitting or bumping
you or whatnot, like everyoneknows you have your own space in
it and then you're just vibingand skanking with everybody and
like it's just a whole vibe oh,I like you use the word skanking
.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
That's um.
I haven't heard that in like inso long.
It's a um, it's like a bay areakind of term.
You know I'm saying, but I likethat, I like your verbiage, I
like your verbiage.
Was there any fights, did you?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
No, oh wow, really.
I mean, I didn't get there inthe beginning of Hawaii Fest,
but the whole time I was therethere was no fights or anything.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
That's good.
That's good.
And what made you move from theisland to over here?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
It was for job opportunities.
Woo, girl Coming from Hilo,uh-huh, there is jobs out there
but they take like years or liketime to apply.
Like respond back to you whenyou apply to a job.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
So it's like I was tired of waiting and then so I
was like you know, maybe try outout Oahu.
So here I came and then appliedfor a job, and the job that I
am working right now came backto me the next day.
I the next day that I appliedis the job.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
if you don't mind me asking is the job?
Um, is it a nursing job?
No, oh, the stereotype is realright.
It of nerdy to a Filipino,right.
It wasn't my dream, huh, no,yeah, what's the gig?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
So I work for Big City Diner Kailua as a server.
I just became a server and nowworking as a floor lead and then
, with all that transaction Ithink about, I only worked there
for six months, so I bumped upfrom buster to server to floor
lead.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Really let me ask you , this being a um, a floor lead
server um, do guys, do guys likeholler at you?
Do they like?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
slip in the the little quirky remarks and try to
get your number and all this mygoodness, there is beyond
stories, beyond stories withthat topic being said, but yes,
so mainly it's the bar area thatkind of hits on me a lot oh,
and I can see, that I can see,and I don't get me wrong.
(06:17):
I love the regulars that docome in.
We appreciate you guys for thegood vibes, but it's mainly the
regulars that say those slurs ohreally yeah, and there's like
one slur that I don't like like.
Of course I know my, I got someand whatnot, but I don't ever
like put myself out there toflaunt it yes so.
(06:40):
But like when I do go to work,they're like oh, can I get two
big jugs off of you and stufflike that.
I'm just like, well, if you'regoing to give me $200, sure I'll
give you a 25 ounce of beer.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Oh goodness, next time they say that, just be like
hey, how about you get that1980s line and just leave it in
the 80s Just?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
clock it.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Yeah, just leave it back there.
All right, Come with somethingmore original.
No, Was there any lines thatthey say that stuck to you?
That was like oh, that was agood one, Like good job for
coming up with that one.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
No, not really.
All of them pretty much, soundsthe same.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Oh does it.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
It sounds the same and oh does it it sounds the
same, but in different ways, howthey come and approach me about
it oh, give me, give me acouple like it's like okay, wait
, let me think so.
Like saying about my jugs, likethey're like could I get my?
Could I get two jugs off of you?
And then someone would go belike could I get?
You have really nice melons.
(07:44):
Do you sell melons?
It's literally the same thingbut in different like sentences,
and I was like uh, sir, I will86 you so quick, boo out.
Goodbye, maki.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Die out of here, oh my gosh.
Um, so you being, like you know, really pretty and everything
do um, do you get a lot of hatefrom other females, especially
like workers?
Are your workers cool with you?
I love my yes.
Okay, good, that's good.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
My work, friendships and coworkers.
We are all a family, which Ilove, but out of that, yes, I do
get a lot of hate, especiallyfrom girls that know me off of
social media.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Or know me through people and I don't know them.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Really.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yes.
So those unknown girls, theyreally hate me.
Or especially girls withboyfriends.
They don't like me either,because me as a person, I'm very
friendly, I love to talk and Ijust like to be out there.
If I know you have a girlfriend, I'll respect that and whatever
that's yours.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Boundaries.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Yes, yes, have a girlfriend, I'll respect that
and whatever.
Yeah, that's yours boundaries.
Yes, yes, but there's some way,somehow, some.
Why what?
Who bottles?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
they still don't like me oh, I mean, you know we live
in a world full of, you know,jealousy and stuff.
We just need to stop the hate.
You know, just likecongratuling, like hey, you know
what congratulations like forwhat, just don't worry about it,
congratulations yeah, just behappy, right, exactly, love
exactly.
And then, yeah, like with womenthat are, let's say, um, that
(09:13):
like just don't like you,because the way you look, that's
a and I've gone through thistoo it's like an insecurity
thing for them.
You know, like, let's just keepit real, it is insecurity.
You're afraid that your manmight, you know, double tap the
like, or even like holler in thedms, you feel me.
So I just think it's primarilyit's that, but it could be.
(09:34):
And then, like a smallpercentage, a small smudge,
could be like man, you did myfriend wrong, I hate you because
of that.
So that's like, that's thesmudge right there, but
everything else it's, it's thewhole jealousy factor and I mean
we could do better as humans,you know, I mean.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Literally yeah, especially here on the islands.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Like we're literally on An island Hawaii, hawaii.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
We are here yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Share the aloha Not with your legs, but with your
heart, you know.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Oh shit, you were speaking moke-ish right now.
And that's pretty cool.
That's cool as well.
It's funny because I've been onthis island for like several
odd years now and I still likedon't get.
I get the lingo, but I can'tspeak it, you know.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Oh, the pigeon lingo.
Yeah, I like I understand itnow.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
But I mean, I don't think you'll catch me saying the
kind.
I'll say it just to fuck around, but you won't hear me saying
the kind.
Or I do it to mess around too,like you add the S at the end of
a word, like when you and Iwere messaging I said no ways,
no pops.
Yeah, I do that just to messaround, but I think the pidgin
(10:46):
language is like it's super cool.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Oh, I love it.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's like Hawaii slang, you know, I love it a lot
.
Let me ask you this Are youtaken, are you single, are you
mingling?
Are you on the apps?
What's?
Speaker 2 (10:58):
going on with you right now.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Hey, everybody especially for all those that's
listening on tiktok.
I have someone, yay,congratulations someone, okay,
but she's in a situation, she'sin an entanglement, it's the
whole pause, you know.
But what?
Speaker 2 (11:19):
it's not official but it is not what you guys think
it is.
It is not a male, it is afemale oh hey, is it um?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
is that like do people not know that?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
or is it just?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
oh wow, you're just coming out right now.
Yeah, oh my god, it's a first.
It's a first, it's a first, andit's your first podcast too,
right?
It is my first hell yeah, hey,I do appreciate you like coming
out with this, uh, with thistype of news.
Um, were you like super, likescared sketch, like in like
(12:00):
delivering it?
Speaker 2 (12:01):
no, no, really comfortable, as before we
started, you did ask if I wascomfortable or didn't want to
talk about anything yeah I amopen about everything, because
there's no point of hiding.
I'm just gonna come out with iton my own lives.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
So I might as well just be like bow bow, let me ask
you this um you being, um likeyour, your sexual orientation,
everything.
Can guys or can women still getmad at you for you know you
have a girlfriend now.
Can women still be jealous ofyou because of the guys you know
?
Speaker 2 (12:31):
liking or really yes, how is?
Speaker 1 (12:34):
that If you're taken already you know like the peeing
is like not an option anymore.
Why do women still have thistendency to hate?
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Honestly, I wish I knew, but I think it's just the
way that, or how I'm viewed onon social media.
I think social media is the mainthing really they probably just
see me on social media firstand then they just judge me off
of that and then, until beforethey get to know me, I did have
incidents where, um, there arefemales that didn't like me
(13:08):
because of my social media untilI like we met in person and
then they're like oh wow, you'reactually really nice and cool.
And I was like, well, duh, Imean yeah, we don't know each
other, so why would I hate youin the first place?
Speaker 1 (13:19):
right, exactly.
Um, I like how you interpretedthat, because when, when I get
these guests on, I have atotally different outlook on
them when they come on.
But then when we start choppingit up, it's like oh man,
motherfucker, you're just aregular person like me.
You know we're just chopping,you know shooting the shit and
like with these, let's say these.
(13:40):
Like with these, let's saythese.
I don't want to call them likeA-listers or B-listers, but with
these other people with like ahigh social media following that
I get them on the pod.
I would always think of themlike they'd be stuck up when I'm
.
You know when we're talking.
Yeah, it's just, it's the totalopposite.
You know like they're justregular people too, just wanting
(14:02):
I guess their story and theiropinions out.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
I mean, I love that.
I love how people just like, ohman, he or she is this, but
then once you get to know them,you're like man, this
motherfucker is a dork like me.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Yes, exactly, he's a nerd.
Exactly.
I literally told those girls Iwas like I'm just like you.
We may look different, but wethe same, yeah, the same.
We're just here to chill, we'rehere to vibe, we're talking
stories, like that's it.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
I'm not trying to do anything, just vibes, vibes, how
, um, how long have you been umtalking or uh like being in this
relation with uh, with yourpartner?
Speaker 2 (14:41):
we are just, we just started so you just started
being official first time.
We're not there yet, but I willput respect on her name and say
that I am like I am taken, butlike we're still getting to that
point oh, so this is my first,first time so if a, if another
person spits at you, it's like,oh, I'm sorry, I'm I taken, I'm
(15:05):
reserved right now.
Yes, that type of situation.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
Yes, Okay, okay.
Let me ask you this, Ronslynwhy do you think it's so hard
for men and women to say yo, I'mtaken, when there's flocks and
flocks of guys and women know,trying to get at that?
Why do you think it's so hard?
Speaker 2 (15:27):
honestly okay, we're gonna go back to my old days,
how I was oh, how were you aboutthis?
Don't nobody come at me.
Okay, back in the day.
Back in the day back in the day.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Go ahead, girl um.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
See, like I think it's only hard because it
depends of like how do I saythis?
See for me, for instance forexample guys yeah, example.
Yeah, if I was like taken, andthen I do go out and a lot of
them approach me, I would pickout who got the best game
(16:01):
compared to who my partner is.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Uh-huh.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
And then.
So that's why I think, that'swhy some people don't say
they're taken when they are,especially when they go out.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Just so they can see what the poo is looking like.
They're like okay, so sayinglike this one boy comes up to me
and like he's pooling game leftand right and giving me all the
moves swish, swash, walla, dash.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
What are you?
Speaker 2 (16:26):
a rapper no, I just make words, so like, yeah, I
would see like if he can dobetter in like two minutes than
what I had with this person forfive years, then yeah, I'm not
gonna say I'm taking so.
But not me, guys, not me, I amnot like that, I'm just saying
(16:46):
like I seen it with my own eyesand it was back in the day like
way back when I was a teenager.
Okay, okay, I'm pushing 30 backteenage hey, hey, asian, don't
raisin.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
You know what I'm saying we good, we are good.
You know what I'm saying.
We're good, we are good.
You don't crack here.
You know what I'm saying, we'regood.
Wow, really, that's interesting.
My wife went clubbing the other, I'm gonna say several days ago
right With our home girl.
She went to this spot in Iaia,right next to Pearl City Mall
(17:21):
Would you call it Pearl RidgeMall, whatever it's called and
she was telling me about thatand how like guys were like
trying, they were trying butdidn't, and there was a.
They just, you know, kept ontrying and trying and trying,
and they would spit at herfriend too, and her friend is in
a relationship trying, trying,trying.
(17:42):
I'm like, oh my gosh, thesemotherfuckers just don't quit,
like they don't know they don'tknow what no is.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Yeah right, not a lot of them do know what no is.
Oh my gosh, I just go home andmasturbate.
I'm like all right, I'm good,oh, I'm straight now.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
But I mean it's crazy how they just um like.
They're like vultures, you knowno yeah, tell me about it.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
Literally they don't stop and even if you say the
word no, yeah, and say it overand over, they will still try
and try and try.
And it gets to the point whereit's just like you have to pull
out like your big guns and callup all your boys and be like you
need to pull up here and givesomeone lickings right now.
But it's super bad, especiallylike don't get me wrong, boys do
(18:23):
get hit on and when you guyssay no, some girls do not
respect that.
But as for a girl point of view, we get.
I think like we get a lot worse, especially like since they,
even if we tell them no, theyblame us, of like, so you're,
but you're outside, look whatyou're wearing, look like, look
what you're doing, and it's justlike okay, but we're doing it
(18:44):
with our girls, we're having fun, we're doing yeah.
Like we're not out here likefeeding our tatas and our jujas
for you guys, yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
I like that because I know women and they spend a lot
of time like just gettingpretty, getting ready.
They love that process.
Y'all love that process.
We do I've came to respect itand understand it and I know a
lot of women that when they getready, once they're out 10
minutes later they just want tocome home.
(19:17):
But once they're out it's likewhat you said they just want to
just hang with the girls, have agood time, probably get hit on
once or twice, but respectfully,you know what I'm saying yeah.
But yeah girl.
That is crazy.
But the fact of you know, y'alljust wanting to get ready,
looking pretty, because you guys, you know I don't know every
(19:40):
woman's schedule, but it'stypically nine to five You're
wearing the same thing every dayno makeup, no lash.
Okay, lashes yeah, but I meansometimes a little bit of makeup
, but you're not.
You know, showing the goods andsometimes, I know, for women's
self-esteem, showing the goods,give your, you know, they give
(20:00):
them like a self-booster it doesyou know what?
I am that one, you know.
So, yes, I respect it and Itotally understand it.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
Let me ask you this oh, did I cut you off?
I'm sorry, I cut you off.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
No, you're fine.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Okay, Women hitting on other women when the macker
gets the no, Is it?
Are they as mad or not as mad?
But is it are they like as mentoo, where they just can't take
a no either?
Speaker 2 (20:33):
So I will be honest, I'm not too sure on that part.
Okay, as for me, though, likeif I do hit on my girls and
whatnot, it kind of depends ofwho your girl is and what the
vibe or like the how the energyof the room is.
Yeah, like I can hit on girlsand it goes really good, um, but
if they don't like it, then Ican already read by their energy
(20:55):
and their face, and that'swhere I'll back off.
But I have never experienced orreally been into that like
full-on, like going with a girlgirl like this is like my very
first time, like doing stuff,stuff and being with a female.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
Like holding hands.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
Yeah, it's like holding hands in kindergarten
and stuff.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Like this, but not like this.
Hey, don't play.
I think I said it in one of theepisodes.
I think I was in sixth.
No wait, I was in eighth orninth grade and the way I held a
girl's hand was like this.
And a girl had to teach me.
It was like, oh no, you hold agirl's hand like this.
I was like, oh my God, I feelso fucking stupid, so the whole
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time, and I didn't even kiss thegirl yet.
Right, we're just holding hands.
In school, it's always likethis.
She was like a make-out artistright.
So yeah, we're yeah.
She taught me how to hold handsand stuff.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Ay, you're cute.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
No, not even man.
I was like, oh God, everyonewas all experienced.
I was like, oh, here's me.
I'm like, oh God, those aregirls.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
But I think those's really cute, oh, really yeah,
because it's like, ooh okay.
Like if we know that you'remature and like you know
(22:33):
yourself and whatnot, thenthat's fine.
But and like not knowing what'sdoing a relationship.
We think it's cute because wecan be like, oh my god, like we
can literally like show you,guys, like, how to be loved
correctly and all this and that,and show you how things are
supposed to be done.
So it's like a gift every dayfor those who don't know how to
love hey, well, well spoken.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
hey to the motherfucking bear, hey for
y'all, for the teens, the teensthat listen and watch this shit.
I hope you guys are like takingnotes, because these are good
snapplecaps, yeah.
Yes slay girl slay.
Okay, I already asked you whatyou did on the outside world.
(23:07):
You ready for these questions?
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I am ready Shoot them .
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Okay cool to ask how I work.
You ready for these questions?
I am ready, shoot them, okaycool um.
First one from um listeners isuh, are you a likable person
with um, with your, I guess,girlfriend slash boyfriend's
parents?
Speaker 2 (23:23):
um well, usually in all of my relationships I have
been, I've always been, bestfriends with the mom, mom first,
especially if I'm dating a guyyes then the mom is always first
, because that is her baby son.
That's like her son andeverything okay and then so
usually I am, I come close withthe dad first because the dad is
(23:44):
like an uncle and it's likecherry and everything yeah but
when it comes to the mom, like Ireally try to invest myself in
things that she likes or whatshe likes to do, and like I
really try to invest myself inthings that she likes or what
she likes to do, and like I'mtrying to date her as well, like
if I'm gonna date you, I'mmarrying your family too okay
family is big thing for me, soit's like that's good if I like
you, I'm gonna like your familytoo no matter if they don't like
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me or not, I'm still gonna havelove for them really so I feel
like I am a likable personbecause till this day, my ex's
moms, all of them still text mehey, ex's moms, and all that
still texting, oh girl or likeinvite me to parties, shut your
ass for real, I'm very likable Iswear pinky promise really yeah
(24:31):
.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
And, and let me ask you this have you ever been in a
situation where they didn'tlike you?
Speaker 2 (24:37):
I did.
I have been.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
I'm going to change this battery real quick.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Talk about it who to look at, but Raja you're going
to look at.
So I have been into a situationwhere I was dating this one guy
and the mom did not like me atall.
See, at first I thought shejust didn't like me because she
didn't know me of who I was andwhatnot.
And I respected that big timeand I was like, okay, you know,
(25:03):
I'll just give her time, like toget to know me and, like you
know, learn about me andwhatever's, vice versa.
But even after getting to knowme and whatnot, she still did
not like me.
And then so I talked to thatdude that I was dating.
At the time I was a kid, likewhat's up with your mom and
whatnot, like I don't want tocontinue this if your family
can't like get along with me tofind out.
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Since he was the, he is thegolden child, he was the angel
baby, he was all that.
So it was like, uh, what do youcall those people?
Mama's boy, mama's boy, brotherman was a mama's boy, mama's
boy anyways.
So unfortunately, that's thereason why she didn't like me.
(25:46):
It was just a mama's boy.
And I told him I was like, well, do you realize?
Your mom can marry you or giveyou hoochie or, um, give you a
child.
And he's like, yeah, I know.
And I was like, okay, so like,what's going on?
What's?
What are y'all doing?
Because I'm just sitting heretrying to do my best, trying to
(26:07):
love, and you're just shuttingme down because you're still on
your mama's nipple, but anyways,yeah, I mean, the only thing um
the way I did fix it was that Idid an ultimatum.
I had to make him choosebetween me and his mom.
How?
(26:27):
did that go oh, they're not good.
He, of course it did not gogood at all.
He chose his mom, but stillwanted me around.
Huh, sir, hold up back up wow,okay but anyways, so yeah, um,
he chose his mom and then so Ileft him and then I went out
(26:48):
with another dude right after,posted it up and then he texted
and calls me.
He's like so is that really howyou're going to do me?
And I was like, well, I'm justdoing this dude the way you're
doing your mom.
It's the same thing.
Oh, wow, so you know, fair game, fair game.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
Fair game.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
But anyways, I'm not like that anymore, I promise,
because I know my girl iswatching.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
I'm a good girl.
Well, you know what?
Thank you for maturing.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Have you ever been in a situation where the mom or
the dad was attractive?
Have you?
Yeah, Were you like?
Speaker 2 (27:25):
damn.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
When you first met the parents, were you like oh my
gosh.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
So this is going to be like a whole nother
relationship I had uh-huh therewas one that I really thought
that I always think all the momsare cute, okay, I always think
all the moms are so pretty andwhatnot, but when it comes to
the dads, it's not really thedad that I think looks good,
it's more of like the uncles,the dad's brothers, yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Or like the friends yeah.
Like family, uncles and whatnot?
Speaker 2 (27:50):
I usually just think it's the uncles, the dad's
brothers, yeah, or like thefriends, yeah, like family,
uncles and whatnot.
I usually just think it's theuncles that look really good and
then so, like you know, I do mylittle, you know just a glare
and whatnot, because I am withthat person.
I do my little glares at hisuncles and whatever's, and then,
but you know, to find out afterthe breakup, his uncles all
(28:11):
followed me and I was like well,fair game once again um, okay,
you don't have to say any names,but did you, uh, did you give
them any?
play the uncles no, I, I don'tknow how old are.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
Would they be, though ?
Wouldn't they be like 10, 15,20 years older than you, or?
Oh yeah?
Yeah, but they, they just lookscrumptious, scrum diddly yum
shiz yeah, back at the time,back back back in the day back
in the day, like not now, hey,girlfriend, don't worry about it
, just back in the day, back inthe day, back in the day this is
her first time hearing all ofthis.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Oh, oh, my god, as of right now, she does know that
I'm a little princess, but thisis her first time hearing all
this.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
Oh, she ain't no princess girl, she ain't no
princess no, but she's still agood person though.
Thank you, she got morals.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
Yes, but the uncles.
So they hollered at you Likewhat did they say?
If you don't mind me asking,asking like um, what were their
lines?
Speaker 2 (29:13):
one dm I do remember was that, um, there was an uncle
that asked if, how, how was Idoing?
It was like more of like ahappy birthday type of dm okay
from an ex.
So this is like from an likeyou know for wait.
So like there's this, like, forexample, like if an ex misses
you but you guys are not blockedon each other and they just
(29:36):
text you happy birthday to getyou back or to have a
conversation.
Okay, that's what I mean, oh soit wasn't it was like an.
It was like a snaky way to comein my dms okay since I knew who
the uncle was, I didn't think itwas weird.
He, I didn't think it was weird, so he just texted like how are
you doing?
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I heard you and stuff and stuffbroke up.
Just wanted to check on you.
And then so the texting will gofurther and further and then,
like maybe a couple minutes,give it like five minutes.
This uncle will be like, okay,well, you know, I'm always here
if you want to drink or if youwant to come over to my house
and just talk, and I'm just likeI know what this means oh, I
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know what this means.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
You're not oblivious to that I know what this means
let me ask you this uh miss, uh,roncelin, okay, um, uh, what if
she?
What if they were just um, likejust legitimately just saying
hey, happy birthday, if you everwant to hang, you know.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Holler at me like it's no horny fashion or nothing
, it's just being, you know,just being a friendly person see
, I wish it was like that, butevery offer I did take up on
that, it does turn the other wayoh, really, yes, it's like oh,
I'm trying to get in your pants,yeah like at first it kind of
gives off like okay, we're justhere, we're hanging out.
(30:57):
And then it gets to the pointwhere they start making their
slow moves and stuff.
And it's so easy to readsomeone when they're trying to
get you, it's super easy.
And then so like once I catchlike that little flag of you
trying to like get with me andI'm just like, oh my God, here
we go again.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Wow, so have you blocked or are you a ghoster or
are you a blocker?
Speaker 2 (31:21):
I am both oh well, well, well well, like, for
example, like I will block youon, like maybe two things, but
keep you on on one platform justso you can watch me and whatnot
, but then I will not text youif you try to slide out in my
dms or in my tiktok or snapchatreally but the main thing I do
(31:41):
block is their phone numbers oh,okay, but like out of the three
social media apps like, I, keepat least one open and you're
blocked on the others oh, you'reso famous.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Oh, whoa.
Let me ask you this like, whatdid you um thought of when, like
, say, I DM'd you the very firsttime to come on or to see if
you're like interested andavailable?
Speaker 2 (32:08):
okay, guys listen to this answer.
Oh my god yeah let's, so let'slisten yeah so so, as you guys
know, I've been following thispodcast for a while.
Oh, thank you.
So when to find out I had a dmfrom from this place, from him,
I jumped in the air like alittle girl trying lollipop for
the freaking first time you'reso.
I was geeking so hard.
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I was like I took a screenshotbefore I texted you back.
I took a screenshot and sent itto my bestie and I was like
girl, girl, look look at this.
Look at this and then I was justlike oh my god.
Oh my god, like I was nervous.
It was like my first timetrying to like text someone I
like, like.
It was just like, and I thinkhe's very famous to me, he's
(32:50):
super famous to me, so it's justlike okay, let me prep myself
and be like.
At least don't make me lookstupid when I'm texting you and
hopefully I sign good.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
You're stuffing drafts and everything.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
Yeah, like I literally had to draft it in my
head before I texted you so Icould be like okay, I don't want
him to think I'm such a putaguior anything, so I just have to
be like okay, I have to calmmyself down and be like okay,
breathe in and out.
Really I was afraid that you'dprobably think of me as a creep
because, man, I just shoot myshot everywhere you know, like
(33:24):
to get you know guests and stuffso I'm very happy that you uh,
you didn't take it in that typeof way oh yeah, after watching
all your podcasts, I never feltthat type of way or energy
coming from you.
And one thing is, I'm reallygood at reading people and their
energies, especially if it'snot in person or whatnot text
messages or even just like onlive or whatever.
(33:46):
Like I've never felt.
I didn't feel like I'm gonna beuncomfortable with you or like
scared or anything like I justfelt like it's just gonna be
straight vibes and that's whatit is.
I freaking love that, the vibethat you have.
Oh, give me some period.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
I do appreciate Next question and thank you for the
compliment I do thank you somuch.
Speaker 2 (34:09):
Thank you, but before we start, that is it okay if I
tap on my little phone realquick.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
Yeah, does it say low battery?
Yeah, oh, my gosh, let me guessyou were no.
Go ahead, you can tap on it.
Were you on your phone thewhole time when your mama was
driving?
I was what, mm-mm, Okay, you'reso goofy and she's coming back.
She's coming back.
See, we have all theseunexpected things that happen.
(34:35):
My battery ran out for somereason.
I charged it like the nightbefore and it died.
It's just the awesomeness, youknow.
It's just taking up all thatenergy.
You feel me?
Speaker 2 (34:48):
We're just draining everything.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
Oh hell, yeah, it's too lit Too.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Stop, we out here and we pop it we out here, we out
here, bop, bop, bop.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Oh God, okay, what's the?
Do you?
Oh God, okay, what's the?
Do you?
Can you give me a list ofthings that men shouldn't say to
women?
Speaker 2 (35:11):
Okay, yeah.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
Whoa, she was quick at this one.
Open your pepe aos.
What's that?
Speaker 2 (35:16):
Pepe ao means ears in Hawaiian.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
And hao mau when I'm about to say this.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
Atta girl.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
So to all the brothers, to all the uncles, to
all the locals, To all thebradas, to all the uncles, to
all the locals.
Okay, One thing for me I don'tlike when a guy talks to me is
calling me hot, sexy or gorgeousor beautiful.
My favorite word is prettyPretty.
Is such a pretty word to callanother female.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
But if you're going to call me beautiful, at least
use like what's that that?
Word use a couple adverbs andsome nouns with it.
Use ui what the fuck is it ui?
Speaker 2 (35:53):
ui is the Hawaiian word for beautiful.
Oh okay, cool, cool cool.
I'm learning, I'm learning, I'mlearning okay but like I just
don't like when a guy comes orcalls me baby girl like or uses
the tacoma pickup line what'sthe tacoma pickup line?
Like oh, baby girl, let's hopin my back seat of my tacoma
yeah, you don't, you never heardthat line.
(36:14):
Bless your heart, y'all blesshis heart no, I haven't, that's
a thing that is a.
Thing jump in the back of myyoda yeah, like, oh yeah, oh,
it's lifted, yoda, yoda.
Speaker 1 (36:27):
Oh, yoda, lifted Yoda .
Speaker 2 (36:29):
Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha, gotcha.
Okay, or I just don't like anyof the names that they call me
like baby girl, sweetheart,honey, and I'm just like I am
none of that.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
All the pet names you don't like being called.
Speaker 2 (36:41):
Yes, especially if we're not together.
Yes, especially if we're nottogether.
Okay, if we're together, that'sa whole different story.
But if we're not and you'retrying to come up to me, just be
like, just say hi, that's all.
See, for me, just say hi.
Especially, I just don't likethe word sexy or hot.
I think it's the mostdisgusting word ever.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
Is it really?
Speaker 2 (37:00):
To me it is, I think, because there's the word pretty
, word like pretty, like I feellike that's more soft and every
girl deserves like a little soft, like soft and like kind
compliment towards them okay andlike when you call another girl
, pretty, like all girls smileis that real?
Yes, yes, thank you for the tipof course yeah so you hate the
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word hot I hate the word hot andsexy that's a hot, sexy
pepperoni pizza.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Does that make you I'll look?
Speaker 2 (37:31):
at you like huh, I was like, uh, okay, I'm gonna
just pretend that I never heard,that we're still friends, okay
cool, but you remember it thoughright like this motherfucker
called me a pizza
Speaker 1 (37:46):
oh, hey, no, I'm not gonna do it.
I'm not gonna do it, my wifewould kill me.
I'm like, hey, girl, you wanthot and sexy pepperoni pizza?
And she's like, what the fuck?
Literally, I'm like, yeah, man,hot and fresh, delivered 45
minutes, girl, I'm sorry, I'msorry, okay, next question.
So okay, we'll stay on this oneno beautiful, no pet names.
(38:11):
Is there anything else that aman shouldn't say to a woman?
Hmm, or something that would belike, oh man, like that might
degrade you in any way.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Pick up lines.
Oh, pick up lines, do not usepick up lines.
Oh, pick up lines, do not usepickup lines.
Like for me I don't like pickuplines, but if they're like dad
joke pickup lines, those are myfavorite.
Like at least that will get melaughing because like dad jokes
are pretty slow and like cool,so it's like wow, that that joke
was actually pretty funny.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
Have you heard all the pickup lines?
Have you heard like majority ofthem already in your lifetime?
Yeah, really.
Speaker 2 (38:53):
But I do not remember .
Like if I were to see it, Iwould be like, okay, yeah, I
remember this pickup line, it'sjust not on the top of my head.
Speaker 1 (39:00):
Ronson question.
Here comes one.
Y'all hide me.
Here comes one.
Ronson, do you know how much apolar bear weighs?
Speaker 2 (39:11):
No.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
Enough to break the ice.
Hey, my name's Chris.
Hey, that's so good, that's ascientific one right there.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
See, like stuff, like like that, you get a girl
laughing like this, like it's,you got it, you got it wrapped
my guys use it.
Use it guys but I don't knowhow nice girls are, so it's like
I'm pretty not delulu um ditzyso it's like stuff like that
gets me cracking up.
My favorite one is guess whatand then you say what and then
(39:48):
they go chicken butt.
That's my favorite joke that ismy go-to.
That's my favorite dad jokedoes that, does that tell?
Speaker 1 (39:55):
does that tell the person?
Does that tell you about theperson that, oh, this guy's kind
of humorous.
He has a um, I forgot the words, it's on top of my tongue, but
he has a man he's just funny.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
Yeah, so like if he could come up with something,
what you said and like keepcoming up with stuff like that,
then yeah, like I'm just likeokay, so I know you can joke and
joke around.
So it's like I'm just like okay, I can vibe with that.
Okay, because I know I'm notgoing to be sense of humor.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
That's what I was looking for.
It tells you that he has asense of humor.
Yeah, my gosh, I'd be.
I'd be messing up.
I'd be messed up here.
Um, okay, let's see here.
Okay, this is a good one.
Um, this was asked does arelationship continue after a
lengthy breakup, or can arelationship continue?
Speaker 2 (40:42):
oh yeah, oh, that is a good question, but honestly,
to me, I think it just dependsthe connection you had with that
person.
Okay, like, for example, me um,I've been, I had, I was in love
with this one dude really, like, really deep in love, and then
we broke up and I still wantedsomething to still be there, at
(41:08):
least because we can be friends,because he's friends with, like
, my siblings other halves aswell.
Speaker 1 (41:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
So it's like I want all of us to be around.
See, I wanted that, but then hedidn't want to.
So it was just like, oh OK, butthen this other ex of mine we
did break up up, but we're stillfriends and it's like cordial,
like it's super cool, like weshould have been best friends
instead so it kind of dependswho the connection, who the
(41:36):
person is and the connection isbetween you guys so it could be
like an a and b or an a and a oh, okay, what's the a and a?
and is same letter, so it's likea same vibe.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
A and b is two different guys got it, got it
got it, got it, got it, got it.
Um, what?
What you're saying is, uh, it'stotally valid because, uh, I am
still like real good friend.
I'm not, I could say, real goodfriends, but I am still cordial
and friends with, like my exes.
They all have families now andeverything, and I think it's
(42:09):
just when you get older, likeyou know how to set that
boundary.
And yeah, oh hey, it's yourhappy birthday.
Happy birthday to your kid,happy birthday to your husband,
happy birthday to yourgirlfriend, whatever the case
may be.
But yeah, I think it's a maturething when it comes to being
like being friends after thebreakup and even with like this
(42:29):
is a whole uh, like a bit biasedthing.
But, um, you know how you gotto be friends and then you go
into a relationship and thenthat become and then you can
still be friends.
I've been in a relationshipwhere I jumped right in it and
then years down the road it'slike not contact, but then you
know you mature throughout thoseyears and you become friends
(42:50):
again.
Speaker 2 (42:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:51):
So I've been in those situations and what you said
earlier super valid.
Speaker 2 (42:56):
Yeah, and it's just like for me.
I think it's okay to be friendswith your ex, but in a friend
type of way.
Oh, definitely ex, but in afriend type of way, oh,
definitely yeah, if you're stilltrying to be friends with your
ex and, like you know, there isstill that type of feeling that
you are, that you still havelove for them in that type of
(43:16):
way, then that is like a bigno-no, so there's like a
difference yeah like for me andthis one ex.
We're still friends and likeit's friends to the point where
I come to the family parties andI see everyone I'm, I get to
see all the cakeys in the familygrow up and like they them
still calling me auntie and I'mjust a friend.
And you know everyone in thefamily is cordial with how the
(43:40):
relationship is between me andmy ex and, like you know, same
for my family side.
My family still considers thisone ex to be part of my family
and everything and that theystill text him and call him and
invite him to things.
And you know I'm okay with thatbecause we know our, what our
connection is and our boundariesare and I till this day he
(44:01):
knows who he is.
I'm trying to pimp him out tofemales.
I won't say his name because,because he probably would lick
my Behind but Literally lickyour behind.
No, that's not what I meantY'all, that's not what I meant.
Pigeon ways Scrap.
Speaker 1 (44:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
Yeah, yeah, but I'm still.
I'm trying to pimp him outEvery single pimp him out every
single day, but he does not wantto.
And I was like, well, I'mfinding your girlfriend because
to me, like I'm close witheveryone in the family and I
know till this day that I willstill get invited if you do have
a girlfriend.
So, like I want the girlfriendthat gets to be with you will
treat you right because wedidn't happen greatly, so it's
(44:40):
like the next love you find Iwant that to be perfect for you
because, like I want you to growand have a family and have like
a home together and do bigthings.
Yeah, like couldn't be us, butI know someone out there can be
that for you.
So it's like, if I know who thegirl is and her attentions are
and I'm like, oh okay, so like Ican tell like his mom, I could
(45:00):
be like mom.
This girl is like really goodfor him.
Like I know her, she's reallysweet, like I I think I would
trust her if I were to have akid, I would trust her with my
kid alone.
Speaker 1 (45:10):
So it's like stuff like that oh, wow, you're a
great like supportiveex-girlfriend, of course,
basically that's.
I mean that's good, that's.
It's rare to to find and seewomen like that.
I mean you see it a lot in inguys, but with guys there's
always that um, we yeah, we haveintentions, you know you have
(45:33):
to finish that sentence.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
Yeah, I don't want to .
Speaker 1 (45:34):
Yeah, not not all guys have the intention, but
majority of the guys they dohave like that back intention.
And the back intention is andI'm gonna spill one little
secret is that we hook a femaleup with one of our guy friends.
If that doesn't work out, usguys she gets ran by a train.
(45:55):
No, no, not ran by a train, butus guys, we would like.
The person that hooked them upis like what happened?
Oh, I'm here, so we're like thereason.
That's a little tidbit, buthave I done that before?
I don't remember if I've donethat before he had to think I
had to think about that one.
(46:15):
Oh wait, I don't know, I don'tremember.
If I have man hey, holler at me, DM me.
If I have done that to you, Iapologize.
Now I'm a twerp.
If I have done that to you, Iapologize.
Speaker 2 (46:27):
Now I'm a twerp I'm so dead, yeah, man, but yeah,
that's that's.
That's our little thing.
That's our little thing.
That's interesting because see,for a girl, like for me and my
girls, when I pimp out one of mygirls with like a boy or set
them up and whatnot and theydon't work well together, that
(46:48):
boy is like dumped, he's out.
So every time we see him it'slike on site really yeah, so
it's not really like oh, it'sokay, like I'm right here, but
it's more of like okay, I setyou guys up because I knew you
guys are going to be good, andwhy the hell did you break my
girl's heart?
Oh, even though she probablyit's probably fault, why did you
make her do whatever she had todo?
Speaker 1 (47:10):
Even though it's the girl's fault, you still backed
up your girl.
Yeah, because at the end of theday, that's my girl, and if I'm
crying or stuck on the side ofthe road.
Speaker 2 (47:22):
My girl is there.
Speaker 1 (47:25):
Oh, but the guy could pick you up though.
Speaker 2 (47:28):
Both y'all right that's very true, but it's like,
why would I need a guy if I gota girl that knows how to do guy
stuff?
Speaker 1 (47:35):
oh shit, why do I need a girl if I got porn?
You know what I'm saying oh mygod, I'll play, or I'm not, I'm
not playing, I'm not, I'm notplaying.
Oh my god.
Oh okay, ronald.
(47:55):
Uh, time's up.
We had a good time.
That was.
That was.
That was fun.
Um, for your first podcast.
We just popped her cherry onthis one.
Um, uh, how'd you like yourfirst podcast?
Speaker 2 (48:09):
guys, I wish I could marry this podcast.
This has been so good and sofun.
Coming into this I I wasnervous, but then, like you know
, as our wonderful host here,producer and oh, my god, oh and
oh god stop.
Oh, thank you space supercomfortable and fun, like that
(48:31):
is.
One big thing for females ismaking it safe and comfortable,
and you did that oh, before likeall of this happened, like on
the dm and when, like, you metme outside, like it was all of
that.
So it was really fun and I'm soexcited I got to be on this
thank you for coming on and umyou and I was just chopping it
(48:53):
up.
Speaker 1 (48:54):
Did it feel like an hour or some?
Speaker 2 (48:56):
change.
No, I swear to god, I thoughtit was only 10 minutes.
Yeah, right it flows right andthe fact that you can have that
connection with people tells alot about who you are.
Thank, you.
You're a wholesome person witha golden heart.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
Oh, thank you.
So thank you.
Thank you so much.
I do appreciate the kind words.
Do you have any shout outs oranything?
Or where can these people findyou at if they're not following
you or know who you are?
Speaker 2 (49:23):
Okay, everyone.
Well, if you want to find me,my instagram is ranslan lucero.
Tiktok is ufwraraw, snapchat iskai mailani.
If you don't know how to spellthat, that's okay, just search
up filipino princess, that is me.
I would like to shout out to mygirl if she's watching or not.
(49:44):
I love you.
Oh wait, let me redo that.
Let me redo that.
I will talk to you when I amdone.
I love you.
And last shout out goes to missbikini hawaii, to the pageant
(50:04):
that I am starting.
My first pageant.
I'm representing Miss Hilo, soif you guys do want tickets, let
me know.
Speaker 1 (50:11):
When is this happening?
Speaker 2 (50:14):
April 17th at Ala Moana Hotel.
Speaker 1 (50:16):
Hey, april 17th.
Hopefully this episode is outbefore then.
But if you post it, I'll tag mein and I'll repost it.
I'll get you one.
I'll get you one, I'll get youone.
But hey, man, what's it called?
Miss bikini, miss bikini,hawaii, miss bikini, hawaii.
Hey, how much my girl?
Do you need a vote or anything,or how does that this?
Speaker 2 (50:35):
is my first time, hey hey, good freaking luck.
Speaker 1 (50:39):
Thank you for real like good luck.
You've been a lovely guest andit was super awesome to chop it
up with you.
Oh my God, oh my God.
Speaker 2 (50:48):
A fattest shout-out to him.
He made my day today oh gosh,you're very welcome, thank you.
Speaker 1 (50:56):
With that being said, shout-out to KO Studios for the
lovely home.
Raffy Bite, thank you, and man,forever thankful for your beats
, man, and with that I'm Chris.
Speaker 2 (51:05):
And I'm Ranslyn and we out this bitch?
Speaker 1 (51:08):
Oh, and my bad, my bad.
You say Rara, my daughter, Icall her Rara too.
Stop.
Speaker 2 (51:14):
That's why my name was from kids.
Speaker 1 (51:16):
Really.
Speaker 2 (51:16):
Yeah, they called me Rara.
Rara girls out here living life.
Speaker 1 (51:21):
Living life.
Hell yeah, and we out thisbitch Hell yeah, and we out this
bitch peace.
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