Guest: Steve Jaffe — author of The Layoff Journey; 25 years in marketing/advertising; laid off four times; now helping people navigate the emotional side of job loss.
In this Reboot Era episode, we cover:
- The myth of meritocracy—why layoffs often feel arbitrary and unfair
- The seven grief stages applied to layoffs—and how to shorten the distance from dismissal to discovery
- Practical tools to counter isolation, shame, and rumination (community, journaling, movement)
- Why your skills and wins still belong to you (Ship of Theseus analogy)
- Rebuilding identity beyond your job title—and why that makes you more resilient next time
Try this (from Steve’s framework):
- The 15-minute daily reset: 5 min journaling → 5 min movement → 5 min outreach (one text/DM to a real human).
- Replace “derailed” with “detour” in your language for one week; note what changes.
Links & mentions:
- Book: The Layoff Journey (available on Amazon; ask your local bookstore to order)
- Steve Jaffe
- Website: thestevejaffe.com
- Substack: Steve Jaffe on Substack
- Instagram: @stevejaffethelayoffjourney
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaffesteve/
- Contact: steve@thestevejaffe.com
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